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I thought about getting this book for my mom for Mother's Day. She always loved Carol Burnett.

Denise wrote: "P.S. Is anyone having a problem using the add book/author at the top of the comment box? When I click on it it just takes me to the top of the page not to the search for book/author box. Very strange."
Happens to me all the time, usually more in the evenings when there seems to be more traffic.
Happens to me all the time, usually more in the evenings when there seems to be more traffic.

Shannon: I liked the title so I looked it up and it sounds good so I put it on reserve at the library. When you read about slavery many people don't realize that Caucasians have also been slaves and right here in the United States. I look forward to reading
The Kitchen House: A Novel by Kathleen Grissom. This appears to be her first book.

Shannon: I liked the title so I looked it up and it sounds goo..."
Yes not many people are aware of the fact that there were Caucasians that were enslaved in the US as well. I can't tell you how many times it has come up and no one believes it. This book is very informative. It may be fiction but still gives people another look into the world of slavery.


You are describing my brother when you are talking aobut your SO. They don't even let anyone into their house any more.


best wishes to you both. I hope that it gets better for you guys. I can understand how frustrating it can be though I am sure not fully. My husband is a terrible packrat and that gets to me all the clutter and useless things that he keeps. But for some reason he seems to think we will need it someday. I hope the book is helpful to you. It sounds very interesting so if you would not mind letting me know how it was I would greatly appreciate it.


Melodie wrote: "You are describing my brother when you are talking aobut your SO. They don't even let anyone into their house any more."
I know what your sister-in-law is going through. I hate to have people over too. My girlfriend came over about a month a go and I took her downstairs where we have enough clothes to clothe all of Columbus. She took about 7 kitchen size garbage bags of clothes and it barely made a dent. We have clothes from infant to 6X that he has found. But the saddest thing was her response. She just kept looking around and saying "Oh my God." And the funniest thing is this particular girlfriend is a slob. Danny won't even throw away ice cream bar sticks, the tabs on pop cans, the aluminum foil on candy (that goes into our aluminum recycling). I own a duplex and he has the apartment full, two rooms are dedicated to aluminum can recycling. He can't just step on the cans and throw them in a bag, they have to be squashed in a certain way. I tried to go down and help and the minutia bullshit that he goes through drove me nuts. The basement is so full you can't get through it, the attic is piled high, the level that we live on, piles of stuff, boxes of stuff, and then of course we have my books. It's to the point that I would like to strike a match and burn the house down and start all over.

No, Susan, I haven't watched The Hoarders, I don't have cable. My daughter told me about the show and told me to watch it on-line. I'm not sure why she wants me to see it...I live it!
And to Shannon, I will let you know if I find the book helpful.


Heidi: He doesn't see a problem, so no. From what I understand he has been this way since he was a kid. When I say anything about the clutter all I get from him is "uh huh" or "yeah, right".

In addition to the non-fiction book about hoarding I found what I think is a young adult book titled
Dirty Little Secrets that is about a young girl's struggle living with a mother that is a compulsive hoarder. I am looking forward to reading that too.


Heidi: I will get rid of it and with my kids in Phoenix they will haul it away before it gets to the proportions that it is now. The problem here is I have a mobility problem. I can't drive anymore and it is really hard for me to get up and down the stairs. I haven't been in my basement in years but I had to put a new furnace in last year and I was so embarrassed about the clutter that I know is down there. My basement is split because of the two apartments. You can't get to the furnaces without climbing over stuff, moving stuff. On one side of the basement he has pieces and parts of dozens of bicycles that he was going to put together and sell. Yeah, right! The pieces come in, they don't get put together and they don't get sold. What I intend to do is pack up what I want to take and then call someone like 1-800-got-junk and have them come and haul it all away. I am to the point that I have no sympathy for his "disorder". I know I sound cold but I have watched this accumulate for the last 11 years (slowly at first but as I became less mobile it started taking over more and more of the house. When my daughter moved out of the downstairs apartment he then started taking over that space. It's kind of like weeds taking over your yard.

This is my brother all over. He was always a bit of a pack rat, but he was in a car accident about 19 years ago or so and got a pretty good concussion out of it. He's gotten gradually worse ever since then. He & my SIL have a teenage son who still lives with them and he and my niece, who moved out, tell us stories about the house. I haven't been in it in several years and it was getting bad then. They no longer cook at home unless you can microwave it because they can't get to the stove or the kitchen sink. They use the refrigerator and the microwave is accessible thru a cutout between the living room and the kitchen. There is a walkway from the front door to the couch and they have a TV that sits on a table at the end of the couch, but you can't open the windows or anything in the living room because they are completely blocked by "stuff". None of them has been in the garage for a couple of years because it's overflowing as is the basement and the downstairs family room. If my niece wanted to move back in she couldn't because you can't get down to where her room was. I really don't understand this mentality. God knows he wasn't raised that way. My parents are super clean and the only clutter you see in their house is when my mom gets behind on her newspaper reading!
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As this has gotten off topic, I have created your own thread for you to move your discussion to. Please move your discussion about hoarding to the thread I made for it, in a new folder marked Off Topic. That way you can have your own discussion there, and this thread can go back to what books you're reading that aren't cozy mysteries.
Kate - Great idea, and thank you!
Back on topic... I am currently reading another historical romance, The Heir by Johanna Lindsey.
Back on topic... I am currently reading another historical romance, The Heir by Johanna Lindsey.
Your welcome.
I got my wish granted today on PBS for a historical fiction novel, Innocent Traitor. It's written by Alison Weir who has written many Tudor history books. This is a fictional but as much as possible, historically accurate account of Lady Jane Gray's 9 days as Queen of England. I can't wait for it to arrive.
I got my wish granted today on PBS for a historical fiction novel, Innocent Traitor. It's written by Alison Weir who has written many Tudor history books. This is a fictional but as much as possible, historically accurate account of Lady Jane Gray's 9 days as Queen of England. I can't wait for it to arrive.
Congrats on the book! I have my fingers crossed for her new one up for grabs here, Captive Queen: A Novel of Eleanor of Aquitaine. Eleanor has intrigued me since my French Civ days in college.
I put my name in for the first reads drawing for that one too. That's where I heard of these first. I was on the PBS wish list for all of about 2 hours before someone posted it. lol


I thought I did but since I have no idea what I was saying I went ahead and deleted it must have been a brain fart-lol.





Shannon wrote: "Briansgirl "Master Book Sale Huntress" wrote: "Shannon, I see you quoted our messages, but I don't see your reply."
I thought I did but since I have no idea what I was saying I went ahead and dele..."
Happens to the best of us some days. lol
I thought I did but since I have no idea what I was saying I went ahead and dele..."
Happens to the best of us some days. lol




that book sounds very interesting I think I will have to get it.
Sandie wrote: "Did you know that from 1919 until 1969 Cornell University was given orphaned babies (called practice babies) to be used in teaching mothering skills to their "Domestic Economics" students and that each child was "used" for approximately one year and then returned to the orphanage where they were subsequently adopted? "
That is an interesting historical fact!
I finished reading The Heir by Johanna Lindsey last night, but I'm not back to my pile of cozies just yet. In looking over the rest of the Lindseys I have to catch up on, I discovered one of them featured characters from The Heir, so naturally I have to read The Devil Who Tamed Her before moving on to something else. *grin*
That is an interesting historical fact!
I finished reading The Heir by Johanna Lindsey last night, but I'm not back to my pile of cozies just yet. In looking over the rest of the Lindseys I have to catch up on, I discovered one of them featured characters from The Heir, so naturally I have to read The Devil Who Tamed Her before moving on to something else. *grin*


Sandie: That is a very interesting historical fact. Also rather surprising as the most "desirable" children for adoption are infants and if these babies were given to Cornell for a year they would have taken these kids out of the most promising time to be adopted. I was adopted right from the hospital. I will have to not only read this book but check out the history of this practice. Thanks for sharing it with us.

There were parts of Dead and Gone I didn't like (namely the torture). Dead in the Family is more laid back because Sookie needs time to recover and it goes into more detail of Sookie and Eric's relationship.

DEAD & GONE was one of my favorites in the Sookie series because of all the action. DEAD TO THE WORLD is, of course, my very favorite. DEAD IN THE FAMILY is definitely slowed down from DEAD & GONE.


I started Dirty Little Secrets. I believe this is a Young Adult book as the main character is a teenage girl and is written from her perspective. This goes along with the non-fiction book on hoarding that I am reading. In Dirty Little Secrets Lucy's mother is a compulsive hoarder and she tries to hide it from the world. Something unexpected happens early in the book that is interesting (at about 50 pages) and I am currently 60 pages into it and am curious to see how Lucy handles things. I know that is very vague but I don't want to spoil the story in case someone would be interested in reading the book.



You have got to be the only person I know of who willingly read this book!!
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