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“There should be a statute of limitation on grief. A rulebook that says it is all right to wake up crying, but only for a month. That after 42 days you will no longer turn with your heart racing, certain you have heard her call out your name. That there will be no fine imposed if you feel the need to clean out her desk; take down her artwork from the refrigerator; turn over a school portrait as you pass - if only because it cuts you fresh again to see it. That it's okay to measure the time she has been gone, the way we once measured her birthdays.”
― Jodi Picoult, My Sister's Keeper

“Remember why you are with the person you are with. They chose you for a good reason. You are special, and that is not just some spiel that I am saying to get you to smile. You really are, just like I have said all throughout this book, every person here on this beautiful planet is amazingly unique in their own special ways.”
― Jennifer Corter, Positivity in Pain

“By seeking out a therapist, social worker, or even just someone to talk to who isn't family or friends, will help a great deal to help you work out your feelings. Our lives were essentially ripped right from underneath our feet, that isn't something that is menial or minuscule. We mustn't downplay our feelings. By doing so would only hinder our personal growth and block our path to healing ourselves emotionally. Never neglect your mental health in lieu of your physical health. If you feel you need to see a mental health professional, do it. If you need help seeking someone out, ask for it. There is no shame in asking for help. If”
― Jennifer Corter, Positivity in Pain

“No one ever expects to become ill, it just sort of happens to us. For some, it is a slow process, while for others they are befallen rather quickly with an illness. You may have been searching for years for a diagnosis, a name for your pain, or maybe you were diagnosed rather quickly after your symptoms started showing. I”
― Jennifer Corter, Positivity in Pain