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August 21, 2021

Emily’s Bon Voyage But Not Before A LOT Of Vintage Shopping – Wanna See What Caught Our Eyes… And Wallets??

Two weeks ago, the EHD team met up in person one final time before Em’s move to Oregon. We rented a house in Long Beach for three days, ate two bags of tortilla chips, drank Palomas prepared by Jess (amazing), tested out a bottle of mango-flavored wine margaritas (significantly less amazing), and planned out our schedule for the rest of the year. (I also got food poisoning after a dinner and Mallory had to take care of me in the middle of the night, because the one thing EVERYONE dreams of is vomiting loudly and in front of all of their coworkers after spending a year apart.)

But during all of this fun, we also made time to check out two of our all-time favorite vintage spots in the Los Angeles area: the Long Beach Antique Mall (#2 – #1 is no longer open) and Urban Americana. Both are filled with incredible booths stocked by super talented vendors, so there are a TON of treasures of all types to be found. In true vintage lover fashion, I wanted to force the team to do a little show-and-tell because it was SO FUN seeing the things that caught their beautiful design-minded eyes…so today, we’re here to take you on a little vintage shopping team with EHD. I gotta know – would you have taken any of our picks home? Do you like our purchases? We’ll obviously kick it off with the big boss, since we all know she’s your favorite 🙂

Emily

UGH. just seeing this chair again makes me sad that I didn’t get it. At the time it was a “no” because it was $250 and I wished it were $115. But I knew it was a “photoshoot” chair, something I’m not allowed to buy anymore because I have enough dumb photoshoot chairs. Photoshoot chairs can be defined as sculptural chairs that people avoid sitting in because they aren’t that comfortable. It’s a stylist addiction that I’m trying to cure myself of because it’s dumb. Sure, I’ll always have my hand chair, and if this chair were $35 there is NO WAY I wouldn’t have hoarded it for the corner of a bedroom, but for $250 it felt high, then I’d have to drive it to Lake Arrowhead, look Brian in the eye, defend a week before we are moving states into a rental with a storage unit full of furniture I felt the need to buy an expensive sculptural chair… Remember, “if its not a hell yes, it’s a no”. But please if you buy it tag me on social so I can see it. The shape is rad, but there were some pieces that were coming off of it making it go more into the “thrifted” realm and less “vintage” (and $250 is too much for that IMHO).

I’m currently not allowed to buy any more pictures of dead people because I have probably 10-12 from our LA house that are awaiting their spots at the farm, but I did love these two. I mostly love the outfits – the historical signifiers of the time. And yes that blonde girl reminded me of Birdie (and yes, myself). The boy portrait was I think $1200 or something crazy expensive but it was HUGE.

I CAN’T BELIEVE I HAVEN’T TOLD YOU YET. Birdie, my sweet little joyful lady is obsessed with decorating and styling (it redefined for me what parenting joy is – I know she is obviously heavily influenced by me, but she does it all the time by herself when I’m not in the room). Anyway, we have this dollhouse from Target that is up in the attic and she finally BEGGED me to get it down last week because she is ready to start decorating it. Two or three years ago I begged her to do this with me, but she was too young and didn’t get why it was fun. Now I’m still hesitant to confirm that she’s in it for the long haul, and not that she just wants to play with a toy on the top shelf for a brief period, but crossing fingers we’ve entered into the “playing dollhouse” together mode. Hot Tip – you have to have dolls. While she does love decorating she is into the imaginary interaction part of it. That’s all to say I didn’t buy this dollhouse furniture because it was two days before she said she was ready to go for it, but I wish I had.

Two mirrors because somehow I can justify moving these up to Oregon. The one on the right I love for a gallery wall (the sculptural shape breaks up normal rectangles). I think it was $75 which is probably more than I should have paid, HOWEVER (rationalization coming here) the one on the LEFT was only $20 and I would have paid $60 for that (imagine leaning on our kitchen shelf – that arch is so cute and you know we love a mirror in a kitchen).

Two vases that I did not need… I bought the one on the left because that texture is cool, and white over navy is obviously going to work in any room of our home. The footed black one is good, but I have 932 vintage footed vessels so I slowed my roll.

If we were closer to decorating the farm I think I would have snagged some of these, but since we are like 7 months out and I KNOW that the antique shopping in Oregon is incredible I decided to wait. I do love this tole lamp for Birdie’s room (she loves flowers possibly even more than I do) but not having designed anything for their rooms yet (not even knowing if they are sharing or not) I decided it was an expensive hoard ($140 I think).

Two more paintings that I was drawn to, but not enough to buy. The needlepoint on the left really struck me, well, that particular day felt like the world needed more kindness. I skipped it because it was kinda expensive and it just generally wasn’t a “hell yes”. The strawberry still life next to it I’m still super into and kinda wish I had bought it for our pantry (I love those colors A LOT) but again, I wasn’t 100% and it was $60 so I decided to skip it.

I kinda don’t want to even tell you this yet, but there will likely be a piece of furniture or two upholstered in vintage quilts. I’ve been scouring all the vintage sites and I know which ones I’m following (they are super expensive, like $250 +) so I’m waiting to scour in person. These two were CLOSE but the blue is just a bit too bright – I want something either more muted or more gray. But I was really drawn to the simplicity of the pattern and couldn’t stop thinking about how cute it would be to have one of each on the foot of the kids’ beds. But again for $180 each it felt too risky since I don’t know anything about their rooms yet. Besides, I need an excuse to go antiquing up there…

Oh. remember the time that I actually freaked out at a thrift store in Pasadena when I found the most perfect red and white antique quilt (king-sized!!) for $80 and bought it SO FAST, almost like the cops were going to come in and shut the place down because the deal was so good. Then I got it home and upon further inspection realized it was from Pottery Barn???? I use it all the time, actually – it’s our go-to picnic blanket. Remember the “antique french twine spool holder” I realized later was from Home Goods?? There is really no avoiding this trap (except actually inspecting your vintage goods) and it still cracks me up.

Now I’m not FULLY convinced of either of these, but I was very drawn to them. The boat is so pretty and simple – if we had a beach house I would have 100% bought it. The shell pot? I don’t know. I just know that they are having a moment but aren’t for me. They have an awesome “Golden Girls” vibe that I could 100% see on Instagram.

I was tempted by this chair because I’m in need of two swivel chairs (I think) and this one was cute and affordable ($140). But ideally, I’d have a pair of them and finding single dope chairs is my forte so I skipped this one. It was at Urban Americana (which is awesome BTW) if you want to go snag it.

Jess

Just a gal in her very yellow “Polish grandmother” dress contemplating purchasing yet another cute trash bin. I already own two so I didn’t buy this one but shoot it’s SO CUTE, right!? I reeeeeallly love a lightly patina’d delicate wire…anything. So this bin was no exception. I personally think an unexpected, chic trash bin is the way to up the ante of any room’s style:) But actually. I’m not joking. Don’t forget about the trash.

It took A LOT of restraint not to buy at least one of these. I’m very drawn to dark wood these days and I think it’s because of the style of my apartment. So even though that mirrored curio shelf was only $20 I passed because I didn’t have a place in mind for it. Same goes for the circa 1880 corner cabinet. Except that one was $85 so much more of a financial investment. Maybe next lifetime.

EM HERE -THE ONE ON THE LEFT IS SO GOOD!!!!!!!!!! I WOULD HAVE TOTALLY BOUGHT THAT FOR OUR POWDER BATH!!

That corkscrew and matchbook caught my eye but even at $12 and $10 I decided to skip. I definitely hopped on that “framing a bunch of cool matchbooks” trend in 2008 and I still always peek at fun ones when I’m thrifting. I honestly still love the look and may even do it again! I still have all of them:)

GAH – EM HERE – THAT CORKSCREW IS SO GOOD!!!!!

I mean. It’s just good! Look at those circles! I don’t remember how much it was but it was hard to pass up because I actually need some kind of table next to my oven. But guess who didn’t have her needed measurements??? Brady had a very similar one in his old kitchen so I have a soft spot for them for that reason too.

EM HERE – JESS, I SAW THAT PIECE, TOO, SO GOOD BUT I THINK IT WAS SUPER EXPENSIVE IF THAT MAKES YOU FEEL ANY BETTER (LIKE OVER $800)

Ugh. I held onto that brass vase for like 20 minutes but after asking Em if she thought it was worth $50 and her saying if it were $30 then yes, I put it back. I only regret it a little. I have SO MANY vessels that spending $50 on another one when I don’t know if I need it is completely unnecessary.

That urn outdoor planter was just cool and made of metal so super heavy. Wasn’t going to buy it but really loved the shape.

Here are two others I wasn’t going to buy but thought they were awesome. That side table would be cute in or outside and that mini chair would be well, probably useless, but so sweet to look at daily! Sorry, I don’t remember the prices.

JESS!!! EM HERE. I NEED THAT SMALL HANGING CHAIR!!! THAT’S IT. NEW WORK REQUIREMENT THAT YOU HAVE TO SHOW ME EVERYTHING YOU PASS UP BEFORE WE LEAVE A STORE.

If only I had a body of water to float this stunning weird beauty on. Again, another lifetime.

But I actually did buy two things!

right photo: photo by sara ligorria-tramp | from: jess’ long and skinny balcony reveal!!

Even I don’t fully get me sometimes but that ceramic face plate needed to be mine. And honestly at $30 (a little steep probably) I was willing to pay up. Then I did get something I did need – A planter. That patina’d cutie was the perfect match for my Parisian-inspired balcony so for $20ish I happily took it home for me (and you?) to enjoy:) Both of these were from Urban Americana and I am honestly a big fan. Great variety but not too overwhelming. It’s absolutely a must-go if you are in Long Beach.

Caitlin

HELLO, IT’S ME. You know I’ve said my piece already so LET’S GET TO THE GOODS. Look at these vintage beauts!!!

I’ve been absolutely in love with these chests since writing this post and have the perfect spot in mind for one in my home, but this one was a little out of reach at about $1,400. That’s a GREAT price for such beautiful flamed mahogany with such special details – someone in the area, please go buy this from Urban Americana! – but it’s a little (read: a lot) beyond my budget right now. Back to FB Marketplace I go!

I’m also currently experiencing a love affair with ALL campaign furniture. These Cleo Baldon-style chairs would have been perfect in my dining room if the leather had been a little warmer and I *wish* I had space for those flawless wrought iron outdoor chairs on the right. The lines and the shapes are just SO PLEASING to my eye. Do you agree??

I thought Em was going to love these dog paintings (you know, given her current search for pet portraits) but was SHOCKED when all three were a pass. It turns out that these felt a little too “movie set” and a little less organic, which I totally understand. Also, HELLO unintended mirror selfie!

OH MY. In hindsight, I look at this marquetry lamp on the left and am like, “WHY DIDN’T I BUY THIS?” (Answer: it was $245, but that feels very fair for something like this TBH. I need to go back!!!) And that hand-painted lamp on the right was even more beautiful in person if you can believe it – the shades of pink were SO good.

I bought this because I’m losing my mind and need to collect all things majolica/lettuce/cabbageware. In a crazy twist, I had actually pinned the radish version of this soup tureen on Etsy IMMEDIATELY before heading to Long Beach, which makes me feel like I manifested this one a little bit. It makes me surprisingly happy and I love it very much – SUPER worth the $25 I paid for it IMO.

EMILY HERE – I’M MAKING CAITLIN WRITE A TREND PIECE ABOUT THIS BECAUSE SHE IS NOT ALONE. IT IS TENTATIVELY CALLED “I THINK I’M LOSING MY GD MIND”

Those plates on the left are a classic case of NOT vintage!!! I was ABSOLUTELY JAZZED on all of these until I turned one over and realized that they’re still available at West Elm. They’re $12.50 new but they were still $10 here, so it wasn’t a good deal for me and I left them behind.

But I did bring home those flower plates on the right. Em actually pointed them out to me – mainly because I couldn’t shut up about how much I love dinnerware from Bordallo Pinheiro and the pansy plates from Fitz & Floyd – and I’m SO GLAD she did. These 6 different color plates were made in Italy and they cost $70, which felt like a slam dunk for someone who has waited to buy plates for two years (!!!) because I like, REALLY wanted to find ones I loved. These were worth the wait 🙂

GAH. Look at all these sweet glass shades!!! Why don’t I have any pendant lights!!!

Two seating options, two VERY different styles. That strawberry chintz chaise on the left is SO FUN – I could see it looking right at home in a ton of modern-traditional designs. And that Overman Pod Sofa on the right was SUCH. A. DEAL. at $450. I wish I had space for it! (Here’s one in the original fabric for $1500 if you also love this spacey shape.)

GIVE ME ALL THE REGENCY LEOPARDS AND CHEETAHS. Except not for like, $900. How fun is this, though?

I am a low-key collector of these leather animals – I bought this elk as the first piece of furniture for a new apartment when I was 22 and broke (and I bought it instead of buying a sofa!! Like an actual lunatic!!) and I recently added a 4′ tall leather giraffe to the mix (my IG pals know all about the newly-named “bath giraffe” because he lives in my bathroom). But these guys are ALL over the place and they come in so many different animals and sizes – I just love the texture/warmth/weirdness they bring to a space.

Would it really be an EHD trip if we didn’t ponder buying tiny chairs?? These were cool but the chairs wouldn’t fit under the table and I don’t know if I can have a non-functional tiny vignette in my house. A tragic pass.

UGH EMILY HERE HOW DID YOU NOT SHOW THOSE TO ME???

I LOVE WEIRD DOG THINGS. That’s a leather decanter on the left with terrifying eyes (it has grown on me a lot since TBH) and I just loved those sweet fireplace tools on the right. I thought it was missing a piece so I passed but I now see that I am VERY dumb and that the fourth poker is laying on the ground RIGHT THERE. I think they were about $200 – so not cheap – but they make such a fun statement and feel like a keep-forever kinda piece.

CAITLIN HOW DID YOU NOT SHOW ME THAT LEATHER DOG?????

Does anyone know the history of that type of wooden art on the right? I thought it was SO COOL and I could just imagine it looking totally fresh and modern in a slimmer frame. I also walked around with that art on the left for 15 minutes before putting it back. It was $65 and the colors made my heart sing a little bit (plus one of the buildings just says “Restaurant” on it and for whatever reason, I LOVE THAT) but I ended up seeing a piece of art that I liked better, so I figured I didn’t love it enough to bring it home.

This was the art I loved more – it’s a painting of the park that’s a few blocks from my house. I am VERY sentimental and really like collecting pieces that have ties to home (y’all have NO IDEA how many Delaware-related pieces of art and ephemera are in my apartment).

Mallory

This post could also be titled “all the things Mallory should have bought while vintage shopping with the team” and I’m gonna show you ALL THE THINGS. I’m actually considering going back for a few of these things/maybe just need to buy different versions of them at different times in life. There were 2 items in particular that I know I will purchase eventually because they’re really fun/cool/creative things to have in your house. Let’s start with the first one:

VINTAGE TIKI GLASSES. I thought I was so creative and unique when I saw all these awesome tiki cups and I told Emily “omg how cool would it be to have a bunch of different vintage tiki glasses and when your friends come over they can pick whichever one they want,” Em quickly responded with “oh my friends do that at their house…it is awesome!” So while it’s maybe not as original of an idea as I thought, it would be really cool to be a cool adult and do that. Now enter the second fun/cool/creative thing I want in my house:

A VINTAGE GUM DISPENSER. HOW FUN IS THIS??? I want to have this in my house so people can just come up to it and grab whatever type of gum they want whenever. I think this would be SO FUN to have in like a den/bar/even a bathroom maybe?? Idk but I called my boyfriend desperately asking where we could fit this in our studio apartment that would maybe make sense. Still highly debating going back for it btw…

This was a cute classic cutting board that I wanted because I knew it would look great in photos, but all in all I wasn’t sure if it was worth $50 since I’ve seen it in a few other places before…that handle is SO GREAT though.

These mugs haunted me from store to store…I saw them and SWOONED (plus they were pretty affordable: 2 for $10 I believe). Since my cabinet space is extremely limited (hence why I didn’t end up getting the tiki glasses either) I passed on them, but then I found them at the next store we went to too!! They were following me I swear. It was hard to pass them up the second time but my exploding cabinets were begging me. Anyway, someone go grab them if you’re in Long Beach –– it was a great deal!!

ajai came to brunch on our first day!!

HI, IT’S CAITLIN AGAIN. I gotta know – did any of these pieces also catch your eye? Who on team EHD most aligns with your current style? And most importantly, do you think you could spend 3 straight days in a house with your coworkers and leave even MORE in love with them than you were before??? (I say it in every post, but we’re so lucky to be able to work together doing something so fun. 2 years in and I still can’t believe this is a job!! :)) Thanks for coming on a little vintage shopping trip with us – hope you had a nice time, too. See you back here tomorrow, yeah??

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August 20, 2021

An Anxiety Relief Hack That Will Make You And Your Loved Ones Feel VERY Good – It’s Called The Gifting Closet

Happy Friday, my sweet plum pals! Today, I wanted to fill you in on my all-time favorite money-saving and stress-reducing hack: the gifting closet. In my case, “closet” may be a little bit of a generous term – “two shelves in the hallway built-in” is more appropriate – but it’s the best way I’ve found to make folks feel loved and seen without spending a ton.

I don’t know if you also internalized the “never show up to someone’s house empty-handed” rule or if you’ve ever panic-purchased super overpriced baby books/wrapping material/cards while en route to a baby shower (guilty). But adding a little stockpile of potential presents has removed a ton of unnecessary anxiety from my life. And I don’t know about y’all, but it’s been a particularly tough couple of weeks for so many of my loved ones – when it rains, it pours – but being a thoughtful and supportive friend is WAY easier when the store is just at the end of the hall, you know? So yes, while I hope to save you some cash and to take a little load off your shoulders, I also hope that you’ll be inspired to brighten a friend’s day – it feels like we all kinda need it right now. 🙂

via a thoughtful placeStep One: Plan Your Occasions

Having a stash of potential gifts for newly engaged friends is top of mind for me, but folks with children may have totally different priorities. (I’m constantly shocked by the number of birthday parties that kids are invited to!!!) What kind of things do you have coming up over the next year? Some notes to jog your memory…

Events: It’s nice to have something on hand for birthdays, engagements, housewarmings, baby showers, graduations, retirements, bridal showers, weddings, and anniversaries.

Just Because: This is a great catchall for all types of thoughtful presents – think of teacher appreciation, greeting gifts for new neighbors, “thank you” presents for your friends who watch your pets at the last minute (Just me? Too niche?), grief gifts (be sure to check out Velinda’s ideas here, too), welcome home presents, and host gifts.

Holidays: You know the big ones, but Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, Valentine’s Day, Christmas, Hanukkah, Purim, Eid, Easter, and Galentine’s Day (know it’s a joke holiday, but it’s absolutely worth celebrating) are the first ones that come to mind. (Any others?)

via the home editStep Two: Shop Your House

A big caveat for my shopping lovers: do not buy things just to fill up your closet! You have plenty of time to stock up and make it special, but you’re going to want to start by looking at your own house. Are there any unused products or vintage pieces that deserve a new home?

Full transparency: my gifting closet started accidentally when I missed the return deadline on a few of these Capri Blue reed diffusers. The scent is SO GOOD but it just felt like a miss for my home (kind of like how perfumes smell different on different folks). But instead of feeling like a bum who can’t manage their time, I was SO grateful to have missed the return deadline when a neighbor who loves candles and diffusers volunteered to watch my cat at the last minute – a diffuser packaged with a bottle of wine and a few bath bombs in a vintage basket made the perfect “thank you” gift. My closet grew from there – it was so fun to shop my own house and look for goodies that could be repurposed as presents in the future.

via kelly nanStep Three: Keep an Eye Out

Once you’ve taken inventory and know what you already have, the fun of expanding your gifting options can ACTUALLY begin. 🙂 There’s no rush to stock up all at once here – take your time, keep an eye out for sales, and actually think about the events you have coming up (no need to buy kids’ toys if you don’t know a kid, I am not trying to build a pipeline for the casting director of Hoarders here). Make a special note of your friends unique tastes, too – one of my best friends LOVES bolo ties so I always keep an eye out for those when I’m shopping so I’ll be Leslie Knope-level prepared for her birthday/Christmas/a promotion/a rainy day.

All that said, if I were building my closet again from scratch, here are the slam dunk presents that I’ve given in the past and the types of things I’d keep an eye out for…

Guaranteed Winners

1. Textured Ceramic Jar Candle Sandalwood & Tobacco | 2. Match Striker | 3. Write On Pen Set | 4. Gia Rectangle Claw Clip | 5. Indigo Blue And White Striped Pedestal Planter | 6. Wood Stone Tray | 7. Salida Bottle Opener | 8. Garden Scissors With Pouch | 9. Oil Diffuser

We’ll talk about this a little later, but the real key to these gifts is to pair them with a “live” buddy – so like, YES, bring your friend a beautiful bottle opener…alongside a nice 6 pack. Bring a tray WITH a crusty baguette from the grocery store. Grab a vase and then add a little floral arrangement. Fill up a vintage jar with a homemade treat or a salt scrub or a bath bomb. You can really get personal here and it’ll make it seem like you spent hours shopping for the perfect gift instead of a few quick minutes pulling from your own personal stash 🙂

A few things to note: candles and scents can be such great gifts, but try to keep the packaging neutral – in this case, a ceramic or stone or terra cotta jar will make it feel a little more elevated than the standard glass-with-sticker packaging. The same thing goes for trays, match strikers, vessels, jars, and planters. While I’m usually a fan of a maximalist moment, gifting decor can be VERY tricky so it’s best to keep it simple.

Beyond decor, there are a few other surprise slam dunks that I’ve found – hair accessories (especially simple clips like these – no shame in splitting up a pair!), nice pens, and elevated basics (like this vintage corkscrew) can really put a smile on people’s faces. I also love keeping some nice salt and sage on hand for housewarmings (if you also want to buy a smudge stick to gift, please purchase from an Indigenous vendor – Sheyenne from Whispering Winds is my favorite!).

For Culinary Types

1. Stoneware Mug | 2. FIVETWO Ultimate Apron | 3. Chop Whitewash Wood Bowl | 4. Helms Gold Cheese Knives (set of 3) | 5. Minimalist Measuring Cups | 6. Drink Rocks | 7. “Cook This Book” Cookbook by Molly Baz | 8. Stud Decanter | 9. Assorted Airtight Silicone Lids (set of 5) | 10. Trio Marble Serving Board | 11. Teak Measuring Spoons | 12. Old World Italian by Mimi Thorisson

Again, the pairing is key – these stoneware mugs are SO luxe and weighty and expensive-looking despite their tiny price tag (only $7.99 for 2!) and would be SO GREAT to gift alongside with some nice coffee or tea. I’m also a huge fan of the apron – I find that folks LOVE wearing them but rarely purchase them for themselves – and this one from Food52’s line is so good. It comes in a few other lovely colors, too 🙂

And while these are all new, it’s fun to keep an eye out for vintage bowls, carafes, decanters, cookie jars, and goblets when you head out to the flea market or thrift shop. I feel like these vintage wooden pineapple bowls, this AWESOME carafe with a racehorse stopper, or this sweet little spice jar would be super great gifts.

For Self-Care Lovers

1. BIG MOOD Bath Soak | 2. Dr. Jart+ Dermask Water Jet Soothing Hydra Solution | 3. KNC Beauty Collagen Infused Lip Mask Set | 4. Turmeric Botanical Bar | 5. Nécessaire The Body Ritual | 6. Honest 4-Ounce Organic Body Oil | 7. Goodnight Set Sleep Mask & Gua Sha | 8. Superfood Latte Sampler | 9. Prima Bath Gem 25mg CBD Bath Soak for Relaxation & Recovery

Does part of my gifting shelf look like the checkout line at Sephora? Yes. Am I ready to show up at your house with a bunch of face masks when you’re having a bad day? ALSO YES. I usually just stock up on a ton of these sheet masks at Target, but you can really grab anything that strikes your (or your pal’s) fancy. There are a ton of tiny and easily storable gifts to scoop in this arena – though these ones above are our tried-and-true favorites 🙂 – so I’d recommend just holding out for sales or bundling opportunities.

For Kids

1. Straw Constructor STEM Building Toy | 2. Paint-Your-Own Wood Tea Set Kit | 3. LEGO Marvel Spider-Man | 4. Small Security Blanket Bear | 5. Green Toys Submarine | 6. Give It A Swirl Tie Dye Kit | 7. ‘If I Were a Puppy…’ Book | 8. 60pcs Magnet Building Tiles | 9. Nail Polish Set

So uh, I don’t actually know any kids (which I think is normal for someone with almost exclusively childfree friends!) but I do always have at least one baby book (looking at you, #7) for showers on hand. That said, it seems like y’all DO know kids, so we pulled some EHD-favorites for ya in case your child keeps getting invited to their classmate’s birthdays and you’d rather not break the bank at the last minute while you’re en-route to parties.

Being said, I LOVE having adult coloring books, fun markers/crayons/colored pencils, journals (these are my favorite), puzzles, and cool playing cards on hand which could all probably do double-duty as a kids’ gift in a pinch! This gradient puzzle is my all-time favorite thing to gift (I have six of them in my apartment right now, no joke) and it seems like it’d be a blast for people of any age. Also a huge fan of these Strawberry Thief playing cards (there are a ton of other classic Morris prints, too!) which are another awesome elevated basic.

And All The Trappings

Do we all hang on to every nice gift bag we receive, or is that just a weird thing that my family does? In any case, there’s no reason to rush out and grab a whole bunch of bags/wrapping paper/bows/ribbons right now. Build up that collection slowly over time!

1. Vintage Finnish Pedestal Bowl | 2. Tiny Vintage Brass Basket | 3. Mid-Century Collapsible Basket

Being said…I love a vintage basket, box, or pedestal bowl for gifting. You grab some tissue paper, slide your gift in there, give it a little zhuzh and MAN, you have a beautifully presentable present!! There are wildly affordable container options all around ya – vintage baskets are SO cheap when you buy them in person – so just keep your eyes peeled the next time you head out on a shopping trek. The holidays are right around the corner, after all 🙂 (HOW?!)

Step Four: Then Organize It

When it comes to organizing your gift closet/shelf/bin/container under the bed, less is more. You don’t need a million specialty products – just something that can corral your gifts and trappings! If you’re a small space dweller (or trying to hide presents from the other people in your household), consider throwing everything into one big suitcase. If you already have some plastic bins, use those! But if you’re looking for something a little more elaborate or organized, all of the following have nearly perfect ratings from people whom I assume are VERY well-loved by their friends and fam.

1. Hanging Gift Tote Organizer | 2. Elfa White Mesh Gift Wrap Cart | 3. Grey Wrap & Tote Organizer | 4. Customized Gift Wrap Center | 5. White Elfa Utility Mesh Gift Packaging Over the Door Rack Solution | 6. 20 gal. Clear Weathertight Trunk

If you can’t tell from the earlier photos in the post, that over-the-door organizer is a HUGE deal in the gifting closet blog world. I’m planning on organizing a walk-in closet in my apartment soon (installing shelves and everything!) so this is actually one of the first items on my to-buy list as the reviews are GLOWING.

But there are a ton of other options if such over-the-door storage isn’t your thing. I’m so impressed by the construction of #2 (you KNOW Leslie Knope had one of these carts in her hoarder house!!) and the size of #3. There are solutions for all kinds of homes! Hooray!

flea-gift-wrap-760photo by sara ligorria-tramp for ehdStep Five: Gift It

We’ve started to go over this, but I’ve recently come to the conclusion that the best, most thought-out physical gifts have five parts (we all know that experiences are a whole different ballgame!!):

Something solid: You know, like a mug or a tray or a book.Something consumable-ish: Bread! Pens! A bath bomb! Cheese! Wine! Markers! Just something that the recipient can actually use or enjoy. (I’d also argue that “a plant” could fit into this category, but it felt weird to call that “consumable,” so here we are.) Something thoughtful: A heartfelt note in a card means EVERYTHING…or you can take a page outta the EHD playbook and gift a compliment jar, which is an absolute tear-jerker every. dang. time. 🙂 Nice presentation: I talk a big game but transparently, this is still where I struggle. I didn’t have a bag or basket on hand a few weeks ago, so I literally handed Jess her unwrapped Christmas presents and was like “HERE YOU GO, NOW OFF ON YOUR WAY!” (Also YES, I was EIGHT MONTHS LATE. And I had her gifts the whole time!! I just kept forgetting to *gift* them!!) But actually putting effort into wrapping or presenting your gifts shows the recipient how much you care, which is really sweet. (I’ll do better this year, Bunge!!)

There you have it – the five steps to creating the gifting closet of your dreams. Save money, reduce stress, feel organized, and gift better – what else could you ask for?? If anyone else has any tips or favorite storage options, please drop them below – I’m excited to hear from you 🙂 Happy weekend. xx

Opening Image Credits: Photo by Tessa Neustadt | From: Ban.do Overall

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August 19, 2021

Jess’ Long And Skinny Balcony Reveal!! + The DIY IKEA Floor Tile Hack That Was WELL WORTH The Blood, Sweat, And 2-6 Tears

My co-dependant relationship/design support with/from Caitlin Higgins has for the millionth time paid off. I, Jessica A. Bunge, designed and photographed a sure, “tiny” balcony, but an entire balcony nonetheless in under two months. Does that sound impressive? Not really. Did I finish by the 7/20 deadline?? Almost. But as someone who has a history of overthinking every last detail of every design decision in her life (because isn’t there always a way to make it cooler?), potentially prolonging the design process, this is nothing short of the beautiful, Parisian-inspired miracle.

But let’s start at the beginning dun, dun, dunnnnn…

So much potential but also VERY daunting at first sight. How was I going to make this functional and beautiful? Could I even have a table and chairs with that comical width? How was I going to cover that flooring? Well, I was determined and came up with a plan…man.

I wanted to show these photos to remind you of how wildly skinny my balcony is. And what is even WILDER is that it’s not original to the building. I KNOW. They couldn’t have spared a couple more feet???? Maybe they felt it in their bones that I would live here one day and thought, “You know what Jess needs? A real hard design challenge. A long 30″ x 20′ balcony it is! “Well, balcony builders, challenge accepted.

Welcome to Paris-adena, France:)

My love for these windows only rivals my love for my living room turret window. In typical Jess/Libra fashion I simply can’t choose a favorite so won’t. However, waking up to these beautiful gals may or may not make me feel like a princess every day. Something I never thought I needed… I’d like to think I’m not very “princessy” but dammit it feels good.

Side note: These are my old IKEA curtains and while I love a romantic “puddle” I might go for more of a “kiss” when I finally design my bedroom. So another stay tuned. 2022 is going to be exciting because I’m going to finish my entire apartment if it kills me:) But fear not, the living room will happen this year. These covid delays are just still very real.

Oof I love this view and everything in it. Having a ton of texture out there was really important to me. I wanted lots of plants, patterns, and materials. To get that I just used all the knowledge I learned from Em. I chose a color palette, made sure I varied the tones of those colors, mixed up pattern scales, chose different but complementary materials, and added in some very delicious wine. That’s the actual key to any great design. Shhhhhhhh, don’t tell anyone.

Woven Planter (with sweet lavender)

While I hate choosing favorites, this planter is easily top three…or two…or one. The woven texture is so good, the simple lines of the black wire adds quiet contrast, and then those sweet little legs with the ball feet really modernize it. Basically, it’s perfect and fun fact, it’s also pretty affordable. Also how stunning is that sweet lavender?? Heart, be still.

Another fun fact: After Caitlin and I bought not one but TWO sets of “friendship chairs,” she found this PERFECT patio set on her Nextdoor app area for $150. I nearly blacked out when I saw it. Messages were sent and off I was to the west side for my perfect patio match.

In case you were wondering what “friendship chairs” or “friendship furniture” are, it’s when you buy a set of say, four chairs and you split them financially and physically in half with your preferred friend. My preferred friendship furniture friend will forever and always be Caitlin. To date, we’ve split two sets of four chairs. Only time will tell how many more are in our future. Maybe for our next and hopefully slightly larger homes, we will move up to a set of eight.

So not only would I have given her my firstborn for finding this set had she asked, but this tip was also 3 days before our 7/20 deadline. She was practically handing me the win! FYI no one actually won but we were both super close. O and as a thank you, I gave her my two chairs from our first set of friendship chairs since she loved them so much and I not longer had a place for them. Fair is fair.

Seat Cushion Cover + Cushion Insert | Throw Blanket

THOSE ARMS! And that floor might I add:) But no, we are still talking about the patio set. Now while this is the set of my dreams, it needed some cushion for long warm nights of talking with friends about important stuff like vintage patio furniture. So I ordered two sets of cushions like a normal person. One I ordered from Etsy with the hopeful promise of maaaybe getting here by the shoot date. No dice. The others are from IKEA. And honestly, after I cut off the black bungee straps that are supposed to secure the cushions to the seat, they turned out pretty darn chic. Both sets were super affordable.

But butts weren’t my only concern. These chairs are iron (can you tell?) and the backs are also hard. So I headed over to Target and found these perfectly patterned throw blankets to drape over the backs. Instant comfort that packs a lot of style. What’s also great is that I can easily take them off when I’m not using them (they aren’t meant for outdoors sadly) and marvel at the perfect ironwork of the chairs through my windows.

Plastic Wine Glasses | Striped Marble Board (similar) | Wine | Bullet Planter (vintage with twinklebells red) | Lantern

Now let’s drink. I’m a real wine lover so naturally, I wanted a great (and cool looking) bottle of natural wine. I know this is area-specific (Pasadena, CA) but I want to shout out my new local natural wine shop, Gook Luck Wine Shop. It’s owned by such a sweet couple who are super knowledgeable and super fun. My favorite kind of people.

So with a cool bottle of sparkling natural wine, I wanted to add in a fun platter to display it on. This striped marble board is from Target back when I did my kitchen reveal. I freaking love it and think the pattern against the tabletop is the perfect contrast. Then I added in a couple of plastic wine glasses (YES, they won’t beak… but also don’t try) and a mint plant for good smells, and I was set, baby.

Black Urn Planter (not available but with mentha suaveolens pineapple) | Blue Vase (vintage with pink angelonia | White Vase (with sweet potato vine) | Terracotta Bowl Planter (unavailable but with dichondra silver falls)

Can you tell I was a server for 6 years in my 20s?? Probably not with all those bubbles! I clearly think it’s funny that I’ve lost my delicate touch.

Ready to see the other side??

Lounge Chair (vintage) | Metal Globe (vintage but with tradescantia zebrina) | Lantern Hook | Lantern | Flameless Tea Candles | Terracotta Pot (unavailable but with yellow buttons)

I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I’m not 100% happy with this side. Don’t tell anyone by I might have jumped the gun a little on buying this particular vintage lounge chair. It’s still awesome and I love it as an individual piece but had I gotten the patio set first I might have gone in a wood direction for warmth. But it’s clearly totally fine and comfortable and is where I spend most of my time when I’m out there. Plus what can’t a couple of throw pillows and a blanket solve? Well, a lot actually but in this case, it solved my “problem” enough.

ANOTHER FUN FACT: That is the only AC unit in my apartment and it’s in the bathroom. None of my other windows are AC compatible.

I was going to try and conceal it with a wooden half wall DIY but then I would have been to have enough space for the lounger and my beloved globe:)

Aged Planter (unavailable but with white angelonia) | White Planter | Yellow Pillow | Lumbar Pillow | Throw Blanket

I love my metal globe. I was down in my hometown visiting my cousin and thought I would pop into the local antique mall and there it was. The lady at the front desk told me twice that I chose “weird” things (this included an oversized handled woven basket and a woven lampshade…get with the time’s lady, these things are cool!). So instead of hanging a lantern on my lantern hook, I hung my globe with a contrasting beautiful plant so not everything on that side of the balcony was white.

I also wanted to keep the pattern and texture party going on this side so I chose that mustard yellow pillow for the fun pattern and to go with the yellow plants I purchased. Then I wanted a “quiet” and different shaped pillow so I got that great lumbar and to finish it off purchased that two-toned throw. It’s so so soft and perfect to cozy up with. 10/10

Just wanted to show you more details on that table. How pretty are the main stand and ball feet on the table??? Oh, and I guess I’ll finally write my love letter to my IKEA DIY floors:)

But this is where I started. Simple enough right? WRONG.

My balcony isn’t perfectly rectangular so I had to layout, mark, cut with a jigsaw, and then paint. It took alllllll day. It was a beast of a project but then…

a lot more work but getting VERY worth it.

Floor Tiles | Cream Paint (heirloom white in satin) | Blue Paint (midnight blue in satin)

I don’t think I could have imagined them to turn out so perfect. But let me tell you (again) that after I had finished measuring the space (not equally rectangle), organizing them, painting them (with SO MUCH help from my friend Emily. No not Boss Emily and not Bowser Emily:)), and then installing them, I said, “this is why I don’t do DIYs like this”. They are so much work. HOWEVER, once they were finally done I was over the actual moon and thought it was totally worth it. It’s funny how that works. Also, hats off to the real DIYers out there. You are incredible.

I do want to say a few things on this particular DIY though. I don’t recommend it for high-traffic areas. Despite using a double primer spray paint, they chip so so easily. The tiles are plastic so there’s only so much you can do. Wood ones are available in this larger scale (not at IKEA) but they’re just pretty pricey and I couldn’t swing it. So since I only have room to take about two steps on each side, it works for me. Just wanted to give you the real deal, especially since it’s not necessarily a quick project.

Solar String Lights

From this angle, you can actually see my solar string lights! They have to be pretty high up so I can open my tall doors but they give off a really nice soft glow (not super bright FYI) which I like for this space and the neighborhood. I also added in a few lanterns for added light when I’m out there.

Before and after time? You bet…

So there is it. Au revoir, my sweet friends. I hope that you get to enjoy every last second of this warm (maybe too warm) weather while we have it. My communal patio reveal is next but likely before that you get to set your eyeballs on Caitlin’s amazing balcony!! We couldn’t shoot the same day and she’s now out east for a few weeks so that’s the only reason why there will be a slight hold up. WE BOTH WON THE RACE! Friendship furniture forever:)

Love you, mean it.

*Design by Jess Bunge (Me!)
**Photography by Sara Ligorria-Tramp
***Emotional Design Support by Caitlin Higgins

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August 18, 2021

How To Help Families From Afghanistan Right Now – Miry’s List and Other Organizations

A few years ago I was introduced to Miry’s List – an LA-based non-profit that helps welcome refugees and their families by getting them set up with a home, basic needs, a job, and introducing them to a community – you can read that post here. I remember that she told me a lot of the parents were former aides to the US – translators that no longer felt safe in their countries after working with the US (many from Afghanistan). Once they arrive here, so far from home, they clearly feel lost. Miry found a hole and has been filling it for 4 years. Their mission is as follows: Miry’s List is a movement of neighbors and friends dedicated to welcoming new arrival refugee families into our community through inspired crowdsourcing.

While the messy fall of Afghanistan is still unfolding and there are a billion unknowns, I think one thing we do know is that those who helped the US over the last 20 years, are no longer feeling safe in the Taliban-controlled country. Many of them are hopefully getting out and brought to the states, and then when they arrive it’s also safe to say that they could use extra resources. Organizations like Miry’s list are crucial to help – not only meet their basic needs but help create a community for them to heal.

While there are a billion ways to help, I wanted to feature Miry’s List today because I know her and her organization personally and can attest to their mission, values, and dedication. I spoke to her this morning and she said that she has 8 new families from Afghanistan that need help, and expect many, many, many more to come soon (hopefully). Here is the link to help these families: Miry’s List Emergency Action Fund. Miry also said she has 3 of her families stuck in Afghanistan who went to visit family this summer. The fund would help them get back as they are currently trapped.

If you want to do more than donate you can volunteer as a family ambassador where you’ll be paired with a family (mostly for those of you in Southern California) and help set up their wishlists to help meet their needs.

From Miry: “The goal of an ambassador is to help get one family’s wishlist fulfilled. We match ambassadors with families, a photo, a bio about them and their experience, and a link to their Target wishlist. Also, we ask ambassadors to periodically call the families to do an emotional check-in. Like you would with a friend who is having a hard time. It could be a quick hello or something longer but these touchpoints can be really impactful for families who feel very isolated and far from home.” To volunteer to be an ambassador you can email: ambassadors@miryslist.org

It’s all a mess, totally terrifying, and watching it from afar is a point of privilege. Thanks to non-profit founders like Miry who have been dedicating their lives for years and have the connections and real protocol to help these families – with extra resources and help from those of us who can afford to give. Again, here is her emergency fund dedicated to this most recent crisis, to help Afghani families resettling in California. Give to Miry’s List Emergency Fund

While I know Miry personally, I know there are so many organizations set up to help during this crisis (and year-round). My team rounded up a few more (and please leave more in the comments). We are all still learning the best ways to help so if you have other ideas that go beyond or instead of donating please list those as well. Our hearts, our love, all our thoughts, and prayers go towards the families in Afghanistan.

Organizations to SupportSave the Children

For 100 years, their mission has been to give children a healthy start in life with the opportunity to learn and protection from harm. Nearly 10 million children in Afghanistan are in desperate need of life-saving help. Amid recent airstrikes and shelling, thousand of children and families have been forced to flee, with no access to proper medical care, here are ways you can help:

Ways to help: donation, sponsor a child, or shop gift catalog to give a meaningful gift to a child in need. GoFundMe- Emergency Relief In Afghanistan

Charmagz Library

As one of the few Afghan non-profits registered within Afghanistan, Charmagz Library is a group of young Afghans who have witnessed war and its direct impact on their childhood firsthand. This organization provides mobile library services within Kabul, Afghanistan.

Ways to help: donate to Charmagz Library here

Srow Zar Children @educatethechildrenaf

Children Without Borders and Watan Project

This project was created by Children Without Borders and the Watan Project and they’ve organized a fundraiser where 100% of the proceeds will go to families in need in Afghanistan. You can read more on their project page here.

Ways to help: donate to the campaign here

No One Left Behind

This was one of Miry’s recommendations. They are the only nationwide nonprofit committed to ensuring that America keeps its promise to our interpreting allies and their families who risked their lives for our freedom.

Ways to help: donate to the campaign here

Help Build Tomorrow

Help Build Tomorrow (HBT) core mission is to help those in need through sustainable projects for a better tomorrow. This organization’s current campaign goal is to provide urgent needs from tents to food, blankets, drinking water, and hygiene items among other pressing needs. The funds collected in this campaign, will be deposited in the accounts of the US-based non-profit, HBT (Help Build Tomorrow) in smaller increments, and HBT will transfer those funds to local volunteers coordinated by a fundraiser team selected from the community in diaspora around the world, who will supervise the disbursement in full transparency and report back to the community.

Ways to help: donate to the campaign here

“Tent Village” in Kabul by PARSA (Mina Sharif)

They have set up a “tent village” in downtown Kabul and are serving 40 families displaced by the Taliban advance. The Scout camp is being supported by local residents who are dedicated to doing whatever they can to help their fellow citizens. You can donate to this organization so they can get more resources and necessities for these families.

Ways to help: donate to the tent village campaign here

Human Concern International

Human Concern International is on the ground supporting internally displaced people who have left behind their rural towns for city centers with more support. There are more than 270,000 IDPs (internally displaced people), and the figures are rising. Men, women, children, and the elderly are in dire need of clothing, food, water, and shelter. Some need medical care due to sickness, old age, or injury. You can watch videos of their past work here.

Ways to help: donate to their campaign here

***NOTE: There were so many other amazing campaigns that have already reached their goal (or surpassed it which is AWESOME), these are the campaigns that are still actively needing support. If you have any more ways to help or organizations that need a spotlight, please comment them below!

If you looking for other ways to support, consider donating your time through phone banking. Here are some resources below!

Phone BankingText Crisis to 52886Use this Afghanistan Congressional Call Script document for a list of representatives to call along with a general script you can say is an attempt to centralize contact information and demands for US politicians regarding Afghanistan. This Congressional Advocacy Script document is for calling and petitioning congressional representatives based on your district

Hopefully, this is helpful. Thank you all for reading and taking the time to be here. And most importantly, thank you for doing your part 🙂

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August 17, 2021

The Truth About Unlacquered Brass Faucets + All The Kitchen Faucets I’m Considering (And WHY….)

Here’s a funny story/cautionary tale I never told you: When I was choosing the faucets for our 100-year-old English Tudor 5 years ago I wanted unlacquered brass – I longed for the patina, the age, the texture, dimension, and frankly, like the novels I’ve been devouring lately, I wanted that old-world romance that it provoked (The Duke Heist, anyone?). I went to a plumbing store in Pasadena to see them in person and I asked the very experienced salesperson how he felt about live, unlacquered (essentially unsealed) finishes. He responded quickly and enthusiastically “Oh I love them…..” I said “oh good!” and he continued, “…because you’ll be back here in 7 years replacing them”. That was obviously NOT the snarky news I wanted to hear, nor did it change my mind (and no one told Brian that hilarious anecdote). I did however take his precautions in every way – like buying a white sofa with kids, it’s doable but requires preventative measures and maintenance. We softened our water which we were going to do anyway, but it is HIGHLY recommended for live finishes (the Culligan partnership happened afterward, btw). I bought both the right daily cleaner and the monthly wax. After 4 years there was a tiny bit of green around the base on two of them (out of 8), but mostly they looked beautiful and we loved, loved, loved the patina. But the truth is unlacquered brass – like real marble – is a lifestyle choice. You have to love it enough to deal with the consequences and maintenance.

photo by tessa neustadt | from: emily’s kitchen and dining room reveal

Unlacquered brass brings me an odd amount of happiness. You know when you peel a banana for a toddler and they throw themselves on the ground in rage because either they wanted to do it, or you did it with your left hand instead of your right, etc, and you just think “well this reaction certainly doesn’t match the act”. That’s how I feel about unlacquered brass, except the opposite. It shouldn’t make me as happy as it does, but it does. But let me be clear – mostly in older homes – like our kitchen above. I do not miss it at our contemporary mountain house (I love our Purist faucet) and we aren’t planning it in the river house new build either (we are choosing this one). But in our old Tudor and this old Craftsman farmhouse, I know that it will give me a daily dose of joy, every time I touch it/see it and use it.

We all have our things. 🙂 So today I’m showing you all the faucets I an considering for our kitchen faucet suite (faucet, prep faucet, and pot filler) for our family farmhouse and what I’ve currently narrowed it down to. It should be said that I love a gooseneck or a bridge, and I’m leaning more towards traditional than modern (so no square ones) and I need deck mounted for the kitchen, not wall-mounted. Here we go.

Satin/Aged Brass:

At first in the name of “low maintenance but still so pretty” I was leaning into satin or brushed brass. Polished is better for contemporary homes like the mountain house and besides, the shine adds more bling than I want for this home (repeating “grounded” and “casual” for every decision) so I did not consider polished for this home.

1. Waterhouse Kitchen Faucet With Sprayer | 2. West Slope Kitchen Faucet | 3. Connor Bridge Kitchen Faucet

1. Dash Three Hole Gooseneck Kitchen Faucet with Metal Cross Handles and Spray | 2. Easton Classic Two Hole Bridge Gooseneck Kitchen Faucet, Metal Cross Handles

A Utilitarian Faucet – I.E. The Pull-Down

For a brief moment, I was influenced by Max and the choice we made for Ken’s River house and loved how utilitarian it was. Not trying to be fancy but utterly full of function and says, “What? We cook a lot”. Brian gave all of these fast “nos” because he wants a farmhouse style faucet, but for the record, I love these.

1. Culinary Pull Down Kitchen Faucet | 2. Poetto Pull Down Faucet

Polished Nickel

For another brief moment (like 2 days) I leaned into polished nickel. We have it mixed in our range, and we have a TON of wood in the kitchen so maybe having a cooler tone would be better than brass. Ultimately I leaned away from it (but chose it in the upstairs new guest bath). By the way, in general for older homes, you want to opt for polished nickel over polished chrome. Nickel is much warmer in tone and feels more timeless, chrome looks more mirrored and cold (it leans more 80s to me). I really love polished nickel and mixing metals in general.

1. H-Line Lever Handle Single Hole Kitchen Faucet With Sprayer

Unlacquered Brass Faucets – The Winners (??)

Chesterfield Kitchen Bridge Faucet with Side Spray

I’m down to two at three at this point – each with their pros and cons. The Newport brass one above is I think the one I used for our house in LA as well as the Silver Lake Hills kitchen. It’s beautiful and classic. The only con I see is that I have used it twice.

Rohl Perrin and Rowe Bridge Kitchen Faucet With Side Spray

This one is just the right amount of traditional “fuss”. I’ve pinned it probably 15 times over the years and it’s just good. There is no way I’ll regret this. It should be said that there are very few affordable unlacquered brass faucets on the market, for whatever reason (I found one below). Unlacquered brass went out of fashion decades ago when we started sealing the metals for longer use (to avoid the disintegration of the metal). So the general population doesn’t opt for this higher maintenance finish, therefore there really aren’t a ton on the market. I get it. I would like that to change, but I get it.

Stratford 321 Deck Mounted Bridge Kitchen Faucet with Side Spray

Now this one can be in unlacquered brass OR they even have an “aged brass” or “satin bronze” finish that has this beautiful tone that makes them actually look like the patina of an unlacquered brass, but with less maintenance. Watermark is an awesome maker that gives you endless options to customize your plumbing. Like most things that are custom and made in America they can be pretty pricey, but you get what you pay for and these are beautiful.

Loft 2.0 23 Deck Mounted Bridge Extended Gooseneck Kitchen Faucet with Side Spray

Again, this would be in unlacquered brass (I really wish their site showed them in all the different finishes – or at least 3-4 popular ones). I love that big gooseneck with the caps at the foot.

Arched V Bridge Unlacquered Brass Kitchen Faucet

Augusta Bridge Unlacquered Brass Kitchen Faucet With Hand Sprayer & Flat Cross Handles

Ok these two above are about half the price as others ($500 ish) including the sprayer (so saving even more) and is indeed so pretty. I found it on Etsy, made in Morocco by a small maker which is lovely. Brian is nervous about the quality for the price and not working as well with our American systems or not being able to return. The reviews are decent, and I showed ARCIFORM and they didn’t see any red flags, but it feels like a risk. If ANYONE has ordered from them please let me know.

deVOL Aged Brass Ionian Tap

So gorgeous. The little round knobs on the knob are playful but in a classic way. The nuts add a utilitarian element. I would never ever ever regret this one.

deVOL Aged Brass Pot Filler Tap

I mean, that pot filler is incredible. The ball joints add a bit of whimsy that I really really love, while the white enamel gives it a quaintness. I do wish they didn’t have their branding on it, but I guess as a huge fan of deVOL I wouldn’t mind it.

38/39- Kitchen Bridge Mixer

I mean. How beautiful is that? I would get this in polished brass, likely with levers (like below) as they are easier to maneuver with the side of your hand (say when you are washing raw chicken off your hands). The cons of this are 1. not made in America so they are imported from England, but a small company that does lovely things that I would like to support, and B. I don’t see a pot filler on the website which means we’d either source another one.

38/39- Kitchen Bridge Mixer

But I’m also tempted by the more modern goosenecks, in the unlacquered live brass that will age so well with the house:

Kallista One Bridge Kitchen Faucet

Kallista is another great brand that I love and am debating – Brian thinks the below is too modern and he’s probably right, but what you can’t really see until it ages is how the patina could make it work.

Kallista One Pull Down Kitchen Faucet with Metal Lever Handle

I wish I had a conclusion for you – the WE FOUND THE ONE moment, but honestly, we’ve been so swamped with the move that I’ve put off trigger pulling to make sure that I’m making good decisions. Somedays I want to play it safe, other days go for it. While the faucet isn’t the most important decision in the kitchen, it is one that I don’t want to regret, so I need a clear head. Needless to say, it is NOT clear right now and unfortunately, we have time. But I wanted to get you inside my foggy head and let you know where it’s at right now and if any of you have a favorite unlacquered faucet that is NOT here let me know in the comments. ALSO if you have horror stories or cautionary tales with your unsealed or live finished faucets do tell. I should mention this real quick – I used unlacquered in our shower in our old LA house and we had to replace a part that had rusted through – so I personally plan on using this finish sparingly (just the kitchen faucet). The kitchen is front and center all the time and I have to clean the kitchen twice a day so I know I’ll be more mindful of it, whereas a showerhead I will forget about the second I get out of the shower and clean far less frequently (leading to neglect).

Opening Image Credits: Photo by Zeke Ruelas | From: Modern Deco Kitchen Reveal

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August 16, 2021

Londo Lodge Guest Bedroom: Creating a Space That Is Wild Without Going Overboard… + The 3 Decor Elements That Can Make A Space POP! 

Hi, I’m back with another Londo Lodge update! I’ve been madly plugging away at getting my bedrooms ready for guests the past few months and now I’ve finished almost all of them (I have three done and I’m figuring out the design of the fourth as we speak!). One of my favorite rooms in the house is the large guest bedroom upstairs. The downstairs of my house has relatively low ceilings, about eight feet high. That’s a pretty typical ceiling height but because so much of the downstairs space is connected, the ceiling can feel a little low. The second floor of the home, however, has really lovely high ceilings so the rooms feel so much airier and more spacious. 

My house is at the northern end of the fire scar from the Railroad Fire which decimated a huge portion of this area in 2017. I have mixed feelings about living right next to this burn scar. Obviously, it can feel a little apocalyptic to look out the window and see a bunch of burned-down trees. But at the same time, I love how bright my house is because of the clearing next to it. I’ve wanted a house in the woods for years, but one thing I never really thought about was how dark a forest can be. My house sits above most of my town, high up a hill, which means I get a lot more light than my downhill neighbors and I love that. Another benefit to the proximity to this burn scar is that it feels like the fire removed much of the fuel necessary for a big blazing fire, so I feel slightly safer than if I was just in the middle of a bunch of trees. 

You may remember I moved into Londo Lodge during a pretty scary fire that got relatively close so it’s something that’s constantly on my mind. I’ve already done quite a bit to make my house safer in a fire, from cutting trees away to moving firewood far from the house, to having a crew come and clear out all the brush and debris that has covered my yard for the past 30 years. I’m pretty sure the people who owned the home before me weren’t big into yard maintenance, they wanted it to feel like a natural wooded area (which I’m totally on board for). So it took me weeks with a shovel and a rake to clear out my yard before I gave up and called a local yard crew to do the rest. 

All this is to say that while I am obviously devastated at how bad the fires have been the past ten years in California, I’m trying to find some sort of silver lining and for me, it’s that I get a ton of natural light and will soon have a home overlooking a gorgeous open space with wildflowers (once the trees all fall down or are removed in the next 10-100 years – I plan on living forever FYI).

photo by zeke ruelas | from: orlando’s master bedroom reveal

Now that I’ve established that I live in constant fear of fire, let’s chat about my fun pink guest bedroom! Ever since I painted my own bedroom pink years ago, I’ve had a soft spot for a warm, inviting pink bedroom. The overall color scheme in my house features lots of pink, neutrals, and a bunch of desaturated blue/green/aquas. I knew my bedroom wasn’t the right spot for pink and the guest bedroom I designed for my parents wasn’t either (my parents both lean towards cool, sophisticated colors over bright and playful). So I chose the upstairs guest room as the perfect place for pink.

But I didn’t come here to talk about painting the room pink, that would be boring. Today I wanna talk about three things that can help add “personality” to a space: Art, Objects, and Textiles. I know this is very broad but I think sometimes breaking down the elements in a room can help you give a space more intention. Also up for discussion, how to find the line between good weird and bad weird. How do you know if you’re going too far into the whimsy while also avoiding the ever-dreaded Boring Basic House Syndrome?

ART

One of my go-to lines about interior design is that you can really get away with a home full of actual garbage furniture if you have good art. When it’s successful, art is where the eye goes first. For me, the process of designing this room began with the beautiful Japanese screen that sits behind the bed. This is obviously the focal point of the room and it has a special place in my heart because it was a gift from a friend, something he’d received after his mother passed away unexpectedly and wasn’t quite sure what to do with. I gladly took it off his hands and stored it for over a year while I pondered what space was deserving of its beauty. And now that it’s installed in this room I love passing it every day and being reminded of my friend’s wonderful mother, who I was lucky enough to get to know before she passed away.

Getting this screen onto the wall was no easy feat! The thing weighs about 150 pounds and I didn’t want to damage it by adding any supports or brackets to the back of it because it’s reversible and both sides are works of art. So I devised a complicated platform system to raise it up off the floor for optimal viewing and I enlisted my patient boyfriend Joey to help me get it installed. I basically just created a ledge for it to stand on, with multiple wooden supports and brackets connecting it to the wall. The top side of the screen is bracketed onto a piece of wood I attached to the wall at the top of the screen. it’s pretty sturdy – I made sure to use anchors and a ton of screws to prevent anything from coming off the wall. Luckily, I’m not really in earthquake country up here (knock on wood, anything could happen!) so I didn’t want to cut any corners in installing this heavy, gorgeous screen.

Japanese Screen (vintage) | Bed (custom) | Rug | Nightstand | Wall Art

While it may seem like a lot of work to raise the screen up about two feet, I wanted as much of it visible as possible. For this reason, I chose a low-profile bed from Jonathan Louis Design Lab, which I love because it has all the softness and comfort of an upholstered bed but really lets the art above it shine. The main point of all this is that because art can make such a huge impact in a space, sometimes it makes sense to prioritize it design-wise and tailor the room’s furnishings around a worthy centerpiece.

Sofa (custom) | Pillows | Art on Right | Art on Left | Lion Table | Table Lamp | Cactus Sculpture (vintage) | Gold Wall Hanging (similar)

The other art in the room comes from Minted and from my online shop (hi, I’m still selling things on the internet!). I’ve been using Minted for clients for a long time and I have a few tips related to sourcing art from that site. They have a great collection of artists and artwork in a variety of sizes, styles, and printing methods. My main tip for shopping their site is this: When possible, get your art printed the way it was originally made. That’s a little vague, so I’ll clarify. For example, if you find a piece you like that was originally painted in oil or acrylic (like the lovely peace I got, “Sunday” by Mary Ketch) it’s usually best to have it printed in a way that imitates its original fabrication. Normally, oil paintings are made on canvas, so getting this piece printed on canvas makes the illusion of the reproduction more convincing.

Alternatively, an art piece originally created on paper should be printed on paper and matted (or floated) to give it the look of original, high-end art. A photograph should be printed on paper and matted as well. And one thing that should never happen is a photograph should never be printed on canvas and then stretched over a frame like it’s a painting. This is especially true if it’s a wedding photo. I know this is a dramatically controversial and rude thing to say, but I am a firm believer that wedding photos printed on canvas are a fundamental threat to life as we know it in the United States of America. 

Okay, and now, a quiz! Take a look at this piece of art I found on Minted:

Cascade Mist by Amelia Gluba

Which of the following is the correct way to have it printed/matted/framed?

Printed on canvas?Printed on paper, floating or matted?Printed on canvas, framed in wood?

The correct answer is B) Printed on paper, either floating or matted. Sorry, I’m dragging this point into the ground but I only recently came upon this tidbit when I made the mistake of getting a piece of art printed THE WRONG WAY. I got this piece, which is a watercolor painting. But I got it printed on canvas, stretched like a painting, and framed in (gorgeous) light-toned wood. What’s wrong with that? Well, a few things. Firstly, I got it printed way bigger than I should have (44×60) so the brush strokes look as if they’ve been digitally enlarged, which destroys the illusion that it’s a real painting. Second, because the texture of the painting very clearly reveals that it’s a watercolor, the natural medium would be paper. So I should have had it printed on paper and matted or floated so it looked more like an original and less like a reproduction. So yeah, I messed up and ordered the wrong printing format and I now I have to live with that shame for the rest of my life! Anyway, I hope this tip makes sense. And I sincerely apologize to the Wedding-Photos-Printed-on-Canvas Community for so blatantly discriminating against you. I’m just jealous because I’ll never be the bride or the bridesmaid!

Art on Right

In a perfect world, everyone would spend their free time going out into the world, befriending artists, and giving them every penny of their life savings to support their art. And if you can afford to do that, please do. But sites like Minted that sell reproductions fill a few very necessary holes in the market. Firstly, if you’re trying to fill your house with art but don’t have a Scrooge McDuck Money Vault to swim in, it’s kind of a one-stop-shop for furnishing your whole house with art. Second, for designers being able to shop by style, color, theme, etc gives us the ability to create spaces that are atmospheric and moody. The world of limited edition art reproductions has improved vastly in the past few years – you can now get pieces printed HUGE and the large scale helps create design drama. But you need to be strategic with choosing sizing, printing, and frame style.

Aside from befriending artists and buying from them and buying gorgeous prints from Minted and elsewhere, I’ve also found thrift shops and flea markets to be great places to buy bargain art. This obviously takes a bit more time and patience than a streamlined site that sells a ton of different art but it means you’re getting something one of a kind that no one else has. 

So how do you know if your art is “too much” or “just enough”? For me, it’s a balance thing. If every piece of art in this room were as dramatic and visually busy as the painted screen, the room would look a little bonkers. But because I chose relatively quiet pieces to counterbalance the drama of the screen, it’s given its true moment to shine.

OBJECTS

When you have a large space and you want it to feel warmer and more inviting, a few accessories never hurt anyone! One of my favorite color palettes is pink combined with neutrals and wheaty woven textures. So I concentrated on finding decorative items that fell into the sand/beige/woven/warm color scheme to contrast with the walls, which I painted “Wing It” by Clare Paint. Something to note when you go vibrant with a wall color: that may mean you need to go subtle/neutral with the other things in the room. 

Really everything in the room aside from the walls is a neutral tone, with the exception of the bed and some pillows. Originally, I’d wanted the bed to be a flax/wheat linen but this was a sponsored shoot and the brand was interested in seeing their upholstery in a more vibrant color so I edited my design plan to something a little different than what I might have done otherwise. Normally, I’d probably source a neutral bed so the wall color could be the star. But the screen layered behind the bed gives the eye a visual break from the pink and carries that color further into the room, giving it a cocoon-like vibe so I like how it turned out.

If you look at this room it’s not really styled in a maximalist way. I chose a few key statement pieces and let them shine then sprinkled in some other more subtle accents. For example, the lion is definitely a weird piece. I found it at the flea market then found out later it was (maybe?) fancy, by an artist named Mario Lopes Torres (I haven’t verified its authenticity because, like, how?). And, according to my internet sleuthing, it’s not even a lion, it’s a panther. I’m not a wildlife biologist, how was I supposed to know that???

left: design by orlando soria (me!), photo by zeke ruelas | right: photo by tessa neustadt, from: orcondo: kitchen & bathrooms

What attracted me to Lion Panther was how wild and crazy she is. She’s followed me from my old midcentury apartment in Hollywood Hills West to Orcondo to Chateaulando, and now finally to Londo Lodge (side note: I move too much). I get the question a lot “how do you find the line between tacky/kitschy and statement piece/cool?” My answer is you kinda know when you know. I don’t know why I love that cactus sculpture (don’t let me catch you calling it a “coat rack” IT IS ART) I just do. And it gets back to my warm, neutral color scheme, which is maybe why it doesn’t feel totally bonkers. 

Wood Stone Tray | Lamp | Clock | Vase (unavailable) | Mini Chair (vintage)

I went pretty minimal with the nightstand styling, but made sure each had something distinctive on it. The left has a cute little set of Ikea penguin vases on it, which felt appropriate for this snowy area. The lamps are handmade and their ceramic texture adds a lot of character to the nightstand so I didn’t feel the need to cram a bunch of tiny things onto them. On the right side, I brought in one of my favorite accessories, a tiny chair I bought at the flea market. I bought two and gave one to Emily and if she doesn’t still have it I’ll be furious. Other than the tiny chair, all I added to the right nightstand was a little clock I found at Ikea and a cute little vase I bought in San Francisco.

Hot Tip About Ikea: If you see something cute/unique there, BUY IT. I have so many cute vintage Ikea finds and none of them are currently still in production or available. With big box stores, oftentimes the items that last year after year are the boring ones that have a broader market appeal. So if you see something cute, jump on it. It won’t be there next month. The black bench at the end of the bed is from Ikea ten years ago. I don’t know when they stopped making it but I love the simplicity of the design – it’s got a really elevated silhouette while also being very simple and humble in style. LIKE ME.

I guess my main point with objects and how to use them to add character to a space without making the space into Mickey’s Toontown is to be really intentional with placing and combining them. Not everything can be the center of attention. You need that simple stone tray (the Studio McGee x Target line is so good btw) to add some simple elegance to the playful chair accessory. 

TEXTILES

Black Goose (vintage) | Rainbow Wall Art | Pendant | Light Kit | Duvet Cover (sand) | Duvet Insert | Sheets (cloud) | Quilt (cloud) | Pillows | Bench (vintage ikea)

Because the screen hanging above the bed has a lot of detail and pattern, I decided to go pretty simple with the bedding (it’s all from Tuft & Needle, except the decorative pillows which are from Jonathan Louis Design Lab). Despite the fact that there’s no pattern going on with my bedscape, I still managed to combine a decent amount of texture to amp up the homey factor. The bed itself is a lush velvet, the sheets are percale, and the duvet is linen. I’m not really sure what the rule for bedding is, but I like combining different types of fabrics to create rich layering. When it comes to sumptuous bedding textures, the more the merrier!

The rug, light fixture, and Lion Panther Table are all in a similar color/material family so those pieces help anchor each other. Guests who have stayed in this room always comment how cozy the bed is, even when the bed is dressed in simple Ikea sheets rather than my fancy Tuft & Needle ones. It is my belief that because I included so many supple textures in the space, guests are visually tricked into thinking it’s comfy cozy in there. And that is what we call Interior Design – tricking people into thinking a space is pretty, comfortable, and welcoming. 

Jute rugs in a bedroom can be a little controversial because many people believe they are scratchy and uncomfortable. It is my theory that those people are wrong because I actually really like the way natural fiber rugs feel on my feet. Sure, they’re not as soft as wool, but I feel like the texture massages my feet as I walk. 

For the sofa, I chose a white synthetic woven fabric to bring in YET ANOTHER EXCITING TEXTURE. It’s a plush ivory fabric and I chose it mainly because this is a guest room, lots of kids will be in it (meaning I needed something stain resistant) and I loved the way it contrasted off the wall. After these images were shot, I actually added even more texture and coziness with a roman shade from Everhem. I love Everhem not only because it’s run by a friend of mine from my Homepolish days (hi Haley Weidenbaum!) but also because they sell only what you need for your windows (simple, elegant linen drapes and romans) and the online ordering process is really easy and foolproof. I hate measuring but all their treatments showed up the perfect size for my windows. I plan on re-shooting the whole house once phase one is done to show the progress I’ve made since I shot these photos.

And there you have it! An update on what I’ve been up to at my forest home and some tips on how to make distinctive furnishings look stylish in a space. Follow along why don’t you and see what wild art, objects, and textiles I add to my home!

*Design by Orlando Soria
**Unless Noted Otherwise After Photos by Sara Ligorria-Tramp

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August 15, 2021

The Link Up: Emily’s $18 Parenting Hack, Jess’s Secret Cocktail Tool, and Some VERY Cute Denim Shorts On Sale

Good morning Sunday blog family. Welcome to the link up. It’s been a wildly hot week around here in LA, and our fearless leader, work mom, and design blogger extraordinaire, Em has been busy packing because she’s about to make the big Portland move next week (AH!). So please enjoy our last link up while we’re all living in California (we promise the move won’t change things around here at all but we like to celebrate milestones). Okay now onto the links…

This week’s home tour is brought to us by Domino (thanks, D!). If you have always secretly dreamed of living in London –– I mean who hasn’t –– then this apartment is NOT one you want to skip. It’s full of English charm and is a real lesson on how to do maximalism in a small space. Oh, and by the way, designer Cath Beckett, will absolutely make you want to paint your living room walls pink & go for a bright, bold bathroom tile. Let us know what you think of this space in the comments! xx

From Emily: Hot parenting PSA. As I’m packing for our move this week we are prioritizing bringing the toys that our kids play with ALL THE TIME. A friend got our kids these construction straws for Christmas and at least once a week they pull them out and play for an hour or two. They make massive sculptures (like cars they can get inside of, or elephants) and it’s not even very messy. It’s engineering + creativity + imagination, a true STEAM toy that both our kids love equally and they love building things together with them. It’s one of the best $18 toys I’ve seen out there, and while it does involve some clean-up it’s so much easier than a lot of the arts and crafts that we do because there are just two parts (the straws and the connectors).

From Jess: I can’t believe it’s taken me this long to talk about my electric juicer! To be honest, I mainly got it so I could juice grapefruits for my Paloma cocktails because you truly haven’t had a Palmona unless it’s been made with fresh-squeezed grapefruit juice. Here’s a recipe I’ve used but instead of club soda and Sprite, I add Spindrift Grapefruit. Anyway, it’s just a $20 magical machine that’s almost too easy to use and makes me look like a mixologist to my friends 🙂

Also From Jess: One of our old office building mates and wonderful person, Alexandra Cadiz, just launched a new podcast called Attuned. It’s all about releasing your old self, talking about mistakes in real-time, and generally just how to tap into listening to what we actually need for ourselves. The first episode hit me hard because it was such an important reminder of where I was about 6 years ago. Afraid to let go of what I always said I wanted to do/be versus what I was actually being called to do. Spoiler Alert! It was design and my god am I grateful I made that leap. Anyway, have a listen because regardless of where you’re at in life I think this podcast will really resonate:)

From Mallory: You’ve probably seen this lamp before, so it might be nothing new, but I had been dreaming about it for MONTHS and I finally pulled the plug after my last payday (yay!). She’s prettier in person than I could have ever imagined and I get SO many compliments from people that walk into my apartment. I never thought this guy would be such a conversation starter but there you go! Worth the splurge IMHO.

Also from Mallory: I’m a big fan of Madewell shorts and I realized that these are only $44 right now (originally $74) so if you’re in the market for some cute cutoffs check out these puppies! Oh and these popped up on my suggested and I guess are always $44 so if you’re looking for a longer short or darker wash these are also great!

From Caitlin: I have been finding SO MANY good affordable vintage decor shops on Etsy and wanted to share a few of my favorites! I love this one for its wooden vessels and decor, this one for its glassware, this one for its vintage porcelain and milk glass, this one for tiny tchotchkes, and this one for brass bowls, urns, planters, and statues. Does anyone else have any favorites that I can start following?

That’s all for this week! Thanks for reading and see you lovelies tomorrow!! Xx

Opening Image Credit: Design by Cath Beckett | Photo by Matt Clayton | via Domino

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August 14, 2021

All The Hyper Decorative Victorian Or Antique Collectables I Want for The Farm

As you know the main architecture of the farm was designed in the “Scandi Shaker Farmhouse” vibe which many of you are concerned is going to be boring and I get that (and generally I’m not worried). You see, I know that while “Victorian” and “Shaker” are literal opposites, that is exactly why I’m so drawn to them. Start with basic and layer on the wacky. Besides, we can’t just kill off Eccentric English Grandma. That wouldn’t be kind or even possible. No. She will be there, in very specific moments. So while shopping on Saturday mornings I’ve found myself searching for the following types of things, but they have to be done in a VERY specific way. Right now I’m not letting myself buy much of it because these are the things (IMHO) that are so much cheaper in person and I’m dying for the hunt. There are a billion antique malls that have loads of the below, waiting for me to uncover and why pay for shipping (and increase my footprint) if I can find in-person and have an excuse to shop. So for now I’m just dreaming and homing in on what versions of these I love. Also in grammatical breaking news, I just found out that it’s “homing” not “honing” which I vaguely remember some of you correcting but I didn’t listen because I thought there is NO WAY that it’s HOMING and not HONING. Turns out you “hone your craft” but you “home in on a target”. MIND BLOWN. I thought it was the same word (and still think it should be)! I will however spell “segue” as “segway” forever because it makes me LOL every time. Also, every time I see or hear the word “wicker” (which is A LOT) I repeat my friend Scott’s dad joke, “Wicker? I barely know her!”. So there’s that.

Tole

Now not all Tole is created equally, in my opinion. I love some of the Italian metal flower versions (like above), but don’t necessarily need to collect the ones that are just a red or blue metal shade with some painting on them. I skipped this metal lamp last week at the antique mall (for the same price as this one on Etsy) and I am sad about it, but not enough to buy this one (I think $175 is too steep). I could see it in Birdie’s room – I KNOW she would love it because she is obsessed with flowers (duh). But Tole is very specific, for sure, not for everyone and I know I just lost a few of you. I’m tempted to get this pair of lamps, but just wish they were half the price.

Ball And Stick Furniture

Otherwise known as “ball and stick fretwork” and while I don’t totally know the history, I love the playfulness. This tracks because I love polka dots and I love stripes, and Ball and stick fretwork is a playful combination of both. Now again, I don’t love all of it and it’s honestly hard to describe why some are awesome and some just not. But I’d take that stool in a second if it weren’t $500 + shipping. I feel confident that I can find a version of this at an antique mall for far less. There are some things I’m willing to splurge on, but a playful footstool is not one of them.

Victorian Wicker (Side Table Or Accent Chair)photo by teri lyn fisher | from: my style evolution, where it’s going, and a big return to og ehd

Wicker???!! I barely know her! Now a lot of you who have followed for a long time have seen me don some wicker side table like that one from 2011. I wouldn’t mind more of that bit at the farm. It’s neutral enough with a heavy side of wack. And I wish SO BADLY that I hadn’t given away that coffee table (with drop leaves!) and of course the sofa and flag. I still have the pouf though 🙂

Delft Tileleft: design by beata heuman, photo by paul massey, via house & garden | right: via house & gardensource unknown

If I were to find a decent amount of square footage I would 100% use it behind the range wall (still haven’t figured that out) or in the powder room. But it’s extremely rare to find more than 10 or 20 tiles that work together or are from the same lot, and usually, they are installed as a plaque. I’m still on the hunt though and enjoy looking for some hand-painted dutch blue and white old tile. Maybe I should commission a Portland artist to do a new EHD version of these? It’s one of those things that could go pretty wrong, but also could be amazing (like Jessica Helgerson’s kitchen with the hand-painted tile mural).

via delft tiles

OH NO, Now I really want to do it. Anyone know any Portland artists that could do a 2021 EHD version of Delft tile for the range backsplash???? It can go cheesy so quickly but with the right artist it could also be so special and personal (drink! for those of you playing the drinking game every time I say “special”).

Ironstonephoto by tessa neustadt

Years ago as I was an assistant stylist for magazines we rented or bought ironstone all the time for food shoots (mostly for Martha Stewart). After one shoot I had a platter with pretty scalloped edges that I kept for all my life (moved three apartments in NYC, then to Santa Monica, Los Feliz apartment, Los Feliz home, Glendale home, Los Feliz home, up to Portland). It broke in this last move in the garage as I was packing it for Portland and I RARELY get bummed about anything breaking as long it’s not my children, marriage, heart, or mental health but I was bummed about this one. So I’ve given myself permission to shop for some new platters and plates, mixing it with blue transferware (see below) to be my version of “china”. I’ve always loved the mismatched look when done right (which isn’t easy) so I’ll be collecting for a while (fine, twist my arm). Also, I googled my name with ironstone and found this post of me vintage shopping in Portland and I love it all still! Man, I wish The Flea hadn’t cost so much to inventory, pack, and ship or I would still do it (maybe pop-up markets in Portland?). It’s so fun to collect for a home, but after I’m done with this one I’ll need to scratch a new itch.

Transferware

Now I don’t need a $42 soap dish like the one above, but this is the type of transferware that I LOVE. Where there is some color but it’s more negative space than a big country scene. And I love the aging which keeps it from being mistaken as a faux shabby chic new platter. Since we aren’t really “salad plate” people I’m looking more for the little dishes, or lidded serving bowls, gravy bowls, platters, or of course dinner plates.

Victorian Fringed Lamps

I just got this on Portland Craiglist last weekend (haven’t seen it in person yet) and it MIGHT be a mistake, but where I’m picturing it (next to my floral chaise in our bedroom) I think it’s going to be pretty. Maybe it will end up in Elliot’s room (she LOVES it). Fun fact – doing 4-H growing up I made these victorian lampshades with calico fabric and ALL THE FRINGE. I wish SO bad that I had hoarded the ones that got the blue ribbon. The reason they are so expensive is that they have to be handmade and it’s very time-consuming (trust me). So if/when you see one for under $80 it’s a good deal (as this one was).

Opening Image Credits: Design by Beata Heuman | Photo by Paul Massey | via House & Garden

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August 13, 2021

The Budget-Friendly Brick House Hack – How to Clad Your Home in Brick for The Same Price As Siding (Or LESS)

My mind was blown and maybe it shouldn’t have been. Maybe I should have known white brick was a possibility, that there is a version of it that is within our budget but I didn’t. For the farmhouse’s new sunroom, I really wanted it to be in a different material than the original home, but obviously still something classic. I love white painted brick A LOT and the fireplace inside is the original white brick so it felt appropriate. But traditional masonry is FAR more expensive in labor than applying wood siding so I gave up on it pretty early on. Then I saw on my friend (and amazing designer) Rosa Beltran‘s Facebook page how she redid a client’s house in painted brick for LESS than it would be for wood siding. I immediately texted ARCIFORM about it. They hadn’t ever done this cladding before but were excited to explore it. So I reached out to Rosa to ask how she did it…

So with her generous info, we’re gonna show you a step by step breakdown of the entire process, but first, let’s take a look at what the end result looks like. But wait…how could we show you how it’s going without showing you how it started???

Before

Here’s what the exterior of the home looked like before…

and here’s the wizardry that Rosa did on this home…

AFTER

So here’s the general overview from Rosa so you can get an idea of what she did, but we’ll also break it down step by step in the next few paragraphs so don’t you worry.

From Rosa:So we clad the exterior of the house with “thin brick” that I believe we sourced at Lowes, but is widely available. Behind the brick was a scratch coat of stucco… so we prepared the walls just as you would if you were going to finish with stucco. Then we installed the thin brick using spacers (just like with tile) right on top of the stucco scratch coat. Grouted with sanded grout. And lastly, we painted everything with standard latex house paint (you can use limewash instead but we used paint.) After laying the thin brick we used other types of thicker brick to create some architectural detailing for window sills, arched doorways, little decorative arches above the windows, trim along the roofline, etc.

That thin brick thing?? IT’S GENIUS. And widely available. Here’s a link to the brand that Rosa used for this project and here are the types of brick they have if you’re curious:

So now that you have the gist of what’s going on, here’s a step-by-step on how to actually do it. Also please note unless you’re very skilled at building houses, we recommend this being less of a DIY and more of a hire a contractor thing to ensure it looks (and functions) its best 🙂

Step One: Prepare Walls with a Scratch Coat

The first thing you’ll do in order to achieve this hack is to prep your exterior walls with a scratch coat as if you were going to finish it off with stucco. We found this video (by a very sweet man named Kurt) on how to create a scratch coat and it’s all in all very entertaining and gives you a solid overview if you want more info. Rosa informed us that all the waterproofing and wall prep is done just the same as you would for a fully stuccoed house, so it’s totally up to snuff if that was a concern of yours.

Step Two: Install Brick Using Spacers

This step is pretty much exactly what you would do if you were applying tile. You just take your brick, apply it from the bottom up and put spacers in between each so they are evenly dispersed. You apply them directly onto the stucco scratch coat so it will adhere to that 🙂

Step Three: Grout With Sanded Grout

You probably could’ve guessed what came next, but you just apply sanded grout between the brick (yes, just like you would regular tile!). Just ensure that it’s sanded so it has that brick-vibe to it. Here’s a close up of what the sanded grout looks like:

Then, you basically do the very tedious task of covering the entire house. It might take a second but BOY is it worth it in the end. Also if you’re worried about the cost of labor and materials, know that redoing the exterior siding of your home is pretty much never cheap (especially if you’re wanting brick), and Rosa found this to be even a little more cost-efficient than doing regular siding. Here’s what she had to say on the cost matter:

“As far as pricing, the material cost isn’t crazy and the labor is more like paying a tile setter than a finish carpenter, which I found to be more economical than wood siding which requires so much more cutting and nuance. It was much easier to just brick up the walls and call it good.”

Step Five: Add in Any Additional Brick Details

Geez, Rosa is a genius. And if you weren’t convinced before, let me show you why she is so smart AGAIN. After applying the thin brick & grouting it with sanded grout, Rosa then created borders and detailing with regular brick, so you’d never even think that there was thin brick underneath it. She put her details on rooflines and around windows/doors, and for this home did some really cute archway detailing. I’m a BIG fan.

See that little arch above the window?? It’s just…so charming…

Rosa also did a stacked archway for the entrance and added brick under the window to create a window sill which adds a lot more depth. Check it out:

GAH SO SWEET.

Step Six: Select Paint Color & Paint

Next up, you just paint your desired color using a standard latex house paint. Rosa informed us that you can also use limewash if you’d rather.

Look at how great this looks. You would never know it was “thin brick”.

See how special yet simple that entrance is with that arch?

So there’s the insanely awesome hack I am so excited to steal (with credit) for the farm sunroom exterior. Have you guys tried this before?? Any key learnings or advice? I’m all ears. See you in the comments xx

**Once again this project & genius idea is by my amazing designer friend Rosa Beltran. Check her out for all your design needs as well as custom furniture. She owns an incredible store called Clad Home where I’ve gotten a bunch of custom pieces made for truly affordable prices. Thank you, Rosa!!!

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August 12, 2021

Our Feel-Good Makeover Takeovers Are Going National With Pen And Napkin (AND YOU?)

Ok. while the world isn’t ‘back’ by any means, we are ready to do more of the really fulfilling things we weren’t able to during the pandemic – Feel Good Makeovers. And right now it feels like it’s needed more than ever. The economic disparity is just insane in this country and while solving it individually feels impossible, we know these free home makeovers change lives. After a long conversation with Catie Bouchard, the founder of Pen + Napkin, we are very excited to partner up with them and scale it to go national (international, actually). We can help more families, decorate more homes, in more places.

photo by sara ligorria-tramp for ehd| lead design by velinda hellen for ehd | styling by brady tolbert and emily edith bowser for ehd | from: the feel good flash makeover a.k.a my favorite thing of the year

In case you are wondering (or new here) Pen + Napkin is a WONDERFUL non-profit founded by Catie and supported by her incredible team of women – Danni-Lynn Carter, former client turned volunteer, who now oversees development. Shawna Beaugard – our volunteer and event coordinator and Synthia Avina & Miranda Ament our in-house designers. Half of these women are also mothers. So incredible. It’s the epitome of using our interior design passion, for good. As you can imagine no mom wants their kids to be sleeping on a mattress on the floor and the rate of recidivism (of being un-housed again) drastically drops (by 90%) if a family has a welcoming home they feel proud of and like spending time in. Obviously, we feel PASSIONATELY about the uplifting power of loving your home – we know that it affects your self-worth which can bleed onto all areas of your life (jobs, career, and other relationships). Feeling proud of your home (and not embarrassed by it) especially for moms and kids can change lives forever. But we also know the time and resources it takes to furnish and decorate your home and when you are dealing with the trauma that these (mostly) moms are trying to heal from, even thinking about buying the “right rug” is impossible, let alone having the extra money. We, as privileged design enthusiasts, can help not only give nice bedding for kids to sleep on and a cozy sofa, but seriously change the trajectory of these families lives, forever. I’ve SEEN IT FIRST HAND.

pictured above: me and catie (founder of pen + napkin)

Catie, truly an angel, has three kids herself and as a stay-at-home mom has given of her time – full time, really, to this cause for the last 7 years. When we recently donated all the props in our studio to her for her next rummage sale, she showed up with all three kids in tow, she just GETS IT DONE. She’s one of those people who inspires me to want to be a better person, get rid of excuses – and luckily her non-profit provides me (and you) the ability to help others. She works with transition centers to be notified when a family is ready to transition – when their caseworker has found them their new home, and with little resources, she assembles a team to get it done. We have worked with them on fundraising through that epic EHD rummage sale a few years ago and then my team (led by Velinda) made over an apartment for a single mom with 4 kids last year before the pandemic. I can tell you first hand how A. wonderful Catie and her non-profit team are, and B. how rewarding it is to be a part of drastically helping a family during extremely dark days. AND IT IS SO MUCH FUN. It’s a win win win win win win win!!! It’s styling and decorating for a cause!!! And it’s all I want to do. A lot of these families (usually single moms) are escaping abuse (which is why they are likely not going to be in photos or videos) and are trying to start over and give their kids a loving, safe, environment to thrive. If you are looking for meaning in your life, or trying to find your purpose (like I have been for years now) I can tell you that this will help. Once I figured out how to use my set of skills and this blog to help others in their homes, it checked this massive box in my head. It makes the days where we post about budget lamps or Ikea hacks, worth it. And yes, I feel like the luckiest person that I can call this part of my job.

Here’s a quick video that shows the second feel good flash makeover we’ve ever done from start to finish (it’ll start right after a quick ad!):

photo by sara ligorria-tramp for ehd| lead design by velinda hellen for ehd | styling by emily bowser and velinda hellen for ehd | from: a colorful, happy home makeover for a very deserving family

So here’s how it’s going to work. Instead of just the EHD team doing 2-3 of these a year (without an in-house design team and me being in Oregon), we are extending the opportunity to all of you who are design enthusiasts, who can pull together a room and are looking to serve others. It’s creative/life fulfillment, in a bottle, ready to drink. Here’s how it will work:

photo by sara ligorria-tramp for ehd| lead design by velinda hellen for ehd | styling by emily bowser and velinda hellen for ehd | from: a colorful, happy home makeover for a very deserving familyYou submit a questionnaire to Pen + Napkin with some basic info and she will organize everybody by location. You can do this with your best friend, church group, family (yes, even your kids can help!). You do NOT need to be an interior designer or do this one your own, just someone who loves design, loves to shop, loves to make a room functional for the needs and wants of the family, and wants to serve others. The design can be as good as you want it to be – you can really flex your creativity. When we did it last year we went all out because that’s what EHD does (and Velinda killed it), but honestly the families just want somewhere that feels warm, inviting, comfortable and safe. So don’t feel intimidated by it – you don’t have to be super experienced or do something magazine-worthy. Hopefully, with a proper budget, you can get creative and make it look pretty. Once a family is located and ready to move in, in your area, you’ll be contacted and paired with them. You’ll meet with them and maybe their caseworker, see the space and get it going (and it will likely be a quick turnaround – so if you have a demanding job it might be good to do it with a friend or family member that has more time to help organize and execute). We’ll crowdsource decor. Catie had the best idea. As you start pulling together the design you’ll create Amazon and Target wish lists for the furniture and decor that you’ll need (or anywhere else that has the capability to create wish lists. We’ll then publish those lists HERE on the blog (for now) with an intro post, so that other readers can purchase the cute lamp or bedding and actually see it in the finished room. Spreading the love, involving as many people that want to give as possible. The items will ship directly to the designer in advance of install day. Anything needed beyond that we’ll provide the budget for (including handy people, painters, etc). We likely won’t get partners involved as we can’t guarantee the timing or photography nor do we know the end-design – all things partners want to know, understandably. Depending on how many we can afford to do we might do some additional fundraising. We will help organize manual help for the install by posting here for volunteers. And if in LA or Portland the EHD team or myself will come help when possible. When we did the Rummage Sale, installing the Rescue Mission and decorating the mission for the holidays we loved how many of you showed up (many with your kids) and gave of your time to help. I think that one of the best parts of this is many people, strangers even, coming together with a singular goal of helping others. It’s truly a high that you can’t get any other way. When we did the install of the community center’s kids space I worked side by side with people so different than myself, outside of my bubble, which expanded my brain and views in a lot of ways. If time allows (and if it makes sense for the family’s schedule) we’ll style and shoot the homes (again, likely without showing the families), to publish here (EHD will help source a photographer – either volunteering or we’ll cover expenses). I want to be super sensitive to the families so it might not always be a big organized shoot day, but we’ll try to get what we can so that all of you (and myself) can see the result of the hard work and feel the goodness. Publishing and promotion. Everyone involved will of course be credited here and on social media (and I think we could do some really fun social content of the process and install days, too – lots of behind the scenes that we can repost on our channels so more people can watch your makeover). While the goal of this shouldn’t be just for your PR and social media gains, obviously, hopefully if you are interested you could grow your following and portfolio (you can absolutely remain anonymous, too). If you are a budding interior designer or a design student this is a GREAT opportunity to test your creativity, show off your skills and grow a following. There is a lot of creative freedom as most families aren’t going to be picky and are just so excited to have a comfortable fresh, safe home. You can really go for it with little to no approval process as long as it meets their needs and aligns with the original brief from them (I love getting favorite colors/interests from kids, etc).after photo by sara ligorria-tramp for ehd| lead design by velinda hellen for ehd | styling by brady tolbert and emily edith bowser for ehd | from: the feel good flash makeover a.k.a my favorite thing of the yearafter photo by sara ligorria-tramp for ehd| lead design by velinda hellen for ehd | styling by brady tolbert and emily edith bowser for ehd | from: the feel good flash makeover a.k.a my favorite thing of the yearafter photo by sara ligorria-tramp for ehd| lead design by velinda hellen for ehd | styling by brady tolbert and emily edith bowser for ehd | from: the feel good flash makeover a.k.a my favorite thing of the year

Pen + Napkin already has some great partnerships (Tuft and Needle donates every mattress, for instance) so this is a great opportunity for brands as well to donate but with no expectation of crediting or tagging (it might certainly happen but since I’m not in control of the design I can’t guarantee anything). At the beginning of the pandemic, California Beach Co. donated enough money to sustain them through the whole year and they were able to serve families, despite the added challenges, they are committed to donating a percentage of all their proceeds every quarter. For the past 3 years, Poly + Bark has been a committed partner, providing furniture, rugs, and lighting to every project. I’d love to grow their home goods resources. It doesn’t have to be your new pieces, it could be what you would sell at a sample sale, discontinued pieces, or even something slightly damaged if still totally usable (like a small cut or pen mark in a sofa is still a great sofa). By doing this we could reduce your waste, too. You don’t have to be a big company to help either. My good friend who owns the best kids store in LA (The Reckless Unicorn) donates all the toys that have damaged boxes that are perfectly good, but unsellable, for instance. We aren’t talking renovations, they are all rentals (for now at least) so it’s really just cosmetic at best (we’ll work with landlords to make sure that they are allowed to switch out lighting for instance, and not burden the family with needing to change it back if they move). Mostly it’s just decorating apartments with comfortable, fun furniture and decor. Most of these homes are small spaces and likely fitting multiple kids sharing a room so coming up with clever solutions is part of the fun. Velinda did such a genius job of fitting a family of 5 in two bedrooms (including a teenage boy sharing with his mom and a newborn baby…here’s the room below):

photo by sara ligorria-tramp for ehd| lead design by velinda hellen for ehd | styling by emily bowser and velinda hellen for ehd | from: a colorful, happy home makeover for a very deserving family

To me, this is a PERFECT opportunity for any of us who might feel creatively stagnant, or generally unfulfilled. Trust me, helping others can help give you purpose. It’s creative, it’s fun, it’s rewarding, it will get you positive attention, while helping others. It bolsters everyone’s self-worth – GUARANTEED. You won’t have to spend a dime of your own money – that’s what I’m here for, just give of your time and creativity. If I could be doing this full time I would, but I know my bandwidth and likely can only do a couple a year. But what I can do and what the EHD team can help with is work with Pen + Napkin (and you) to produce, support, and publish these makeovers and by extending the volunteer design team to you it can go national and help many, many, many MORE. We can be the producers and the platform and create a system where more people can be helped. Plus we all get fun design content, for rentals, on a budget in smaller spaces.

photos by david tsay | design by me 🙂 | from: shelter reveal: the bedrooms

Before we commit to 100 of these we’ll test a few and get some learnings going. Depending on the volume and scale we might have to hire a dedicated EHD team member to help coordinate, etc or Pen + Napkin might have to scale up depending on the demand. If I’ve learned anything running a business in the era of digital media it’s that you can’t really plan or predict ANYTHING. You just need to start, try it out, keep it going, make some mistakes, learn, shift, and do it again better. But I believe if the intent is there if the “why” is clear (which it is), then the rest is just logistics.

We Have The First Family

If you are in the LA area and excited to start NOW, we have a family right now ready to move into their new home, they are incredible and highly deserving. As Catie puts it so sweetly, they are “ready to be blessed” 🙂 And regardless of your belief system or what terminology you use, I think we can all get on board with any family getting back on their feet with some help from angels like Catie and hopefully some of you 🙂

Here’s a note from the family: “Being a victim of DV has caused us to be homeless. This has really affected me and my children’s lives. Moving to Los Angeles was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. We were blessed to run into this program Family Promise of the Verdugos, and be accepted as a family. It’s been a long rocky road but we are excited about the future. We survived. We are finally overcoming our struggle.”

She is going to school starting 8/30 as an art major. She wants to paint pictures from digital images for people, but living in her car has prevented her from painting. So she definitely needs art supplies! Her son is also starting school on 8/23 so they both need school/art supplies, a desk & an all-around decorated home they can feel comfortable in.

Other Ways To Helpfrom: a church community center & kids space

If you want to help out but can’t volunteer your time and have extra budget consider donating to Pen + Napkin via their campaign page (this link goes directly to helping the family we’ll be working with for our first makeover!) This organization is a small but mighty team that will likely have to grow more this year (interested?) so any additional internal budget for them would help immensely. I keep trying to convince Catie to pay herself, but like most founders of nonprofits, she struggles with this. Catie and her husband sold their house this year and are now living in a travel trailer with their kids to have more time, money, and resources to serve more families. When she told me this I was like “OK TIME FOR A SERIOUS EHD COLLABORATION”. Let’s take our feel-good makeovers international and help unhoused families have safe, comfortable homes to raise their kids.

after photo by sara ligorria-tramp for ehd| lead design by velinda hellen for ehd | styling by brady tolbert and emily edith bowser for ehd | from: the feel good flash makeover a.k.a my favorite thing of the year

Also if you are an interior designer in LA or someone with an inventory of decent used furniture or decor consider reaching out to Catie. She can’t come and get just anything (again, 3 kids and home on wheels), but if you have a lot of good pieces in one place let us know as she or I can store good pieces till they get placed and add to the inventory to pull from.

We are so excited to get this going & to read through your questionnaires. Again, if you’re interested in helping out by designing homes for newly housed families, please click here to start & we’ll be contacting you soon! Eeeek!

Opening Image Credit: Photography by Sara Ligorria-Tramp | Lead Design by Velinda Hellen for EHD | Styling by Brady Tolbert and Emily Edith Bowser for EHD | From: The Feel Good Flash Makeover A.K.A My Favorite Thing Of The Year

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