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September 14, 2014
Orgasms For Everyone is Sexy Sunday # 31
September 13, 2014
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September 10, 2014
:: BDSM Emotions
I’ve always found it interesting some of the search phrases used that have found some people onto my little space here on the internet. Over the next few posts, I thought I’d share a few of them and some thoughts about them. The first one is “BDSM Emotions”. Now,…
September 8, 2014
Domination is an Art
Domination is an Art; A Reverse Sadist, My Pleasure is Your Pleasure. For holding you there at that point for as long as possible. It’ is Not A Desire to Hurt. It does not need to inflict pain.
Originally posted on Love with Domination:
It is addictive. The control. The power.
I don’t need the grand gesture, I don’t need gadgets.
I just need my voice, my hand, your mind and attention to detail.
The hand around your throat, not a threat, no aggression. It isn’t needed. This is not about physical dominance.
It is a signal of intent. The pressure from my fingers enough to transmit my commitment to the moment. The subtle corruption burning your skin, reminding you who you have folded in to.
I hold you there with my words. These have been used all day. Small notes. Reminders. Drip, drip, drip.
Just as you settle back to the day, another nudge to unbalance you. I know precisely the impact, how your body will react. How hard and soft you become in equal measure.
The silence as important as each word. When to send it. When to wait. Such a sweet…
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September 7, 2014
Thank you Sir
Thank you Sir for loving me.
For being the kind of man that I can feel safe with.
For showing me how I’m supposed to be treated, with total respect.
For giving me the courage to let go.
For showing me what true love is.
For always being there when I need you.
For never judging me.
For always being a gentlemen.
For a life filled with love.
For showing me the other side of Vanilla, ;-) .
For taking care of me.
For all those hugs when I’m having a bad day.
For giving me a reason to smile.
For showing me that dreams can and do come true.
For never giving up on me, even when I gave up on myself.
For cheering me on.
For giving me the courage to publish my book.
For being my biggest fan.
For your loyalty.
For making me laugh even when I’m mad at you.
For bringing a smile to my face, always.
For giving me all those amazing orgasms.
For showing me that true love does exist.
For being my everything.
For making me your everything.
For loving me just the way I am.
For never wanting me to change.
For taking my pain away.
For standing by me when I couldn’t stand at all.
For being you.
For all those times you’ve touched me and my heart.
For choosing me.
For picking me daisies on the side of the road.
For the amazing SEX.
For the pleasure.
For the laughter.
For wiping my tears.
For Everything.
You make my life complete, you give me all I’ll ever need.
And for all this and so much more, I just wanted to Thank you Sir!
I will love you for a thousand years. And then a thousand more.
Always your Annie. xo…
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Abuse, The other side of love, Sexy Sunday #30
The other side of love, Sexy Sunday #30
Now bear with me on this one. Life has a funny way of working out when you least expect it too. Take my relationship for instance.
When I met Mike I was totally lost. I didn’t even want to go out for New Year’s eve. But my Dad practically pushed me out the door.
We had met briefly the week before. The way he tells it he had to have me, and wasn’t going to stop until he did.
He asked everyone who knew anything about me what my story was. And he didn’t care that I had just been through a horrible ordeal.
I was a twenty one year old widow. My first husband who I will call shit for brains was mentally abusive. He also disrespected me on a daily basis, and cheated on me the entire time we dated, and the year and half we were married. Yes shit for brains even slept with my maid of honor the night before our wedding. Of course no one bothered to tell me until it was too late.
I’m not going to make excuses, all I’m going to say is that I was twenty one. I Had been dating shit for brains since I was sixteen. Warning to any women out there, Don’t marry the idiot you’ve been dating since you were a teenager. It’s not love! Get out there and sample the goods before you tie the knot.
All The signs were there but I just chose to ignore them. He kept me for himself. Told me he loved me. Then would threaten me anytime I would say I was leaving. His exact words were; If I can’t have you no one will. Still brings chills down my spine. He never hit me, came close many times, but I’m one of the lucky ones. He was only mentally abusive. I say only because there are so many women out there that either still are or have dealt with both mental and physical abuse.
When I think about it now I was just young and stupid. And I was too embarrassed to call my parents. I didn’t want to disappoint them. How stupid was that? But it’s the truth.
The day I finally left Shit for brains had his girlfriend pick him up from the hospital and bring him to her house the night before. Oh did I fail to mention he was an alcoholic with mental problems. And that I stood by him while he was in rehab for twenty eight days. And then I also sat by his bedside day and night while he was in a self induced coma. Well he called her and checked himself out. She brought him home so he could shower and change. That was my breaking point. It’s when I got up the nerve to say ENOUGH! But I don’t think he took me seriously because he left with her anyway.
I called my parents and needless to say they went into protective mode. Before we pulled away Shit for brains pulled up. And I can remember my Dad telling me to stay in the car as he got out. I don’t know what Dad told him but as we were pulling away I looked at Shit for brains. And he gave me an evil stare.
My parents took me home and then put me on a plane the next day. I was safely surrounded by my brother and his thousands of comrades. He was stationed at Shaw Air Force base in S.C..
To this day I am grateful that my parents had the good sense to see what was happening. Because I didn’t see it coming. Three days later my former husband killed himself. I do believe if he had gotten a hold of me I would not be here today.
Mike met me at the door of the house party I went to for New Years eve that year. I remember how I was immediately impressed with him. He was a true gentlemen, so attentive. He took my coat. Then asked the guy I came in with if I was with him. When he said no it was all the information Mike needed.
He got me a drink. And we talked, laughed and connected. He didn’t drink to get drunk. In fact he stopped drinking and had water after only a few. When a man looks into your eyes while he’s talking to you, it’s a show of respect. It’s also so damn sexy.
When the clock struck twelve he went in for the kiss. I had never been kissed like that before. It felt like we were the only two people in the room. Magic happened that night. I’m pretty sure that Cupid must have pulled back his bow. And that magic has been happening ever since. I believe Mike was heaven sent. Then I think of that stare. If he was it wasn’t by my former husband.
I have always felt safe with my Mike. Always felt loved, and always felt free to be myself. He doesn’t want to change me. He loves me just the way that I am.
I don’t know how he did it but all these years later he has given me the gift of submission. Yes it’s a gift. One that proves he can be trusted. And if its at all possible he shows me even more love. And With that love and trust comes respect.
I guess what I’m trying to say is with so much abuse out there be careful who you submit too. Make sure you love and get loved back. And if there’s no respect and you can’t trust that man with your life then think about what you’re giving up.
If you’re going to do it anyway at least have safewords in place. They’re called safewords for a reason. SSC or Safe, Sane, Consensual means just that.
There should be NO fear or intimidation in a D/s relationship or any relationship for that matter. You should be able to trust your spouse/partner completely. And if someone puts you down or treats you like property then by all means get out. If your instincts are screaming for you to wake up and run then listen to your instincts, they’re there for a reason.
There is also another side of BDSM. And it’s where predators are disguised as Dom’s looking for unsuspecting prey. There is no trust. There is no respect. And when you say Red that so called Dominant doesn’t care.
The bottom line is A true Dominant never belittles, never abuses, and should never make you feel you’re not worthy of his love and touch.
I’m a very lucky woman who just happens to be submissive. I know this without a doubt in the world. I’ve seen and heard the horror stories of how men treat their women. And I believe that men who hurt, abuse, disrespect and take advantage of women should be ashamed of themselves. They should also be locked up in some south American jail never to be seen again.
This weeks’s Sexy Sunday post didn’t go the way I intended it too. I had all intentions of writing about love. But as I was writing I thought it would be a good thing to write about the other side of love and the men who deceive in order to get what they want from women. I know that Fetlife.com has stories on abuse. They also have help if someone needs it.
The other side of love, trust respect is hate, deceit, and disrespect. No one should have to live a life with any of the former in that last sentence. We all teach others how we want to be treated. If you stay you’re saying it’s Ok and it’s not. Never feel that you will be letting someone down. Or that your family will be disappointed in you for leaving an abusive relationship.
Think about what I’ve said. Then take a breath while you thank your lucky stars you have the kind of loving relationship you do.
I hope you all have a very Sexy Sunday. And don’t forget the lube.
The National Domestic violence hotline, 1800-799-safe
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September 4, 2014
How to Watch Porn Together – Shape Magazine
How to Watch Porn Together – Shape Magazine.
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September 1, 2014
:: Introducing BDSM into the relationship
How did you first begin to explore BDSM?
Originally posted on AN EMERGING DOM:
Sex is a taboo topic for most people. For the most part, girls talk to girls; and guys talk to guys – but in my observations couples don’t talk to each other.
Not even about vanilla sex.
This is due to the fear of rejection and the desire to not their partners feelings. People find it hard to describe to their lovers what they way and what they don’t like.
So when it comes to BDSM, it can be even that much more difficult. “Get on your knees and present yourself” isn’t really a great conversation starter, neither is “So, I bought a riding crop today, tonight I’m going to spank you with it”.
Another question might be – who is actually getting into BDSM – is it couples who are already together, couples just meeting, those that just met, people online?
In my observation, more people emerge into BDSM who…
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August 31, 2014
Big Teaze Toys
All Dai-Dö™ Products. Now these are some Kinkylicious Big Teaze Toys. I have both of these. They were a surprise for me from my loving Sir. While writing my Sexy Sunday #28 a couple weeks ago. I mentioned the I rub my Duckie vibe. And How it’s not the kind of vibe I would want on a night when I’m with my Sir.
Most ladies agreed that it would be a turn off. Pulling out your yellow, red, pink or what ever color of the I rub my duckie vibe was just not the kind of vibrator to get us in the mood. It looks too much like a kids rubber duckie.
Well I heard from the Big Teaze company on twitter. I don’t think they were very happy with my assessment of their Rub me Duckie. So I asked them to send me one. If they had I would have done an honest review of their duckie. But I haven’t heard anything yet. Maybe this review will make them see that when I love a product I say so. So The offer still stands. To the Big Teaze Headquarters; If you send me a I Rub Me Duckie I will give it an honest review.
Each time I’ve seen something from Big Teaze toys I always think back to that post on twitter. And then when Sir pulled out these Big Teaze toys the other night I knew I had to let you and the Big Teaze Toy People know what I thought about them.
The fact is that these toys or tools as I call them are Fuckin-Fantastic! I use #6 with my magic wand. And let me tell all of you I can get myself off in no time at all. It’s heavy but not too heavy. The ball at one end fits perfectly in the palm of my hand.
And the orgasms, Yes that’s plural orgasmS. These are the kind of orgasms where your eyes roll back in your head and you can’t help but scream out your Sir’s name. As you can imagine my Sir loves #6 as well. He loves to watch. So when he hands me #6 I know exactly where things are going.
Then there’s #3. This is the one my Sir likes to use on me. And #3 can also drive me insane. Both can be warmed up quickly by running under water, but I like them cold. These two kinky tools as I call them are hard pieces of silky smooth metal. And when used with lots of lube they will give anyone pleasure beyond your wildest dreams. I can’t say enough about these particular Big Teaze Toys/tools.
These are no nonsense toys. No vibrations, No movable parts. Just all metal, there’s weight to them but they’re balanced to perfection, and smooth as can be. Someone used their brains when designing these Big Teaze Dildo’s.
Now#3 is Ribbed for extra pleasure. And #6 is just perfect the way it is. Weather it’s alone time, or when it’s playtime with your Sir, these Big Teaze tools along with your Magic wand will get you where you need to go every time.
The funny thing is when I first saw these dildo’s I had no idea they were Big Teaze toys. Not until my Sir showed me the Big Teaze logo written on the side. These toys are on sale with the Close-out price of $29.50 each. I highly recommend these Big Teaze dildo’s. They’re worth every penny and you’ll have them forever.
These tools/toys come in black or red and each with it’s own satin pouch. I have no problem giving these Big Teaze kinky dildo’s five hearts, and that’s because I love them.
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Here’s the official description of #3 and #6 from the http://www.bigteazetoys.com.
#6, My all time favorite Big Teaze tool.
#3 This is the one my Sir likes to tease me with.
Non Vibrating, aluminum alloy dildo for thermal and chill play.
Dai-Dö™ No. 3
Titillate your desires with a long, ribbed base and a spherical tip for maximum erotic sensation as the undulating curves caress your most sensitive areas. Cast of aluminum alloy, Dai-Dö No. 3 are non-vibrating dildos that offer substantial weight and feel for added pleasure not common with other materials and yet it does not have the fatiguing heft of other metals. Two models are available based on the diameter of the base and sphere that will fulfill your increasing desires. Protective, black satin carrying pouch included.
Available in Black Passion or Red Devotion.
Dai-Dö No. 3 measures 8.2” in length, with an insertion diameter of 1.7” and weight of 1 lb. 10 oz.
Non Vibrating, aluminum alloy dildo for thermal and chill play.
Dai-Dö™ No. 6
The exceptionally sensual look of the Dai-Dö No. 6 is surpassed only by the extreme penetrating pleasure it brings. The large spherical handle provides perfect control of the smaller rounded tip in order to bring wave after exquisite wave of g-spot or p-spot (prostate) sensation.
Available in Black Passion or Red Devotion.
Protective, black satin carrying pouch included.
Dai-Dö No. 6 measures 5.7” in length, with an insertion diameter of 1.4” and a weight of 12 oz.
Non Vibrating, aluminum alloy dildo for thermal and chill play.
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