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Life & Tech: Email Etiquette

 “The two words information and communication are often used interchangeably, but they signify quite different things. Information is giving out; communication is getting through.” – Sydney Harris
The Simple Sophisticate, episode #34

As someone who is thankful for the ability to email, as it gives me time to think about what I want to say, say it thoughtfully and in my own time, there are also many frustrations that come with this method of communication. Did they receive it or did it get lost in the junk folder? Was my tone interpreted correctly or did I offend them? Why haven’t they responded? Will they ever respond?

Many of these questions can be solved by simply talking in person, but as we know that is not always available to us due to distance, time and out of respect for the recipient’s time as well. However, many of these headaches can be eliminated with a few simple etiquette guides. Even though not everyone follows these rules, more and more people are learning and discovering how they can eliminate unnecessary angst or stress.

Last month, the three part Life & Tech series began as Mastering Our Cell Phones was discussed. This month the preferred method of professional communication will be discussed in detail.

From when to respond or if you should respond, I’ll break down what is and isn’t a good idea based on the relationship you are trying to establish with the recipient.

1. Add a Clear Subject Line

Out of respect for the recipient and their time, be clear about the subject of your email. Keep it succinct, but informative.

2. Select a Professional/Grown-up Email Address

One of the first items of business for our high school students as they begin to apply for scholarships and college entrance is to update their email address. As we know while we may not like it, first impressions indeed count, so paying attention to a simple detail is a good idea.

On a similar note, make sure the name that is attached to the email account is clear. Make sure it pops us as “Shannon Ables”, not something ambitious or robotic.

3. Double Check the Recipient

We have all heard horror stories about the wrong email ending up in the wrong inbox. One piece of advice is to write the email content before addressing it to anyone. Upon completion, then add the recipient’s address.

4. Refrain from Reply All

Another no-no often learned the hard way, but more importantly about of respect to others who have an already full inbox. If anyone on the “Reply All” list doesn’t need to see the email, delete their address. They will thank you (even though they don’t know they were spared) as you’ve saved them time by not wasting it on something they will delete anyway.

5. Step Away from the ALL CAPS Key

Most of us have learned this, but still some either didn’t get the memo or like to talk very loud even via email. If you want to emphasis a point, italics works just as effectively.

6. Choose and Use Paragraphs

Just as bloggers are learning this trick, readers need a place to focus and can easily get lost in a long, lengthy paragraph that drones on. Break up a long email with clear paragraph breaks. Again, this focuses the attention of the reader and helps understand what you want them walk away from the email knowing and/or doing for them.

7. Keep it Brief

If you have to write a length email, follow #6, otherwise, get to the point. Your recipient will thank you.

8. Include a Courteous Greeting and Salutation

On the initial exchange of emails, always make sure to include a warm hello such as “Good morning” or inquiring about their day or an event you know they were involved in. And be sure to bookend your email just as you would a letter. The younger generation either has been taught this as they don’t write letters or doesn’t understand the simple power of the courtesy to end on a respectful tone, but trust me, it won’t hurt to simply say “Sincerely,” or “All my best,”.

After the initial exchange, if the emails are going quickly back and forth, greetings and salutations may fall away, but that depends on your relationship with the recipient.d

9. Limit Exclamation Points

As in writing any effective prose, it is the diction, not the punctuation that will convey the appropriate mood and tone of the email. Save exclamation points for dialog and internal jokes that the recipient indeed will understand.

10. Be Conscious of Your Tone (limit or eliminate humor)

Speaking of tone, I have the opportunity to work with someone who is gifted when it comes to conveying humor in an email. Part of why I always interpret the tone (sarcastic, self-effacing, etc) correctly, is that I’ve had many conversations with her in person. Such can’t be said for most people when it comes to writing humorous, tongue-in-cheek emails.

It is especially important that we write clearly, respectfully and in a straightforward manner to people we work with or people who we don’t know. And always re-read emails to check the tone. Does it convey confidence or insecurity? Does it sound appreciative or whiny? We all have most likely made mistakes in this arena, but the power of a good email is being able to establish an effective tone. If you can do that, you will be able to move mountains with your keystrokes.

11. Use Bcc Selectively

The Bcc option is a handy selection to include people who don’t need to respond, need to be privy to the conversation, but also need to remain private (or their email addresses do). Don’t be afraid to use it, but don’t abuse it by sharing information with others that should remain private between the two parties engaged in the focal conversation.

12. Indicate Receipt of Important Information

“The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place.” – George Bernard Shaw

Even if you respond with a simple “Thank you”, responding to an email that contains information that the sender will want to know if it wasn’t/was received is a professional, respectful habit to adhere to. For example, if you are setting a date, place or time to meet, letting them know that decision works for you should undoubtedly be conveyed. If documents are sent as attachments that were requested, indicate that they’ve arrived.

Often offices or businesses have an automated response which would work well also. Depending upon your inbox, determine which would be the best way to approach this aspect of communication.

And when in doubt, always respond with “Thank You” to indicate that receipt, but also, and most importantly, appreciation.

13. Proofread 

It goes without saying, and even after I write it, I know I will have typos to endure in my future, but do your best to proofread. Often the recipient is gracious when they see an error as they have most likely made the mistake themselves, but proper spelling and punctuation sends a strong message, and lack thereof can intonate lack of time, respect or education, so type carefully.

14. A Thought About Forwarding

Thankfully many forwards that in the past were considered spam has been reduced by friends and family members (as we now have Facebook, Pinterest and Twitter), but the key use for forwarding is to send someone information that they need without you having to retype it. As always be considerate of the recipient’s time and determine whether or not they really need this information.

15. Understand Cultural Differences

If you communicate with recipients of another culture that has different expectations when it comes to getting to know each other and sharing personal information, be sure to become privy with these customs before offending them unnecessarily.

As email becomes a more common way to communicate at work and between family and friends aside from our cell phones, how we write can either build or destroy relationships. While I have attempted to cover aspects that I have dealt with and deal with in my own experience, I would love to hear from you and discover what rules or etiquette you have found to be helpful as you effectively communicate online as well. Please do share in the comments.

Stay tuned next month for the third and final part of the Life & Tech series texting.

Petit Plaisir:
~iPhone 6 (6 Plus, also) Verus (Kickstand Feature) Wallet Case

A few years ago when I had my Apple iPhone 4, I shared on the blog that I didn’t care what my case looked like, I wanted it to have a kickstand. Well, that resulted in a not so great looking case. With my latest upgrade to my iPhone 6, I vowed to consider aesthetics as well as the necessity of a kickstand. And I found what I was looking for.

Available in many different colors, Verus leather wallet case is ideal for my lifestyle. I can keep two credit cards and a couple of business cards in the left flap, and the phone is securely snapped into the right side. The phone’s capability of turning into a kickstand to support itself is simple, and doesn’t include any odd contraptions that might snap or break off in the future. For under $22, it is a quality case, I highly recommend.

 

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This & That: No. 154

Book
~Between You & Me: Confession of a Comma Queen by Mary Norris

Working for three decades at The New Yorker in the copy editing department, Mary Norris brings the expertise of elevated and sophisticated grammar that has come to be the trademark of the prestigious publication. Her descriptions of the most common grammatical mistakes are discussed with verve and humor that are certain to entertain as well as teach. What a timely release as it seemed a bit serendipitous that such a book would become available as the new series is beginning here on TSLL blog. Dive in, read at your own pace and learn along the way. Have a listen to her interview on NPR here.

~The Picnic: Recipes and Inspiration from Basket to Blanket

I first heard of Marnie Hanel, Andrea Slonecker, and Jen Stevenson’s book as they originate out of Portland, Oregon, but it is the content that retained my interest. As leaders of the Portland Picnic Society (yep, one really does exist!), these women know their food and know how to entertain in leisurely accommodations. Released on April 7th, the book is full of recipes, checklists and their expert advice. Readers will discover how to pack, entertain (games included) as well as serve drinks that will keep your lunch companions well-fed and happy. 

~The Road to Character

Columnist for the New York Times, David Brooks tackles the pervasive  invasion of the Culture of Me which tends to focus on external success rather than those core values such as kindness, bravery, honesty and faithfulness, that aid in cultivating a truly fulfilling life. Through the analysis of a handful of past revered thinkers and leaders such as Dwight Eisenhower, Dorothy Day and Frances Perkins, just to name a few, Brooks reveals to readers the values that he hopes to inspire us all to ascribe to. Released on the 14th, Brooks encourages his readers through his well-researched examples that the path to a truly rich life will require a shift, but it will be well worth the investment.

Film
~Dior & I

Behind the scene films always intrigue me, and director/producer/writer Frédéric Tcheng’s documentary Dior & I most certainly captured my attention. Taking viewers behind the scenes of artistic director Raf Simons’ first haute couture collection (fall 2013), discover the glamour, the talent and the beauty that signifies the Dior brand. Out now in select theaters in the UK, Australia and the US, this film will tide you over until the couture shows return in July.

Shopping
~Brooks Brothers Supima Cotton Stripe (navy & white) shirt

While I have always  known and loved Brooks Brothers, I haven’t shopped there recently. So when a reader shared with me that their women’s department was well-worth a visit, I decided to stop by, and right she was. With well priced investment items such as button-up collared shirts, blazers, sandals, scarves and especially their sleepwear, if you’re looking for items that are classic, well-made and won’t break the bank, be sure to stop by.

Travel
~Ebby Rane Quartermaster Suitcase

While I may never have the opportunity to own such luxurious luggage, I’m still going to put Ebby Rane’s Quartermaster suitcase on my wish list. Why not? Available in more than just the traditional black or steely gray that seems to be the color de rigueur, the cloud white option has my attention. With multiple compartments and 10 carryalls, traveling in style would be instantaneous with the quartermaster as your companion.

 ~recipe for Smoke Salmon Omelette with Chive Creme Fraiche~

A weekend is beginning that is taking me to a destination I have always been yearning to explore. And I must admit, it is the undercurrent of the French influence that has always drawn me to New Orleans (surprise, surprise). With dreams of tasting beignets and getting lost in visions of Paris while I sip a café au lait at Le Café du Monde, I will be sharing as much as I can on my Instagram and looking forward to meeting readers at The Garden District Book Shop on Sunday as the second book signing, reading, sipping and tasting (chocolate and wine that is) will be taking place between 2-4.

In the meantime, if you are not in proximity to the Big Easy, perhaps you are to New Canaan, Connecticut, as that is next stop on TSLL Book Tour. Click here to learn about the time, date and location.

More importantly, spring is in full gear which means the blossoms on the trees are revealing their stunning beauty and walks outdoors are a special treat to partake in. I do hope the season has kicked off well for you. It truly is the simple everyday experiences that make our lives all the richer. And of course that means reading something that tickles our minds. So as we do here every week, below are a few articles and a video, I think you might enjoy. Until Monday, bonjour!

~We all aspire to it, and these 10 simple suggestions will help you achieve it . . . 10 Simple Qualities That Can Help You Achieve Professional Success and Satisfaction in Life

~Trying to limit your spending and save up for a specific goal? This post is what you’re looking for.

~Even more reason to pack your bags and hop on that plane . . . 12 Reasons Why People Who Travel Are So Endearing

~And now to Paris. Marie Claire shared this three minute tour of Paris that I think you might enjoy. Have a look and have a lovely weekend.

 

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Outfit of the Week: Simple Comfort

~American Vintage Jacksonville T-shirt (more colors), similar~

~Mother Denim The Slit Rascal Jean in Dark Wash~

~Iris & Ink Adelisa modal-blend trench coat (navy)~

~French Sole Neptune flats (other color combos available)~

~Isabel Marant Saul gold-tone crystal necklace~

~Marc by Marc Jacobs Too Hot to Handle Hobo Bag~

SHOP THE OUTFIT:

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OUTFITS OF THE WEEK FROM THE PAST:

~Essential French Style

~White Spring

~No. 51: Black, Chic, Black

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Good Grammar Is . . . Mastering The Semicolon

 

~PREVIOUS Good Grammar Is . . . POSTS FROM THE ARCHIVES

~Rule #1

~Word of the Week: No. 1

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Style Inspiration: Denim, Khaki & White

Three basic color options that are classic and a treat to don in spring are blue, white and khaki. Whether the blue comes in the form of denim or a chic petit print on flats as the ones above, this classic pop of color can be as feminine or masculine as you’d prefer. And of course white and khaki are diehard classics that provide a neutral palette no matter what your signature style. Have a look a few images for inspiration.

~STYLE INSPIRATION POSTS FROM THE ARCHIVES YOU MIGHTE ENJOY:

~Shades of Black & Tan

~Prints & Neutrals

~Why Not . . . Wear a Trench Coat?

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How to Live Alone Well

“Living alone . . . affords an unparalleled opportunity to know yourself, to be yourself, and to develop yourself as a unique and interesting individual.” -Phyllis Hobe
The Simple Sophisticate, episode #33

In Stockholm, Sweden, sixty percent of all dwellings are occupied by a single individual. 60%.

Eric Klinenberg reports in his 2013 best-selling book Going Solo that the rise of single occupant homes has increasingly been on the rise as we forge into the twenty-first century. It’s interesting to point out that the United States while touting a strong number, 28%, is well behind Norway, Sweden, Finland and Denmark or each sport 40-45 percent single occupancy with even Japan at 30%.

Living alone whether single, divorced or widowed is certainly something to be reveled in rather than feared. While admittedly, depending upon our personalities, some of us are more adept to prefer living alone than others, each of us can benefit from living alone at some point in our lives. Why? While I will go into 16 specific ways in today’s post, a crucial component to living a simply luxurious life is discovering who we are, what makes us tick, what makes us shine, what nurtures us to be our best selves.

Speaking from my own experience of living alone by choice for the past 13 years, it was by living alone that I discovered my introversion, my passion for writing and so many other interests that my younger, less secure self would have never dared to pursue if I was trying to please a roommate or significant other. Now, could I, do I want to, live with another? To answer the first question, I am confident that I am better equipped to live very well with another individual as I am now capable of knowing what I need and realizing what I can compromise on. I am also able to advocate for myself so that I can balance relationships with my passions and not allow them to be pushed aside to please. And to answer the second question, it depends on the person. I must admit, it’s pretty amazing.

In 2012 I shared on the blog 10 benefits of living alone of which many I will include in today’s post, but I will now go a little deeper, and on this week’s episode of the podcast, share my own experiences as well.

The intriguing fact when it comes to living alone is that many assume that it shouldn’t be a permanent way of living, rather a mere transitional phase. And while this will most certainly be the case for some, many more unapologetically choose to live alone as it is the most restorative, ideal way of experiencing life.

In Kate Bolick’s new book which I will review later this month, Spinster: Making A Life of One’s Own, she makes a valid point about the societal expectations that can bend our mind one way or another simply to maintain the status quo, “How difficult it is to detach ourselves from the mass emotions and social conditions of the age we’re born into; all of us, male and female, are (to quote Doris Lessing’s lecture series Prisons We Choose to Live Inside) ‘part of the great comforting illusions, and part illusions, which every society uses to keep up its confidence in itself.'”

Now, I want to dispel any myths about living alone, as with anything that is new or different, if we haven’t done it, it will take time to do it well. If you aren’t used to living alone, coming home to an empty house or being left to your own devices to entertain yourself, living alone will be difficult . . . at first. Anything of great value takes time to appreciate and emerge to reveal it’s true greatness. Living alone is no exception.

So today, I’d like to set you free. Admittedly, it took me some time to proudly say “I thoroughly enjoy living by myself” because  many people around me just could wrap their minds around it, but it has always been true for me. I have always enjoyed my own company, and if you too are someone who revels in regular time to be by themselves or perhaps are living alone trying to figure out how to do it, today’s post is something I have a feeling you will enjoy. Let’s get started.

1. Appreciate, Relax, Enjoy

“You only grow when you are alone.” -Paul Newman

Yes, it may not be something you chose initially, or maybe it was it’s not initially what you had expected. First, take a breath. The experience will be what you make it, and it all comes down to appreciate the time, space and solitude to do those things that you would not be able to do if someone or multiple someones were sharing the same space.

Just a few perks: When you leave, upon returning, the house will be as you left it, decisions don’t need to be dependent on a compromise – risotto for dinner, done!, sleep straight through the night without interruptions, a quiet space to read, listen or entertain when you want, no problem, and decorating is entirely up to you.

2. Established Beloved Rituals

Whether it is your Paris tea which you savor each morning before going to work or starting your day or your weekly coffee chat to meet your close friend to catch up on each others lives, establish these rituals as a way to give yourself something to look forward to and savor each and every day because there is without question something to appreciate every day we’re alive to savor it. Click here to discover even more benefits of daily rituals or check out Chapter 8 is dedicated in entirely to ideas on how to cultivate and establish simple pleasures and rituals into your everyday life.

3. Cultivate a Healthy Social Circle

Klinenberg points out that studies have revealed those who live alone are actually more socially involved and have a stronger social circle than those that co-habitate. Why? There is motivation and the removal of dependency on others in your home to entertain you. Social media makes this much more viable as information of what to do and the capability of staying in touch is much easier than before.  If you know you have plans to meet with friends or family, one of the most blissful moments is spending time with those with whom you enjoy their company and then returning home to a space that is your own. A beautiful balance.

4. Pay Attention to Your Senses

“There can be no very black melancholy to him who lives in the midst of Nature and has his senses still . . . I have never felt lonesome, or in the least oppressed by a sense of solitude.” -Henry David Thoreau

When we start witnessing the world around us in any given moment, we quickly realize how rich and full our lives are, and we actually are never alone. Some prefer more human interaction, but take in mother nature, plant a garden, hang a bird-feeder, take care of your environment indoors and out and help improve others lives (animals, plants, and people too). When we become aware of all of the wonders around us, we are more motivated to contribute and sustain such amazing ecosystems and ways of life.

5. A Time of Exploration

The things one experiences alone with oneself are very much stronger and purer. -Eugene Delacroix

You are free to dance with your curiosities when you live alone. Curious about that new documentary? Watch it. Wish to try a rock climbing class? Do it! Listen to what piques your attention, and explore. Who knows what you will unearth. When we pay attention to what innately captures our attention and are not nudged by outside forces or peers, what we will discover will take us closer toward reaching our true potential and finding our passions.

6. Create a Sanctuary

Tending to our sanctuary when we live alone is vital, and while it’s important when we live with others as well, the key is to curate a home that we want to return home to at the end of the day. Our homes should be the place that restores us, comforts us and allows us to rest so that we can be our best when we return to the world the next day. Consider our interior decor as an investment in our well-being.

7. Master Your Mind

In episode #20 of The Simple Sophisticate I shared 10 specific ways to master your mind; and while mastering your mind isn’t exclusive to living alone, accomplishing this feat is vital to building the foundation of living well on your own. Why? Often when someone lives on their own for the first time, they’ve never had their mind all to themselves for such a long period of time. As such, they can allow it to wander into places that are destructive and irrational; however, at the time, it’s hard to tell the difference. Master it, discover the power of meditation and discover a whole new level of living well.

8. Become your Best Friend

“Solitude is strength; to depend on the presence of the crowd is weakness. The man who needs a mob to nerve him is much more alone than he imagines.” -Paul Brunton

When we enjoy your own company, we are better able to set healthy boundaries, speak respectfully to ourselves and require that others do the same. When we enjoy our own company, we become selective about who we allow into our lives, and in doing so, we begin to welcome quality, supportive, inspired people that elevate our quality of life as well.

9. Strengthens Relationships

“People who cannot bear to be alone are generally the worst company.” -Albert Guino

This quote made me chuckle because it is so absolutely true. Upon reflection of people that I have hard time spending lengthy amount of time with, it is those people who cling to me or others and cannot be left alone, even for mere minutes. Nobody wants to be this person, in fact, the person doing the clinging may not realize how off-putting their behavior is, so not only do yourself a favor by becoming comfortable with your own company, do your current and future relationships a favor as well.

10. Dive into Your Passion without Apology

“Without great solitude no serious work is possible.” -Pablo Picasso 

What an amazing opportunity it is when we live alone to have the time and space to throw ourselves into our passions without worrying about hurting someone else’s feelings or balancing with other priorities. I know without question, if I hadn’t been living alone, I would not have started TSLL blog. Referring back to #5, when we give ourselves time to explore, we can discover our passions and then have the time to dive in and be our most productive selves.

Such periods in our lives build the foundations of what the rest of our lives may be built upon, and thankfully, it is something sound, honest and authentic. What better way is there to live?

11. Get to Know Yourself

“Solitude can be frightening because it invites us to meet a stranger we think we may not want to know – ourselves.” -Melvyn Kinder

Often we surround ourselves with incessant social events and chatter of others so that we don’t have to be alone to discover what we might fear. However, often what we fear is a significant indicator that we should indeed explore it all the more. And when we explore, we find our purpose. It is when we filter out of the fluff, or the noise of life, that we can get to the truth of discovering what makes us truly content.

12.Get to Know Your Neighbors

Whether you live in a house or an apartment, befriend at least a few of your neighbors. Being able to step outside your door and see a friendly face or way hello is a simple luxury to remind us of the community we live in and are contributing to. Not every neighbor will we want to get to know (being able to discern this difference is crucial), but knowing you have at least one person who knows your name is a very good thing.

13. Craft a Schedule

Whether it’s when you exercise, head to the coffee shop or work in your yard, when you stick to a schedule you will often run into the same people, establishing a small community all its own. While you may not know them intimately, seeing a friendly face on your morning walk or run allows you to feel connected to the neighborhood you live in.

14. Watch the Television with Purpose

Since you are the queen of the remote, it can be very tempting to watch it more than you should. And while I am quick to admit I watch television, choose when and how much you watch based on the content you want to internalize. In other words, don’t watch it mindlessly. DVR your favorite shows so that you don’t have to waste time with commercial. Set up a Netflix account so you can watch what you want, when you want to. Balance your television watching with time to sit and read quietly or fill your home with music from time to time rather than the hum of the television. Radio or podcasts are also a wonderful option as you can go about your day without the visual bombardment to your mind.

15. Master Your Vices

One thing I wholeheartedly love about living alone is being able to stock my refrigerator and pantry with only the food I love and should eat. If you come to realize you have a weakness for a food you know you shouldn’t have or can’t control yourself around, don’t bring it into your kitchen. The gift of living alone is that you can eliminate entirely without upsetting someone else which makes it much easier than simply exercising strong self-discipline every single day.

16. Curate a Positive, Inspired Life

“It is only when we silent the blaring sounds of our daily existence that we can finally hear the whispers of truth that life reveals to us, as it stands knocking on the doorsteps of our hearts.” -K.T. Jong

When we live alone, we become the stand-alone artist of our own lives, every single detail. We can choose what to eliminate, what to add and what to foster into beautiful fruition. Choose the people, the words, the information, the images, the experiences, the destinations, carefully and consciously for they will shape your world and thus the person you become.

Whether you choose to live alone for a short duration or a lifetime, I want to leave you with one last quote from Ellen Burstyn as she reflects on living alone after being under the assumption that it was something to avoid,  “What a lovely surprise to finally discover how unlonely being alone can be.” 

~SIMILAR POSTS FROM THE ARCHIVES YOU MIGHT ENJOY:

~Create the Life You Want

~Why Not . . . Dine Alone?

~Why Not . . . Revel in Solitude?

~Why Not . . . Get to Know Yourself?

Petit Plaisir:

~Acquired Tastes by Peter Mayle

As a super fan of Peter Mayle, a British author who now resides in Provence, France, I thought I had read all of his books. So when I friend recommended to me this past winter Mayle’s book Acquired Tastes, I was eager to immerse myself in his delightfully delicious prose.

Acquired Tastes, published in 1993, is ideal for evening reading as it is an compilation of his articles written for GQ (there is one from Esquire). Each chapter is 4-6 pages long and brings the reader along for an excursion of how the other half live. From living with servants to have shoes custom made, Mayle takes a peek into the pleasures of decadent living at its finest. And along the way, much is learned as well such as precisely how to hunt for truffles and why cashmere is worth investing in. Certain to make for pleasant dreams.

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This & That: No. 153

App
~The Clocks

As someone who relies on her smart phone to wake up in the morning, I have been searching for a simple flip clock that stays lit throughout the night without being distracting. The Clocks app was exactly what I was looking for. Offering three different types of clocks to choose from: flip, digital and analog, an alarm is also available as well. For some reason I have always had a preference for flip clocks. Perhaps it is a memory I have from my childhood, but it is a simple comfort that I am thrilled to have found (even if it really is quite technical).

Art
~Monet’s Water Lilies at Musee de L’Orangerie

The museums abound in Paris, but be sure to put on your list of must-visit, Claude Monet’s permanent exhibit, designed by the artist himself to showcase his beloved Water Lilies paintings. The Musee de L’Orangerie is located in the Tuileries Garden and offers the ideal respite after strolling through the park or even after exhausting yourself in the Louvre. Step inside a simple, yet elegant space and unwind. I know where I will be certain to go next time I return. Have a look below at Rick Steves’ video inside the museum.

Shopping
~Hukkster 2

The much beloved sales tracking website is back, as was announced on Thursday, and while it will help you find sales in real time, it will be a little bit different according to Fashionista. Focusing strictly on fashion and beauty products, Hukksters helps shoppers not only find sales, but coupons as well to use in their shopping experience. The part that I miss the most however is that the bookmarklet, the tracking and alerting for price drops, is not available. However, at least there is a sales site focused on specifically what I and many of you shop for.

~Sole Society Espadrille (navy cloth – black & fuchsia available as well)

Spring is here and that means summer is not that far behind. And while I will wear flat sandals quite frequently during the warmer months, I love to wear wedge espadrilles for structured height. Happening upon Sole Society’s $70 pair in colorful cloth detail, I pounced. Available in black and a stunning fuchsia print as well as the navy print I selected, if you’re in the market for a summer pair, these might just be the ones.

Television
~HBO NOW

Finally HBO is making available their television programming without having to have a cable subscription as well. If you are of the cord-cutting generation and strictly watch your television when you please without being tethered to Dish, Directv or any other cable or satellite service, this should be very happy news. For $14.99 a month, subscribers can have full access to all of the goodness that HBO has become known for.

~Younger

You may remember Darren Star, the creator and one of the writers for Sex and the City. Well, he’s back. In a playful new series on TV Land, Younger airs on Tuesday nights at 9pm and is produced by Star. Speaking of stars, the star of the show is Sutton Foster who is a 40 year-old newly divorced mother of a grown daughter. Based on Pamela Redmond Satran’s novel of the same title, Alice (Foster), is given a make-over by her hip best friend played by Debi Mazer to pull off 26. Working for a publishing house in the heart of Manhattan, it is the fib of her age that helps land her the job, and a whole new life seems to have begun. It’s fun, it’s not too deep, and Sutton truly is a delight. Have a look at the trailer below:

 

~recipe for Lemon Honey and Chamomile Shoofly Pie with Anzac Biscuit Crust~

This week on the blog a brand new series began. Going live each Wednesday, see the first post in The English Classroom and how the series will work as we move forward here on TSLL. And if you haven’t already tuned in, this week’s episode of The Simple Sophisticate broke all sorts of records. Be sure to have a look to see what everyone was sharing and enjoying.

And while this past week has been going well, the weekend has never been an unwelcomed arrival. While it may rain this weekend, I have plans to work in the yard, visit some of the local nurseries and start to rev my exterior decor back into tip top shape. It may take some time, but I’ve got to start somewhere. What will you be up to this weekend?

Whatever you choose to do, I hope you have a wonderful time, and if you’re interested, I have a few articles below that caught my eye during the past week that you might enjoy. Until Monday, bonjour.

~19 Things That Level-Headed Natural Food Nuts Don’t Do . . . simple, practical and possible

~Netflix has a new series on the way for 2016, and it takes what is now on Broadway to the screen

~Habitually Chic takes readers on a Parisian apartment tour to get lost in and never leave

~The Everygirl offers 5 Culinary School Secrets Every Home Cook Needs to Know

~The Paris Review now offers a publication for younger readers . . . I am now more than I was already, a fan

~Some perks of choosing to live alone, an editor from Cup of Jo shares her experience.

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Thoughts from the Editor: My Ultimate Everyday Luxury – Christy Linens

As a lover of luxury, paralleled with simplicity, one of the first items I invested in after acquiring my first professional teaching job was to save up for a quality headboard, pillow-top mattress and soft bed linens. It took two years, but I can still remember when each of the items were delivered to my Portland apartment on Nob Hill. It was in that moment that for some reason I felt like an adult, a woman. More in terms of my financial status than anything, with regards to the fact that I could afford and appreciate what I had saved up for.

While many might not understand my predilection for white (after all, I do have two dogs), I am innately drawn to its fresh, clean aesthetic. There is a chic, luxury to its use as it requires careful tending and attention. Since I can remember, as an adult, I have always selected white duvets and sheets to fall into my restful nights. So when Christy Linens reached out to me, offering the opportunity to experience their luxury bed linens, I was most eager to oblige.

What I hope you’ll notice in the images of the linens is the intricate detail and woven design. I purposefully chose the Maddox White bed set because while it is classic, the design (if you look closely), is less feminine and more modern which perfectly adhered to my classic, yet contemporary approach to not only my surroundings, but everyday living.

A few interesting facts about Christy Linens. Did you know?

Founded in 1850 in England, they supplied towels for Queen Victoria
Provided the towels for Queen Elizabeth II’s coronation
Became the official Wimbledon Championship supplier of towels in 1987
The first bed linens collection began in 2003

Needless to say, I’ve been sleeping in the luxury beyond my expectations ever since their delivery a few months ago, and I do set a high bar.

If you’re wanting to create your very own sanctuary (after all, we do spend 1/3 of our lives in our bedroom), click here or read chapter five of my book where I go into more detail.

The benefits of a good night’s sleep are profound, as I shared in depth on the blog a few years ago, but many always ask, How can I insure an uninterrupted, lengthy night’s slumber? I have always been protective of my sleep and immediately notice the quality of my day slipping when I haven’t been given between 6-8 hours. Below are a few ideas I have found to be helpful in ensuring a deep, restorative night, as well as medical findings from the Mayo Clinic:

Stick to a sleeping schedule, even on the weekends – there will always be exceptions, after all, we must enjoy ourselves and lose all track of time, but feel no obligation to stay up late on the weekends because “that’s what grown-ups do”. No they don’t. Grown-ups respect their bodies and minds and go to bed when they need to. That’s what grown-ups do.
Create an evening ritual – I shared a few of the ways I enjoy winding down each evening in this post from the editor a few months ago.
Turn the heat down – nothing will wake you up faster if the room is warm and your body temperature is soaring and thus, you are sweating. Stay cool. Drop the thermostat to the mid-50s (Fahrenheit or 10 degrees Celsius).
Turn your mind off – Whether you unload on your journal, get lost in a book to forget about the day or what I’ve been doing lately is mediating for 5 minutes before I go to bed, do what you can to flip a switch on your mind, or you will have a  hard time slipping into sleep.
Be a savvy eater and drinker – Each body will be different, but try to refrain from overeating and over-drinking. Whether it’s caffeine that just doesn’t help (for some, it doesn’t matter), or one too many drinks of anything that will keep you going to the bathroom all night, keep yourself in check.
Hydrate – While limiting our liquids before bed is a good idea, drinking water before you go to bed will help hydrate your body, and flush toxins. Try Cameron Diaz’s suggestion which I have instituted in my own daily habits – drink one glass of water before bed and have a bottle on my night stand to drink one glass when I wake up.
Limit stress – While it may sound like a no-brainer, when we reduce the unnecessary stress in our lives and continue to do so on a regular basis, our night’s of sleep increase in quality. While journaling and meditating will help, when we have less to filter, it makes it all that much easier to let go and relax at the end of the day.
Exercise regularly – when your body has expended itself during the day, it is ready to rest and recharge. But if its full tank of energy has yet to be depleted, it will have a hard time relaxing and drifting off into the land of Nod. While it is best not to workout right before your turn in, whatever works for your schedule is what is best for you.
Add relaxing scents – While I prefer either lavender or sandalwood, lighting a candle each night as I read, is one of my favorite simple rituals in the evening. It provides a subtle effect, but has become something that signals to my mind, it is time to unwind, slow down and go to sleep.

Each of these items are simple, but have revealed themselves through scientific findings and personal experience to work. I do hope you experience a restorative evening each night. It truly is a foundation to living well, as when we awake rested, we are more apt to be in a better mood, perform at our best and see amazing results.

~Disclosure: Christy Linens gifted TSLL with the linens that are styled in today’s post, but my comments are unabashedly my own. I’m smitten, to say the least and highly recommend. 

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Word of the Week: No. 1

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I want to thank all of the readers who stopped by last week’s introduction to the new addition to TSLL blog. Each Wednesday either a Word of the Week or a Good Grammar Is . . . lesson will be shared (alternating from week to week). I’ve decided to title the entire series The English Classroom, not to scare anyone away, as I know not every one eagerly anticipated attending their English classes (yes, I was someone who did in high school as well as college), but to invite you to enjoy the journey of the intoxicatingly complicated, yet beautiful dance with the English language.

Language changes and molds to the culture it resides, and the people who use the language determine what will be used or forgotten. When we choose to look at language in this way, it becomes a little less intimidating. Trust me, there are very few days in which I am teaching when I don’t have a student ask for the definition of a word, and I don’t have it on the tip of my tongue.

I am admittedly forever a student, and I prefer it that way. I hope you will join me whenever you’d like to waken up your vocabulary or tighten up your conversation. I think we’re going have an intriguingly good time.

Also, thank you to the many newsletter readers who have shared their ideas on the survey that was offered in last week’s newsletter. If anyone else would like to share what they’d prefer to have added to TSLL blog weekly line-up of posts and ideas of what the second episode of The Simple Sophisticate that will begin this summer should focus on, do feel free to answer three short questions (click here to start the survey).

Posts from the Archives:

~Good Grammar Is . . .  (the inaugural post)

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Outfit of the Week: Essential French Style

~MiH Ellsworth jean, dark denim~

~MiH Hutton Breton Sweater~

~Baggu Leather Clutch~

~Marc by Marc Jacobs logo plaque Ballet Flats~

~SHOP THE OUTFIT:

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