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Good Grammar Is . . . : Lie vs. Lay

~ENGLISH CLASSROOM POSTS FROM THE ARCHIVES:

~Rule No. 4: Who vs. Whom

~Rule No. 3: Well vs. Good

~Rule No. 2: Semicolons

 

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Outfit of the Week: Spring to Summer Options

~DVF Davi Chiffon Blouse (other colors available)~

~Gucci Candy ankle strap sandals~

~MiH Bonn Jeans~

~Anthropologie Janna Maxham Nitecap Straw Clutch~

~Tory Burch Cotton Shorts~

~SHOP THE OUTFIT:

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The Truth Behind “It Was Meant To Be”

~The Simple Sophisticate, episode #37

When it comes to turning dreams into reality, versus sitting back and letting fate take the wheel, the truth behind the saying, “It was meant to be” is missing a whole lot of context. First of all, never give the wheel to an unknown driver, and second of all, be willing to master what is in your control and let go of what you cannot.

If we are ever to have any say in our lives and the path they venture along, we must become aware of the power we possess and harness it. To let life simply occur around us is to waste our precious gifts and talents. While we may not know when or how certain success or life events will happen, rest assured, if you incorporate the seven truths I am going to share with you today into your life, you will find great success and happiness.

~A detailed discussion of each point listed below is discussed on the podcast.

1. Put Yourself in the Arena

 ~Daring Greatly: How the Courage to be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent and Lead by Brene Brown

2. Come Prepared
3. Accept the Unknown
4. See Past Self-Imposed or Society-Imposed Limitations
5. Refuse to be Discouraged When Initial Attempts Fail
6. Take the Time to Reflect and Connect the Dots After Success has Occurred
7. Get Ready to Say Yes
~Petit Plaisir

13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do: Take Back Your Power, Embrace Change, Face Your Fears, and Train Your Brain for Happiness and Success by Amy Morin

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This & That: No. 157

Book
~Leave your Mark: Land Your Dream Job. Kill It in Your Career. Rock Social Media by Aliza Licht

Described as 288 pages of mentoring as you navigate the path toward your career goals in the twentieth century, Aliza Licht is the PR guru for Donna Karan. Nicknamed the “Reigning Queen of Social Media” by Women’s Wear Daily, Licht offers advice for anyone just getting started as well as anyone well on their way into their career. Just released this past Monday, ideal as a graduate present or for yourself as you gather up the gumption to keep striving forward, this should be a great read.

~Where You Go Is Not Who You’ll Be: An Antidote to the College Admissions Mania by Frank Bruni

One of The New York Times columnists that I regularly find myself reading and enjoying is Frank Bruni. With a niece who was beginning to navigate the exhausting and at times overwhelming process of choosing a college and managing the price tag, Bruni decided to dive into research to answer a question: Does where you go determine your success in your chosen field? With numerous surveys and statistics, he comes to the realization that no, the Ivy Leagues do not have a monopoly on success. With spring comes graduation and a brand new beginning, perhaps this book will offer a reason to relax and refuse to over-extend oneself with student loans simply to acquire a particular name on a transcript.

Museum
~Whitney Museum of American Art

On May 1st, The Whitney officially became open to the public at its new location in the Meatpacking District at 99 Gansevoort Street after having originally been located on the Upper East Side. Dedicated to 20th and 21st century American art, it was originally founded in 1931 by Gertrude Vanderbilt Whitney. Right next to Diane von Furstenberg’s flagship shop in NYC, I have a feeling I will be popping in this summer on my trip to the city in June. And I will be sure to take you along with me. Open from 10:30 am to 10pm daily, experience a new locale, art created by 3,000 artists and more than 21,000 paintings, sculptures, drawings, and new media.

Shopping
~Citizen Eco-Drive Silhouette Bangle watch

An accessory worth investing in is without a doubt a watch (or two). And as someone who has gradually begun to do this, the only hiccup is having to replace the battery every few years. As someone who prefers simplicity, but has a predilection for beauty, when I was introduced to Citizen’s Eco-Drive watches, I immediately became a fan. First of all, they have a battery which is charged by being exposed to light that will last 40 years. Yes, you heard me correctly. No more frequent trips to replace the battery. And secondly, the Silhouette Bangle blends function with sleek beauty.

Given this exact watch, I was immediately impressed and smitten with its design. Available in silver/black as well, such a watch would make an ideal gift for someone special – one’s mother perhaps? Or maybe a graduate? After all, while yes, most of our cell phones have become our sense of time, having a beautiful accessory that keeps us pulled together and never lets us down, is an option worth exploring.

~Iris & Ink Mid-Rise White Skinny Jeans

Spring is here and summer is right around the corner, and that means a quality pair of white denim is a capsule wardrobe stable to have on hand. At a very reasonable price, The Outnet‘s exclusive line – Iris & Ink – offers a stretch-denim pair of ankle skimming jeans in every size available. Put on your wishlist or purchase today and be set for a variety of casual or elevated style.

Television
~Grace & Frankie on Netflix

Premiering today (Friday) on Netflix, Grace & Frankie is the much anticipated comedy created by FRIENDS alum Marta Kauffman. Starring Lily Tomlin and Jane Fonda, each woman learns their respective husbands have fallen in love with . . . each other. Each woman deals with it in her own way, but the tone is quite humorous. Along the way, the two develop an unmatchable bond that carries the series. With each of the four main stars with parts created by Aaron Sorkin to their credit, Sam Waterston (Law & Order) and Martin Sheen (The West Wing), round out the cast. I will admit, I am tuning in most definitely.

 

 ~recipe for Cinnamon Swirl Loaf~

Here in the states, Mother Day will be celebrated Sunday and that means, I will be spending time with mine. Perhaps a stroll or walk through her garden, maybe an afternoon respite to sip tea or wine and just catch up. Wherever our time takes us, I am simply looking forward to leisurely downtime with a woman I am fortunate to call my mom.

This week on the blog has been busy, but deliciously wonderful. With a big announcement shared to gawking at the stunning styles on the red carpet at the Met Gala, I am ready to catch my breath and sleep in. Pair the above bedroom with some delicious nibbles such as the one above, and I will be a very happy girl.

This weekend I have ample reading options that I think you might enjoy. Have a look, and until Monday, bon week-end!

~I have just discovered this lovely decor blog, and if this post is any indication, it will one to visit on a regular basis.

~A light-hearted post on words that have gone by the wayside, but oh, how interesting they are.

~I’ve always been an advocate of regular alone time, and this article is speaking my language.

~26 Ways to be a wonderful friend . . .

~A tremendous thank you to Christy Linens for introducing me to their readers. Did you know? Save 25% off your first purchase with promo code LUX25. Offer runs through May 15th. (Here’s a peek as to how I’ve fallen in love with their luxurious bed linens.)

~Strawberries will soon be in season, and this recipe will be one to try.

~The best pastime to relinquish – worrying about what others think of you. How to bring it to a halt.

~A health article worth reading – eliminate these to improve your weight and more importantly, your health.

~Fellow travelers to Paris – 12 apps that will simplify your itinerary.

~A beautiful letter from Garance Dore to her younger self.

~Anna Wintour dabbles in comedy with Seth Meyers. Trust me, it will be worth your five minutes.

 

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Thoughts from the Editor: Bend, Sweet Bend

 “Living with fear stops us taking risks, and if you don’t go out on the branch, you’re never going to get the best fruit.” –Sarah Parish

As the well-known saying goes, while we can make plans, it doesn’t mean life will fall in lock-step. In fact, you may remember last year, I had put my house on the market and announced I was moving to Walla Walla, Washington. And as you may also know, that hasn’t happened yet.

However, I refused to give up. I refused. Something, a very big something, continued to tickle me and urge me to keep trying as I knew my life needed a change, but this time I reached a little higher, took an even bigger risk and well, now, I am pinching myself.

If you’ve never heard of Bend, Oregon, the most central town in Oregon, let me briefly explain why I fell in love with it as a child, and even when my attention waned as a young woman, never quite forgot how comfortable and splendid it was. Situated at the foothills of Mt. Bachelor and surrounded by endless outdoor activities, it has grown tremendously in the past decade. With a bustling downtown, all-types of restaurants and artisanal bakeries galore, Bend offers the small town feel in a town of 108,000 and growing. From breweries to bookstores, kayaking runs to walking trails for you, your dogs, a bike and who knows what else, it blends what I love most about my two most traveled to towns/cities in Oregon (Wallowa County and Portland) into one location.

 ~Mirror Pond at Drake Park in Bend, Oregon~

But why am I sharing this with you?

Well, I am thrilled to share that I have been given the opportunity to teach English at one of Bend’s high schools starting this coming fall. Yep, you heard me right. That means, TSLL will be rooted in Bend, Oregon, as soon as this summer.

One of the reasons I am ecstatic about this new life adventure is that I am  always trying to exemplify what I share on the blog – how to live simply luxuriously – chase your dreams, be willing to practice patience, and refuse to stop believing. With the beginning of this adventure, in one way I am at the end of the culmination of creating a simply luxurious life because a career goal of mine has finally come true with regards to teaching, but on the other end of the spectrum I’m just beginning to create a simply luxurious life – from scratch. And I cannot wait to take you along with me as I travel along on my journey. In other words, I will be demonstrating how to live a simply luxurious life – how to navigate, how to establish yourself in a new locale and much, much more.

While I know a little about living in Bend, I have much more to learn, and I am under no misconceptions that I will make mistakes and have struggles along the way. But you better believe, I am excited to get started. Hey, if Julia and Paul Child ventured through it on their cross-country road trip to determine if they would be suitable to be married (granted it was a lot smaller in the 1950s), I think there might just be a bit of magic in its air. And I’m going to find out. Here we go!

~Drake Park in Bend, Oregon~

Alongside me as I go will be my boys as you might imagine – Norman and Oscar – and with Bend being a doggie heaven-on-earth, I am confident this is an ideal move for them as well.

Of course this means my house is back on the market, but not without a few luxurious upgrades. Have a look at the changes below and click here to see the entire tour of TSLL house.

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Word of the Week: No.3

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~WORD OF THE WEEK ARCHIVES:

~No. 1 – alacrity

~No. 2 – serendipity

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Outfit of the Week: A Simple Ensemble

~J.Crew Perforated Drapey Crepe Dress, use promo code YAYMAY, 25%~

~Ben-Amun gold-tone necklace~

~Halston Heritage Leather Shoulder bag~

~J.Crew Lena calf-hair sandals, YAYMAY for 25% savings~

~Missoni knit belted coat~

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Style Inspiration: A Melange of Sophistication

Depending upon your signature style, you will feel comfortable in certain separates, accessorizing with particular jewelry or handbags and be more willing to experiment with certain items (shoes, tops, etc), versus others (pants, dresses, etc). In today’s Style Inspiration, take a cue from these women who clearly have figured out what works for their style and personality. From a brilliantly bold red blazer to beautifully unique sunglasses, your style is just that – yours. Have fun, make your mark and don’t apologize. Sophistication resides in the confident women who chooses the clothes, not the clothes themselves.

~STYLE INSPIRATION POSTS FROM THE ARCHIVES:

~NYFW Cool Style

~A Sprinkle of Style

~Prints & Neutrals

 

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Met Gala Red Carpet 2015

~Amal Clooney in Maison Margiela~

Monday evening in New York City brought out the designers and their muses, as well as some magnificent statement gowns as they coronated the new Costume Institute’s spring exhibit at the Metropolitan Museum of Art, China: Through the Looking Glass. Open to the public beginning May 7th and running through August 16th, stylists took their cue from the theme and dressed their starlets accordingly.

With a bevy of scarlet, other primary colors as well were prevalent. And while all of the gowns included in today’s post captured my attention, it was Bee Shaffer, Keri Russell and Ivanka Trump that topped my list. Do have a look, and feel free to share your thoughts. I must tip my hat to SJP for always raising the bar and Maggie Gyllenhaal for choosing a unique style that looks magnificent on her physique. No doubt, the discussion will continue for quite some time. Enjoy the tour.

 ~Caroline Trentini in Atelier Versace~

~Karolina Kurkova~

 ~Sofia Vergara in Marchesa~

~Helen Mirren~

 ~Alexa Chung in Erdem~

~Keri Russell in Altuzarra~

 ~Maggie Gyllenhaal in Roland Mouret~

~Reese Witherspoon in Jason Wu~

~Gigi Hadid in Diane von Furstenberg~

~Karlie Kloss in Atelier Versace~

~Joan Smalls~

~Kerry Washington in Prada~

~Jessica Chastain~

~Poppy Delevingne in Marchesa~

~Bee Shaffer in Alexander McQueen~

~Rosie Huntington Whiteley~

~Ivanka Trump~

~Emma Roberts~

~Rhianna in Guo Pei~

~Sarah Jessica Parker in Philip Treacy Custom headdress, dress of her own design in collaboration with H&M~

~PREVIOUS POSTS FROM THE PAST :

~Met Gala Red Carpet 2014 Favorites

~2013 Met Gala Red Carpet

~2010 Met Gala Red Carpet

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How to Construct a Healthy Social Circle

“A healthy relationship will inspire you to be more of who you are, not require you to give up who you are.”   -Unknown
The Simple Sophisticate, episode #36

Recently news arrived in my life that while I have been consciously and unconsciously working toward for quite some time, I will admit I’m not sure it has entirely sunk in just yet. (As to what it is, I promise to share in the coming days and weeks.) And being the analytical person that I am, I wanted to see how it came about, or if nothing else, what aided into allowing for the event to bloom into fruition.

What I know for certain is that if an outcome that is sought involves other people making the decision, how we interact and with whom we interact with leading up to the outcome we seek is vitally imperative. In other words, the people we choose to welcome into our lives, how we interact with the people in our lives and who we release from our lives, plays a significant role in the contentment we feel and the overall quality of our lives: professional and personal.

So who should welcome and who should we usher to the door? That is precisely what we will discussing today.

Politely Show the Door to the Following People:

“People think being alone makes you lonely, but I don’t think that’s true. Being surrounded by the wrong people is the loneliest thing in the world.” -Kim Culbertson

~Disrespectful Individuals

“You can’t force a person to show you respect, but you can refuse to be disrespected.” – Unknown

At first introduction, you may not be able to discern if they will be disrespectful, but quite quickly you will. It may be rather in what they don’t do, more so than based on what they actually do, so pay attention, and don’t make excuses for them. If someone continually is without appreciation for your position as a superior or the time and energy you have expended to them, let them go. If they are blatantly disrespectful with their actions or words, let them go.

~Stressors

“You should only aim to be stressed by situations and not by people.” -Unknown

There will be a variety of people in which you will experience together stressful situations: Purse strings being tightened at work, family situations that occur unexpectedly, or a travel itinerary that isn’t going as planned. Simply because you were stressed while you were with them doesn’t no mean they are “stressors” and should be let go from you life. Contrarily, if they were the cause of the stress, if they, simply with their presence instigate the stress such as contentious arguments, inappropriate behavior, reckless awareness of the effect on others, let them go.

~Two-Faced Talkers

Such individuals are quite lethal to our ability to trust people. Such people will tell you what is pleasing to hear to your face or in your presence, but when you are no where in audible reach, their commentary takes an about-face. Let these people go. Their behavior is a reflection of their need to please and their lack of a backbone to speak the truth even if it is uncomfortable.

~Pain Instigators

While most certainly, there will be times when our friends, spouses, colleagues, etc. hurt our feelings or over-step their bounds, this is not necessarily a reason to extricate them from our lives. So long as we have the courage to speak up and make clear our boundaries, each of these relationship can be repaired and in fact grow stronger. However, it is when a person in our lives has hurt us once, we respond and explain why we were hurt, and then they proceed to do it again, and perhaps again and again, that we must show them the door and release them from our lives.

~Takers

When it comes to relationships, giving and taking is a balance that needs to be struck and understood between both parties. Each relationship will do this differently, but when someone is constantly taking from you: Whether asking favors, expecting money and not repaying, or enjoying the bounty of your connections without being appreciative, this person needs to be removed from your life. Why? For whatever reason, they either are ignorant to what they are doing and not away that they need to be more appreciative of what you are doing, or they expect it and will never change. Either way, you must speak up and protect yourself.

~Negative Nellies/Wet Blankets

I’ve combined two into one because while there are some slight differences, at their core is the weight of negativity which weighs down the receiver (you). Each morning we wake up with a finite amount of energy; some days we will have more than others based on how much sleep we had, what we ate and what we did the day before, but the key is to understand our energy is finite.

When we spend time with someone who only chooses to comment on the negative (complain, whine, etc), or can’t seem to find the good in the day, our hope, our positive energy quotient is slowly chipped away because we have to muster a bit more to stay upbeat or come up with a positive retort (or suppress the desire to do more). When we battle, we become drained whether it’s with ourselves or with others.

With regards to the Wet Blanket, such a person is can douse a spark of hope or excitement by saying nothing at all, by responding with a cynical comment or simply being apathetic to the reason you are so cheerful. Granted, this may happen unexpectedly from a friend or family member if they have other pressing matters on their mind, but if this is the modus operandi of someone close to you, its effects on you can be negative and gradually your ability to be hopeful and optimistic will become less accessible.

~Constant Competitors

A Constant Competitor feels the need to perpetually “one-up” anything that another shares. They, due to their own insecurities and seeking of validation, have to demonstrate that they are successful, happy or have had it much worse than you. Now, this doesn’t mean a friend can’t share a similar experience they had, but rather than recognizing a moment in which you want to be heard and celebrate, or heard and supported, they flip the tables and instead bring it back to themselves.

~Passive Aggressives

Passive Aggressives are often the most difficult to recognize, but they can gradually and harmfully affect your everyday life if you spend regular time with them. Someone who is unable to speak directly to the issue at hand and instead chooses to mope or  withhold affections or attention is trying to maintain power or intimidate. Such people are cowardly and weak by nature and this is the only way they know how to maintain whatever power they think they have.

Instead of confronting the issue, they bury it and brew which affects not only them negatively, but all of the relationships around them because it causes people to walk on eggshells for fear if they will explode or manipulative doing something behind the public eye.

The key, if you must work with them, is to confront them tactfully, but directly, and then move on. Thus they lose their power over you, and you are free of their draining effect.

~The Expired Relationship

I saved this one for last because, often relationships aren’t bad, they have just simply passed their expiration date. Whether it was a romantic relationship that was meant to help you grow or learn something, a colleague or boss that taught you helped you excel in your career or a friend who was your confidante, but now you are traveling separate paths, each individual we have a relationship with has the opportunity to enhance our lives, but each relationship isn’t meant to remain a part of our lives forever. Consider your childhood friends, your teachers from the past, your bosses from previous jobs. Many, I’m sure, were and are great people, but there is only so much emotional energy we have in any given day. To maintain any healthy relationship takes energy.

Upon ending or leaving such relationships, some just happen without a word said, but it’s understood. Others, like a boss or colleague, perhaps a thank you note, a goodbye gathering, etc. Each relationship will be different, but to expect more than a relationship can give is to ruin what its original purpose was. Honor it, and move on.

Now that we’ve talked about those who should no longer or ever be in our lives, we’ve made room for whom we should welcome into our personal and professional social circles. As with nearly every arena of our lives, it is not the amount of people we interact with and build relationships with, it is the quality, the type of people with whom we spend our precious hours of each day with.

What you will perhaps notice is that sometimes one person can fulfill more than one role in your life, and that is perfectly fine. Each of our social circles will be compiled differently. It will also evolve over time and will constantly be in a state of flux based on where we are, where we wish to go and what life tosses our way: good or bad. But without a doubt, the following people will add a component that will improve the contentment and fulfillment of your life.

As you are going through this list, we should each be considering how are we embodying one or more of these roles for the people in our lives. In other words, how are we contributing to the relationships we are involved in, rather than being a hindrance.

1. The Cheerleader

A cheerleader is just as it sounds. They are there to keep you going, to remind you of your strengths and to help you plow forward when you feel that the world has handed you too much. They are also there to celebrate with you when success comes your way. A cheerleader is not a Pollyanna who sugarcoats and ignores reality, but rather than being “The Realist”, which we will talk about later, they help you find your grit and provide the boosts of energy when you feel you have nothing left to give.

A Cheerleader is the person sending you a text just before you step up to the plate for that much sought after interview. A Cheerleader reminds you of how amazing you are before you go out on a date or are meeting someone new. A Cheerleader is also the person you talk to after each of these events occur, who listens and reminds you of the good, even if you may forget from time to time, and more importantly, is just as excited for you when all goes well.

2. The Mentor

We all need a mentor, whether we speak directly to them or simply observe them from afar. A person who embodies the qualities, has accomplished the success and lives their life in such a way that we wish to model our own, that is a mentor. Preferably, the mentor in your life will be someone you can confer with from time to time. To check in with, offer up your life and/or career questions and receive feedback. The difference between the feedback from a mentor and any other random person is that they have already been where you wish to go, so their credibility has been proven.

3. The Realist

Not to be confused with a cynic, the Realist in many ways is your conscience and your gut, but also someone who most definitely has all of the facts. This person is often someone older, with more experience, wisdom and has learned the lessons or has been in the business of life and has succeeded. The Realist will point out the options, the pros and the cons, the bottom line, and break down everything without sugar-coating a thing.

They will not try to squash your dreams, but rather give you all of the necessary facts, so that you go forward, should you choose, well-informed.

4. The Connector

The Connector is someone who opens doors for you that you cannot do for yourself no matter how amazing your resume. The saying I remember hearing as a young adult was, “It’s not what you know; it’s who you know.” In part, this is true, but as I mentioned in my book, you can know all of the most amazing people in the world, but if you don’t have the skills and personality to do the job, it is not going to matter a lick who you know.

The Connector is sometimes also a mentor in that they see something in you and wish to help. Having been where you are or knowing they can help get where you wish to go, they gladly do so. The tricky part of these relationships is that the mentee needs to be aware of the priceless door-opening assistance they are receiving and be grateful as well as respectful.

5. The Giver

“Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you.” -Wayne Dyer

To give without expectation is a characteristic of a secure individual. Such a person doesn’t grease the wheels to see what they can receive in return. No. Rather the Giver simply gives because they see a need and wish to help, motivate, or express their love. The receiver undoubtedly should express appreciation, and shouldn’t take advantage. However, the Giver is intelligent, they aren’t people easily taken advantage of. They give because they can, want to and often see a need. When there is no need, they focus their energies elsewhere without contempt, but rather a sense of fulfillment.

Another piece of insight into the Giver, these are not people you can seek out. They typically will find you, unlike the other five relationships mentioned in today’s post.

6. The Motivator

Reminding you of all the possibilities life has to offer, that is what a Motivator brings into your everyday life. What a beautiful way to uplift your world. The Motivator may take on the role of a cheerleader from time to time, but their main ability is to bring the world and all of its beauty to your front step and remind you of all the possibilities, and even better, show you that you can and should be participating regularly. The Motivator believes in you, the Motivator loves life and is regularly reading and learning about it as they continue to become their best selves. The Motivator in some ways may be a mentor, but at their core it is  their energy that enlivens you and helps you become even more excited about living each day.

As was mentioned in the inaugural episode of The Simple Sophisticate, one of the eight pillars of living a simply luxurious life is to surround yourself with a healthy social circle, both in your professional and personal life. Much like a magnificent sculpture that is situated in a public square, initially to construct it will take ardent attention and discernment, but to maintain it will require consistent attention and from time to time, restorations as you will be growing, evolving and changing along the way as well.

Do not feel guilt-ridden for letting certain people out of your life. Be grateful for the time you had. If it was a positive experience, you now have beautiful memories, and if it was a negative experience, you have lessons to learn from. As social beings, learning how to navigate our lives as we interact with others is a constant dance. But with conscious attention and a willingness to remember we need to be positive contributors in others’ lives just as much as we need positive influences in our own lives, the overall quality of our lives will improve, success will occur and all that we have to be grateful for will grow exponentially.

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~7 Components of Strong, Healthy Relationships

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