We started as first aka slow burn, but no i really enjoy a series/book where the MC is not completely fawning over the guys on every second page.

So no kissing in the first book. Minor flirting. The guys are not allowed to have any girls/hook ups if the FMC doesn't hook up/have guys separate from the potential harem. Fair is fair

Exceptions are made if the guys and girl have been friends for years previous to the start of the book, then let the games begin.

I'm looking for them to build a solid friendship before turning into a relationship. Sexy times are welcomed in later books

Please only add books first in series

All genres and standalone's are fine

Harem needs to have 3 or more men