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Book Organization for the Elegant Home | Mega Motivation

 

Mega Motivation continues this month as we look at book organization for the elegant home. I hope you enjoy today's video. 
"Fill your house with stacks of books, in all the crannies and all the nooks." - Dr. Seuss 

   
Welcome back to The Daily Connoisseur. Mega Motivation continues this month as we look at books and magazines. How should we store these in our homes? What should we keep and what should we get rid of? I’m leaving a playlist here, be sure to check it out so you can see how all of the other lovely youtubers handle this very individual issue. 
Long Live the Queen, by Bryan Kozlowski, The Art of Tea, and Victoria Magazine
 Ok, so you’re probably talking to the wrong person for this subject because, as you know, I am an author. And I think if you talk to any author in the world, we will all be of the same mind: you should have lots of books. You should have them in every room, and they should be everywhere. That’s certainly the case in our house. Books are in all of the bedrooms, the living areas, the kitchen, the school room, our offices. I think the only place we don’t have books are in the bathrooms and the dining room (although I keep books in my bathroom because I like to read in the bath! And yes, I have dropped my books in the bath… oops!). Also, you will frequently find a stack of books I’ve been looking through on the dining room table. So, scratch that, we do have books in every room. But I’m here to tell you that’s ok. 
The Jane Austen Diet, Mrs. Beeton's Book of Household Management, Alexandra Stoddard's books
I have cookbooks, design books, classic books, my books, children’s books, poetry books, absolutely everywhere! And that’s as it should be. My only advice is to have them in stacks and to go through them regularly. Rotate them. Give yourself something to look at so you feel encouraged to read instead of watch too much TV. 
“I find television very educating. Every time somebody turns on the set, I go into the other room and read a book.” ― Groucho Marx 
The Illustrated Life Co. recipe binder, The Private World of Tasha Tudor, Mastering the Art of French Cooking
Regarding magazines: only display your favorites. My favorite is Victoria Magazine, of course, and I have many of my editions out dating back to the 90s, for example. Those are always fun to flip through. You want to avoid having too many magazines out everywhere. Make sure the ones you do have out are edifying and interesting to you. If you have a stack of celebrity gossip magazines, for example, and you don’t know why, recycle them and get rid of them. But books, just like plants, should be a part of every home. They are like family members. They transport us to different worlds. We can escape. When having finished a good book, we come out changed. Elizabeth Barrett Browning said, "No man can be called friendless who has God and the companionship of good books". 
Modern Etiquette Made Easy by Myka Meier
If you find that you’ve gone through much of your adult life without reading… consider picking up one of those books off your shelf and treating yourself tonight. Get lost in a book. 
"Sleep is good, he said, and books are better." - George R.R. Martin 
So, in my world, books should be stacked on nearby tables, on nightstands, on countertops, mantlepieces, and of course bookshelves. If you are a major minimalist and don’t like that look, that’s ok! We all have different styles and I find most people like to be surrounded with something… for some people it’s plants, for others it’s paintings. I actually like all of that. But I agree with Cicero:  "A room without books is like a body without a soul". 
Elements of Style, Matisse, Kings & Queens, Romantic Country Style

So, think about this video as permission for you to indulge in keeping your books. If there are some you don’t want anymore, donate them. Absolutely. But books add beauty and soul to a room and invite you to pick them up. They add character to your life. And time spent with a good book, will never be wasted. 

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Comment of the WeekJoanna F. writes, "I don't care for tea, but I have started an afternoon coffee break. It is so nice to just sit down for 15-20 minutes in the afternoon and just BE." Hello Joanna, an afternoon coffee break sounds absolutely delightful. It is very refreshing to take that time for yourself and I'm glad you are enjoying it!
I hope you enjoyed today's video on book organization. I'd love to know how your family approaches book storage in your home.

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Intermittent Fasting What I Eat in a Day | 2 Days 16:8 Method (No Diet)

 

I'm back with another intermittent fasting what I eat in a day video. I'm sharing two frenzied days in today's video. I need you to know that I don't curate these (clearly) and want to show you what it's like sometimes for a busy mom. 

This is a "relaxed summer edition" as I tend to go light on the cooking in the summer months. This always refreshes me for fall, when I prepare to make hearty meals again. I hope you enjoy today's video. 
*Disclaimer: this video and blogpost are for entertainment purposes only. Please consult your doctor before trying intermittent fasting. This is not intended to be nutritional or medical advice. 

I've been enjoying whole fat Greek yogurt mixed with flax seeds, and topped with pecans, and seasonal fruit. I'm drinking coffee in my Keep Calm and Remain Classy Mug.  Dishes are by Portmeirion. Rattan placemats and table linens on Amazon. 

I assembled these quick turkey and spinach wraps for lunch today. I like to use interesting spreads when I do these and this time I used a sour cream spinach dip along with Havarti cheese. This was delicious! 

The main thing to remember with intermittent fasting is that it's not about what you eat, but about when you eat. You can combine this lifestyle (with the approval of your doctor) with any way of eating you prefer. I don't do any special diet and (as you'll see in today's video) am enjoying very normal foods today. 

I always take time for tea when I can. This is my famous (in my house, anyway) chocolate chip banana bread. Plates are Spode and teacup is Victoria Magazine. 
For dinner, we enjoyed Indian food. Saag Paneer is one of my very favorites. 

During the summer months, I don't feel like cooking. Does anyone else experience this? I rely on easy-to-assemble meals or quick favorites so I'm not spending too much time in the kitchen. I want to relax just like everyone else. Today shows a sampling of what two busy days look like in the world of 16:8.

I had to go to the doctor unexpectedly today so I didn't have breakfast (only coffee at 7am). We had chicken burgers for lunch with a side of fruit. 

I made my (also famous in our house) jam tarts for tea today. And enjoyed these along with Plum Deluxe Earl Grey tea. JENNIFER10 for 10% off. 
I normally have light dinners, but today, Angel Hair Marinara with Rao's sauce did the trick. Dishes by Spode. Once I finish having dinner at 5pm, I don't eat until the next morning at around 9 am. That gives 16 hours of fasting. I enjoy feeling "done" after dinner.
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Comment of the WeekAnon writes, "I have been following your blog and reading your books for years. I love The Daily Connoisseur! I typically do not leave comments on blogs, but today’s post on homemaking is taking me out of my comfort zone and leaving a comment! I think you would really enjoy reading the book “The Liturgy of the Ordinary” by Tish Harrison Warren (if you have not done so already). It is a Christian book on “sacred practices in everyday life”."
Dear Anon, thank you for taking the time to write such a lovely comment and also for the book recommendation. It sounds delightful! 
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The Repetitive Nature of Homemaking

To continue my series on the art of homemaking, we are exploring the repetitive nature of our daily work.



Today's video is dedicated to my friend, Cliff Simon, who we tragically lost in March of this year. Cliff was one-of-a-kind: a talented actor, author, adventurer, and dear friend. He will be greatly missed. 
In loving memory of  Cliff Simon 1962- 2021

The Repetitive Nature of Homemaking By Jennifer L. Scott 
The repetitive nature of homemaking… something we all have to deal with. What mindset do we need? How should we approach it? What joy can we derive from it? That’s what we are exploring in today’s video.
What prompted me to explore the repetitive nature of homemaking? Filming this video. I’m often doing the same things in my videos… washing dishes, laying tablecloths, straightening the sofas, wiping surfaces. 

Homemaking, particularly cleaning, is a repetitive business, isn’t it? In our modern world, our brains are wired for excitement. Our attention spans are short. We all long for very nice things… certainly interiors. So how does the mundane, repetitive and necessary care of our home… the thing that rarely changes… fit into this modern world? That could be why homemaking is often dreaded, or shall we say, misunderstood? 
 I’ve written about this in my Madame Chic books, but homemaking tasks can certainly be compared to Sisyphus. Sisyphus is a figure from Greek mythology. Zeus gave him the punishment of forever rolling the boulder up the hill in Hades. Well, I’m not going to lie and say that homemaking sometimes doesn’t feel like that. Because it does. We clean something once and sometimes within an hour, it needs attention again! Certainly every day, various tasks need to be done. Over and over again. So, for our brains, which are tuned for excitement. How do we avoid becoming bitter, like I’m sure old Sisyphus was? The key is in deriving comfort and joy from these repetitive tasks. If they are tasks you must do, then you must learn to enjoy them. 




Not all tasks are created equal, and some are more glamorous than others. Scrubbing the walls is not a favorite of mine. I usually get other people to do this, but this particular wall, with its crayon marks and dirt, was really bothering me. These high-traffic areas need cleaning on a regular basis if our homes are to look tidy. So if you’re doing a task that is by nature, rather unenjoyable, focus on the result, which will be a clean, sparkling place. That is enough to bring me joy. But truly, no matter what you’re doing, aim to look on the bright side and find the one aspect of the task, which can spark positive feelings in you. If I’m alone and no one is around, I like to focus on the sounds of cleaning. Those quiet, everyday sounds that we take for granted, but can bring us comfort, can also bring us companionship. If you are surrounded with a loud family, and oftentimes we are, aim to find the joy in that. And hey, give them a broom and they can help! 


 Let’s talk about self-presentation. Because that, for me, brings about joy as well. It’s important that I get dressed and look my best every day. Many homemakers fall into the trap of thinking that because they are doing these mundane, repetitive tasks, they don’t need to dress up for it. So many will sentence themselves to a life of “cleaning clothes”… you know, misshapen, old clothes that you don’t care about if they get ruined. Or perpetual workout clothes. The trouble with this, is that our repetitive homemaking tasks are never going away. They are repetitive. They are Sisyphean. And so each and every day we will find ourselves doing them. So, you ask yourself. Each and every day do I want to wear clothes for drudgery? Or do I want to get dressed and present my true style to the world? Even if it’s just me? Life is short, my friends. Dress to express yourself. Dress for dignity. Put an apron on if you have to. But you don’t want to go through your whole life realizing you were saving your best clothes for that special occasion that never came. When I dress for the day, I feel better. I feel joyous. I feel dignified, even if my task is the same old task I do every day of my life. 



And finally, my fellow connoisseurs, don’t forget to take time for yourself. Indulge in the restorative rituals every day that bring you pleasure. Because yes, we have repetitive cleaning tasks, but we can also have repetitive breaks that revive our spirit and recharge us for what’s to come next. Sisyphus never took a tea break… but we can. I hope you enjoyed today’s homemaking video. 


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📍Please note: the blog will be under construction and moving to Wordpress very soon. I'll make the announcement with more details as soon as I can. Those of you who get this blog delivered into your email might see a temporary pause in email notifications. Thank you for your patience. 

📍Polish Your Poise with Madame Chic is now available in pocket-size in Japan from Daiwa Shobo. 

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📍*NEW* The Ten-Item Wardrobe eCourse is newly updated and back online with all new video, text, and new lessons. If you have previously purchased the ten-item wardrobe eCourse, you can access all of the new changes for free.

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Comment of the WeekStacie writes, "I love your tip about sitting down to eat your meals. I have a story I'd like to share. I worked in the OR for more than 30 years, and to say the nurse's lounge during lunch time is chaotic is an understatement. However, there was one nurse that ALWAYS set out her real plate, silverware and glass to have her meal. Sometimes it was a salad she prepared from home or sandwich or chicken strips from hospital kitchen. It was like a little calm in the midst of the storm. I never forgot that and now that I'm retired, I always set a real plate, silverware and glass to have my meals--even if I'm by myself.... Stacie"
Dear Stacie, I loved your story. It expressed how elegant people stand out so perfectly. In the chaos of the lunchroom, she stood out and left a great impression on you. I loved that. Thank you for sharing it. 
I hope you enjoyed today's homemaking video and that it gave you much to ponder. See you soon!
Love,
Jennifer 

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The Chic Assignment Check-In July 2021 Fauré and Rumi

Welcome to The Chic Assignment Check-in for July, 2021. We are diving into the life of Gabriel Fauré and the poetry of Sufi mystic poet, Rumi. This has been a fun month.

Before we get into the assignments, I want you to know that The Chic Assignment will not occur in the month of August as I will be taking a small break. We will resume Chic Assignments in September. If you are in one of the upper tiers of The Chic Society, your mentions will be going into a different video in August. Also, Chic Society weekly vodcasts will resume in August. 

 

Chic Assignment No. 1 Enjoy Gabriel Fauré's Pavane Op. 50

Gabriel Fauré was a French composer (1845-1924) and was one of the foremost French composers of his generation. As a lover of classical music, I'm not entirely sure how Gabriel Fauré's work has escaped me until now, but Pavane Op. 50 is one of the most hauntingly beautiful works of classical music I've ever heard. This month I'm sharing an actual recording of Fauré playing this piece that dates back to 1913, Paris. I truly hope you enjoy it. We are learning ten interesting facts about Fauré's life from ClassicFM. 

Chic Assignment No. 2 Explore the poetry of Rumi 

Rumi was a 13th century Persian poet and Sufi mystic. He believed strongly in music, poetry, and dance as a way of communicating with God and his poems and famous quotes are steeped in deep wisdom.  I find his quotes to be particularly insightful. Here is a resource with some of his famous quotes. You can read his poetry online here.  The Essential Rumi is a book that contains his most important work. In today's video we are reading some of Rumi's most beautiful poems and phrases. 

Chic Assignment No. 3 Do a 15-minute Declutter

You would be amazed to learn how much you can accomplish in 15 minutes. I often set the timer when I'm facing a daunting task like cleaning the kitchen or folding a mound of laundry. We can apply the same 15-minute principle to our intimidating decluttering tasks. This month I shared a 15-minute decluttering challenge that I hope proved motivating for you. 

Chic Assignment No. 4 Prepare your wardrobe for the new season

Summer is upon us and it's time to go through your wardrobe to determine if any changes need to be made to account for the warmer weather. I shared my thoughts on elegant swimwear and ten-item wardrobe summer updates in this blogpost. 

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The Chic Connoisseurs: A Better Life with KAT (Flylady Cleaning System), AAM Truthteller, Adrienne Cormier, American Blossom Linens, Alexa Moradi, Allison Jennison-Smith, Amy Kennedy,A Return to Simplicity, A Sparkling Vintage Life, Amy Thibodeaux, Andrea Saavedra, Andrea Andrei,Angelika Greenhalgh, Angie Helmly, Anny Schreier, Audrey Coyne, BewitchedCrafts.com, Ausra Mewa,Beata, Bliss Peterson, Brenda Ramsey, Candace V, Cari Leigh, Caroline Logan, Catarina Alexandra, Catherine Huang, Chantal Brinkies, Chelsea Kochevar, Clare's Classroom, Cyndie Lake, Dawn, Deb Reardon, Denise Gende, Diana McNease, Elizabeth Doan, Ellie YG, Elizabeth Yang, Efstathia Kositzidou, Freda Masoud, healthywithluba.com, Heather Phillips, Helena O, Jackie W, Jane Lynch, Janet Williams, Jasmine Christian, Jeanetta Loubser, Jennifer Fiedel, Jennifer Lamont Leo, Jennifer Timm, jkp62, Judy Moore, Katherine Williams, Kathy Feliciano,  Katie Kolodzy, Kimberly Campbell, Lakeisha Bell Cadogan, Lenora Ellis, Liliedaisy, Lois Shank- Retiree, Loraine Tadman, Lori Skees, Maria Gerlicz-Pogorzelska, Mary Lewis, Marija B. Bingula, Space.For.Home, Marybeth Nelson, Megan Lawrence, Melanie Adkins, Melanie Riddle, Mama Mitzey, Maria Gerszewski, Melinda Loustalot, Melissa Ricci, Mercy Burton Russell, Michele Kieffer, Michele Pokorsky,Michelle Henderer, Michelle the Italiagal, Monique Egelhoff, Monique Hernandez, Natalie Schultz, Not-So Desperate Housewives, Olivia Johnson, Pamela Gunger, Paula Ellis, Paula Johnson, P C, Petra Willnecker, Raye Cage, Rebecca Faltot, Rita Fernandes,  Rona,  Rosh S., Sandra Light, Sarah Vitsas, S.E. Spracher - Author of Chewy Marmot , Scott Rea, Shannon Biddy, Sharon Smith, Sheila Hopfensperger, Shelly Cabler aka "The Art of This & That", Shelly Kirby, Sonya Sylvester, Stacy Smith, The Simple Swan, Sue Parker, Susan Keyes, Tina Grose, Tammy Griffin,  This and That with Denise Jordan, Tiki Pié, Tracy The Tea Lady, Veronica Staudt, Wendy Cassara, Wendy Somerville, Wilma Dean, Yen Lee, Zauger, Zuzaienka23

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Amanda Dykes, AuthorAmiee Floor, Azalia Spa GoodsBrandi Still, Silhouette ArtistJenny Williams, Carrot Top Paper ShopElaine Brisebois, Certified NutritionistAshley Buffa Freedom Moms Smart Kid Chore SystemNikki Moreno - Inspired by Nikki Julie Kolman - My Confident Closet Kari Vanhoozer, author of 'Tis the Season for Poetry: Through the Year with Poems and Activities for Children and their FamiliesLindy Sellers, YouTube Channel Nicole Brignolle - Founder of Lovely BitsRosenda Valenzuela - Little Pink Casa Mrs. Shockley - A Home for EleganceSarah Morgan Wellness  Tina Hugall - OutschoolMichelle Rohr - The Secret OWL Society digital planners  The Shortbread Family - Allen's Scottish ShortbreadMrs. TJ Sturm, Sturm Brothers Jewelry Cherish Flieder- Something to Cherish  Vicel Victoria - JAFRA Beauty Consultant  Katherine RaeCarli Thom - Living in LovelinessCaroline HayduGuy BlaiseIsabelle ClabautJanice LeitnerJen CarlsonJet Rowley-HerronJina Kay KenryJenny CandelariaJuliet Keeler-LeBienLinda EklofMarie CaudillMaria ConderMelissa MPrudently at Home

I hope you enjoy this month's Chic Assignment. Let us know your thoughts in the comments and your comment could be chosen as comment of the week on the blog. 

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Ten Ways To Be Effortlessly Polished | Elegant Behaviors

In continuation of my series on being elegant and polished, I am sharing ten more ways to be effortlessly polished. These tips focus more on being rather than "looking". I do hope you enjoy today's video. 

 
Equally important to how we look is how we behave. They both go hand-in-hand in exuding elegance. Today we are going to examine how we carry ourselves and how we treat the spaces around us as well as other people...

Carry yourself gracefully From your posture to the way you walk, carry yourself gracefully. Here’s a trick: set up a camera and film yourself doing an activity (like cleaning the living room). This will allow you to see yourself as others see you. You might notice you hunch your shoulders when you get stressed, or that you tend to stomp your feet instead of lightly walking gracefully. Aim to be intentional about how you carry yourself for a polished outcome. 
Eye contactEye contact vs. shifty eyes… which ones seems more calming and grounded? We all know it’s eye contact. No matter who you are speaking to, give them your full attention with eye contact. Avoid looking over their shoulder or at other people, which gives the impression that you are not listening to them or interested in what they’re saying. 
A clean car I get an F- on this one… I do. But I will try to get better at it. If your self-presentation is neat and your home is neat, well… your car should be neat too. Avoid trash and excess bags and clothing and whatever else ends up cluttering up the car. Go for a tidy interior and exterior to extend elegance to the road. 
A clean handbagIf we look polished, but our handbag doubles as a miniature trash bag, we are sending mixed messages. Elegance and poise should extend everywhere and our handbags are no exception. Regularly clean out your bag and discard of trash or reallocate important things that don’t belong there. 
Take Your Meals Sitting Down This one is big. It’s very hard to be elegant while walking and eating at the same time. After all, how can you focus on your food? There are a few exceptions, such as when you get an ice cream at the beach, for example, but in general, we should aim to sit down to a properly set table to enjoy our meals. Walking and eating at the same time is not chic. 
Taking your time (not rushing) There are times to rush and times to not rush. In general, we do not want to rush through our everyday life. Don’t allow others to rush you either. 
Having a calm demeanor is in stark contrast to a rushed/ harried demeanor and goes a long way toward projecting poise. Not overreacting When we get mad, whether in traffic, or in conversation with someone, the elegant thing to do is not overreact. Remain uber-calm. Put on your Mona Lisa smile, if you must. Watch your breathing, posture, and eye contact. Refrain from saying something you’ll likely regret later. Pause. Walk away. Do whatever you need to do and refrain from lowering your standards.  
Air of mysteryHow much do you share on social media? Is it too much? Do you share too much of your children? Of your problems? Of your triumphs? Do you overshare what happens to you throughout your day? Assess this because poised and elegant people are also mysterious, in a good way. Check out Lessons from Madame Chic for more on this topic. 
What experience do you give from start to finish?It’s true we are not responsible for making other people feel things, but we should be interested in what experience we give people from start to finish. Before we meet in person, we might communicate by email, for example. Are your emails appropriate and professional? When we meet them, we give a first impression. Are you dressed appropriately? When we close our conversation we leave them with a feeling of how it went. Did they feel that they were heard? Being conscious of what experience we give people from start to finish is key to garnering poise. 
Be well-spoken Elegant people avoid base swear words. They also avoid excessive filler words (like, um, you know). They also phrase their sentences beautifully: “I would like vs. I want”. I will be doing a follow-up video on this subject so make sure you’re subscribed to my YouTube channel and turn on notifications so you don’t miss it.
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📍Polish Your Poise with Madame Chic is now available in pocket-size in Japan from Daiwa Shobo. 

📍Connoisseur Kids is now available in Poland and Vietnam.

📍Join us for The Chic Assignment for July.

📍*NEW* The Ten-Item Wardrobe eCourse is newly updated and back online with all new video, text, and new lessons. If you have previously purchased the ten-item wardrobe eCourse, you can access all of the new changes for free.

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Sandra Sallin writes, "You won't remember me but about 10 years ago I asked you if I should start a blog. Other's had said no, but you said "Yes." Well, 10 years later I still have the blog but I also have 25,400 followers on Instagram and all of this at 80 years old. Thank you for the encouragement. It was your Yes that made me start all of this.Thank you."
Sandra, I do remember you and I am absolutely thrilled that you went on to start your blog. I'm linking it here so all can check it out. Congratulations!
I hope you enjoyed today's video. Let me know if there are any topics you'd like me to expand upon. I enjoy this subject so much.

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Ten Years on YouTube | Reacting to my First Video + Q&A

 

It's official. I've been on YouTube for TEN YEARS. In today's video, I react to my very first video from ten years ago. I also answer all of your YouTube questions and let you know what it's like to be a YouTuber in 2021. 

I started my YouTube channel in 2011, with the intention of building an audience and marketing my books. At that time, I was in the process of self-publishing Lessons from Madame Chic (after experiencing countless literary agent rejections) and I knew that if I wanted my book to be successful, I'd have to come up with a marketing strategy. I enjoyed watching YouTube back then and figured I would start my channel and market my books on YouTube and my blog. 
It proved to be a winning strategy as Lessons from Madame Chic caught the eye of CNN and The New York Times. In the spring of 2021, I signed with an excellent literary agency, Trident Media Group, and we sold Lessons from Madame Chic to Simon & Schuster. The next ten years saw me publish four more books, and along with raising a family, have been the busiest years of my life. And by some miracle, I am still on YouTube! Today I answer all of your questions about YouTube life. I hope you enjoy today's video. 
⚜️ My books on AmazonLessons from Madame Chic At Home with Madame Chic Polish Your Poise with Madame Chic Mademoiselle Chic (available in Japan only) Connoisseur Kids
⚜️ What I'm WearingBreton Stripe Top from Boden More Breton stripe options: Breton slub tee by Mer-Sea & Co. Saint James Breton strip shirts Mott & Bow jeans JLS10 for 10% off Lipstick Besame dusty rose Eyeliner Charlotte Tilbury feline flick in brown Londontown Illuminating Nail Concealer JenniferS for 25% off

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📍Please note: the blog will be under construction and moving to Wordpress very soon. I'll make the announcement with more details as soon as I can. Those of you who get this blog delivered into your email might see a temporary pause in email notifications. Thank you for your patience. 

📍Polish Your Poise with Madame Chic is now available in pocket-size in Japan from Daiwa Shobo. 

📍Connoisseur Kids is now available in Poland and Vietnam.

📍Join us for The Chic Assignment for July.

📍*NEW* The Ten-Item Wardrobe eCourse is newly updated and back online with all new video, text, and new lessons. If you have previously purchased the ten-item wardrobe eCourse, you can access all of the new changes for free.

📍If you are looking for more content, consider becoming a member of The Daily Connoisseur through the MEMBERSHIPS feature. I publish one vodcast every Friday and do one livestream or zoom call once a month. It only costs $1.99 a month. There are also upper tiers available for people who are interested in supporting the channel on a higher level and receiving monthly mentions in the videos. 

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Comment of the WeekJustyna F. writes, "I always look forward to your videos. It doesn't matter what they're about (tho 9 times out of 10 it's a helpful video) but your overall attitude is so calming! Your content is uplifting and I find myself more and more almost frantically seeking out calm havens in this turbulent world. Your channel is one I can count on time and time again to be a safe, classy, feminine haven for me to retreat to. I send you all my love and thanks! ❤️"
Thank you, Justyna. As I mention in today's video, I really do appreciate supportive and kind comments like yours. You keep me going. Thank you!
I hope you enjoyed looking back at my first video and life on YouTube. If you have any more YouTube questions, please leave them in the comments. I'll see you on Thursday!

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Bikini Alternatives + Summer Ten-Item Capsule Wardrobe Updates

Bikinis and one-piece bathing suits... are they the only options we have to splash about in this summer? Let's explore bathing suit alternatives that still keep you looking chic. 

In today's video I discuss various bathing suit styles that are ideal for being active and out in the sun all day. 

Let's have a look first at the tankini option. Tankinis are great because they can be paired with whatever bottom style you like... traditional swimsuit bottoms, skirt bottoms, or short bottoms. There is often ruching in the tummy area and support in the bust. I love this tankini from Lands' End paired with this mini skirt option. To check out all of Lands' End's swim suit options, click here. 

If you plan to be in the hot sun all day and want to protect your skin, or if you are going to be very active (think waterpark, or beach volley ball) consider a rash guard. These come in varying sleeve lengths and give your skin extra protection from the sun. I love this rash guard that is inspired by the classic Breton stripe. I am wearing it with beach shorts. 

Other great resources for chic bathing suit coverups and accessories is Mer Sea & Co resort

I will be retiring the Rachel Pally Marion dress as the long-sleeves are not ideal for the hot summer weather. That will be packed away and brought out next spring. To replace it is this gorgeous Penelope dress by SKYE (Jennifer20 for 20% off). It's gauzy, and white and I have been living in it this summer. I am wearing the dress with The Spanish Sandal Co. tan nubuck sandals. JEN10 for 10% off 


The Penelope dress is wrinkle-resistant, washes well, as does all of my SKYE dresses, and has a beautiful button detail that cinches in at the waist. Here is a preview of some of SKYE's beautiful 18K gold and pearl jewelry collection for summer:


Estelle long layered clover and pearl necklace Jennifer20 for 20% off This necklace is long and can be layered for a fuller look. It has SKYE signature pearls and elegant crystal clovers that remind me of Van Cleef & Arpels. 

The Lena pearl choker necklace  Jennifer20 for 20% off is delicate and charming in a vintage way. 

The Therese 18K gold freshwater pearl bracelet is a delicate delight. I love the dainty design of this bracelet! Jennifer20 for 20% off. 

⚜️ Other Swim ResourcesMer Sea & Co. resort (coverups, bags, hats) Athleta rash guards Albion swimwear (modest coverage, gorgeous suits) Boden swimwear Target (tankini selection) Swim and cover-ups at Nordstrom Swimwear and coverups from Neiman Marcus Summersalt swimwear (one-pieces)

Thank you to Ritual vitamins for bringing us today's video. Code 10DAILY gives 10% off your first three months. 

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📍Please note: the blog will be under construction and moving to Wordpress very soon. I'll make the announcement with more details as soon as I can. Those of you who get this blog delivered into your email might see a temporary pause in email notifications. Thank you for your patience. 

📍Polish Your Poise with Madame Chic is now available in pocket-size in Japan from Daiwa Shobo. 

📍Connoisseur Kids is now available in Poland and Vietnam.

📍Join us for The Chic Assignment for July.

📍*NEW* The Ten-Item Wardrobe eCourse is newly updated and back online with all new video, text, and new lessons. If you have previously purchased the ten-item wardrobe eCourse, you can access all of the new changes for free.

📍If you are looking for more content, consider becoming a member of The Daily Connoisseur through the MEMBERSHIPS feature. I publish one vodcast every Friday and do one livestream or zoom call once a month. It only costs $1.99 a month. There are also upper tiers available for people who are interested in supporting the channel on a higher level and receiving monthly mentions in the videos. 

On Instagram Connoisseur Kids in Poland...

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Comment of the WeekOn Monday's etiquette video, Mia writes, "I once had a great conversation with a disabled veteran that I’d just met at a business networking event about SASQUATCH. 😂 The man had been invited to an area where they film Finding Sasquatch, and we laughed as he shared “Squatch” stories. To this day I still don’t know if he thinks Sasquatch is real, but we text and share pictures each time we see something related. It’s so fun. Even my husband and daughter send him selfies with anything Sasquatch related."
Dear Mia, this is the best part about making a new friend and getting to know someone. It's those sasquatch moments where you can think of the other person and smile :) Thanks for sharing!
I hope you enjoyed today's video. I would love to know... what types of bathing suits do you like to wear? Have you updated your wardrobe for the change in season? What type of jewelry do you like to wear in the summer months? Let us know and your comment could be chosen as comment of the week on the blog.

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What CAN You Ask Someone You Just Met? Rude Questions Part 3

 

When are you due? Oh, you’re not pregnant? Do you have children? Oh, you already have 2! Don’t know what causes that? Don’t you have a TV? Well, are you going to have any more? You have two boys? I bet you want to try for a girl. Well, what do you do for a living? Oh, do you plan to get a real job? Oh, you were in nursing? Well, I have this health condition. I wonder if you could help me with it. By the way, where are you from? No, I mean where are you from? No, I mean where are your parents from? What is your ethnicity? Really? Are you sure? You don’t look like you’re from that region of the world. Why are you so quiet? Are you mad? Well, good luck with the pregnancy. Oh, wait I forgot you’re not pregnant!

Did you find any of these questions annoying? If you did, you probably weren’t the only one. It contains many of the most commonly asked rude questions you reported to me in my recent videos on the subject. Today, I have swooped in to help, because I’m sharing a whole list of questions you can ask people you just met. 
 This is part 3 in an etiquette series I’m doing on rude questions- many of which I shared with you in the opening of this video. The problem with many of these questions is that they are intrusive. It’s not that you will never reveal this information to people, but you should only do so when you have established a relationship and feel comfortable with them. You don’t owe strangers answers to personal questions. So, what can you talk about when you’re meeting someone for the first time? What questions are safe to ask? Here are the list of questions. 
Write these down and have a look at them before you go to your next big party. 
How do you know the hosts? What do you like to do in your free time? Have you seen any good movies lately? What’s your favorite show to watch? Have you read any good books lately? Have you been to any good restaurants in this area? Have you visited any interesting places lately? Do you like to watch sports? What are your favorites? What blogs do you like to read? What’s your favorite YouTube channel? Where is a place you’ve always wanted to travel to? What are your favorite things to do locally? What type of music do you like to listen to? What book are you currently reading? What has been the best part of your week? Do you have any pets? 
I would love to know if you have any questions to add to this list. What are some great conversation starters you can use with someone you just met? Share them below and your comment could be chosen as comment of the week on the blog. I hope you enjoyed today's video. 
⚜️ What I'm WearingRungolee Louise blouse DailyC for free silk face mask SKYE Léa 18K gold freshwater pearl earrings Jennifer20 for 20% off SKYE Lipstick Hourglass Influencer Charlotte Tilbury Feline Flick brown liquid eyeliner By Mario Sculpt stick (contour) in light Tarte eyeshadow palette bareMinerals foundation in sandstone 16 Nail polish Londontown Illuminating Nail Concealer JenniferS for 25% off

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📍Please note: the blog will be under construction and moving to Wordpress very soon. I'll make the announcement with more details as soon as I can. Those of you who get this blog delivered into your email might see a temporary pause in email notifications. Thank you for your patience. 

📍Polish Your Poise with Madame Chic is now available in pocket-size in Japan from Daiwa Shobo. 

📍Connoisseur Kids is now available in Poland and Vietnam.

📍Join us for The Chic Assignment for July.

📍*NEW* The Ten-Item Wardrobe eCourse is newly updated and back online with all new video, text, and new lessons. If you have previously purchased the ten-item wardrobe eCourse, you can access all of the new changes for free.

📍If you are looking for more content, consider becoming a member of The Daily Connoisseur through the MEMBERSHIPS feature. I publish one vodcast every Friday and do one livestream or zoom call once a month. It only costs $1.99 a month. There are also upper tiers available for people who are interested in supporting the channel on a higher level and receiving monthly mentions in the videos. 

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Comment of the WeekLisa C. writes, "As my dad used to say, it's all in the details. He was always polished."
Hi Lisa, your dad was correct! It is all about the details. I have another video on being polished coming out soon. I hope you will enjoy it.
Thank you for watching today's video. Do you have any questions to add to the list? Your comment could be chosen as comment of the week on the blog.

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A Relaxing Day in the Life | Makeup, Haircut, Wallpaper

 

Join me for two days in the life. I'm doing some relaxing things like shopping for makeup and selecting wallpaper in today's video. I also share garden updates. Won't you join me?


I am also in great need of a haircut and share some behind-the-scenes looks at how I film some of my videos. I hope you enjoy today's video. Thank you to Native for bringing it to us. Code DAILYC5 gives 33% off. 

⚜️Featured in the VideoSonoma Lavender heated spa neck pillow (faux fur) Charlotte Tilbury Feline Flick liquid eyeliner Charlotte Tilbury eyeshadow pencil By Mario sculpt stick (contour) 

Hourglass lipstick in Influencer

Hourglass lip liner in panoramic

Cole & Son Winter Birds Wallpaper

⚜️ What I'm WearingOuterknown Jumpsuit Jackie Mack Designs necklace TDC15OFF for 15% offIlluminating nail concealer JenniferS for 25% offSpanish Sandal Co. black slide JEN10 for 10% off Neiwai barely zero bra JS10 for 10% offDress by Karina Dresses Crop top (layered over dress) SKYE Theodora earrings Jennifer20 for 20% off
⚜️ Time Stamps0:00 The garden1:36 Haircut before and after3:14 Native sponsor4:25 Wallpaper Project7:09 Shopping for makeup & paint10:05 Makeup tutorial

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📍Please note: the blog will be under construction and moving to Wordpress very soon. I'll make the announcement with more details as soon as I can. Those of you who get this blog delivered into your email might see a temporary pause in email notifications. Thank you for your patience. 

📍Polish Your Poise with Madame Chic is now available in pocket-size in Japan from Daiwa Shobo. 

📍Connoisseur Kids is now available in Poland and Vietnam.

📍Join us for The Chic Assignment for July.

📍*NEW* The Ten-Item Wardrobe eCourse is newly updated and back online with all new video, text, and new lessons. If you have previously purchased the ten-item wardrobe eCourse, you can access all of the new changes for free.

📍If you are looking for more content, consider becoming a member of The Daily Connoisseur through the MEMBERSHIPS feature. I publish one vodcast every Friday and do one livestream or zoom call once a month. It only costs $1.99 a month. There are also upper tiers available for people who are interested in supporting the channel on a higher level and receiving monthly mentions in the videos. 

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Comment of the WeekJo B. writes, "Even if you don’t want to rush, setting a 15 minute timer to get started and giving yourself permission to stop is a great way to start tackling an overwhelming space."
I agree, Jo. And sometimes it is a good idea to "rush" through something. Otherwise we will leisurely put it off for far too long. A little adrenaline never hurt anyone. I hope you enjoyed my recent 15-minute declutter challenge video!
Thank you for joining me for this day in the life... I hope you enjoyed it. I would love to know... have you discovered any good makeup lately? Let us know your recommendations in the comments and your comment could be chosen as comment of the week on the blog.

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15-Minute Declutter Challenge | Toy Organization | Mega Motivation

 

Mega Motivation continues as we do a 15-minute declutter challenge. Won't you join us?

I'm decluttering our toy storage bins in today's video and I only have 15 minutes to do it. Check out this playlist with all of the other YouTubers who are taking part in this competition. What do you think? Did we win? 

⚜️ What I'm wearingBreton Stripe top from Boden Breton Stripe top from St. James Mer Sea Breton stripe Jeans by Mott & Bow JLS10 for 10% off Isotoner slippers Red velvet hair bow Londontown Illuminating nail concealer JenniferS for 25% off⚜️ Featured in the videoToy organization cabinetGrey canvas bins Magnatiles (the best toys) e-cloth clean with water Storage solutions on Amazon

⚜️ Video Time Stamps0:00 Mega Motivation0:56 The plan1:38 On your mark, get set, go! 3:27 The timer goes off4:55 How did I do? 6:07 A cup of tea

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📍Please note: the blog will be under construction and moving to Wordpress very soon. I'll make the announcement with more details as soon as I can. Those of you who get this blog delivered into your email might see a temporary pause in email notifications. Thank you for your patience. 

📍Connoisseur Kids is now available in Poland and Vietnam.

📍Join us for The Chic Assignment for July.

📍*NEW* The Ten-Item Wardrobe eCourse is newly updated and back online with all new video, text, and new lessons. If you have previously purchased the ten-item wardrobe eCourse, you can access all of the new changes for free.

📍If you are looking for more content, consider becoming a member of The Daily Connoisseur through the MEMBERSHIPS feature. I publish one vodcast every Friday and do one livestream or zoom call once a month. It only costs $1.99 a month. There are also upper tiers available for people who are interested in supporting the channel on a higher level and receiving monthly mentions in the videos. 

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Lisa C. writes, "As my dad used to say, it's all in the details. He was always polished."
Lisa, sounds like your father was a true gentleman! Thank you for sharing that memory with us.
I hope you enjoyed today's video.

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