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An Introvert’s Guide to Mental Health During the Holidays

Thanksgiving is in the rearview, but for introverts (and my fellow extroverted introverts), the chaotic holiday season is just beginning. Invites to work events, friends’ parties, and family dinners are slowly cluttering our inboxes, and sometimes our mental health doesn’t want to hit RSVP. But never fear because therapists are here!

I called up Eidit Choochage, a licensed therapist and life coach who specializes in anxiety, for help, so here’s her advice on how to brace for the oncoming onslaught of eggnog and ugly sweaters, and protect your mental health during the holidays. (Disclaimer: Eidit is also my personal life coach, but our discussion was strictly an interview on general mental health tips for the holiday season.)

1. Acknowledge that it’s normal to feel stressed.

The holidays put a strain on everything, so not feeling cheery 24/7 is totally expected. “The holidays are difficult for a majority of people, especially folks who might experience social anxiety or lean towards being an introvert,” Eidit says. “It’s a marathon of events between work, family, and friends. And if you’re in a relationship, you have your partner’s family, friends, and work events.”

All that busyness takes a toll on our mental health, which is why a 2019 study found that 88% of Americans consider this to be the most stressful time of the year. It’s not just you, and you’re not the only one that thinks It’s Beginning to Look a Lot Like Christmas should be renamed to It’s Beginning to Look a Lot Like Stress Sweats.

2. Say no to events that aren’t a priority.

It’s difficult to get out of your family’s holiday dinner, but your neighbor’s cookie swap? Easy. As invites roll your way, set some boundaries for your schedule so your calendar doesn’t get dangerously crowded. “If an event is going to add more stress on top of the family and the friends, then just decline it,” Eidit suggests. “We think people are going to be so mad at us if we don’t go, but more people are understanding that others are prioritizing their mental health.”

If you’re saying no to someone on your periphery, an explanation isn’t always necessary. Although, if it’s a friend whose feelings could be hurt by the response, Eidit recommends saying something along the lines of, “Hey, I’m really pacing myself this holiday season to take care of myself, so, unfortunately, I won’t be able to make this event.” You can always top off the explanation with an invitation to reconnect in the new year when you’re more available.

 

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3. Schedule extra self-care time.

Once you’ve cleared up space in your schedule, pop in some extra me-time. If you enjoy a long bath once a week, add an extra sesh before your friend’s Hanukkah party. Is binge-watching TV more your speed? Save the weekly episode till the night after an event so you have a destressing activity ready to go. Like Eidit says, this season is a marathon, so making sure there are some water stations along the way in the form of hot yoga or a cool swim is essential. (Personally, Eidit is a fan of the Calm app and says throwing on a free 5-minute video helps ground her before an outing.)

4. Give yourself an out.

Okay, so you’ve meditated, and now you’re getting ready for the big, cookie-filled night. If you still can’t find that party spirit, only commit yourself to part of the evening. Eidit says, “Sometimes when we think about going to the gym, it’s enough to say we’re just going for 10 minutes. Then once they’re actually there, people tend to stay longer. In the same way, just tell yourself that you’ll go for one hour. Giving yourself that mental permission to leave at any point can be enough of a motivator to go.”

If you hit that hour and actually warmed up to the setting, stay as long as your little heart can take it (or at least until Mariah Carey comes on). If you didn’t have a ball, Eidit says getting the negative energy out of your body through movement can help you wind down. Go for a walk or follow a stretching video, then you can also soothe your mind with a “soul-care” activity like journaling. “You’re taking care of your nervous system by doing things that feel safe to you. I definitely encourage some type of movement or breathwork coupled with your favorite things like a hot shower or face mask,” she says.

5. If drama starts, don’t participate.

If your major concern is clashing with friends or family, the most important thing to remember is that while you can’t control other people’s actions, you can control how you respond to them. We all have that aunt or colleague that just loves to get under our skin, but it’s not our job to feed into their toxicity. As Eidit reminds us, “We’re giving that person all the power by engaging in that back-and-forth. Just say, ‘I’m not in the mood to talk about that right now’ until they drop it.”

Another of Eidit’s tips is to imagine an invisible bubble around you, then visualize their comments bouncing off without ever reaching you. You can also take a few minutes outside to practice some breathwork and get out of that heated headspace. “You’re setting boundaries and teaching people how to treat you,” she explains. “That takes more emotional energy, but if you’re going to be in that space anyway, shutting it down then and there is going to protect your energy.”

Introverts, do what you need to protect your mental health during the holidays.

 

Hopefully these tips help to not just survive the holiday season, but to fully enjoy it. Protecting your mental health during the holidays is key to being present and making the most of your time with family and friends, especially if you are more of an introvert. So, set those boundaries and give yourself a little extra love.

 

Let’s Make a Christmas Tree Charcuterie Board

Trader Joe’s hooked us up again! This time, with a Christmas Tree Charcuterie Board so gorgeous, it’s sure to be the focal point of your holiday party. The only downside is, it might not last long when everyone gathers around to chat and snack at the tasty assortment of meats, cheeses and other snacks.

All of the ingredients for this board can be found in one trip to Trader Joe’s, but Don’t worry if you don’t have a TJ’s near you—moving nearby one mayyy be tempting, but not necessary—you can find similar ingredients at another store and follow along with the assembly of this cute as can be charcuterie tree for your next holiday party.

What is charcuterie anyway?

Let’s get technical juuust for a sec before we get to the fun stuff. Charcuterie is a French tradition of “preparing and assembling cured meats and meat products. Charcuterie-style meat and cheese boards have become very popular outside of France, and the idea of charcuterie has evolved to include many foods besides meat. Today, it’s common for a charcuterie board to contain an assortment of cheeses, artisan bread, olives, fruit, and nuts.”

Anything goes!

The most fun part about assembling a charcuterie board is that you really can’t mess it up. You can pair sweet and savory, meats and cheeses, and even sprinkle in some chocolate and nuts, if you so choose.

The assembly is the most fun part! I went with a holiday tree theme, but as long as you have a large board and enough colors, textures and variety, yours is sure to be a show-stopper at your next party!

Our charcuterie board picks

Like I mentioned before, everything here is actually from Trader Joe’s! They sell a package of assorted meats labeled specifically for charcuterie (makes things soo easy). This board features savory, tangy and sweet items, most of which were selected to be not as conventional as most of the boards we see out there filled with meat, cheese and olives.

It seemed a bit more festive and fun to go with some sweet items for the holidays, especially for any parties where kids are invited.

Be sure to buy an assortment of delicious crackers or crostini, a few different meat selections, and a couple good cheeses. TJ’s cranberry chevre and white stilton with cranberries are absolutely delicious and add a hint of tang and sweetness, which pair nicely with the meats.

Assemble your Christmas Tree Charcuterie Board

Grab the following items and assemble in order starting at the bottom for the tree trunks. With each layer, get a bit smaller and thinner so that it becomes a triangle “tree.”

The meats come in a circular shape so it’s easy to pinch the bottoms and create small flower shapes for an adorable presentation.

Sharp Cheddar Cheese TwistsYogurt Covered PretzelsCranberry Chevre, slicedPistachio Pomegranate Crisp CrackersCharcuterie meats, twisted to look like flowersGrapesWhite Stilton Cheese With Cranberries, cubedSesame Honey CashewsMore meat “roses”Chocolate Covered AlmondsMeat roseDried cranberries (for sprinkling on top)Fresh rosemary sprigs to decorate

This Christmas Tree Charcuterie board could not be any cuter for your next holiday party! Comment below what your favorite charcuterie ingredients are and maybe we’ll make another board soon!

15 Gifts for the Mom Who Says She Doesn’t Want Anything

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The holiday season is in full swing—and as usual, arrived here faster than we expected (or so it seems)! This means…shopping, shopping, more shopping…and sipping (wine, of course, to get through those stressful moments, although we do prefer a good workout!)

Here’s a gift idea round-up to help you out with the person who deserves the most, but isn’t always the easiest to shop for – mom!

1. A gift she’ll cherish all year

Artifact Uprising Desktop Photo Calendar – $35

Two things basically all moms love: photos and a way to organize upcoming events. This walnut desktop calendar by Artifact Uprising does both beautifully. Use photos recapping the year, cute pics of her grandkids, memories from a special trip, or classic oldies that you both love. Whatever you decide to use, your mom will cherish this gift all year.

2. Something to cozy up with

Saatva Diamond Knit Blanket – Starting at $165

Wintertime is synonymous with snuggling up on the couch or bed with a lightweight knit blanket. Bonus points if it’s made from 100% cotton. 

Literally every time you wash this hypoallergenic blanket, it gets softer and softer. It can be used underneath a duvet cover, as a blanket to lay at the foot of your bed, or as a comforter alternative. This isn’t just your average run-of-the-mill blankie—it’s bound in a sturdy cotton twill, giving it a touch of elegance, so it looks nice when neatly folded up on the sofa when not wrapped all around your body.

3. Kicks for kicks

Woolloomooloo Belmont Shoe – $150

If you prefer casual, everyday shoes that aren’t clunky, cumbersome, and rubber-dominated sneakers, you’ll jump high for these super comfortable no-socks-needed kicks. Made with 100% Merino Wool, making them super comfortable, lightweight, and breathable, these shoes are the epitome of looking good while feeling good.

Great for your travels through airports and on daily errands, these will be your “chilling out” shoes of choice when not working out, or when your feet need a break from traditional athletic shoes.

4. Luscious Lip Balm

Vacation Lip Trips Desserts – $25

Do you ever feel like your lip balm—and I bet you’ve tried many over the years–actually dries your lips out instead of making them pillowy-plush and dewey? Yeah, me too.

There’s finally a collection of balms on the market that taste good enough to eat (but don’t!) AND leave your lips super soft and hydrated. These five, dessert-inspired balms have a very gentle, subtle scent that isn’t overpowering and an SPF 30 for sun protection, which is crucial even in the winter.

It’s also vegan, cruelty-free, glides on smoothly without clumping, and doesn’t contain any icky chemicals.

5. A replacement for her old school iron

Nori Press – $120

I can’t ever figure out why my clothes wrinkle easily even when I hang them up. An old-school iron is so clunky I don’t even want to bother with it, plus it always leaks.

This steamer has been a fashion lifesaver and saves me a trip to the professionals. Plus, it’s so easy to transport. It presses, steams, and refreshes clothes for the whole family, and you don’t have to whip out an annoying ironing board. It has six different heating settings for all sorts of fabrics, automatic safety shut-off when not in use, and two aluminum plates to iron both front and back at the same time. Game changer.

6. A huggable hoodie

POPFLEX Cloud Hoodie – $70

Everyone needs a sweatshirt they wear so often it starts looking strange if they’re NOT wearing it. Also, as fun as it is to dress up and head out, there’s nothing like vegging out in comfy sweats.

Described by a fan as “baggy in all the right places,” this super oversized zip-front jacket with pockets feels like a warm hug on a cold day. From POPFLEX, it comes in plenty of shades, and even the hood part is extra large. This one sells out often, so grab it before it goes fast.

7.  An at-home facial tool

SkinGym VODA Facial Steamer – $60

There are three types of people in this world: those who love facials, those who don’t, and those who love them but use a facial steamer at home in-between professional visits to clear out their pores, as well as their sinuses.

Facial steamers keep skin glowing, moisturized, super clean–and honestly, when used properly (as in, don’t get TOO close), the steam feels amazing on the face. This spa-quality one from VODA opens pores and leaves your skin feeling baby-bum soft.

8. Some TLC for winter skin

The Body Shop Wild Pine Gift Set – $26

This set from The Body Shop features three winter skin essentials: Shower Gel, Body Lotion-to-Oil, and Hand Balm. Each of these treats is vegan, and made with high quality, moisture rich ingredients like Trade shea butter from Ghana. And can we talk about the scent?! The pine essential oil is invigorating and fresh. This festive scent combined with the cute, done-for-you packaging makes this the perfect gift for mom.

9. A stylish and motivating bracelet

Chelsea Charles Count Me Healthy Bracelet – $89

It’s hard to find high-quality jewelry you can dress up or down. To me, it feels like most accessories look low quality or just don’t “go” with the casual vibe of your clothing. This Count Me Healthy Bracelet Collection by designer Chelsea Charles caught my eye because the bracelets look solid, trendy, and go with all of your mom’s favorite outfits.

Selena Gomez is a fan of this brand, and each bead on the wristlet represents a different personal goal you set for yourself, such as walking every day to getting 8 hours of sleep per night. The beads stay in place until you move them yourself. Set healthy goals, get inspired, and look fab!

10. Earbuds that actually stay in

Raycon Earbuds – $90

On flights or road trips, when listening to podcasts, music or eBooks, do you ever start fidgeting with your earbuds because they just aren’t very comfortable? Yeah, me too. If you aren’t into bulky headphones, and really want buds that fit into both your pocket and your travel tote try these everyday Raycon earbuds that come in a variety of colors.

Designed to never fall out, these mini speakers pack a lot of punch and deliver crisp, powerful sound. Water resistant, they come with 3 sound profiles and a long-lasting battery life of more than 30 hours.

11. Something to freshen up her home gym

Blogilates Dumbbells – Starting at $15

I confess: Working out can be a real pain sometimes. It’s hard to find motivation to get up and just DO it, especially when you just want to lounge on the couch and binge Netflix in the cold weather. You can make that motivation a LOT easier with some kick-ass dumbbells you can’t find anywhere but at Target thanks to Blogilates’ exclusive workout gear and accessories collection.

These gold-toned weights are so darn cool your mom will smile when you see and use them because the traditional black gym ones are so boring. Sturdy, long-lasting, and awesome for upper and lower body toning, these hands weights (available in 3, 5, 8, 10 and 15 lbs) make working out—dare I say it?—freakin’ FUN.

12. The hair tool she didn’t know she needed

Hair Detangling Brush – $12

Hair is notoriously knotty for moms, especially in the back. Chances are she’s a) tossing it up in a messy bun using cheapy rubber bands b) sleeping on a cotton instead of silk pillowcase and c) not using enough or the proper conditioner when washing her tresses. Thankfully, there’s a brush combo on the market that combs out all those gnarly knots in your hair, which can also be caused by sweat and stress.

It works on all hair types including thin, curly, afro, and fine, can also be used on kids, and leaves hair tangle-free, healthier, and smooth. Great on wet or dry hair, the brush unravels your knots instead of tugging at them. This brush and comb set from Lily England sells out fast, so buy it ASAP; available in a variety of colors.

13. The ultimate travel set

Cure Travel Essentials Bundle –$50

When traveling for the holidays, mom will need some additional hydration to arrive at her destination feeling recharged, refreshed, and rejuvenated—especially her skin. Of course, drinking water is a must, but if she’s the type that can’t stand water and need a little kick in hers, pour some electrolyte mixes into your water for an extra boost of TLC. (And yes, electrolytes also curbs hangovers.) This on-the-go set from CURE contains four electrolyte mix flavors: Berry Pomegranate, Orange, Lime, and Watermelon Electrolyte, as well as a cute travel case, satin eye mask, peppermint gum, and more.

14. The perfect kitchen towels

Thyme & Sage Kitchen Towel Set – $36

There’s just something about the perfect kitchen towel – and moms know the struggle to find one. This set by Thyme & Sage comes with three towels, and each one has a specific purpose. One is designed for cleaning messes, one is tasks like covering rising dough and ringing out spinach. The third is “The multitasker,” designed to sling over your shoulder and use for everything else. Not only is this trio of towels genius, but they’re also super cute.

15. The experience of audiobooks

Audible Gift Subscription – Starting at $15

This gift for moms who don’t want anything is kind of like thousands of gifts in one. With a gift membership (ranging from one to twelve months), your mom will have access to Audible’s expansive catalogue of audiobooks, podcasts, and more. You can also gift individual books if you have something specific in mind.

That wraps up our picks for gifts for mom who doesn’t want anything

Hopefully this list helps you find something special! If you have any other go-to gift ideas for moms, let me know in the comments!

 

Gifts for Book Lovers (That Aren’t Books)

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It’s that time of year again – the holidays are here and it’s time to shop!

Do you have a book lover on your list? While you could get them a gift card to your local or favorite online bookstore, you might want to consider something a little more interesting this year. Can’t think of a creative book idea that isn’t a book? Don’t worry, we did all the legwork for you!

Here are 13 gifts for book lovers, that aren’t books.

1. A mug to cozy up with

Rifle Paper Company Book Club Porcelain Mug – $22

Oh what fun – an adorable mug that book lovers will appreciate, from Rifle Paper Company. Featuring the brand’s iconic illustrations of classic volumes and a chic gold handle, this mug is perfect for coffee or tea. Include a few pens or pencils with your gift and it can even be used as a desk accessory.

2. Soft hands for turning pages

L’Avant Collective Hand Lotion – $32

Dry hands can be a hazard of turning pages, so a quality hand cream is a must. L’Avant Collective Hand Lotion comes in a chic glass pump bottle that looks beautiful on a nightstand or bathroom vanity. With a clean formula that’s moisturizing, but never greasy, it has a fresh linen scent that smells like a five-star hotel.

3. Something special to hold their place

Tiffany And Company Elsa Peretti Heart Bookmark – $60

Know someone who “hearts” books? Let them know how much you heart them with this chic Tiffany bookmark. Luxe, yet surprisingly accessible, it can even be engraved with the recipient’s name, monogram, or symbol. It’s a keepsake they can truly for years to come.

4. Luxurious PJs

Eberjey Gisele Long PJ Set – $138

There’s nothing as comfy as putting on pajamas and reading, and Eberjey is known for having some of the softest most luxurious PJs out there. This long set is ultra cozy for staying warm on those cold winter nights.

5. The softest lounging robe

Cozy Earth Bamboo Kimono Robe – $130

Cozy Earth robes are a universally appreciated gift. Perfect for book lovers or just about anyone, these solid, stretchy robes are great to wear over pajamas, sweats, or even to sleep in. Available in a range of sizes and grey, black, and ivory colors, there isn’t one person on your list who wouldn’t appreciate this present.

6. A portable book light

Vekkia/LuminoLite Rechargeable Book Light – $17

A book light is one of the most foolproof gifts for book lovers. This highly rated and affordable lamp is great for late-night reading without disturbing your partner, during blackouts or just to use when turning on and off a larger light is too much effort.

7. A cute and cozy blanket

Lonely Ghost Red Checkered Blanket – $139

What book lover wouldn’t like curing up in a blanket with their favorite book? This ultra-plush throw from Lonely Ghost is one of the coziest options out there. The checkerboard design is fun and ideal for the holidays as well as all year round. 

8. At-home cold brew

Javy Cold Brew Coffee Concentrate – $22

There’s nothing harder than leaving the house to go out and get a cold brew when you’re really into your latest book. So why go out at all when you can make delicious cold brew coffee at home with Javvy? Choose from Original, decaf, Mocha, or French Vanilla flavors, or opt for a variety pack.

9. A cute reason to read in bed

Urban Outfitters Laurie Bed Tray – $99

Know a book lover that likes to read in bed? Why not elevate their experience with the Laurie Bed Tray? This stylish rattan tray holds a book, journal, and perhaps a small plate for a muffin or snack. They will think of you every time they use it.

10. Something to hold their collection

Threshold Soapstone Bookends – $28

If you’re friends with a book lover who insists on reading only paper books (no e-readers!), she probably has shelves of them. These sleek soapstone bookends from Target might only be $28 for the pair (not a typo!), but they add a fancy decorative touch to any space.

11. The best gift for booklovers who travel

Amazon Kindle Paperwhite Signature Edition – $140

But for those who prefer e-books, there’s no better gift than a Kindle. This model is 6.8 inches, making it very easy to read everything from a hot celebrity memoir to a wild romance novel. With a whopping 32 gigabytes of memory, there’s plenty of space to store a library of books without needing to keep anything on the cloud. It also has wireless charging and a generous battery life of up to ten weeks. 

12. A necessity for audiobooks

LG Tone Headphones – $100

When it’s hard to sit down and take the time to read, audiobooks can be a smart alternative. So why not give an audiobook lover a new set of earbuds? These LG Tone Headphones are reasonably priced, high quality, and compatible with both iPhones and Androids.

13. A candle to set the vibe

Homesick Book Club Candle – $38

While book lovers will easily appreciate a candle, what could be more appropriate than Homesick’s Book Club Candle? Featuring notes of orange, nutmeg, vanilla, cinnamon, and sandalwood, it smells like a club we’d certainly want to join.

What are your go-to gifts for book lovers?

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The Blogilates December 2022 Workout Calendar!

Hey guys!

Happy DECEMBER! I have to be honest… I was starting to get that feeling of “omg it’s already the end of the year and ahhh I’m not ready!” …which is totally normal right? How does December always sneak up on us like this?!

Anyways, that feeling transformed into pure excitement after I announced my Dream Grant yesterday!! Seeing everyone’s dreams pour in, and knowing that I’ll be witnessing some of those come to life has me feeling so inspired and looking forward to the next few weeks.

Annnnnd now I get to share the December Workout Calendar with you?!  

Yayyy so many fun things! Let’s check it out!

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How to follow the December Workout Calendar

Check the Blogilates YouTube playlists to find all of the videos you need for this month’s calendar!!

OR you can get everything you need (and more motivational tools!) on the BODY By Blogilates app! If you don’t have the app yet, it will making following along to this month’s workouts even easier! You can access not only the calendar, but all of the videos in one place! Find challenges and free programs like the Glow up Sessions and the 200 Ab Challenge there too!

Now that you know where to find your workouts, here’s what you can expect each day of the December Workout Calendar. You ready?!!!

SUNDAY: Recovery
MONDAY: Total Body
TUESDAY: Abs
WEDNESDAY: Booty
THURSDAY: Total Body
FRIDAY: Arms
SATURDAY: Legs & Thighs

Do each video once (unless otherwise stated) and check off as you go! Most days will be around 45 min of exercise.

If you get the BODY By Blogilates app, your workout calendar and workouts will all be in one place! And it’s so fun and motivating to get that “Workout Complete” checkmark

If you’re just getting started or want to ease into working out, my Beginner’s Calendar is a great place to start! It’s a free 4-week program to get you stronger so that you can join in on the monthlies when you are ready.

Tell me about your end-of-year reflections! What did you accomplish this year?!

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The Dream Grant: Giving back to you, after you’ve given me so much

Hey guys!

I’ve never done anything this big before, but I’ve also never experienced growth as explosive as I did this year – for me as a designer and entrepreneur and for POPFLEX as a brand and company.

The fact that you choose to spend your hard earned dollars on POPFLEX means so much to me…especially when there are way bigger brands with stores that you could just walk into! But somehow you chose to give me a chance. You chose to trust me. You believed in me and because of that, I get to live out my dream every single day.

You made my dreams come true, and now I want to make yours come true too.

This year for #GivingTuesday, I am giving back to YOU.

 

 

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I set aside $20,000 to create a Dream Grant, with the purpose of helping you realize a dream in an area of self improvement where you currently don’t feel supported.

A lot of times dreams get crushed because your friends and family don’t believe in you or sometimes it’s just impossible to get a good idea off the ground because you don’t have that financial kickstart to get things going.

I get it. I know exactly what it feels like to want something so bad and to not have a single person support you. So let me be that person for you.

I am opening up applications for the Dream Grant today!

 

 

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The POPFLEX team and I will be selecting 4 recipients to receive a $5,000USD grant to help them realize their dream.

Here’s how to apply for the Dream Grant

1. Follow this link and fill out the application
2. Comment on social once you’ve submitted your app!
3. Follow @blogilates and @popflex_active

Easy!

Don’t wait though – applications are only open now through December 6, 2022 at 11:59 PST!

Share Your Dream

 

When the application period closes, the POPFLEX team and I will review the applications closely and then reach out to the finalists for next steps before publicly announcing the final four Dream Grant recipients.

I cannot WAIT to read your dreams!!! Let’s cheer each other on in the comments too!

 

 

 

 

 

 

13 Gifts for the Fitness Lovers in Your Life

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‘Tis the season…for finding the perfect gift for everyone on your list. The mission? The best gifts for fitness lovers.

It’s no surprise we have our fitness gifts dialed in, and we’re excited to help you nail the perfect present for your favorite exercise devotee. This year, our list consists of everything from sweat-inducing home gym accessories, nutrient-dense stocking stuffers and of course, recovery essentials to make your recipient’s next workout even more fire. 

Happy gifting!

1. A mat with plenty of space

POPFLEX Super Wide Vegan Suede Yoga Mat – $75

This luxe, super wide yoga mat is not only stunning, but it’s also extra roomy for yoga, pilates and strength training sets. The 32″ width gives you extra space to spread out and lengthen, while the velvety micro-suede gets grippier as you sweat for greater stability.

2. A stylish way to level up their workout

Bala Bangles – $65

Ankle and wrist weights got an upgrade with Bala. These sleek and stylish weighted bangles can be added for more resistance during yoga, boxing, pilates, core workouts and walks around the block. And, they are crafted with a comfortable soft silicone casing, so they won’t rub or chafe during sweat sessions.

3. An aesthetic (and powerful) blender

Beast Blender – $165 (now $132)

This compact and efficient countertop blender is made for crafting the perfect morning smoothie or post-workout protein shake. While the Instagram-famous Beast Blender is small, it’s mighty, so you can be sure your smoothie or shake won’t have any clumps or chunks. Best of all: it’s dishwasher-safe!

4. A stylish way to rock a high pony

POPFLEX Go With the Bow High Ponytail Cap – $32

Made for HIIT sessions in the park, long runs or even your daily Hot Girl Walk, this cute cap molds to your head with a functional, adjustable criss-cross bow, a flexible fabric top and an inner hidden sweatband. It has a customizable fit with a slot for a tall top knot and one for a sleek low pony so you can rock your workout look your way.

5. A new way to rest and recover

Yoga Wake Up Pillow + 3 Month App Subscription – $49

Yoga Wake Up’s audio-guided yoga and meditation are designed to help you quit the snooze button and kickstart your day with mindfulness, gentle in-bed stretching and goal setting. The app’s complementary acupressure pillow expedites muscle recovery, improves digestion and reduces stress, ensuring a great workout and positive mindset later on too.

6. Luxe clean body care

Kosasport Hot Body Team Set – $32

Stay so fresh and so clean with this luxe clean body care set. Kosas’ pampering dream team includes a gently exfoliating body gel cleanser to smooth out skin and unclog pores after the sweatiest of workouts, while the Chemistry AHA Serum Deodorant features notes of jasmine, sandalwood and vanilla for the ultimate odor-fighting fresh feeling.

7. Travel-friendly (and cute!) workout gear

Blogilates Loop Bands – $15

Crush home (or hotel!) workouts with these packable workout bands designed by Cassey. With four different resistance levels, these high-quality, yet lightweight bands can help target legs, thighs and glutes for an added burn.

8. An easy way to boost nutrition

Blogilates Glow Up Superfood Powder – $28

Blogilates Glow Up Superfood Powder contains 22+ fruits, veggies and superfoods, along with a unique prebiotic, probiotic blend, that provide key nutrients, increase energy levels and support digestion, setting you up for success in the gym and beyond. And, your recipient can scoop it into water, almond milk or a smoothie for a tropical taste of their own choosing.

9. An ultra-calming bath soak for muscle fatigue

Saje Muscle Melt – $20

Make the most of your rest days with this comforting bath soak crafted with revitalizing essential oils and salts. Muscle Melt’s sweet birch supports relief from soreness and fatigue, while its rosemary boosts low energy. Trust us: this is what’s missing from your fitness lover’s self-care ritual.

10. Ultra-cute running shoes

Lululemon Blissfeel Running Shoes – $148

Treat the runner in your life to these new kicks designed specifically for women. These technical and ultra-cute shoes fit snugly and mold to your feet for a supportive fit during sprints, long runs or the commute to and from the gym. Plus, the super soft tuned foam cushioning absorbs impact for a light and springy feel.

PS – A runner and member of the Blogilates team just put these shoes to the ultimate test! You can read her full review here.

11. A WFH fitness accessory

Under Desk Treadmill – $220

Boss babe meets fitness with this office accessory. This anti-slip and shock-absorbing desk treadmill can slide under your workstation to help you get your steps in while working on spreadsheets. It’s speed function is easily adjustable so you can take your steps at your own pace.

12. A bag that goes from gym to everyday

POPFLEX Sloane Tote – $95

This bag does it all. From the gym to errands, or even as a carry-on, the Sloane tote will become your go-to bag. It has pockets for your water bottle, laptop and phone, and even a secret sleeve for your yoga mat.

13. An upgrade to your foam roller

Symbodi Vertiball – $50

No need to roll around on the floor with a tennis ball, or ask your partner to work out your tight muscles. This gift for fitness lovers will quickly become an essential. It easily attaches to the wall (and comes off just as easily) so you can easily target any area that needs some extra love. Plus, it’s travel friendly!

What are your go-to gifts for fitness lovers?

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11 Gifts for the Fitness Lovers in Your Life

*This post may contain referral links for products we love, and all opinions are our own. Blogilates.com earns a small commission from these links, at no additional cost to you.

‘Tis the season…for finding the perfect gift for everyone on your list. The mission? The best gifts for fitness lovers.

It’s no surprise we have our fitness gifts dialed in, and we’re excited to help you nail the perfect present for your favorite exercise devotee. This year, our list consists of everything from sweat-inducing home gym accessories, nutrient-dense stocking stuffers and of course, recovery essentials to make your recipient’s next workout even more fire. 

Happy gifting!

1. A mat with plenty of space

POPFLEX Super Wide Vegan Suede Yoga Mat – $75

This luxe, super wide yoga mat is not only stunning, but it’s also extra roomy for yoga, pilates and strength training sets. The 32″ width gives you extra space to spread out and lengthen, while the velvety micro-suede gets grippier as you sweat for greater stability.

2. A stylish way to level up their workout

Bala Bangles – $65

Ankle and wrist weights got an upgrade with Bala. These sleek and stylish weighted bangles can be added for more resistance during yoga, boxing, pilates, core workouts and walks around the block. And, they are crafted with a comfortable soft silicone casing, so they won’t rub or chafe during sweat sessions.

3. An aesthetic (and powerful) blender

Beast Blender – $165 (now $132)

This compact and efficient countertop blender is made for crafting the perfect morning smoothie or post-workout protein shake. While the Instagram-famous Beast Blender is small, it’s mighty, so you can be sure your smoothie or shake won’t have any clumps or chunks. Best of all: it’s dishwasher-safe!

4. A stylish way to rock a high pony

POPFLEX Go With the Bow High Ponytail Cap – $32

Made for HIIT sessions in the park, long runs or even your daily Hot Girl Walk, this cute cap molds to your head with a functional, adjustable criss-cross bow, a flexible fabric top and an inner hidden sweatband. It has a customizable fit with a slot for a tall top knot and one for a sleek low pony so you can rock your workout look your way.

5. A new way to rest and recover

Yoga Wake Up Pillow + 3 Month App Subscription – $49

Yoga Wake Up’s audio-guided yoga and meditation are designed to help you quit the snooze button and kickstart your day with mindfulness, gentle in-bed stretching and goal setting. The app’s complementary acupressure pillow expedites muscle recovery, improves digestion and reduces stress, ensuring a great workout and positive mindset later on too.

6. Luxe clean body care

Kosasport Hot Body Team Set – $32

Stay so fresh and so clean with this luxe clean body care set. Kosas’ pampering dream team includes a gently exfoliating body gel cleanser to smooth out skin and unclog pores after the sweatiest of workouts, while the Chemistry AHA Serum Deodorant features notes of jasmine, sandalwood and vanilla for the ultimate odor-fighting fresh feeling.

7. Travel-friendly (and cute!) workout gear

Blogilates Loop Bands – $15

Crush home (or hotel!) workouts with these packable workout bands designed by Cassey. With four different resistance levels, these high-quality, yet lightweight bands can help target legs, thighs and glutes for an added burn.

8. An easy way to boost nutrition

Blogilates Glow Up Superfood Powder – $28

Blogilates Glow Up Superfood Powder contains 22+ fruits, veggies and superfoods, along with a unique prebiotic, probiotic blend, that provide key nutrients, increase energy levels and support digestion, setting you up for success in the gym and beyond. And, your recipient can scoop it into water, almond milk or a smoothie for a tropical taste of their own choosing.

9. An ultra-calming bath soak for muscle fatigue

Saje Muscle Melt – $20

Make the most of your rest days with this comforting bath soak crafted with revitalizing essential oils and salts. Muscle Melt’s sweet birch supports relief from soreness and fatigue, while its rosemary boosts low energy. Trust us: this is what’s missing from your fitness lover’s self-care ritual.

10. Ultra-cute running shoes

Lululemon Blissfeel Running Shoes – $148

Treat the runner in your life to these new kicks designed specifically for women. These technical and ultra-cute shoes fit snugly and mold to your feet for a supportive fit during sprints, long runs or the commute to and from the gym. Plus, the super soft tuned foam cushioning absorbs impact for a light and springy feel.

PS – A runner and member of the Blogilates team just put these shoes to the ultimate test! You can read her full review here.

11. A WFH fitness accessory

Under Desk Treadmill – $220

Boss babe meets fitness with this office accessory. This anti-slip and shock-absorbing desk treadmill can slide under your workstation to help you get your steps in while working on spreadsheets. It’s speed function is easily adjustable so you can take your steps at your own pace.

What are your go-to gifts for fitness lovers?

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A Lululemon Shoe Review, After Hundreds of Miles of Testing

Welcome to my Lululemon shoe review where we will be reviewing the Chargefeel Low and the Blissfeel!

I’ve been testing 2 pairs of Lululemon shoes for hundreds of miles. Spoiler alert: I loved one, and the other… not so much.

A journey to find THE running shoe

I was 8 years old when I lined up at my first starting line, ready to race the Catalina Marathon’s Kid’s Mile (my mom was running the marathon but never mind that, this is about ME).

Strapped on my feet? My beloved red, white and sparkle Skechers platform sneakers, complete with a rhinestone heart shoe charm – the epitome of 2000’s style. Were they the most practical choice? No, but in the name of fashion they became my very first pair of running shoes.

As a lifelong runner, I longed for a stylish pair of running shoes like that first pair. Womens running shoes have always been very either or for me. They are either absolutely boring looking or very neon or have neon POPS of color – not my style.

My heart aches everytime I shell out cash to purchase another pair of ugly, but functional and supportive womens running shoes. I completed my first marathon this past summer in a great shoe… that was just not a cute shoe. I’d be lying if I said the lack of fusion between fashion and function doesn’t bother me. I am in a creative field – the aesthetics, they get to me.

I *gasped* when I saw Lululemon’s running shoe marketing

 

Was this what I had been waiting for? Lulu shoes?

I was first intrigued by the beautiful tones and sleek silhouette. Could this shoe be the answer to combining fashion and function? Would they be as good as my highly tested pair of go-to running shoes?

It’s hard to make that leap and try a different shoe when running shoes come at a high price point, especially after 20 years of caring for legs that have logged many miles. But the pull was too strong, they had to be put to the test.

First up, The Lululemon Chargefeel Low

Designed to be an everyday running shoe and training shoe, the Chargefeel “delivers the bounce you need for running and the agile support you need for training.”

Pros: Love the available colorways

How cute is that sage green colorway? I love how many neutral and cute tones these shoes were offered in! Easy to wear anywhere.

Cons: Many

Lacked support, lots of ground feel, little stride return, slippery laces

Half a mile into my first run, I turned to my husband and said “mmmm I don’t like these.” I was determined to give them an adequate chance, so I continued testing.

Running long distances in these felt like running in a shoe that was at the end of its life cycle. Every step was difficult, I felt little to no bounce in each step. When you’re on a long run, it’s amazing to feel your shoe working with you and these guys, they were working against me. When your legs are absolutely fried and you have half a mile left – that little bounce return makes all the difference.

These left me with tight calves, aching arches and heel pain that lasted through the day and into the next run. These are feelings I have when I’ve logged 300 miles in a shoe – feelings I do not expect in a brand new shoe. I even tried adding in some extra arch support which helped a bit, but not enough – the pain and lack of bounce prevailed.

I could not wait to reach that 100 mile testing period I had allotted myself so I could change out of these shoes. It actually took quite a while to make it through 100 miles because I kept switching back to my regular shoes in an attempt to spare my calves.

Where is that bounce, where’s the stride return, where’s the padding Chargefeel?!

Chargefeel Low takeaways

I would consider the Chargefeel for something less high impact than running looong distances. I never took these shoes on a run longer than 6 miles because I was worried about how my arches and calves would suffer.
If you are considering switching from your regular running shoe to these, don’t. They are very cute though so I am excited to have them – I will just be running errands in them, not miles

 

The Lululemon Blissfeel

After running in the Chargefeel, I was feeling quite skeptical about trying another Lululemon shoe. Lulu describes the Blissfeel as the everyday running shoe, specifically designed with a women’s foot in mind.

Pros: Highly supportive, so cute

These have exceeded my every expectation. THESE. These were what I was hoping for in the Chargefeel.

Functionality wise, the Blissfeel an excellent shoe. They are supportive, cushiony, and SO CUTE. My legs feel that bounce and return I felt the other lacked. My calves were not overly tight from lack of support. My feet felt enveloped in a cushion-y cute little package. Everytime I put them on – I was not only excited for another run in them, but was just so thrilled about how cute they are.

Over the testing period, I began to trust Lululemon shoes again. I could feel the shoes working with me, supporting every step, giving back that subtle bounce return I love so much. They carried me through many, many miles. I soared past my 100 mile text mark and am currently approaching the 300 mile mark.

Aesthetically – they are so cute! Definitely stylish, easy to wear on a run but also easy to wear in everyday life. I do wish my pair were a bit more subtle – the bright purple is a touch too much for me.

Cons: Not as many muted colors, slippery laces

The Blissfeels are still so aesthetic compared to the well known styles I’ve grown up with – but quite a few colorways are those neons I am so used to seeing. There are definitely some good more muted options though.

Something quite interesting but not a major red flag for me – both styles of Lulu shoes had really slippery laces. Just double knot them tight, and you’re FINE.

*This post may contain referral links for products we love, and all opinions are our own. Blogilates.com earns a small commission from these links, at no additional cost to you.

 

Blissfeel takeaways

I smiled every time I looked down at them. My heart felt full knowing that there on my feet was what I had been looking for since that Catalina Kid’s Marathon.My quest for the perfect running shoe has come to an end
I actually already have my next pair of Blissfeels waiting in the rafters for their turn to hit the pavement. The next pair of shoes to carry me that 26.2 will undoubtedly be Lululemon’s Blissfeels.

If you are also looking for the perfect fusion of fashion and function in a women’s running shoe – THESE ARE WORTH IT.

15 Bestie Gifts Your BFF Will Love Almost as Much as She Loves You

Picking the ultimate gift for your bestie can be tough, especially when holiday shopping madness hits. These 15 bestie gifts cover everyone on your list – from your friend who always hosts girls’ night to the BFF you drag out of the house because she’s cozied up to her fav puzzle.

Whether you’re ISO the perfect package for her to unwrap at your annual Secret Santa gathering or want to wow her with a luxurious dual Christmas-birthday treat, this list has options at a variety of price points.

Needless to say, your BFF’s gift is in the bag if you shop using this guide. But don’t sleep on these picks! Some items sell out annually, and some are on sale, so grab hers before they sell out.

1. A curated and aesthetically packed gift box

BOXFOX – From $35

For your bestie who loves a good aesthetic and a bit of variety in her life.  This women founded business gives near endless options to mix and match everything from gourmet chocolates and soy wax candles to plush blankets and decadent cookbooks — all packaged beautifully in one box with a custom card to your BFF, love YOU.

BOXFOX gives you the feeling of hand-selecting items for your bestie amongst a collection of premium, curated options. The company vets each partner brand, offering you a way to search their directory for products that give back, are eco-friendly or come from BIPOC or woman owned businesses.

As you build her box, the size will automatically adjust from “mini” to “regular” or “big,” always leaving room for more (or fewer) goodies. Now for the coolest part: this is a color-coded shopping experience. While you scroll through possible additions to her box – moving from beiges to whites, yellows, oranges and beyond – you can keep her gifts color coordinated.

If choosing a pre-curated box sounds more your jam for a bestie gift, the Holiday Collection offers many merry boxes filled with warmth and good tidings.

2. Something to brighten her space (and her day)

The Bouqs Co. Winter Bouquets – From $50

Nothing says love ya, gf like fresh blooms.

This classic delivery for friends near and far lets her know she’s top of mind this holiday season with fragrant arrival of budding flowers, beautiful packaging and a personalized note delivered to her doorstep.

The Bouqs Co.’s festive bouquets embody all-things-holiday, with bright red roses and winter white lilies. All bouquets are offered in three sizes, taking her florals from a classic-sized arrangement all the way to triple the number of blooms. Simply select her arrangement, choose an optional vase – which is perf so she can plop her flowers into water and feed them ASAP – and choose an arrival date.

Rather send greenery that may last for holidays to come? Choose from trees, dried flowers, or succulents.  

3. The gift of solid sleep

Brooklinen Mulberry Silk Eye Mask – $29

For your friend who is always ISO more restorative rest, now she can look cute while she recharges. Brooklinen’s Mulberry Silk Eye Mask is made from a luxurious charmeuse weave of 100% mulberry silk that protects skin and hair from friction damage, which we love!

It’s breathable yet insulated and cool to the touch, making it perfect for anyone who sleeps hot. The soft and gentle elastic band on this mask ensures comfy sleeping without leaving lines on her face (IYKYK).

All Brooklinen products are crafted from luxury materials and designed to last, meaning she’ll have support while she snoozes for years to come. The brand even cuts out unnecessary manufacturing costs as part of their promise to deliver top-quality products at reasonable prices – another reason that makes adding this eye mask to your cart easy for you and on your wallet.

4. A hoodie that feels like a hug

POPFLEX Pullover Cloud Hoodie – $75

This one’s for the cozy queens – the ladies who live in loungewear but still make it a lewk. If you want to give the gift of endless hugs this holiday, look no further than the Cloud Hoodie.

Designed to feel like the ultimate warm embrace, this pullover will be the softest new addition to her sweater collection and will quickly climb to the top of her fav’s list, guaranteed.

Featuring an oversized fit that gives borrowed-it-from-my-boyfriend, an XL hood, billowy sleeves and a kangaroo pocket, this hoodie is as luxurious in feel as it is functional. Its dual-sizing and intentional design to flatter a variety of body shapes makes it great if your friend is in-between sizes. Plus, it washes and dries well so keeping it clean with constant wear is no sweat. 

5. Her new favorite kitchen appliance

Dash Air Fryer – $50

Nothing spreads holiday cheer like cooking delicious food for all to…feast upon. Dash’s Air Fryer gives your foodie friend a quick way to whip-up her fav festive dishes and sweet treats with minimal mess and maximum flavor.

This 2.6 quart cooker uses hot air instead of oil to eliminate added fats in the cooking process. Whether your bestie wants to roast fresh chicken breasts, heat and crisp frozen french fries or even make a small batch of melt-in-your-mouth cookies, the options for air frying are endless.

It’s an addition every kitchen needs because it’s simple to use with only two dials – one for time and one for temperature. The auto-off function prevents overcooking, so if she happens to get swept up scrolling the ‘gram or is sucked into a Christmas movie, her dishes will still come out just right. With a compact footprint, adding this air fryer to her cookware lineup is a way to level-up her gear without overtaking cabinet or counter space.

6. That new skill she keeps saying she wants to learn

The Postman’s Knock Beginner’s Modern Calligraphy Online Course – $35 (plus optional supplies)

This is for the bestie who loves the art of writing. Or she’s simply a crafty gal who’s always taking on a new creative project.

Postman’s Knock’s beginner modern calligraphy class gives the opportunity for you two to take the class together from the comfort of her kitchen table. Or she can use the course as a solo wind down activity after wrapping up work for the day.

The self-paced class gives an in-person workshop feel without having to hustle to be anywhere on time. Avoiding extra appointments is because this is the busy szn, amirite?

Complete with six different lessons broken down into multiple videos, this course gives instant access to all content with unlimited viewing and no expiration, comes with a 35-page printable worksheet, is designed for both right and left-handed learners and comes with exhaustive help and technical support.

Overall video viewing is around 4.5 hours, making it possible to knock out the entire course in one afternoon if she wanted to bring her best girlies over for chilled spritzers, chocolate and calligraphy.

Just be sure to mark the event as BYOS (bring your own supplies)! The course comes with a list of needed supplies that she can purchase solo, or you can include either The Postman’s Knock set or a version from Amazon in her gift.  

7. A subscription she’ll enjoy every morning

Trade Coffee Gift Subscription – From $40

If she cherishes her morning coffee ritual above all else – or carries a to-go cup at all times – Trade’s coffee subscription is a no-brainer.

With over 450 coffee varieties available, Trade partners with 55+ of the country’s top indie roasters and hand selects the best beans for their subscribers to try. All beans are ethically sourced, giving her something worth drinking to.

With her gift subscription, she’ll simply take a short quiz that guides how Trade bundles her deliveries. In the questionnaire she’ll share everything from her preference on roast and bean type to the kind of coffee maker she’s married to. Endless love for her espresso?  All about the AeroPress? Can’t get enough cold brew? They have her covered.

Each bag is roasted to arrive fresh on her delivery date, and if she ever needs to change her cadence or skip a month, it’s a hassle-free process.

8. Something for your bestie’s bestie

Wild One Treat Pouch – $44

Does her typical weekend hangout include clinking glasses at a pup-friendly brewery or taking on a woodsy hike, fur baby in toe? If so, she needs this chic treat pouch.  

Crafted from 100% recycled post-consumer polyester using 10 plastic water bottles, Wild One’s treat pouch is designed with doggos and their humans in mind. Featuring a built-in poop bag dispenser and ample space for treats, keys and shades, it can be worn as a fanny pack or cross-body bag, making it easy to transition from exiting the trail to meeting up with friends at her local watering hole.

It’s available in 4 classic hues and multiple limited edition colors and prints, so she’ll love the look, no matter her playful, bold or monochrome style. 

9. The ultimate tool to crush her goals

POPFLEX Fit Planner – $43

This is her year to outline, honor and crush her fitness and day-to-day goals – and to have a cute planner to keep her on track.

From a general calendar and designated space for to-do lists to spots for meal prepping, goal check-ins, end of month recaps and even charting her cycle, POPFLEX’s Fit Planner consolidates all her important info for optimal scheduling and success.

Whether she’s already an organizer or her New Year resolution is to finally get clear on (and crush) her commitments, this 2023 planner is the ideal tool.

Move over Google Calendar and random iPhone notes!

Its sparkly aesthetic and spacious design leaves ample room to write, check off her to-do list, scribble reminders and put pen to paper for manifesting big dreams and staying aligned on goals.

PSA: this bestie gift idea is limited edition and sells out annually, so grab hers before they’re out of stock!

10. For the fashionista who loves the planet

Allbirds Wool Runner Mizzles – $125

Allbirds’ Wool Runner Mizzles deserve a place on her shoe rack. A wet-weather update to their signature style, these lace-ups feature water-repellent technology that keeps her feet dry and extra traction on their soles to grip slippery surfaces.

Whether she’s headed out in the snow or wandering through slush, the warm premium ZQ Merino wool keeps her feet cozy and dry.

These shoes made from sustainable materials include FSC-certified natural rubber outsoles, castor bean oil-based insole foam, a bio-based shield treated with fluorine-free water repellent coating and Merino wool that meets the highest standards of animal welfare, environmental care and social sustainability. She’ll be stepping out in style without sacrificing functionality or comfort this winter – and taking steps toward supporting Mother Earth. 

11. The ultimate bestie gift

Little Words Project Bracelets – From $25

A modern update to timeless bestie bracelets, these pieces of jewelry are oh-so-trendy right now.

Made from near endless combinations of beads that are both colorful and spell out single words or inspiring phrases, Little Words Project’s signature bracelets are great for girlfriends who dig arm candy. Whether you surprise her with a matching pair that reads FAM or create a custom stack with your inside nicknames nodding to core mems, these dainty pieces are easy to rock with any fit.

Remember: you can always layer up her wrist for other occasions, adding onto her holiday gift – think birthdays, graduations and other celebratory milestones.

Little Words Project’s mission is to inspire people to be kind to themselves and others, one positive bracelet at a time. With a sweet aesthetic and a mission full of heart, what’s not to love?   

12. For the bestie who loves to entertain

Monogrammed Serving Board – $50

Does she love to entertain and is always the hostess with the mostest? This eye-catching, personalized serving board is sure to be the star of her next charcuterie spread.

Crafted with renewable mango wood and bright white marble, this board brings a personal touch with an inlaid brass initial. It’s a great size and shape to decorate with spreads, crackers, meats, cheeses, nuts and jams. As the bites are gobbled up – because they always are – the board’s artistic look is revealed.

When she’s not entertaining, this board makes a beautiful statement piece for your bestie’s kitchen. Guests will be asking where she got this beauty for years to come.

13. Something special for her tree

– From $10

For the festive friend we all know and love. You know, the one who’s the first to tell you when Target’s shelves are lined with ornaments, tinsel and gift wrap galore in…October.

Zazzle’s personalized custom Christmas ornaments come in a variety of shapes and sizes. They give you a blank canvas to create a memorable masterpiece she can add to her holiday decor collection. Whether it’s a photo from your favorite trip to the beach or a quote from conversations past that still makes you belly laugh, this bestie gift is an easy way to get a customized gift without heading to Michael’s and making a mess around your house. Love getting crafty, but don’t love the cleanup!

The best part is these ornaments don’t break the bank, so they can be a thoughtful solo gift or a stocking stuffer. No matter how it’s given, her holiday-loving heart is sure to swoon at a combo of her two favorite things – Christmas and her BFF (aka you!).

14. The cozy throw everyone is talking about

Barefoot Dreams Cozy Throw – $147

Her other beloved blankets will be kicked to the curb when she gets her hands on this crazy cuddly throw.

Made from plush microfiber that cradles her like a cloud, it’s quick to outshine other blankets. Its large footprint means she’ll never have one leg hanging out of her blanket again. And it’s ideal for sharing with her SO or, you know, the bestie who bought it for her. Popcorn and a movie, anyone?

Barefoot Dreams’ Cozy Throw is designed for easy living with anti-shrink, pill and wrinkle fabric that’s machine washable and can be tumbled dry. All 13 available shades will beautifully compliment the vibe of her oasis – from her comfy couch to her blissful bed. Plus, you can knock out wrapping and a card in one fell swoop at checkout.

15. A fun way to cherish a memory together

Artifact Uprising Everyday Photo Puzzle – From $35

For the friend who loves cozying up to the fire with vino and a puzzle, it’s time to level up her jigsaw game. Let her relive a sweet memory of you two with this 12 or 60 piece customizable photo puzzle! It’s printed on archival matte paper with a chipboard backing for lifetime use.

Carefully crafted from durable materials, this premium product is made for endless nights of winding down and girls’ game nights where you catch up on all the latest tea. It’s designed to be a piece of art, so don’t be surprised if you find it half put together laying on her coffee table the next time you swing by. Give it a nod and know you did a gifting job well done.

Those are my picks for bestie gifts!

Hopefully this helps you find something special for your BFF!