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July 9, 2015
Thoughts from the Editor: A New You Awaits
“If you let go a little, you will have a little peace. If you let go a lot, you will have a lot of peace.” ~Ajahn Chah
In many ways knowing that I would be moving my entire life and career for over two months has given me the opportunity to truly appreciate what has led me to where I am and why I am choosing to move forward. In other ways, it has been like ripping a band-aid off excruciatingly slow. After all, I’ve known I’ve wanted to live in Bend for years, so these past few days, as I’ve gone through each closet, cupboard and shelf, selecting items to be sold in this weekend’s yard sale, I’ve chosen to look at this move as something entirely different from past relocations. Rather than taking my past with me, I am leaving as much of my past behind so as to start what truly is a new stage as fresh as possible.
After taking a moment to count up all of the different towns, cities, apartments, houses and states I’ve lived in since I left for college, the total number reached its zenith at eight. Now for some that may not be that many and for others it may seem exorbitant, but much like Goldilocks, that is precisely how many locations it has taken me before I finally got it just right; however, your number will be entirely unique to your journey.
As I was going through my book shelves, and down-sizing my collection to two thirds of its original size, I came upon a book that I won’t be parting with and for good reason. Sarah ban Breathnach’s Simple Abundance: A Daybook of Comfort and Joy. I can remember quite vividly her conversation with Oprah in the late nineties when the book was published. Their conversation made me perk up as I listened intently as a teenager.
There were many quotes I highlighted and life suggestions made that I pondered over and tried to incorporate into my life. If you haven’t picked up the book before, each day of the year, Breathnach’s offers an entry that is usually 1-2 pages in length, ideal for a daily moment of pause and reflection. Below are just a few of the lines that captured my attention years ago:
Whatever we are waiting for – peace of mind, contentment, grace, the inner awareness of Simple Abundance – it will surely come to us, but only when we are ready to receive it with an open and grateful heart.
Simplicity gains importance in our lives as we begin to make peace with ourselves.
The greatest secret to living a happy and fulfilled life is the realization that everything is created in our minds before it manifests itself in the outer world. We must believe it before we can see it. You have to know what you’re digging for, before X can mark the spot.
Turn away from the world this year and begin to listen. Listen to the whispers of your heart. Look within. Your silent companion has lit lanterns of love to illuminate the path to Wholeness. At long last, the journey you were destined to take has begun.
If it’s not authentically you, live without it.
And while there are quotes that cause the reader to stop and reread for full effect, at this point in my life, the quote below gave me great pause. The past few months have been filled with extraordinary highs of which I cannot be grateful enough and frustrating lows that even I didn’t expect, but perhaps the penultimate moments leading up to my leap validates what Breathnach’s quote below is trying to illuminate. And if that is the case, the idea that I am stepping into a new stage in my life, couldn’t be more accurate.
Perhaps that is why I have been shocked by the myriad of emotions I have felt. Perhaps that is why when each of us chooses to finally muster up the courage to do something we never thought we’d get the chance to do or attempt something no one ever expected we would say yes to, that we feel trepidatious is a sign not to signal us to stop, but rather a sign that we are stepping into a realm that is more in alignment with who we truly are, and while we will never be able to return, it truly is a moment to celebrate. We’ve made it. We’ve made it to yet another level of our progress of reaching our full potential.
“I have come to realize that feeling afraid is Spirit’s signal to ask for grace and power. So take a deep breath, seek your quiet center and push on. One of the hardest lessons we ever have to master is accepting that all fear comes from within however major are the real life’s circumstances assaulting us. The closer we get to giving our dream to the world, the fiercer the struggle becomes to bring it forth. Why should this be so? Because we will be inexorably changed, and life can never return to the way it once was. Of course we’re scared; we wouldn’t be sane if we weren’t . . . Trust that the same Power that gifted you with your dream knows how to help you make it come true.” -Sarah ban Breathnach
Whatever journey you are on at the moment, whether it is reshaping your attitude, your social circle, your career path or perhaps you too are uprooting yourself physically as I am, allow the uncertainly and the exhilaration of what you might be to be your fuel.
I will leave you with one last quote from the book I highly recommend:
“Realize the past no longer holds you captive. It can only continue to hurt you if you hold on to it. Let the past go. A simply abundant world awaits.” ― Sarah Ban Breathnach
~THOUGHTS FROM THE EDITOR POSTS FROM THE ARCHIVE:
~My Ultimate Everyday Luxury: Christy Linens
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July 8, 2015
Decor Inspiration: French-Inspired Bathroom Remodel
The beautiful co-mingling of French, country, and clean white aesthetics that invite breath-taking simplistic luxury is what you will find when you visit Maria Carr’s blog and online business Dreamy Whites Lifestyle. On her family’s North California farm, she and her husband (and five children) are remodeling a 19th century farmhouse and taking readers along with them through each stage. Recently, her bathroom caught my eye, and I wanted to share in this week’s Decor Inspiration. From the wooden French door to the French stone soap sink and of course the glorious soaking tub, I don’t know about you, but I wish she would open a B & B so that we all might enjoy.
The good news however is that you can follow her progress on her Instagram feed @dreamywhiteslifestyle and peruse her shop for French soaps, linens and even dog beds and market totes. Be sure to check it all out.
~DECOR INSPIRATION POSTS FROM THE ARCHIVES:
All images via Dreamy Whites Lifestyle
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Good Grammar Is . . . : Less vs. Fewer
~Good Grammar Is . . . Posts from the Archives:
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July 7, 2015
Outfit of the Week: High & Low Style
~Derek Lam Stripe Applique Top (63% off)~
~Stella McCartney Circles Necklace~
~Talitha Foulard-Jacquard silk shorts (40% off)~
~Tomas Maier Palm-Tree Embossed Leather Sandal~
~Rebecca Minkoff Mini Avery Tote~
~Genetic Los Angeles Blondie Short Sleeve denim jacket~
~Rebecca Minkoff Safari Haze Leaf Cut Bracelet~
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Style Inspiration: Shades of Tan
Having neutrals in our capsule wardrobes are a peace of mind when the weather temperatures are shifting or we’re traveling to varying climates that we may not be familiar with. Even when it comes to accessories – shoes, handbags, scarves, belts, etc – selecting tan, beige or khaki is more often than not a very safe and dependable decision you won’t regret. Have a look at the many ways, varying shades of tan can work in a chic woman’s wardrobe.
~STYLE INSPIRATION POSTS FROM THE ARCHIVES YOU MIGHT ENJOY:
~The Francophile’s Style Guide: The 14 Essentials
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July 6, 2015
Gifts of Being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP)
The Simple Sophisticate, episode #44
(We are currently experiencing technical difficulties with the uploading of the podcast. Rest-assured, as soon as it goes online, it will be live in iTunes and here on TSLL. Our apologies for the delay. Below is the transcript of the podcast; however, more detail and content will be available via audio.)
Abraham Lincoln, Jane Goodall, Princess Diana, Katherine Hepburn, Martin Luther King Jr., Albert Einstein, Glenn Close, Steve Martin, Eleanor Roosevelt, Ralph Waldo Emerson, Robert Frost, Emily Dickinson.
As you might have guessed each of the well-known individuals listed above either exuded or exudes traits of a HSP. Here are a few more: Frank Lloyd Wright, Ansel Adams, Frida Kahlo, Barbra Streisand, Mozart, Neil Young, Alanis Morisette, Elton John.
Dr. Elaine Aron, who is a research psychologist, university professor and psychotherapist as well as a self-identified HSP, points out that HSPs are “traditionally poets, writers, teachers, doctors, healers, lawyers, scientists, philosophers and theologians.” However, it is important to note that we recognize the names above because each of them embraced the strengths that define HSP.
So what exactly does highly sensitive mean? Aron, the best-selling author of The Highly Sensitive Person: How to Thrive When the World Overwhelms You, shares HSPs have an “increased sensitivity to stimulation” and “are more aware of subtleties and process information in a deeper, more reflective way.” And in so knowing the term, it is equally important to note, someone who identifies with being HSP is to know you were born with a sensitive nervous system, it is innate. And if you tap into your full potential, you will be astounded by the gifts you can bring to the world.
A few facts to be aware of:
Neither female or male have more of a tendency to identify as HSP, but due to certain cultural stereotypical expectations, such as men should not exhibit HSP traits, and women, while more welcomed to embrace them, often do so only to realize that society see such traits as inferior.
15-20% of the population is HSP (22% were found to be moderately sensitive)
Most introverts are HSP, but there are a few extroverts that are HSP as well. Susan Cain’s best-selling book Quiet:The Power of Introverts in a World that Can’t Stop Talking referenced Dr. Elaine Aron’s book frequently.
Non-HSPs are not inferior or should not be labeled as “insensitive”. The term sensitive is used in psychological terminology involves the nervous system as it is much more than one’s emotions. Anyone can be overwhelmed if too much stimulation occurs, it simply occurs quicker for HSPs and involves a wide array of stimuli that is often disregarded as having the ability to stimulate.
Characteristics of HSPs
1. Conscientious. Keen awareness of subtle details which cultivate a highly accurate intuition. Can be harmful as HSP may resort to being perfectionists or people-pleasers, so it is vital to find a balance.
2. Define “fun” differently. Adult learning classes, lectures, symphonies, art exhibits, opera, yoga, cooking classes, any event that is more intimate and has a thoughtful purpose is more in alignment of fun for HSPs rather than a busy happy hour at a bar, crowded gyms or lively cocktail party.
3. Sensitive to subtle things in the air, lights or fabrics. Hay fever, pollens, scents, odors, itchy fabric are much more perceptible to HSPs.
4. Good at tasks that involve observing minor differences. Scientists, detectives, caretakers, parents, teachers, psychologists, etc.
5. Able to focus and concentrate deeply.
6. Have an active imagination. The creative mind is the engine of the HSP and ideas can spark at any moment.
7. Prefer conversations of substance, philosophy, feelings, struggle, and dislike idle, pointless chitchat.
8. Due to society supposing they are flawed as revealed in a study shared in Dr. Elaine Aron’s book, many have a battered self-confidence and low self-esteem. However, once the HSP discovers the error made by society, they can reframe their past experiences and thrive.
9. Many who find their dream job, find a vocation that is focused or dealing with finding meaning for their life. HSPs are curious individuals and because they are conscientious, desire to find ways to help, improve and progress themselves and society.
10. Able to process material at deeper levels. Many HSPs may have heard the critique, “You over-analyze everything”, but so long as the analysis isn’t taken down a destructive path, it can lead to wonderful creations, inventions and ideas.
11. Typically a “Morning Person”, although there are exceptions. Because HSPs tend to have a hard time sleeping as they are sensitive to their environment paired with an active mind, they will wake up early and want to get the day started as they have things they want to accomplish and are acutely aware of the finite time available to them.
12. Enjoy time at home to decompress. (Read #16 in the list of Things Needed to Thrive to understand why.)
13. Over-arousal may lead to not participating in activities with others that you might have enjoyed in other circumstances, and thus, you may have heard “You’re missing out!” which builds worries, regrets and guilt that is misplaced. Staying home rather than participating if you are already overwhelmed will ensure when you do decide to participate, you will enjoy the experience.
14. Have heard common phrases such as “What is the matter with you?” and “Stop being so sensitive.”
15. Self-reflect more regularly.
16. Aroused more intensely by new and prolonged stimulation.
17. Greatest social fulfillment tends to come from close relationships, and this is where you are able to shine. HSPs are quite skilled in close,personal relationships, but can put up a wall if hurt in the past.
18. Due to low self-esteem (because society didn’t view the HSP traits as the ideal), you may fall in love with someone very much your inferior. (Listen to the podcast for an intriguing study about why so many college students “fall in love” during their first year.)
19. Tend not to share openly with just anyone. Colleagues or acquaintances may not understand this behavior and may label HSPs as aloof, arrogant and/or cold. Ultimately, it comes down to not wanting “to play politics”.
20. Group brainstorming and team projects are not as productive as you feel stifled and limited.
21. Excel at being self-employed as you can control your hours, stimulation, kinds of people you deal with and unlike many first-time entrepreneurs, will probably be conscientious about research and planning before you take any risks. However, be aware you may worry excessively and unnecessarily, and you may be inclined to work unthinkable hours as your creative minds is full of ideas.
22. Due to high intuition, can perceive trends in markets, and needs and potential before others do.
23. Find tranquility in nature, especially water.
24. Observant and therefore, very successful in understanding and building relationships of trust with children and animals.
25. Sensitive to pain.
26. Have an artistic side you enjoy expressing.
What a HSP Needs to Thrive:
1. Balance. When it comes to arousal and overstimulation, getting to know yourself is crucial. Know and be able to recognize when you are over-aroused, so you can either prevent such situations from happening or have a plan about how to tactfully remove yourself.
2. Boundaries.
3. Plenty of downtime.
4. Daily alone time.
5. Rest. Retire when you become sleepy. Establish clear evening rituals to signal to your mind that you are going to bed soon. Create a sleeping environment that is conducive to a restful night’s sleep.
6. Clear communication. With your significant other, friends, family, colleagues, communication is key, but it is crucial for a HSP as most people are not similar in experience as they as so long as those you are communicating with are wanting to build a relationship with you, they will be thankful for the heads up.
7. Relationships that strike the balance of giving to others and giving to yourself. If someone cannot or will not try to understand what you need, you may need to move on, but often, it simply takes communication. Dr. Elaine Aron points out that many might assume that two HSPs in a romantic relationships would be best, while others may think a ying and yang would be better. However, it truly depends on the two individuals. One a side note, she does admit that if two HSPs are in a relationships, and they both know their tendencies, they are likely to be more understanding of each other and thus foster a more supportive and less contentious partnership.
8. Time to step away from ordinary thinking – prayer, meditation, any activity that takes your mind off of your thoughts and onto the task at hand. Cooking, reality television shows, etc.
9. Spend time in nature.
10. Find and enjoy water: rain, lakes, ocean, rivers, simply drinking it regularly and often.
11. At work, choose to cultivate intense relationships where your emotional sensitivity can run free, outside of work as many may not understand.
12. Establish independence and strong sense of self and identity. HSPs have a strong need for independence as they abhor feeling trapped.
13. Take time-outs from heated or emotional interactions. Feeling over-aroused or trapped, step away, postponing not ending the conversation.
14. Take a walk, care for your body.
15. Accept the “loneliness” that many non-HSP identify with HSPs. Time alone is the “giftedness”, as Aron describes, that comes with being a HSP. Without this time, we couldn’t reach our full potential.
16. Discover and cultivate intangible containers as well as tangible containers. A tangible container, such as a home, a car, a library or a person are places where we feel safe and can relax. When we know we have containers that provide sanctuary, we find more strength to go out into the world with all of its stimulation. Intangible containers can be found in each of us, something that nobody can take away from us: our faith, our creative mind, spiritual meditation, etc.
17. Experience new things and realize most of what you will encounter will leave you safe. Experience positive new events builds your self-esteem and self-confidence, opening your eyes to what you are truly capable of.
18. Simple is best. When there is too much stuff, clutter, or an extremely busy schedule, we become overwhelmed and are unable to perform at our best. Simplicity is a HSPs best friend.
19. More HSPs need to be present in public roles. In order to reveal to societies the gifts that are available, we must have people of both types (non-HSPs and HSPs) in pivotal publish positions. The balance in public life will make it much easier for everyday HSPs going about their lives.
At the heart of living a simply luxurious life is getting to know yourself, and if along your journey of self-discovery you realize you are a HSP, it will hopefully be a moment of aha, perhaps a burden or weight is lifted from your shoulders as it was from mine.
Being a HSP, while not rare, is something most people do not have the fortune to embody. So as you move forward, embracing all of your amazing strengths and learning how to handle weaker tendencies, know that you have something amazing to offer the world. Now you must get about the business of reveling in your full potential.
~The Highly Sensitive Person: How to Thrive When the World Overwhelms You by Dr. Elaine Aron
~The Highly Sensitive Person Podcast with Kelly O’Laughlin, website
~A Highly Sensitive Person’s Life: Stories and Advice for Those Who Experience the World Intensely by Kelly O’Laughlin
~SIMILAR POSTS FROM THE ARCHIVES YOU MIGHT ENJOY:
~Confidence: How to Gain It and Why It’s Invaluable (podcast, episode #5)
~10 Ways to Strength Self-Worth
~Why Not . . . Enjoy Being an Introvert?
Petit Plaisir:
The Splendid Table with Lynne Rossetto Kasper, podcast
The Splendid Table cookbook (copyright 1992)
~The Best of Julia Child on The Splendid Table
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July 3, 2015
This & That: No. 165
Tea, tea/coffee cups, a journal, a cookbook, pajamas and a heavenly candle. Looks like a lovely combination of simple luxuries for relaxing downtime . . .
Cookbook
~A Simple Feast: A Year of Stories and Recipes to Savor and Share
Diane Yen presents how and what to cook during each of the four seasons. Being mindful of what the earth makes in abundance briefly for each season, A Simple Feast shares beautiful images and paired recipes of how to cook what can be picked up at your local farmers’ market. I had the opportunity to flip through this cookbook this past weekend, and it is beautiful in its layout and offerings. I know many of us don’t have the luxury of eating from our gardens year round; therefore, this cookbook may shed new light on food you had forgotten was available in the throes of winter and beyond.
Decor
~Nest Candles
While perusing along Elm Street in New Canaan, I happened into a home decor boutique that offered all of the accessories that finish each room in the house: kitchenware, dishes, candles, bowls, vases, etc. And one item I wanted to purchase, but knew I didn’t have room in my suitcase to carry was a candle from Nest. As a fan of lavender, their Cedar Leaf and Lavender candles took my breath away as the scent was magnificent, and they also have an array of scents and sizes that will no doubt fill your home in the most wonderful way.
~Scrabble Letter Mug
Perhaps it’s the word lover in me or maybe it is simply me being nostalgic, but one of the mugs in the apartment I stayed at while visiting Manhattan this past week was a Scrabble mug. Coincidentally enough, I saw them in a stationery shop in New Canaan, and I while I don’t believe in “signs”, I must admit, I was drawn to it. As a teacher and a writer, I love my cup of tea in the morning to start the day, and for some reason, a personalized mug of sorts is always my preference. Well, whether you live in the UK or the states, the letter of your choosing can be yours. The font is slightly different for the UK mug (as was seen in a recent 007 film) compared to the ones available in the US, but still, the design in all other regards is the same.
Shopping
~Desmond & Dempsey’s Pajamas
From short sets to long sets, Desmond & Dempsey’s pajamas are made with 100% cotton and mother of pearl buttons. A luxury that will look as lovely as they are to sleep in.
Stationery
~Rifle Paper Co. Parisian Journals
Last Saturday I posted the photo below on Instagram, and a few of you noticed and asked about the book/journal that was below Marie Kondo’s book. Picked up at Elm Street Books, it is actually a journal from Rifle Paper Co. from their Parisian collection, and in even better news, it’s on sale for less than $13. There are many others available, but this one can be yours. The pages are not lined, simply blank, but it could be a nice gift or the journal to collect your thoughts that you’ve been looking for.
Tea Lovers
~TeaLeaves
Recommended by Tiffani Rogers of Style by Tiffani, TeaLeaves.com is a tea I am eager to try. Always looking for quality tea in the states (as I’ve already fallen in love with a few brands from Paris and London), this company may be right up my alley, and yours as well. Served at a recent gathering at a local bookstore in Greenwich, CT, Diane’s Books (I have now put this destination on my must-visit list as well), the tea came highly recommended.
~recipe for Patriotic Cheesecake Parfaits~
So, it’s hot. Excruciatingly hot, but the good news is that the weekend is here and hopefully you have access to either water to cool down in, great food to indulge in or cool accommodations to hide away in. Having returned to Oregon yesterday and being greeted by 105 temperatures, I am now escaping to a cooler place for a few days. The past week and a half has been amazing, and now my feet need a rest and so does my mind (and most importantly, I miss my boys).
Sometimes I think that is what summer holidays are all about, resting the mind. We all need to do this regularly, and as a result, our work, our relationships and ultimately, our lives benefit greatly. Whether you are stateside or an international reader, I hope you have plans in the next three months to get away or at least slow down. If nothing else to catch up on sleep and your thoughts to assess the goals you have been working so tremendously hard to forge forward towards. Sometimes we need a rerouting, but often, we just need a rest to allow us to rev our engines back up. Have a wonderful weekend, and enjoy a bit of reading material below. Until Monday (as the podcast will return!), bon weekend!
~Having just returned from traveling from one coast to the next, this article – 15 Reasons Why Frequent Travelers Are More Likely to be Successful – caught my eye
~A thoughtful response to Justice Kennedy’s commentary on the gay marriage decision from a single person’s perspective: The Lonely Heart’s Club
~Take a look at the schedules of highly successful people. You might be surprised and inspired of how so much is in each of our reach.
~American Ballet Theater announced unprecedented news on Tuesday involving Misty Copeland. Certainly a reminder of tending to our dreams and being unrelenting in the pursuit.
~Mental strength allows for so much more contentment in our lives; read this post to be inspired to strengthen the muscle of your mind – 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do
~Short and Powerful: 10 Ways Happy People Choose Happiness
~Monday may be a few days away, so save reading this article until Sunday evening for your dose of inspiration: 7 Monday Morning Habits of Highly Successful People
~THIS & THAT POSTS FROM THE ARCHIVES:
~No. 164: jazzy French tunes, a great summer read, a great summer straw hat and more
~No. 163: a cotton robe to luxuriate in, PBS’s return of a favorite, a simple sandal and more
~No. 162: a lovely French rom-com, a travel book for fellow Francophiles, a blues/jazz record to add to your collection and more
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July 2, 2015
Thoughts from the Editor: New Canaan Book Signing
As I mentioned in Monday’s post, traveling always brings with it many life lessons, and my jaunt to New Canaan, Connecticut, provided many to revel in, absorb and now to the task applying. With fewer than 20,000 people fortunate to call this gem of a New England town home, New Canaan should be put on your list of places to visit. In the few short hours that I had the opportunity to visit for TSLL book signing at Elm Street Books, I was in awe, and wish I had had more time to peruse, and take a tour of this amazing house.
The signing, attendance and conversation that transpired this past Saturday far exceeded my expectations, and as I mentioned in this Instagram post as I took the North Metro train back to Manhattan, it will remain as a beautiful memory for much time to come.
Prior to the signing, having arrived a few hours early, I took a walk through the nearby neighborhood streets and captured some images of the homes that caught my eye. It was rare for a house not grab my attention, and with the lush yards and foliage, every home was a treat to behold.
As the signing began, I was eager to be situated outside in front of the store as I was able to meet and talk to locals and tourists as they strolled Elm Street which is sprinkled with boutiques, coffee and sweet shops, stationery stores, decor and gourmet grocers and antique shops. However, the weatherman had other plans, as the sprinkling of rain that would later in the afternoon become a torrential downpour, moved me inside.
Elm Street Books is the type of bookstore one might imagine when they conjure up an ideal local bibliophile’s dream. Small, but not too small, a plethora of variety for any predilection you might have and a staff that was regularly answering questions that locals had, clearly trusting their recommendations, of what to read for their particular tastes. Needless to say, I was in heaven, and had to pick up a few items of my own prior to leaving.
Below is a collection of images from shops I stopped into and highly recommend you visit as well. Enjoy a virtual tour of a small town that is truly simply luxurious.
Gingerbitz is situated on Elm Street directly across the street from Starbucks, and it is a sweet tooth’s haven. Opened in 2014 by baker Karen Zuckert and her husband Andrew, Karen has been baking for clients for more than 20 years, and much to the glee of locals and tourists, opened her French-esque aesthetic bakery which serves sandwiches, salads, cakes, cupcakes, quiches (my choice, and let me just say, melt-in-your mouth delicious), organic smoothies, coffee, tea and of course baked goods galore.
Let me for a moment speak to the hospitality of the shop. With fifteen classic bistro seats inside, I stepped through the door just as they were closing to pick up a very late lunch, and an opportunity to get out of the rain. Andrew and his staff, without hesitation served me the meal you see below and graciously invited me to stay and enjoy the space that truly feels much like a dream.
~Quiche Lorraine placed on a bed of spinach tossed with a delicious vinaigrette~
As I mentioned in this Instagram post, Saturday evening was the last day of my trip to Manhattan, and I was exhausted, so I decided to pop into the local recommended gourmet deli to pick up dinner to go. Garelick & Herbs, while I do like Whole Foods, put it to shame. Selecting a Dijonnaise salmon, paired with a broccoli rabe salad and a berry bar that had a puff pastry topping so buttery and flaky I was torn between eating it quickly and savoring it, complemented a most memorable day. Have a look at their catering menu here.
Recommended by a reader who is a resident of New Canaan, I stopped into Pimlico, an interior decor shop and design service boutique on the corner of Elm Street and South Ave. While my pictures inside do not do it justice, the eye of Melissa Lindsay, who has on her resume graphic design jobs for Vogue and New York, her taste, is a beautiful marriage of modern classic and cozy. With soft, cool colors appearing to be inspired by living near the ocean, to sound, ponderous statement pieces that garner conversation to begin much like the chandeliers on display, I was sure to take a card for potential purchase of items or maybe even design services via Skype.
Walking around the neighborhood gave me the opportunity to see a handful of homes that caught my attention.
And wouldn’t you know, shoes, shoemaking in fact, are at the root of the founding of New Canaan. Whether I was influenced by this fact or simply just love to shop, I stopped into Walin & Wolff and took advantage of a current shoe sale of top designer shoes. Thankfully they were able to ship to Oregon free of charge because the deals I found were quite nice.
~Walin & Wolff, clothing and shoe boutique~
Sometimes when I travel, I discover new destinations and exhibits that I wish I had put on my itinerary. One such destination was Philip Johnson’s famed Glass House. Only available to see with a scheduled tour, you may recognize the home, as one reader informed me, from the pages of Vogue as they have used it numerous times for editorial photo shoots. The history is worth reading about even if you will not be able to visit in person, but rest assured, I will return and see it with my own eyes someday. (The images below are from The Glass House website, visit here.)
To and from, the trip began in Grand Central Terminal (below). Such an effortless way to commute, and with the train literally stopping (dead-ending) at the beginning of Elm Street in New Canaan, you can’t help but be urged to hop on the Metro-North line (transfer at Stamford station). While you can purchase your tickets (buy off-peak to save money) at the station, you can also purchase them on-line a few days in advance (they mail them to you), and save a few bucks for a round-trip ticket. (I need to thank Tiffani and Carolyn for giving me tips and advice on how to make a successful trip; I had a lot of questions, having never left the city before, and their patience was much appreciated.)
~POSTS FROM THE ARCHIVES OF PAST STOPS ON TSLL BOOK TOUR:
~Thoughts from the Editor: The Bookloft (Hometown Book Signing)
~Thoughts from the Editor: New Orleans
All images, except The Glass House or Johnson House by Philip Johnson, taken by TSLL iPhone 6
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July 1, 2015
Decor Inspiration: A Restful Manse
Notice the Chinese guard dog (Fu dogs) bookends on the mantle. And now, imagine me kicking myself. As I spent time in New Canaan, Connecticut, last weekend, I stopped into a delightful antique shop, and what caught my eye? What prompted the owner to engage with me conversation? Drop the price even? A similar, nearly identical pair of 19th century bookends. Now, if we’re being honest, I probably couldn’t have afforded them, but they, of all the items in the shop, caught my eye, and I missed my chance should I have wanted to take it. But enough with my woes.
Interior designer Jimmy Stanton, whose shop, Stanton Home Furnishings in Atlanta, Georgia, demonstrates his well-trained eye for blending traditional items with unique and found objects in his Madison 1831 Greek Revival abode. Featured in Atlanta Homes & Lifestyles this past April, each room is warm, yet cool and tranquil. From the light fixtures to the upholstered chairs, I especially adore the round mirror above the buffet in the dining room and the velvet sofa in the sitting room. Another room choice I have been noticing in many guest rooms is the pairing of twin beds. I find this to be a brilliant use of space, and while not often considered, is something that opens up a home to more guests, while incorporating symmetry that draws the eye. Perhaps it is just me, but I quite like this. But there is so much more to enjoy and be inspired by. On with the tour!
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Word of the Week: No. 9
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