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The Disease to Please: Curing the People-Pleasing Syndrome (Paperback)
by (shelved 7 times as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.88 — 1,677 ratings — published 2000
Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty... And Start Speaking Up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, And Unapologetically Being Yourself (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 6 times as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.94 — 4,066 ratings — published 2017
Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life (Hardcover)
by (shelved 5 times as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.21 — 90,584 ratings — published 1992
Stop People Pleasing: Be Assertive, Stop Caring What Others Think, Beat Your Guilt, & Stop Being a Pushover (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 4 times as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.83 — 1,157 ratings — published
When It's Never About You: The People-Pleaser's Guide to Reclaiming Your Health, Happiness and Personal Freedom (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 4 times as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.00 — 247 ratings — published 2017
Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself (Paperback)
by (shelved 4 times as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.12 — 52,251 ratings — published 1986
Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself (ebook)
by (shelved 3 times as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.23 — 40,528 ratings — published 2021
The Courage to Be Disliked: How to Free Yourself, Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness (Paperback)
by (shelved 2 times as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.90 — 163,262 ratings — published 2013
Please Yourself: How to Stop People-Pleasing and Transform the Way You Live (Hardcover)
by (shelved 2 times as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.93 — 1,778 ratings — published
No More Mr. Nice Guy (Hardcover)
by (shelved 2 times as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.04 — 25,675 ratings — published 2000
The People Pleaser's Guide to Loving Others without Losing Yourself (Paperback)
by (shelved 2 times as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.17 — 140 ratings — published
I Thought It Was Just Me: Women Reclaiming Power and Courage in a Culture of Shame (Hardcover)
by (shelved 2 times as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.19 — 27,260 ratings — published 2007
The Need to Please: Mindfulness Skills to Gain Freedom from People Pleasing and Approval Seeking (Paperback)
by (shelved 2 times as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.80 — 128 ratings — published 2013
Good Spirits (Ghosted, #1)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.97 — 147,196 ratings — published 2025
Dolly All the Time (Paperback)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.29 — 171,557 ratings — published 2026
The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.39 — 4,458,222 ratings — published 2017
Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves—and How to Find Our Way Back (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.30 — 2,991 ratings — published 2025
Stop People Pleasing: And Find Your Power (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.27 — 1,128 ratings — published 2024
How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.01 — 45,797 ratings — published 2023
I Could Give You the Moon
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.93 — 6,796 ratings — published 2026
Shapes of Love (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.05 — 651 ratings — published 2026
Are You Mad at Me? (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.36 — 17,282 ratings — published 2025
Dawn on the Coast: A Graphic Novel (The Baby-Sitters Club Graphic Novels #19)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.34 — 1,525 ratings — published 2026
This Is Me: A Reckoning (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.06 — 33,436 ratings — published 2026
All the Way to the River (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.73 — 41,495 ratings — published 2025
When People Are Big and God is Small: Overcoming Peer Pressure, Codependency, and the Fear of Man (Resources for Changing Lives)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.28 — 10,532 ratings — published 1997
Jane Eyre (Paperback)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.16 — 2,421,334 ratings — published 1847
Crucial Accountability: Tools for Resolving Violated Expectations, Broken Commitments, and Bad Behavior, Second Edition ( Paperback)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.09 — 2,802 ratings — published
People Pleaser: Breaking Free from the Burden of Imaginary Expectations (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.55 — 5,435 ratings — published
Nobody in Particular (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.04 — 10,088 ratings — published 2025
The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self (Paperback)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.04 — 32,016 ratings — published 1979
Bottom of the Pyramid: A Memoir of Persevering, Dancing for Myself, and Starring in My Own Life (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.89 — 24,225 ratings — published
Little Pieces of Light (Castle Hill Academy, #1)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.11 — 2,682 ratings — published 2025
When the Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress (Paperback)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.16 — 38,838 ratings — published 2003
Semi-Well-Adjusted Despite Literally Everything (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.16 — 36,516 ratings — published 2025
Sister Wife: A Memoir of Faith, Family, and Finding Freedom (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.15 — 36,570 ratings — published
How to Let Things Go: 99 Tips from a Zen Buddhist Monk to Relinquish Control and Free Yourself Up for What Matters (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.49 — 2,565 ratings — published 2021
Me, You & Us: Moving Beyond Relational Trauma and Disorder (Anxious/Avoidant Attachment, Codependency, BPD) to Build a Stable, Lasting Relationship
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.89 — 76 ratings — published
How to Stop Breaking Your Own Heart: Stop People-Pleasing, Set Boundaries, and Heal from Self-Sabotage (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.67 — 1,787 ratings — published 2024
The Gifts of Imperfection (Paperback)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.24 — 231,169 ratings — published 2010
Shepherds for Sale: How Evangelical Leaders Traded the Truth for a Leftist Agenda (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.31 — 3,265 ratings — published
First-Time Caller (Heartstrings, #1)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.91 — 318,900 ratings — published 2025
Wild Eyes (Rose Hill, #2)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.23 — 360,348 ratings — published 2024
The Joy of Saying No: A Simple Plan to Stop People Pleasing, Reclaim Boundaries, and Say Yes to the Life You Want (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.70 — 853 ratings — published
كيف تقول لا: ٢٥٠ طريقة لتقولها و تعنيها ، توقف عن محاولة إرضاء الآخرين للأبد (Mass Market Paperback)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.12 — 1,109 ratings — published 2005
Becoming Bulletproof: Protect Yourself, Read People, Influence Situations, and Live Fearlessly (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.13 — 10,235 ratings — published 2020
Casting Vows (Hearts of Gold Book 3)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.29 — 58 ratings — published 2024
The art of manipulation: How to get what you want out of people in business, in your personal life, and in your love life (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 3.75 — 12 ratings — published 1990
Business Casual (Lovelight, #4)
by (shelved 1 time as people-pleasing)
avg rating 4.05 — 50,422 ratings — published 2024
“Ever since people first existed, they have been doing all the things we label "codependent." They have worried themselves sick about other people. They have tried to help in ways that didn't help. They have said yes when they meant no. They have tried to make other people see things their way. They have bent over backwards avoiding hurting people's feelings and, in so doing, have hurt themselves. They have been afraid to trust their feelings. They have believed lies and then felt betrayed. They have wanted to get even and punish others. They have felt so angry they wanted to kill. They have struggled for their rights while other people said they didn't have any. They have worn sackcloth because they didn't believe they deserved silk.”
― Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself
― Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself







