:: Introducing BDSM into the relationship
How did you first begin to explore BDSM?
Originally posted on AN EMERGING DOM:
Sex is a taboo topic for most people. For the most part, girls talk to girls; and guys talk to guys – but in my observations couples don’t talk to each other.
Not even about vanilla sex.
This is due to the fear of rejection and the desire to not their partners feelings. People find it hard to describe to their lovers what they way and what they don’t like.
So when it comes to BDSM, it can be even that much more difficult. “Get on your knees and present yourself” isn’t really a great conversation starter, neither is “So, I bought a riding crop today, tonight I’m going to spank you with it”.
Another question might be – who is actually getting into BDSM – is it couples who are already together, couples just meeting, those that just met, people online?
In my observation, more people emerge into BDSM who…
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