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message 4501: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments Niharika✩ wrote: "Mrunal wrote: "Reading was one of my hobbies and I joined Goodreads back in December, for the sole purpose of tracking my reading progress and maintaining my tbr. Then I learned about the socializi..."

But did get a rank at some point didn't you?


message 4502: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments Nashita wrote: "NO MRUNAAAAAAAAALLLL

PLEASE DO NOT FEEL BAD

its been long since i wrote a proper review. And nearly a month since it dead anything properly. But i did feel a bit guilty. But then i realised the r..."


NO!!!! YOUR REVIEWS ARE AMAZINGGGG!!!!! and you're ev n 2nd most followed and 4th best reviewer, aren't you? You're amazing, and I love you too! ❤️


message 4503: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments Nihira (HIATUS) wrote: "when i got my ranks first i was so proud and then i lost them and started getting stressed and then-"

I didn't even a rank.


message 4504: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments ຖ໐ຖi wrote: "Mrunal wrote: "Reading was one of my hobbies and I joined Goodreads back in December, for the sole purpose of tracking my reading progress and maintaining my tbr. Then I learned about the socializi..."

Yeah, that sounds less stressing. I think I should try that. Thanksss!!! ❤️


message 4505: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments Ananya ♡ wrote: "Mrunal wrote: "Reading was one of my hobbies and I joined Goodreads back in December, for the sole purpose of tracking my reading progress and maintaining my tbr. Then I learned about the socializi..."

Yeah exactly! That's what I'm trying to tell ya! Reading isn't "work", it was me who turned it into it.


message 4506: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments Ananya ♡ wrote: "If goodreads is not it for you then just leave it be for a while and continue with storygraph since it doesn't any of those ranks or anything"

No, I'm good with Goodreads. Storygraph is great but it doesn't have as many books as gr has.


message 4507: by Amrita (new)

Amrita | 1674 comments Mrunal wrote: "Reading was one of my hobbies and I joined Goodreads back in December, for the sole purpose of tracking my reading progress and maintaining my tbr. Then I learned about the socializing factor of th..."

It doesn't have be like that. Just take a break, read because you want to.

I wanted to be in "best reviewers" too at first. I wanted to be popular. But then I made a lot of friends. I joined groups, I talked to people and Goodreads became the best decision I took in months (especially in lockdown here).

I write reviews for the books I read, the books I read because I wanted to. I don't mind that I don't get more than 30-40 likes. I won't mind if I didn't get any likes. I write reviews because I want to express my views about the books. Everyone has a opinion and I want mine to be heard.

I'm happy, just with the friends I made here, and are still making. It's fun actually!

I'm sorry you don't feel the same way. Do whatever you think is best for you. I'm sure there's something for you here too... Take a break if you must, but don't give up. 😊👍


message 4508: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments Amrita wrote: "Mrunal wrote: "Reading was one of my hobbies and I joined Goodreads back in December, for the sole purpose of tracking my reading progress and maintaining my tbr. Then I learned about the socializi..."

😊❤️


message 4509: by Marie (new)

Marie | 1726 comments I'm really sorry that you're going through this, mrunal. a hobby should never cause you so much stress and anxiety. when i first joined goodreads, i thought I'd have to review every book i read. but after a short time i realized it's just not for me. reading itself will always be my priority and I personally have neither the motivation nor the time to write many reviews. and that's completely okay!

i know it sounds cliché but popularity really isn't important in life. if you write reviews it should be because you like writing them, not because you want to get a certain number of likes. we are constantly surrounded by such a competitive environment that's based on productivity that it can be extremely hard to extract oneself from such a situation. but your mental health is essential. having a reviewing rank is very much not. you must never feel bad about a lack of rank, likes or anything society has conditioned us to desire. i hope you will find your joy in reading again❤️


message 4510: by Unknown (new)

Unknown Reader | 9326 comments Mrunal wrote: "Reading was one of my hobbies and I joined Goodreads back in December, for the sole purpose of tracking my reading progress and maintaining my tbr. Then I learned about the socializing factor of th..."

Hello Mrunal,

I totally get what you’re facing, because even a comment on my review/update can get me excited for more recognition. I also refresh goodreads just to see what updates I’ve gotten. I would also read popular books even if I’m not interested, just to feel connected to the community.

That’s why, I really hope that you find your passion in reading again. I know it’s pretty hard to get out of that reading slump, so it’s totally to take a break now and then.

I wish you all the best !


message 4511: by Niharika✩ (last edited Sep 11, 2021 12:13PM) (new)

Niharika✩ (doesitreallymatterpeople) | 16149 comments Mrunal wrote: "Niharika✩ wrote: "Mrunal wrote: "Reading was one of my hobbies and I joined Goodreads back in December, for the sole purpose of tracking my reading progress and maintaining my tbr. Then I learned a..."

I did..and it was the worst possible thing to ever happen to me on goodreads. It’s too much stress and trouble.


message 4512: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

I AM IN A CRISISSSSSS


AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH


message 4513: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments Oh wait.... There ar so many people here to support me... I'm so happy 🥺❤️❤️


message 4514: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments Unknown wrote: "Mrunal wrote: "Reading was one of my hobbies and I joined Goodreads back in December, for the sole purpose of tracking my reading progress and maintaining my tbr. Then I learned about the socializi..."

Marie wrote: "I'm really sorry that you're going through this, mrunal. a hobby should never cause you so much stress and anxiety. when i first joined goodreads, i thought I'd have to review every book i read. bu..."

❤️❤️❤️


message 4515: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments Niharika✩ wrote: "Mrunal wrote: "Niharika✩ wrote: "Mrunal wrote: "Reading was one of my hobbies and I joined Goodreads back in December, for the sole purpose of tracking my reading progress and maintaining my tbr. T..."

Awwwww I'm sorry 🥺🥺❤️


message 4516: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments anYWAY


message 4517: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments CRISIS TIME


message 4518: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments I have 5 canvases of 3 different sizes. And I have a billion different ideas as to how to use them. But I don't know where to start


message 4519: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments Update: The crisis still isn't solved.


message 4520: by Unknown (new)

Unknown Reader | 9326 comments I barely know about art. Are you an experienced artist ? That’s interesting.
I would love to know your ideas


Nash (all too unwell) (iambecomeabladee_n) | 8087 comments MRUNAL PM ME ANYTIME ILYY AND IM HERE FOR UUU<33


message 4522: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments Kasey wrote: "Hi! How can I help"

Hiiiii
I don't know actually. I have five canvases. I want to paint them. I have a few different ideas for how to do si, but I don't know where to start. 🥺🥺


message 4523: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments Unknown wrote: "I barely know about art. Are you an experienced artist ? That’s interesting.
I would love to know your ideas"


Experienced? Maybe... Professional? NOPE. Actually I've always had this connection with paints and colours... Yk... They kinda give me life.... But my paintings aren't that great. I can't even draw a human figure iny first try.


message 4524: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments Nashita wrote: "MRUNAL PM ME ANYTIME ILYY AND IM HERE FOR UUU<33"

I LOVE YOU TOO NASHIE <33


message 4525: by ananya ྀི (new)

ananya ྀི (literary_f4iry) | 11107 comments Mrunal wrote: "Kasey wrote: "Hi! How can I help"

Hiiiii
I don't know actually. I have five canvases. I want to paint them. I have a few different ideas for how to do si, but I don't know where to start. 🥺🥺"


I feel you, having too many ideas and too little canvases


message 4526: by ananya ྀི (new)

ananya ྀི (literary_f4iry) | 11107 comments Mrunal wrote: "Unknown wrote: "I barely know about art. Are you an experienced artist ? That’s interesting.
I would love to know your ideas"

Experienced? Maybe... Professional? NOPE. Actually I've always had th..."


That's amazing! I like painting but my real love is pencil shading and charcoal art


message 4527: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments Ananya ♡ wrote: "Mrunal wrote: "Kasey wrote: "Hi! How can I help"

Hiiiii
I don't know actually. I have five canvases. I want to paint them. I have a few different ideas for how to do si, but I don't know where to ..."


Ikr?! 😭😭


message 4528: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments Ananya ♡ wrote: "Mrunal wrote: "Unknown wrote: "I barely know about art. Are you an experienced artist ? That’s interesting.
I would love to know your ideas"

Experienced? Maybe... Professional? NOPE. Actually I'v..."


I've never tried charcoal art.. how is it? My school's art teacher used to tell us that it's similar to pencil shading.


message 4529: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments But he wasn't a good teacher. He knew how to paint, but he didn't know how to tell people hot to paint.


message 4530: by Niharika✩ (new)

Niharika✩ (doesitreallymatterpeople) | 16149 comments You can eliminate the least good ideas or however you say that. And chose the top three/five


message 4531: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments I wanna start a blog and a youtube channel.


message 4532: by Hershey (new)

Hershey (ladystardust28) | 16374 comments Mrunal wrote: "I wanna start a blog and a youtube channel."

I AM ALL HANDS!
YAYY!


message 4533: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments Aashi wrote: "Mrunal wrote: "I wanna start a blog and a youtube channel."

I AM ALL HANDS!
YAYY!"


🥺❤️


message 4534: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments But I need solid planning for that.


message 4535: by Niharika✩ (new)

Niharika✩ (doesitreallymatterpeople) | 16149 comments Mrunal wrote: "I wanna start a blog and a youtube channel."

YESSSS I LIKEY


message 4536: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments But I've always wanted to be a youtuber


message 4537: by [deleted user] (new)

Mrunal wrote: "I wanna start a blog and a youtube channel."

AYY ILL WATCH AND READ THE HELL OUT OF IT


message 4538: by [deleted user] (new)

Kasey wrote: "I’ve always wanted a podcast
And I’m trying to convince my dad to start a youtube channel for golfing stuff (he’s brought it up a lot) so that I can edit the videos"


AHHH


message 4539: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments Kasey wrote: "I’ve always wanted a podcast
And I’m trying to convince my dad to start a youtube channel for golfing stuff (he’s brought it up a lot) so that I can edit the videos"


That would be funnnn


message 4540: by Niharika✩ (new)

Niharika✩ (doesitreallymatterpeople) | 16149 comments I WILL WATCH READ AND LISTEN THE HELL OUT OF ANY YT CHANNEL BLOG OR POFCAST YOU PEOPLE START


message 4541: by Mrunal (new)

Mrunal (darkicecoffee) | 8565 comments Niharika✩ wrote: "I WILL WATCH READ AND LISTEN THE HELL OUT OF ANY YT CHANNEL BLOG OR POFCAST YOU PEOPLE START"

Awww 🥺🥺❤️❤️


message 4542: by Niharika✩ (new)

Niharika✩ (doesitreallymatterpeople) | 16149 comments Mrunal wrote: "Niharika✩ wrote: "I WILL WATCH READ AND LISTEN THE HELL OUT OF ANY YT CHANNEL BLOG OR POFCAST YOU PEOPLE START"

Awww 🥺🥺❤️❤️"


❤️❤️❤️
I love you
Always
And forever
❤️❤️❤️


message 4543: by George (new)

George (silverronin) | 777 comments hello hello


message 4544: by [deleted user] (new)

Mrunal wrote: "I wanna start a blog and a youtube channel."

DO IT


message 4545: by Niharika✩ (new)

Niharika✩ (doesitreallymatterpeople) | 16149 comments My mom's making one as a birthday present. My birthday is in..17 days.


message 4546: by Nash (all too unwell) (last edited Sep 13, 2021 09:29PM) (new)

Nash (all too unwell) (iambecomeabladee_n) | 8087 comments YESSSS MRUNALLLLLLLLLL I WOULD WATCH UR VIDEOS A 1000 TIMES IF U WANT

u have all our support<3


message 4547: by Amrita (new)

Amrita | 1674 comments Nashita wrote: "YESSSS MRUNALLLLLLLLLL I WOULD WATCH UR VIDEOS A 100 TIMES IF U WANT

u have all our support<3"


Yes you do!


message 4548: by Amrita (new)

Amrita | 1674 comments Niharika✩ wrote: "My mom's making one as a birthday present. My birthday is in..17 days."

Oh, cool!


message 4549: by [deleted user] (new)

YES MRUNAL I’LL SUBSCRIBE TO YOU ON ALL THREE OF MY YOUTUBE ACCOUNTS


message 4550: by Niharika✩ (new)

Niharika✩ (doesitreallymatterpeople) | 16149 comments I WOULD SUBSCRIBE BUT MY EMAIL :D


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