“But I also learned a lot about life. And here’s what I know. It’s hard. Also, love can be confusing because when someone loves you, they don’t always say the words out loud. Instead, they might say something like, “What are you, Denny Voss?” and I’d say, “One of the best things that ever happened to you,” then that person would say, “You got it, cowboy!” Or someone else might say, “You’re worth ten of those other kids, Denny, and don’t you ever forget it!” and another person might say, “Buck up” and “Don’t be a pussy” and “Life is hard all over” and it might not sound like any of them are saying they love you, but that’s what they’re doing—you know it all the way inside your bones. I also know it hurts when someone you love dies, but I think it’s supposed to because if it didn’t they’d be easy to forget and who wants to forget all the louds and quiets about someone you love after they’re gone? Not me.”
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Holly Kennedy,
The Sideways Life of Denny Voss