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The Disease to Please: Curing the People-Pleasing Syndrome The Disease to Please: Curing the People-Pleasing Syndrome (Paperback)
by (shelved 7 times as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.88 — 1,677 ratings — published 2000
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Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life (Hardcover)
by (shelved 5 times as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.21 — 90,584 ratings — published 1992
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Stop People Pleasing: Be Assertive, Stop Caring What Others Think, Beat Your Guilt, & Stop Being a Pushover Stop People Pleasing: Be Assertive, Stop Caring What Others Think, Beat Your Guilt, & Stop Being a Pushover (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 4 times as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.83 — 1,157 ratings — published
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When It's Never About You: The People-Pleaser's Guide to Reclaiming Your Health, Happiness and Personal Freedom When It's Never About You: The People-Pleaser's Guide to Reclaiming Your Health, Happiness and Personal Freedom (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 4 times as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.00 — 247 ratings — published 2017
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Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself (Paperback)
by (shelved 4 times as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.12 — 52,251 ratings — published 1986
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Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself (ebook)
by (shelved 3 times as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.23 — 40,528 ratings — published 2021
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The Courage to Be Disliked: How to Free Yourself, Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness The Courage to Be Disliked: How to Free Yourself, Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness (Paperback)
by (shelved 2 times as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.90 — 163,262 ratings — published 2013
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Please Yourself: How to Stop People-Pleasing and Transform the Way You Live Please Yourself: How to Stop People-Pleasing and Transform the Way You Live (Hardcover)
by (shelved 2 times as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.93 — 1,778 ratings — published
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No More Mr. Nice Guy No More Mr. Nice Guy (Hardcover)
by (shelved 2 times as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.04 — 25,675 ratings — published 2000
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The People Pleaser's Guide to Loving Others without Losing Yourself The People Pleaser's Guide to Loving Others without Losing Yourself (Paperback)
by (shelved 2 times as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.17 — 140 ratings — published
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I Thought It Was Just Me: Women Reclaiming Power and Courage in a Culture of Shame I Thought It Was Just Me: Women Reclaiming Power and Courage in a Culture of Shame (Hardcover)
by (shelved 2 times as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.19 — 27,260 ratings — published 2007
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The Need to Please: Mindfulness Skills to Gain Freedom from People Pleasing and Approval Seeking The Need to Please: Mindfulness Skills to Gain Freedom from People Pleasing and Approval Seeking (Paperback)
by (shelved 2 times as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.80 — 128 ratings — published 2013
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Good Spirits (Ghosted, #1) Good Spirits (Ghosted, #1)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.97 — 147,196 ratings — published 2025
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Dolly All the Time Dolly All the Time (Paperback)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.29 — 171,557 ratings — published 2026
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The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.39 — 4,458,222 ratings — published 2017
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Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves—and How to Find Our Way Back Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves—and How to Find Our Way Back (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.30 — 2,991 ratings — published 2025
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Stop People Pleasing: And Find Your Power Stop People Pleasing: And Find Your Power (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.27 — 1,128 ratings — published 2024
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How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.01 — 45,797 ratings — published 2023
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I Could Give You the Moon I Could Give You the Moon
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.93 — 6,796 ratings — published 2026
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Shapes of Love Shapes of Love (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.05 — 651 ratings — published 2026
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Are You Mad at Me? Are You Mad at Me? (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.36 — 17,282 ratings — published 2025
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Dawn on the Coast: A Graphic Novel (The Baby-Sitters Club Graphic Novels #19) Dawn on the Coast: A Graphic Novel (The Baby-Sitters Club Graphic Novels #19)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.34 — 1,525 ratings — published 2026
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This Is Me: A Reckoning This Is Me: A Reckoning (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.06 — 33,436 ratings — published 2026
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All the Way to the River All the Way to the River (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.73 — 41,495 ratings — published 2025
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Tested Tested (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.06 — 123 ratings — published
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When People Are Big and God is Small: Overcoming Peer Pressure, Codependency, and the Fear of Man (Resources for Changing Lives) When People Are Big and God is Small: Overcoming Peer Pressure, Codependency, and the Fear of Man (Resources for Changing Lives)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.28 — 10,532 ratings — published 1997
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Jane Eyre Jane Eyre (Paperback)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.16 — 2,421,334 ratings — published 1847
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People Pleaser: Breaking Free from the Burden of Imaginary Expectations People Pleaser: Breaking Free from the Burden of Imaginary Expectations (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.55 — 5,435 ratings — published
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Nobody in Particular Nobody in Particular (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.04 — 10,088 ratings — published 2025
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The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self (Paperback)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.04 — 32,016 ratings — published 1979
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Bottom of the Pyramid: A Memoir of Persevering, Dancing for Myself, and Starring in My Own Life Bottom of the Pyramid: A Memoir of Persevering, Dancing for Myself, and Starring in My Own Life (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.89 — 24,225 ratings — published
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Little Pieces of Light (Castle Hill Academy, #1) Little Pieces of Light (Castle Hill Academy, #1)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.11 — 2,682 ratings — published 2025
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When the Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress When the Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress (Paperback)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.16 — 38,838 ratings — published 2003
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Semi-Well-Adjusted Despite Literally Everything Semi-Well-Adjusted Despite Literally Everything (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.16 — 36,516 ratings — published 2025
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Sister Wife: A Memoir of Faith, Family, and Finding Freedom Sister Wife: A Memoir of Faith, Family, and Finding Freedom (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.15 — 36,570 ratings — published
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How to Let Things Go: 99 Tips from a Zen Buddhist Monk to Relinquish Control and Free Yourself Up for What Matters How to Let Things Go: 99 Tips from a Zen Buddhist Monk to Relinquish Control and Free Yourself Up for What Matters (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.49 — 2,565 ratings — published 2021
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How to Stop Breaking Your Own Heart: Stop People-Pleasing, Set Boundaries, and Heal from Self-Sabotage How to Stop Breaking Your Own Heart: Stop People-Pleasing, Set Boundaries, and Heal from Self-Sabotage (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.67 — 1,787 ratings — published 2024
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The Gifts of Imperfection The Gifts of Imperfection (Paperback)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.24 — 231,169 ratings — published 2010
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Shepherds for Sale: How Evangelical Leaders Traded the Truth for a Leftist Agenda Shepherds for Sale: How Evangelical Leaders Traded the Truth for a Leftist Agenda (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.31 — 3,265 ratings — published
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First-Time Caller (Heartstrings, #1) First-Time Caller (Heartstrings, #1)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.91 — 318,900 ratings — published 2025
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Wild Eyes (Rose Hill, #2) Wild Eyes (Rose Hill, #2)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.23 — 360,348 ratings — published 2024
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The Joy of Saying No: A Simple Plan to Stop People Pleasing, Reclaim Boundaries, and Say Yes to the Life You Want The Joy of Saying No: A Simple Plan to Stop People Pleasing, Reclaim Boundaries, and Say Yes to the Life You Want (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.70 — 853 ratings — published
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Becoming Bulletproof: Protect Yourself, Read People, Influence Situations, and Live Fearlessly Becoming Bulletproof: Protect Yourself, Read People, Influence Situations, and Live Fearlessly (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.13 — 10,235 ratings — published 2020
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Casting Vows (Hearts of Gold Book 3) Casting Vows (Hearts of Gold Book 3)
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avg rating 4.29 — 58 ratings — published 2024
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Business Casual (Lovelight, #4) Business Casual (Lovelight, #4)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.05 — 50,422 ratings — published 2024
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Suman Pokhrel
“When I feel my poetry touches someone's heart or mind, I'm fulfilled.”
― Suman Pokhrel

Melody Beattie
“Ever since people first existed, they have been doing all the things we label "codependent." They have worried themselves sick about other people. They have tried to help in ways that didn't help. They have said yes when they meant no. They have tried to make other people see things their way. They have bent over backwards avoiding hurting people's feelings and, in so doing, have hurt themselves. They have been afraid to trust their feelings. They have believed lies and then felt betrayed. They have wanted to get even and punish others. They have felt so angry they wanted to kill. They have struggled for their rights while other people said they didn't have any. They have worn sackcloth because they didn't believe they deserved silk.”
― Melody Beattie, Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself

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