Ani Rich's Blog, page 10

Walking In The Dark

It can get frustrating when you don’t know what to expect anymore, who you are, or where your life is going.

Living life is like walking in the dark sometimes. Your only job is to focus on the next step.

Why? What? When? How?

These are some of the questions we can torture ourselves with.

Everything is always working out for you and even when you don’t see it things are always working out for you.

Sometimes you have to stop searching for a light and focus on your feet.

An ounce of patience is worth more than a tonne of preaching.

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Mentally Strong People

Mentally strong people are pretty simple.

Mentally strong people are easy to be around.

Mentally strong people are often content and joyful.

Mentally strong people prioritize their inner peace.

Mentally strong people are best friends with themselevs.

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Overstimulated

We are overstimulated.

Our senses are overstimulated.

Everyone and everything around us is fast phased.

When do you get to slow down and enjoy whatever you are doing?!

Do you even remember how it feels to do something and enjoy it?

No one has time today to do the things that make us human.

It’s like buying a plant, never watering it, and expecting it to grow.

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Nobody Cares About What You Think

We think something is true and we assume it should become the universal truth. We even try to impose our opinions on others.

We all have people in our lives who start a sentence with “if you ask me, you should…” “I really think you should…”, “believe me…”, “If I were you…”.

Stop spreading your unsolicited advice. Nobody cares what you think unless you are asked. Even when you are asked there is a huge chance that your advice won’t be accepted.

The majority of people aren’t looking forward to making changes and transforming their lives. All they wanna do is to talk about how their life sucks instead of taking action so their life can stop sucking.

Put that energy onto your life and look how magical it’s gonna get.

Don’t get me wrong you don’t have to become mute. You can suggest. There is a huge difference between suggesting something and forcing someone to do what you think they should do.

Don’t get advice from someone who doesn’t have what you want to achieve. Don’t get advice from people who have never done what you want to do. Don’t get advice from people who can’t apply what they preach to their own lives.

Unsolicited advice is the junk mail of life.

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Nobody Cares What You Think

We think something is true and we assume it should become the universal truth. We even try to impose our opinions on others.

We all have people in our lives who start a sentence with “if you ask me, you should…” “I really think you should…”, “believe me…”, “If I were you…”.

Stop spreading your unsolicited advice. Nobody cares what you think unless you are asked. Even when you are asked there is a huge chance that your advice won’t be accepted.

The majority of people aren’t looking forward to making changes and transforming their lives. All they wanna do is to talk about how their life sucks instead of taking action so their life can stop sucking.

Put that energy onto your life and look how magical it’s gonna get.

Don’t get me wrong you don’t have to become mute. You can suggest. There is a huge difference between suggesting something and forcing someone to do what you think they should do.

Don’t get advice from someone who doesn’t have what you want to achieve. Don’t get advice from people who have never done what you want to do. Don’t get advice from people who can’t apply what they preach to their own lives.

Unsolicited advice is the junk mail of life.

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Guilt is a Trap

Feeling guilty because you’ve done something you aren’t proud of is the wrong use of time.

Worrying is a misuse of one’s imagination said someone wise.

Bitting up yourself because you wasted all day is stupid.

It’s another excuse not to do what you actually want to do.

It’s all one big trap.

Guilt is just an indication of you needing the change, not a place you need to spend hours weeks, or years.

Instead of feeling guilty just do what you were supposed to do in the first place. If not now you have the next minute and then the next and again the next one.

To do what’s right there is no wrong time.

But also if not now when?!

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Creating Problems

We human beings are exceptional when it comes to creating problems.

Do you ever stop and become conscious of how much of your suffering is voluntary.

I wish people understood how much power they hold in creating the life they desire.

We have become volunteer victims.

I love something I’ve read recently. We create problems because deep down we know we have the solutions for them.

We know we can handle the problem and that’s exactly why we create them.

Awareness.

Becoming aware.

That’s the first step.

The rest of the steps will unfold eventually.

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Your Circle Matters

Freud said, “Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure you are not surrounded by idiots.” 

The majority of people only know themselves, outside in, through others.

People don’t spend enough time getting to know themselves, and they care too much about what others think.

Charles Horton Cooley, an American sociologist said: “I am not who you think I am; I am not who I think I am; I am who I think you think I am“.

We are who others believe we are.

We listen to every single voice outside of us, but the one inside of us.

Your circle matters.

Make sure that people in your life make you feel good about yourself.

That doesn’t mean they don’t help you to grow and lie to you that you have an amazing voice when you don’t.

It means that even in their brutal honesty they don’t shame you and they still manage to tell you the truth in an empowering way.

And also stop being so disconnected from yourself.

Spend a few minutes in solitude and in silence. Ask yourself questions. Get to know yourself. Understand yourself. Befriend yourself. learn what drains you and what gives you energy. Investigate what is the ideal circumstance that you need to thrive, to be the best version of yourself.

As a flower needs an ideal environment to grow, so are you. You need the ideal environment to grow and thrive.

Inside out is the way.

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GUILT IS A COMFORTABLE TRAP

Our mistakes don’t define us.

The past is past. It is long gone.

We cling to it. We think about it every day and we keep it alive.

We torture ourselves with our mistakes.

Guilt is a very comfortable trap.

It’s like if we punish ourselves enough we somehow pay the price for our mistakes.

In reality, feeling guilty keeps us from doing what actually matters- creating change.

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The Guy That Has All 3

There are guys who are handsome.

There are guys who are not handsome but they are very attractive and sexual.

There are guys who are neither sexual nor handsome but are extremely clever.

I like the guy who has all 3.

The guy who is handsome, at the same time is very sexual and attractive, while being very intellectual and smart.

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