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July 15, 2023
De-escalating Anger








"The best response to anger to silence."
― German proverb




Hello AWMS subscriber :
Although all emotions have value, some are called "negative feelings" simply because they hurt. For the most part, negative emotions are fueled by uncertainty, confusion, and ignorance. And it's this fear and anxiety, in one form or another, that becomes anger, hatred, and even violent behavior.
No doubt, anger is the king of negative emotions. It is rage, fury, and wrath — often associated with irrational, reflexive hostility and violence.
Anger is a defense mechanism that promotes survival by fighting or running — behavior that may be appropriate when facing real, clear and present danger but which usually makes things worse when triggered by uncertainty.
In this week's free Wisdom of the Soul Zoom class, we'll examine anger, its roots, its manifestations, its consequences, and tips for de-escalating those negative passions before it's too late.
The Zoom room opens Sunday mornings at 10:50 AM PDT. Log in with the highlighted link below. Thanks.
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Topic: De-escalating Anger
Sunday, July 16 at 11:00 AM Pacific (-7 hrs UTC/GMT)
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July 13, 2023
Studio Salon conversations




"If you keep doing what you've always done,
you'll keep getting what you've always gotten."
— Jim Rohn


Hello AWMS subscriber :
Sorry for the "limited supply, get yours now" pitch. But I have six spots remaining in our new Wisdom Studio Salon, beginning soon on Saturday mornings at 11:00 AM PDT.
Between our ongoing, free Wisdom of the Soul class and the private intensive training and counseling I provide, this new Studio Salon is limited to 10 people. Once we're full, openings will rarely come along.
Here's an affordable ($25/wk) Zoom session with a small conversational group of women and men like you — people willing to take an exciting deep dive into better understanding their thoughts, feelings, and behavior. We facilitate this with practical tools and techniques to expand self-awareness — the insight and understanding that surpasses knowledge.
Email me today to reserve your spot in this small, committed group of soul travelers. Be the change you wish to see in the world.
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Ageless Wisdom Mys†ery School
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July 8, 2023
Choosing Your Choices








"If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice."
― Neal Peart, Rush




Hello AWMS subscriber :
This week's Wisdom of the Soul class features a discussion known to brain researchers as executive function. It's the ability in the human brain's frontal lobes to pay attention and make decisions — and it can benefit from development.
Stress, anxiety, and overstimulation generally shatter and scatter attention. Consequently, we often react reflexively without considering our options, much less their consequences.
"Choosing your choices" is a matter of being consciously aware. No matter how intelligent we may be, it does little good when we live in the fog of unawareness.
Login as early as 10:50 AM Pacific with the highlighted link below — Sunday, July 9, '23. See you then.
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Topic: Choosing Your Choices
Sunday, July 9 at 11:00 AM Pacific (-7 hrs UTC/GMT)
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July 1, 2023
No Class This Week








Life is what happens while you're making other plans.
— John Lennon




Hello AWMS subscriber :
Unfortunately, we're canceling our next Wisdom of the Soul class Sunday, July 2, 2023, due to a minor illness. No worries, I'll be back next week.
Enjoy your Sunday morning and have a wonderful week.
Aloha, Salam, and Namaste,
— Michael


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June 24, 2023
The Injustice of Vengeance








"Vengeance is the act of turning anger in on yourself. On the surface, it may be directed at someone else, but it is a surefire recipe for arresting emotional recovery."
― Jane Goldman




Hello AWMS subscriber :
The phrase, "An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth," is traceable to the ancient Mesopotamian Code of Hammurabi. Though carved into stone 3800 years ago, this concept is now largely misunderstood.
It does not mean retribution is owed. It was a restraint limiting punishment to fit the crime — to restrict local authorities from executing a man for stealing bread or failing to pay his taxes on time.
In this 21st century C.E., rehabilitation is gaining favor over punishment — though slowly. Many parents still beat their children, and the death penalty remains lawful in 27 American states, as well as the federal government and the U.S. military. (Over half of the world's nations have banned the practice.)
However, research by psychologists and sociologists reveals no satisfaction, closure, or sense of justice from revenge. In fact, pursuing the lust for retribution actually prolongs a victim's pain and suffering.
Forgiveness, mercy, and dropping your grudges are difficult but truly healthy and wise. Join us for this week's free Wisdom of the Soul class — Sunday at 11:00 AM Pacific. The Zoom room opens at 10:50 AM.
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Topic: The Injustice of Vengeance
Sunday, June 25 at 11:00 AM Pacific (-7 hrs UTC/GMT)
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June 17, 2023
The Surprising Truth About Loneliness








"Pray that your loneliness may spur you into finding something to live for, great enough to die for."




Hello AWMS subscriber :
Loneliness is not what it appears to be. A person can have countless friends, an extended family, and a faithful dog and still feel lonely.
Loneliness is not even about being alone. Solitude is typically enjoyable. The truth is, like boredom, loneliness is a symptom of a meaningless life.
Make it a point to be with us Sunday, June 18 at 11:00 AM Pacific for our free Wisdom of the Soul class in the Ageless Wisdom Mystery School. Our Zoom room opens at 10:50 AM PDT. Simply double-click the URL highlighted below or phone in with one of the supplied phone numbers.
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Topic: The Surprising Truth About Loneliness
Sunday, June 18 at 11:00 AM Pacific (-7 hrs UTC/GMT)
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June 10, 2023
The Subtle Gnawing of Discontent








"Your desire can never be satisfied. But when you practice contentment, you can say to yourself, 'Oh yes - I already have everything I really need.''"
― Dalai Lama




Hello AWMS subscriber :
It is odd how easily we overlook the unquenchable nature of desire. Time and time again, we are tricked into believing we will be satisfied once we obtain this object, this circumstance, that event, or relationship.
When we succeed, we do become happy — for a moment or two. But it never lasts. Our desire nature soon wanders off in a different direction, searching for something, anything, to ease the subtle gnawing of our discontent.
Can we step off this infernal hampster wheel? And if so, how can we be more self-aware of the continual urge to find lasting fulfillment?
Use the highlighted link below to join us for this week's Wisdom of the Soul Zoom class, presented free of charge by the Ageless Wisdom Mystery School. The Zoom room opens at 10:50 AM PDT. The class begins with a narrated meditation and includes a Q&A section. See you Sunday.
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Topic: The Subtle Gnawing of Discontent
Sunday, June 11 at 11:00 AM Pacific (-7 hrs UTC/GMT)
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June 3, 2023
Sleep and Dreams








"Silence is the sleep that nourishes wisdom."
― Francis Bacon




Hello AWMS subscriber :
Most of us give little thought to our dreams and even less to sleep. Odd, given that we spend one-third of our lives asleep.
In this week's Wisdom of the Soul class, we will explore the nature of deep, non-dream sleep, the dreaming REM state, and its relation to meditation.
We'll learn how to go to sleep, how to go back to sleep when awakened in the night, and how to wake up at a precise time with nothing more than an intention — also dream symbolism, dream journaling, and dream incubation.
Join us Sunday, June 4, at 11:00 AM Pacific with the link below. The Zoom room opens at 10:50 AM. The free live class includes an opening meditation and Q&A. See you then.
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Topic: Sleep and Dreams
Sunday, June 4 at 11:00 AM Pacific (-7 hrs UTC/GMT)
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May 27, 2023
Raincloud of Knowable Things








"The world is knowable, harmonious, and good."
― Plotinus (204 - 270 C.E.)




Hello AWMS subscriber :
The age-old debate between free will and predestination may be a false dichotomy. Perhaps both are true to some degree.
Is it possible we find ourselves endowed with volition yet somewhat constrained by karmic necessity or a grand cosmic plan? Could some parts of our future rely on the choices we make, while other bits already have been determined?
How often have you found yourself asking, "Wait — how did I know that?" Ever wonder where a particular idea or inspiration came from as it bursts into your awareness full-blown?
The philosophical concept known as the "Raincloud of Knowable Things" suggests awareness is a blend of longing to know and the willingness to understand more than logic can discern.
Join us live this Sunday for our free Wisdom of the Soul Zoom class at 11:00 AM PDT. The Zoom room opens at 10:50 AM. The link to login is highlighted below. Phone numbers are provided for those without computers.
Feel free to share the link and phone numbers below with friends you believe may be interested. And to see Class Notes, visit our Ageless Wisdom Mystery School blog.
See you tomorrow.
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Topic: The Raincloud of Knowable Things
Sunday, May 28 at 11:00 AM Pacific (-7 hrs UTC/GMT)
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May 20, 2023
Encountering Your Shadow Side








"The brighter the light, the deeper the shadow."
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Hello AWMS subscriber :
Shadow is a fine allegory for evil because it is not a force that opposes light. In fact, without light, shadow would cease to exist, though darkness would prevail.
It may be a fine point, but shadow is not darkness. It is a contrast to light necessary to define form. This brings us to the question: Is evil an irredeemable void of darkness, or like shadow, a condition of light that can be illumined?
And for those recovering from an especially dogmatic religious indoctrination, who is Satin or Lucifer? Is he confined to hell or can he come and go as he pleases? Is the devil the CEO of hell or does he work for God? And why does God tolerate or even rely on the existence of evil, fear, and ignorance?
Login to our free Wisdom of the Soul Zoom class this Sunday with the highlighted link below. The Zoom room opens at 10:50 AM Pacific Daylight Time. The class includes an opening meditation and Q&A section. See you then.
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Topic: Encountering Your Shadow Side
Sunday, May 21st at 11:00 AM Pacific (-7 hrs UTC/GMT)
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