Betty Dodson's Blog, page 16

Female Orgasm While Peeing & Pooping

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Amazing how I continue to learn something new thanks to “Ask Dr. Betty” on our D&R website. Many times a questioner will ask something I know nothing about. That’s when I head over to my Google god and begin searching— so easy! Not like having to pour over big reference books in some musty library.

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How Do I Not Let My Emotional Discomfort Override My Physical Response?

Hi Betty,

I am new to your and Carlin's site and have enjoyed browsing the videos, books, and all the other information provided. I have recently turned 50 yrs old and haven't been the most sexual active of people for various reasons. In retrospect of this fact, I feel as though it may have worked to my advantage in that, I do not have a lot of baggage in the form of negative sexual experiences to reprogram.

Most of what I have read or heard on this site has to do, how to physically manipulate my body to achieve a desired sensation which has been very interesting and helpful. I am also noticing as I explore the realms of self touch and stimulation, not only does it wake up my physical self but my emotional self. And there, I find my baggage.

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The Simulation Feels So Intense that I Have to Push Him/Myself Away

Dear Dr.Betty,

I am so glad to have found you website! I am a 24 year old girl from India. We are the land of kamasutra but sex is largely a taboo in our country and premarital sex is a strictly secret affair, no one even admits they do it!

I started having sex with my boyfriend recently, we have tried just 5-6 times so far, not counting the times we spent trying to just loosen my vagina as it was too tight and penetration hurt a lot.

My concerns are:

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We Notice a Weird Smell After Sex

Hi Betty,

I'm currently on the paragard IUD and my boyfriend and I are not using condoms, praise the damn lord! All is great but I have noticed that when him and I have a lot of sex which is quite often, he does come inside of me but sometimes I notice a funky smell that lasts for a few days. To me it smells a little fishy. I know it's not an STD because him and I have gotten tested. I'm wondering if too much sperm all up in there can leave an after smell.

My boyfriend says it doesn't bother him and will even continue to go down on me but I find it gross and annoying, and sometimes will turn me off because I can smell it. The last time him and I had sex was Friday and we had sex multiple times but we also had sex 3 days in a row too.

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I Want to Introduce Anal into the Bedroom

Dear Betty-

I'm 46 and have been with my husband since I'm 16. Yes 30 years!!!! I have to admit that the bedroom became very boring the last couple of years. I think a multitude of things- more on my part. Probably all on my part. I almost felt like sex was a job. I must add to this twist- I HAVE NEVER MASTURBATED!!!!!! Well maybe twice I touched when I was like 12. Ok get back on your chair. I bet you don't hear that often. So I decided to look within myself and say I'm young and attractive (normal) I do not get dressed up to go to the mailbox- My husband truly loves me and I figured WTF am I doing. I have issues with dryness and PH issues in the flower area. But I decided to just give it an uninhibited whirl.

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How Do I Self Penetrate My Vagina?

Dear Dr. Betty,

I would like some information on how to self penetrate my vagina, in terms of how to put my finger upon entering.

Help plz

Dear L,

Begin with an overall vulva massage using an organic massage oil. Next spend at least 10 minutes gently stimulating your clitoris. Once you feel a degree of sexual arousal, slowly insert your middle finger that has been manicured and covered with oil. Consciously squeeze and release your pelvic floor muscle while taking full breathes.

Go slow and smile.

Dr. Betty

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Why are My Labia Swollen?

Dear betty,

Thanks so much for taking the time to answer.

I'm 19 years old and sexually active, i have a bit of a problem with the fact that my labia majora is so swollen after oral sex or just stimulation. My partners have either given oral or tried to stimulate it but i dont really feel anything and at the end of the night its so swollen that i had to try to cool it down with ice water but it usually takes 2-3 days to go back to its normal size.

Could this be some kind of infection? Or is it just me?

Dear R,

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I Can’t Imagine How Nordic Sex Educators View Me

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Not long ago I wondered if I’d ever be invited to open a conference by delivering the keynote talk. After all, as a best selling feminist author who has also conducted countless Bodysex workshops worldwide, I’ve been teaching women how to harness the power of electric vibrators for independent orgasms along with overcoming genital shame and body loathing. As a one woman masturbation crusader, I doubt I’ll ever be embraced by any patriarchal/matriarchal system that makes up our so-called “democracies.” This is especially true in America where fundamental religiosity has consumed the Republican Party that’s now hell bent on controlling women’s sexuality. A project doomed to fail.

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21 Year Old Virgin with Vibrator Problems

Dear Dr. Betty,

My name's A, and I'm a 21-year old female virgin. For my 21-st B-day three weeks ago, I decided to try something new with my masturbation life and buy myself my first genuine vibrator. After a few days of researching for the best one, I settled for a $40 silicone clitoral vibe and was thrilled to start using it.

And, like most youth, I was impatient and slammed the vibe onto my vulva expecting to feel instant gratification... well, it did feel good for about 1-2 mins, but then my vulva got numb and I got frustrated and just stopped. So, ever since then I've been experimenting with different techniques to make using a vibrator work for me.

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Why Don't Women Enjoy Their "Scent"?

Dear Dr. Betty,

The scent of used panties sends a powerful jolt to my penis, especially the scent in the midcycle fertility. The real thing does that too but not to the extent of the concentrated scent on panties.

Why don't women accept this as a compliment instead of treating it as a yuck?

Dear J,

It's an advanced women who can enjoy her own scent especially when it's pungent during ovulation or after a period. Most of us are overly concerned about smelling like a rose at all times. Just look at the cosmetic and perfume industries raking in a fortune to avoid smelling human.

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