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August 10, 2014
Serious Sex is Sexy Sunday #27
So our sex life has always been pretty damn good compared to other couples that we know. And I’m always glad that my husband keeps spicing things up so that it never gets dull or boring. Let me tell you about the year that things really changed for us.
It’s Christmas eve and we’ve been home now for about an hour. The festivities for the night are over. Or are they? I go upstairs and put my nightie on and my short silky robe over it. (It’s winter, even with the heat on I’m cold, Ok). So I come downstairs and my hubby has our drinks poured. I can see where this night is going already.
We always open our gifts on Christmas eve. This year I could see something was up. We finished opening our gifts from under the tree and he hands me a few extra packages. I tell him that I can’t open more gifts without having something for him. He tells me not to worry about it that he’s sure he will get a few extra gifts from me.
This is the moment I will never forget. It’s when I got “The look.” You know the cocky look of confidence. The one where his smile is more of a sexy smirk. Its the look that can make most women do anything to make their Sir happy.
Then he touches my face to get my undivided attention and looks me right in the eyes and says. “Before I let you open these gifts I want you to know that I love you, and I need you to be completely honest with me. If you don’t like the gifts I want you to say so. Can you do that for me Annie?”
Well I didn’t know where all this was coming from but now I’m not only curious, I’m a little scared. I giggle and I blush. That’s just what I do when I get nervous, I can’t help it. And here’s the kicker; I answer him without even thinking with; “Ok, I can do that Sir.”
I had no idea that calling him Sir was exactly what he was going for. But tonight my man is acting like a Sir. And it felt like the proper thing to say. He’s more confident then I’ve seen him before. And I can see the wheels turning inside his head. I’m getting wet just thinking about it.
He watches me as I tear into the first package. To my surprise it’s a beautiful thick heavy clear glass dildo.
Now most women would probably be mortified. But it’s just us here, there’s no kids running around. And from time to time he’s surprised me with kinky gifts. The only difference was this time his demeanor’s distinctive.
I don’t know how he knew but as I smoothed my hand over that glass dildo I put my head down giggled and I thanked him. He stops me and asks “Are you alright with this Annie?” Just the way he’s saying my name gets my body tingling. And I look him in the eye and say, “Yes Sir I’m fine, I think this is going to be amazing.” He kisses me passionately and his touch is making the goosebumps appear. He says, “You don’t have to open the other gifts if you don’t want too.”
Is he kidding at this point there’s no way I was backing out. We’ve talked about this moment. And he’s told me that when the time was right he would change things up a bit. The timing was perfect.
This was the night I couldn’t help but feel like I was opening Pandora’s box. But in a good way. The second gift was a silk blindfold. I’m sure you’ve all seen these, one sides embroidered with good girl, the other say’s bad girl. I giggled as I asked, “Which one would you like me to be tonight Sir?”
He laughs and tells me to hurry up and open the third and final gift. As I’m opening the gift I look over at him and he’s watching my every move. And that sexy look was on his face. Oh how I love that look..
I knew that our sex life was going to change forever. He assured me that he would never hurt me. And that we would always discuss everything we did before and after we did it. I took a breath and opened the final gift. It was a butt plug. All I could do was giggle. I could feel my face get warm. I looked over at him and I could see that he was proud of me for going with the flow of things. We had a good laugh as he said, “Merry Christmas my little sub.” Then he got up, put his hand out and led me upstairs.
I need to add this; I’ve heard that looking into a Dominant mans eyes was a sign of disrespect. But to me if I didn’t look into his eyes I would be disrespecting him. Respect is earned and it goes both ways.
I had no idea when I was cleaning up the kitchen that he had been upstairs prepping the bedroom. I had never seen straps and Velcro in and around our bed before. To my amazement I could see that he had been stock piling all kinds of kinky things for months. He was definitely more prepared than I was.
This was that night that I let all of my inhibitions go. I love that my Sir makes sure that all my needs are met before his own. And he loves watching me as the orgasms roll through my body.
We’ve come a long way since that night and I can tell you that I will never forget that night. As you can imagine it was Fucking Fantastic, Lol.
What I want to say to all the women out there and some men too is that if you and your partner can be open and honest with each other then do what makes you happy. As long as the respect is mutual, and you have safe-words in place then what are you afraid of. As long as he wants to get to know you and not change you then by all means get to know the man.
This kinky stuff doesn’t happen overnight. We talked about it for months. And it was my Sir who knew when the time was right.
Now we have always had an open and honest relationship. There is no doubt in my mind that we will be together until one of us takes our last dying breath. And If its possible I do believe we are closer now than ever before.
It’s a mind/body thing. And the fact that this is the man that helped me get rid of my inhibitions makes all the difference in the world. And for those of you who have done this already you know it’s a huge step where your sex life is concerned.
I have always trusted my Sir with my life. I guess when you’ve been told not to do something sexual your entire life it gets stuck in your mind. And it’s so hard to let that go. That’s where the trust and the respect comes in.
If you don’t trust the person you’re with then don’t let them trick you into letting your guard down. And if they don’t respect you and your boundaries then by ball means Stop right there.
Don’t get me wrong, having this kind of kinky sex is amazing. But it’s something that should be shared with the one person that has your best interest at heart. This is not the kind of sex to be handed out like condoms on a first or second date.
This is serious sex. Its the kind of sex that you work up too. Do I wish my Sir and I would have let the kinky into our lives sooner? The answer is yes. But do I think my Sir was right to wait for me to be ready? Yes, he knows me well. There were too many things going on in my life. Some of those things I have talked about in other post.
When I met my Sir I had just been through an ordeal that no woman should have to go through. I was a young widow. The person I was married to was mentally abusive. He was a master manipulator. Not to be confused with a real Sir, or Master.
These are the types of men that play with your mind. Sure they are nice and treat you well in the beginning, but buyer beware, that’s all part of their game plan. Once they have you that’s when the real game playing begins. Trust your intuitions is all I’m saying. You have the right to say stop or no!
Men need to treat their women with the respect that they deserve. If they can do this they will be rewarded in ways they never could have imagined. Yes men think they have the sex on the brain thing all locked up. Well let me just say that your woman, yes the same woman that you’ve been having kinky sex with is thinking about sex just as much as you are. Maybe even more, he he..
We are all adults here. This is your sex life. Pleasure really is your birthright.
I hope you enjoyed my little walk down memory lane. And I hope you all have a very Sexy Sunday.
And don’t forget the lube..
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The Look! is Sexy Sunday #27
So our sex life has always been pretty damn good compared to other couples that we know. And I’m always glad that my husband keeps spicing things up so that it never gets dull or boring. Let me tell you about the year that things really changed for us.
It’s Christmas eve and we’ve been home now for about an hour. The festivities for the night are over. Or are they? I go upstairs and put my nightie on and my short silky robe over it. (It’s winter, even with the heat on I’m cold, Ok). So I come downstairs and my hubby has our drinks poured. I can see where this night is going already.
We always open our gifts on Christmas eve. This year I could see something was up. We finished opening our gifts from under the tree and he hands me a few extra packages. I tell him that I can’t open more gifts without having something for him. He tells me not to worry about it that he’s sure he will get a few extra gifts from me.
This is the moment I will never forget. It’s when I got “The look.” You know the cocky look of confidence. The one where his smile is more of a sexy smirk. Its the look that can make most women do anything to make their Sir happy.
Then he touches my face to get my undivided attention and looks me right in the eyes and says. “Before I let you open these gifts I want you to know that I love you, and I need you to be completely honest with me. If you don’t like the gifts I want you to say so. Can you do that for me Annie?”
Well I didn’t know where all this was coming from but now I’m not only curious, I’m a little scared. I giggle and I blush. That’s just what I do when I get nervous, I can’t help it. And here’s the kicker; I answer him without even thinking with; “Ok, I can do that Sir.”
I had no idea that calling him Sir was exactly what he was going for. But tonight my man is acting like a Sir. And it felt like the proper thing to say. He’s more confident then I’ve seen him before. And I can see the wheels turning inside his head. I’m getting wet just thinking about it.
He watches me as I tear into the first package. To my surprise it’s a beautiful thick heavy clear glass dildo.
Now most women would probably be mortified. But it’s just us here, there’s no kids running around. And from time to time he’s surprised me with kinky gifts. The only difference was this time his demeanor’s distinctive.
I don’t know how he knew but as I smoothed my hand over that glass dildo I put my head down giggled and I thanked him. He stops me and asks “Are you alright with this Annie?” Just the way he’s saying my name gets my body tingling. And I look him in the eye and say, “Yes Sir I’m fine, I think this is going to be amazing.” He kisses me passionately and his touch is making the goosebumps appear. He says, “You don’t have to open the other gifts if you don’t want too.”
Is he kidding at this point there’s no way I was backing out. We’ve talked about this moment. And he’s told me that when the time was right he would change things up a bit. The timing was perfect.
This was the night I couldn’t help but feel like I was opening Pandora’s box. But in a good way. The second gift was a silk blindfold. I’m sure you’ve all seen these, one sides embroidered with good girl, the other say’s bad girl. I giggled as I asked, “Which one would you like me to be tonight Sir?”
He laughs and tells me to hurry up and open the third and final gift. As I’m opening the gift I look over at him and he’s watching my every move. And that sexy look was on his face. Oh how I love that look..
I knew that our sex life was going to change forever. He assured me that he would never hurt me. And that we would always discuss everything we did before and after we did it. I took a breath and opened the final gift. It was a butt plug. All I could do was giggle. I could feel my face get warm. I looked over at him and I could see that he was proud of me for going with the flow of things. We had a good laugh as he said, “Merry Christmas my little sub.” Then he got up, put his hand out and led me upstairs.
I need to add this; I’ve heard that looking into a Dominant mans eyes was a sign of disrespect. But to me if I didn’t look into his eyes I would be disrespecting him. Respect is earned and it goes both ways.
I had no idea when I was cleaning up the kitchen that he had been upstairs prepping the bedroom. I had never seen straps and Velcro in and around our bed before. To my amazement I could see that he had been stock piling all kinds of kinky things for months. He was definitely more prepared than I was.
This was that night that I let all of my inhibitions go. I love that my Sir makes sure that all my needs are met before his own. And he loves watching me as the orgasms roll through my body.
We’ve come a long way since that night and I can tell you that I will never forget that night. As you can imagine it was Fucking Fantastic, Lol.
What I want to say to all the women out there and some men too is that if you and your partner can be open and honest with each other then do what makes you happy. As long as the respect is mutual, and you have safe-words in place then what are you afraid of. As long as he wants to get to know you and not change you then by all means get to know the man.
This kinky stuff doesn’t happen overnight. We talked about it for months. And it was my Sir who knew when the time was right.
Now we have always had an open and honest relationship. There is no doubt in my mind that we will be together until one of us takes our last dying breath. And If its possible I do believe we are closer now than ever before.
It’s a mind/body thing. And the fact that this is the man that helped me get rid of my inhibitions makes all the difference in the world. And for those of you who have done this already you know it’s a huge step where your sex life is concerned.
I have always trusted my Sir with my life. I guess when you’ve been told not to do something sexual your entire life it gets stuck in your mind. And it’s so hard to let that go. That’s where the trust and the respect comes in.
If you don’t trust the person you’re with then don’t let them trick you into letting your guard down. And if they don’t respect you and your boundaries then by ball means Stop right there.
Don’t get me wrong, having this kind of kinky sex is amazing. But it’s something that should be shared with the one person that has your best interest at heart. This is not the kind of sex to be handed out like condoms on a first or second date.
This is serious sex. Its the kind of sex that you work up too. Do I wish my Sir and I would have let the kinky into our lives sooner? The answer is yes. But do I think my Sir was right to wait for me to be ready? Yes, he knows me well. There were too many things going on in my life. Some of those things I have talked about in other post.
When I met my Sir I had just been through an ordeal that no woman should have to go through. I was a young widow. The person I was married to was mentally abusive. He was a master manipulator. Not to be confused with a real Sir, or Master.
These are the types of men that play with your mind. Sure they are nice and treat you well in the beginning, but buyer beware, that’s all part of their game plan. Once they have you that’s when the real game playing begins. Trust your intuitions is all I’m saying. You have the right to say stop or no!
Men need to treat their women with the respect that they deserve. If they can do this they will be rewarded in ways they never could have imagined. Yes men think they have the sex on the brain thing all locked up. Well let me just say that your woman, yes the same woman that you’ve been having kinky sex with is thinking about sex just as much as you are. Maybe even more, he he..
We are all adults here. This is your sex life. Pleasure really is your birthright.
I hope you enjoyed my little walk down memory lane. And I hope you all have a very Sexy Sunday.
And don’t forget the lube..
https:/ http://www.goodvibes.com/?kbid=214397
.
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August 4, 2014
Aftercare: Don’t You Dare Dom Without It
After care is that time when your man or Dom takes you in his arms and shows you how much he cares. The touch, the kisses, the soft spoken words. This is the icing on the cake after lets say a sexual Sunday afternoon. It’s beautifully written by;Wooden spoon Chronicles, Enjoy!
Originally posted on Wooden Spoon Chronicles:
I know I tend to trick a lot of you readers with my titles, and for that, I’m not saying I’m sorry. Its fun and I like to tease. This post is not about how to provide aftercare. There are a ton of blogs and web resources out there about specific forms of aftercare and how to give it. This post is not one of them.
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With the aftermath or post-coital funk resulting from key milestones and clumsy leaps forward in the “community”, BDSM and every aspect and dynamic it encompasses has yet again become inundated with even more “awakened” souls. There are those of us that haven’t known anything else, but there to the nth power number of new fresh minds that are just in awe over the whole damn thing. What a time that is, right? To experience the new-new all over again and how it pioneers…
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August 3, 2014
I love intelligent women
When a Dominant male writes something like this it has to be re-blogged..Over and Over again.. Enjoy!
Originally posted on Love with Domination:
I love intelligent women. Absolutely adore them. And I find those who are passionate about reading and writing share a common thread. They all yearn for an equally intelligent Dominant who can reach deep into their erotic “centers”, rip the pages from their fantasies, and give them a lifetime of living, breathing memories.
She is a strong, independent, talented, capable woman in her own right, yet she hungers for a Dominant who can possess her mind long before he touches her body. She needs a man who can respect her as an intellectual equal but effortlessly assume his role as Dominant – The only Man she would ever consider yielding to. For her, this need is utterly palpable. She can feel his hands through his words, his voice, and his instruction.
And herein is my secret insight. Intelligent, gifted submissives are the hungriest girls imaginable. They are capable of giving…
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Re-inventing Your Sex Life is Sexy Sunday # 26
So I was thinking about last weeks Sexy Sunday post and I wanted to thank you all for all your kind and sometimes kinky words. Yes I am submissive in the bedroom. But don’t get me wrong I am not a slave. That may be fine for some but that’s just not what being submissive is about. At least not in my home.
Now don’t take this wrong but I’ve been in a relationship where the man of the house kept me under his thumb. He was mentally abusive and when that relationship was over I vowed never to let any man take over my life the way that he did. But being submissive in the bedroom is totally different. My Sir or Dom is kind, he takes care of my needs before his own. Yes he expects respect but he gives me the respect that I deserve too.
We talk about our kinky little sex life, lol. And I know he would never hurt me. I trust him completely. I never have to worry that he’s going to do something to me while I’m indisposed that I don’t like. He always makes sure my needs and wants are taken care of. And he’s amazing.
My bedroom is my sexual sanctuary. It’s not cluttered with stuff and when we are in there together I know I will leave there with my dignity and rosy cheeks cause I’m feeling on top of the world. Over the thirty years we’ve been together we have re-invented our sex life again and again.
In my D/s relationship I am his priority. And that is something that I’ve always been to my husband. He tells me every day that I am beautiful. And he loves that I’m confident in my own way. But I don’t think he realizes that he’s the one that has given me that confidence. Or maybe he does. Maybe that’s what that oh so sexy smirk on his face is about.
We talk about everything and nothing is off limits in my home and especially in my sanctuary. When I am mad or upset with my husband or Dom we don’t let it stew for days. He usually lets me cool down and then we talk about what it is that’s pissed me off. It’s in these moments that he some how gets me to laugh. And even though I hate it I know that he only has my best interest at heart. It’s not easy to be mad at someone that’s making you smile or laugh. I guess I just can’t resist it when he looks at me with those sexy blue eyes. He can’t resist me either, Lol..
He knows me so well. He is the one person that can calm me down when life is dealing me another horrible hand. He thinks of my well being before his own. He’s not selfish. And in turn I think of his feelings before my own. He listens to what I have to say. He doesn’t just pacify me and not hear what I’ve just said. He truly listens. This is one of those relationships that most people get disgusted by. But I don’t care what others think about my relationship. It works and it works well.
I read that men need sex to feel connected. But women need the connection to want to have sex. It makes a lot of sense. Most men in general have no idea what romance is. And most women need or want that romance in order to feel sexy. Are you listening Men? I say men because it’s usually the men in relationships that don’t have a clue what romance is. If you’re a woman and you have no clue what romance is then you had better listen up too.
Romance is the little things that a partner does or should be doing to make their other half feel appreciated. To show them that you’ve been thinking about them during the day. That’s why women/men get excited if out of the blue you come home with a bouquet of flowers. Romance is for out of the blue. It’s when you call on your way home and tell your spouse to get dressed because you’re taking them out to dinner. No kids, Get a sitter. If you can only get away for an hour that’s fine. It’s the fact that he wants to be with you and only you that matters.
Romance can be when you order your spouse their favorite perfume with out them knowing. Or when you pick up their favorite chocolates for no reason at all. Well there is a reason and that’s that you love her.
My husband will drive an hour to get me the bagels that I love and not tell me until he walks through the door with them in his hand. He picks daisy’s on the side of the road and spells out I love you in candy kisses on the table so that its the first thing I see in the morning.
Romance doesn’t have to cost you an arm and a leg. It’s the fact that you thought about your spouse and you wanted them to know you were thinking of them that counts.
Now for the sex. This is after all a Sex w/Annie’s blog, lol. If you can’t look each other in the eyes and passionately kiss something is wrong. Or if you’ve been putting up with boring sex for years and you’ve never even tried to make it better you’re screwed and not in a good way.
That’s right I said it. If after twenty five Sexy Sunday post you still haven’t figured out or even tried to fix your sex life then I don’t know what I’m going to do with you?
Maybe its that you just can’t bring yourself to talk about your boring sex life. That’s not an excuse. We are all entitled to pleasure from our spouse. Sure we can pleasure ourselves, but it’s just not the same thing.
Having a warm body next to you, on top of you, under you, or behind you can and does make all the difference in the world. What are you waiting for? If you don’t say something one of you is going to get tired of waiting and go find it else where. That is unless you both just don’t care.
And if that’s the case you still need to talk about your relationship. Life is too damn short to be living with a spouse that you just don’t care about anymore. When the sex is that bad that you could care less about that too well then maybe you should think about what’s next. Are you going to try and fix it, or not?
We all deserve to be loved and to have pleasurable sex lives. I can’t even imagine doing without it. I’m talking about the kind of sex that’s so good it’s hard for me not to think about stopping right here and going to get some. But I can wait, maybe, yea I’ll wait.
Sex should be amazing every time. Even a quickie should be that good. But if you’ve been doing the deed the same way for years or even months one of you has to speak up. If you’re calling it the deed that’s a sign right there that something needs to change. You need to re-invent your sex life. It’s time to start experimenting with each other. If you don’t one of you will go find someone who will.
I made up a list of then things to try. Just try and have fun with this.
1) When was the last time you did anything together.
Showering together can be fun if you are in there soaping each other up. Sexy things tend to happen as your hands wonder over each others slippery bodies. Just don’t hog the water.
Have you ever painted your woman’s toe nails. Or when was the last time you sat together on the couch watching a romantic comedy. It may sound boring but when those sex scenes come up feelings get stirred and that’s when a good kiss can awaken your senses..
2) Try dressing up and getting out of the house. It’s date night..
Call a cab or have someone drop you off at a club or bar that has entertainment. Sit in the corner where it’s dark. Have a couple of drinks and loosen up. Now touch, kiss, dance. This should get you both in the mood to at least try a new position.
3) Maybe it’s time you took that toy out of the package.
You know what toy I’m talking about ladies. The toy you bought at that fuckerware party you went to months ago. I know that when I go to one of those my husband can’t wait to see what I purchased. Just knowing that I went to the party I know my Sir is home waiting for me with some toys of our own..
4) Alright ladies it’s time to pull out that romance book you’ve been reading. See if that doesn’t wake up the dragon in side his pants.
Start out by saying to him that you’ve been reading this sexy book and it gets you wet. He just may look at you in a new way. Maybe he thought you had given up. And just maybe all you need is a little kinky fuckery..Just try and have fun with it.
Years ago when I started sharing my romance books with my husband. At first I couldn’t read them out loud to him. I used to put the TV on mute and ask him to read the hot sexy scene himself. Of course that changed and now that I write erotic romance it’s a whole new ball game around here. Make sure it’s not a long scene. Men can’t read more than an article without getting bored. Just get to the sex. After he reads the scene ask him what he thinks about trying something new..
5) No panties..
Try going out of the house in a skirt or dress and leave your panties in the drawer. Now don’t tell him until you get to that store. Once inside take his hand and rub it up your thigh and in between your legs. Now watch the sexy smile that comes across his face. He will follow you around that store like a puppy dog. Try reaching for something and see how attentive he can be. This is fun stuff. The sex should be amazing on a day like this..Using these little games will keep your sex life new and of course exciting.
Then next time you go out try thigh highs and no panties.. Keep him guessing and have fun with this..
6) Take your man to a strip club.
Yes, you heard me right. When I first met my Sir he and I would go to the strip club every week. Staying for an hour was all it took. It was hot to have all of those half naked women dancing for us. Sure they wanted our money. I would touch my then boyfriends cock through his pants under the bar. We had sex as soon as we got home. Sometimes we didn’t make it home before one of us came.
7) Porn?
Ask your husband/spouse to find some porn that you both can watch. He’s going to pick up that computer faster than you can say Porn. Watching porn together or any kind of sexy scene’s can get you both in the mood quickly.
8) Three questions each..
Make up three sex questions that you’ve been afraid to ask each other. Put them in envelopes and seal.
Go out for ice cream. Then find a park bench away from other people. You don’t want to get interrupted.
Just the fact that your spouse is going along with this means he/she wants to fix or spice up your sex life too. Maybe flip a coin to see who goes first. Then start reading the questions, and alternate.
Maybe all he wants is the lights on. Or for you to wear a blindfold so he can have his way with you. Wearing one shows how much you trust your spouse. And it just may be the one thing that might save your relationship.
If you want to get kinky ask him to get some of those Velcro straps. Won’t you be surprised if he already has them. Or when he brings them home tomorrow.
That’s what we started with. I had no idea he had bought them. I remember how nervous I was when I walked into my bedroom and saw them on the bed. And I could clearly see how excited he was. All he said was, No talking. Of course I giggled and blushed.
The sex was off the charts that night and so many nights after. You just need to communicate. And if every month you have to jot down questions on a card and go for ice cream isn’t that better than having to go see a lawyer.
9) Vibrator for two..
Have you seen the vibrator with the remote. What husband or partner isn’t going to love having control of your pussy from across the room. These can be fun. Just be careful who you’re talking too when your spouse decides to turn it up a notch. It won’t take long before you are begging for some hot sex. I bet you don’t make it home with this one.
10) Go for it..
What have you got to lose besides each other. So start touching, feeling, Kissing and sucking each other. Just have fun and laugh. Having your partner/spouse touch you in ways no one else can is exciting. So as I said; Go for it.
That’s all I have for today, I hope you all have a Very Sexy Sunday.
And don’t forget the lube..
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August 2, 2014
Rub Me Massage Bar Review
So I was going through my post and I realized I never posted this review. I wrote it all out on paper as I do with all most of my research and meant to post it the same day I posted the Pleasurette review. Well anyway here’s the review on the rub Me massage bar.
First of all I was a little worried when my Secret Goodvibes.com Santa Andy told me that they were shipping it from Massachusetts Store because they ran out of the scent I wanted in San Francisco store. The week they shipping it all I could think of was how hot it was in New Jersey and the entire east coast. I thought there will be nothing left of this cocoa and Shea butter bar when it arrives.
Well of course that wasn’t the case. It came in a envelope and in one piece. Not dripping as I had imagined. So of course the first thing I did was smell it. And the Vanilla was heavenly. It was the perfect scent for my husband who doesn’t like anything that too strong. So vanilla is going to be my go too scent from now on. Although I would like to try the coconut lime.
Anyway the massage bar is 2 oz. And the cost is $7.00 per bar. It’s wrapped in foil. And comes in seven scents. Which is the only thing I would change. The foil is somewhat flimsy and it would be nice to be able to store my rub Me bar in a container rather then a Ziploc bag.
The ingredients are simple Cocoa butter, Shea butter and fragrance oil, that’s it. If you are allergic or sensitive to any of these ingredients then this yummy bar is not for you. As for me and my hubby we were so ready to give this rub Me bar a try.
So I started to use the bar on my husbands back and quickly realized that a little goes a long way. The bar melts with the warmth of your body. Simple soap and water let me start over.
This time I changed my way of thinking and I rubbed the bar a few times in my hands and that was pretty much all I needed. As I massaged this butter into my husbands skin it just melted even into his skin. It didn’t feel sticky or leave a mess. His skin felt amazing and he was a happy man. That was until I said, My turn, lol..
He took the bar and rubbed it in his hands and told me to let the professional do his thing, Lol. And voila that was all he needed. I have to say it felt amazing as his hands glided over my body. I would much rather receive then give in this instance. Our skin feels amazingly soft and we still have almost a full bar left for many more massages. All in all this was a great experience.
I would recommend the rub Me massage bar to every couple I know and those I don’t know. Why not buy a few and give them to your family and friends. These bars would make great wedding shower gifts too.
The rub Me bar gets five hearts as we loved everything about it.
I can’t wait to see what Andy sends me next..
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About My Annie…
Annie is a Jersey girl in every sense of the word. She was born and bred in Union County New Jersey and has lived here her entire life.
I have been happily married to my beautiful Annie for almost thirty years. She is the one women that can still make my heart skit a beat. I don’t know what I would do without her. Yes I am in love with this particular Jersey girl.
I made her a promise to make her laugh each and every day, I’m pretty sure I’ve kept that promise. She is very easy to love. And when she laughs and smiles I love her even more if that’s possible.
She’s a very strong, confident, talented woman and did I mention she’s spunky and stubborn to a fault. That’s what I love about her most. She’s a fighter.
I love who she is. She’s proud to be a Jersey girl. I will one day soon get this beautiful woman to the sunshine state. The winters are hard on her. Annie lives with chronic pain. And has for a long time now. I sometimes don’t know how she does it. She’s determined and wants nothing to do with the winters in Jersey.
As Annie puts it; “I don’t care if I have to sell oranges on the corner I’m getting out of Jersey and going to live in paradise just as soon as we can.”
She has been writing her entire life. In 2013 she reached a milestone birthday and decided to take the plunge and write seriously. She checked to see what others around her were reading and did some more research and decided that Erotic Romance was the way to go. Annie wrote and published her first erotic romance novel in August 2013. And she’s currently working on book two in the Second Chance Series.
Annie is the kind of women that doesn’t care what others think. Her sense of humor comes with her quick wit. She’s funny, and doesn’t take herself too seriously. Being the second oldest of four siblings and the oldest girl she has always had to speak up or not be heard.
When you are in the company of Annie she will always do her best to make you feel comfortable. And even though she lives with chronic back pain she hides it well. Annie lives with a disease called Arachnoiditis. She was in a car accident in 1988 and had to have back surgery in 1989. But before they did the surgery she had a test called a mylagram. Back then the dye they used had some kind of oil base that should have never been injected into the spine. It caused Arachnoiditis. Of course she wasn’t told this and had to find out years later the cause of her condition.
She’s a fighter. After her surgery she had to learn how to walk all over again. She’s been through hell and back and credits her family’s love for getting her where she is today. Of course Annie didn’t want me to put that part in her about Annie post. It’s just who she is.
When Annie started writing Second Chances Sammy’s story I knew her life would change forever. And let me tell you finding my wife on the kinkiest of sites doing research is something I never thought I would see in my lifetime. She’s a woman on a mission and wants to get her facts right when writing her story. It doesn’t hurt that sometimes we have to try these kinky things out just so she knows that the particular thing she’s writing about is correct, Lol.. She makes me laugh..
Sure She blushes and giggles as she telling me about the “RESEARCH” and it’s a huge turn on. She’s always had a sexy side. We’ve always kept our sex life new and exciting it’s never been boring. Before it was me doing all the research. Annie surprises me at every turn. Since writing her first erotic novel she’s open to trying even more sexy things. Let me just say, If you haven’t figured it out yet I do love the research..
Annie is always busy promoting her book and taking care of all the other site’s and blogs she has. I can’t keep up with her anymore. She has put her book and herself out there for the world to see. She tells me this is all part of being an independent author.
When Annie started Sex w/Annie on WordPress I was a bit speculate about this . She said she had to be honest. That meant putting parts of her life as well as mine out there. When I see how many people she has following her it’s just amazing. I guess people like reading about My Annie and her life. She has a way with words and putting others at ease. She post her Sexy Sunday blog for couples, singles every Sunday by 4 pm.
Annie’s favorite place to be is on the beach, any beach. She comes alive and has a smile from ear to ear when ever she’s there. All it takes to make her happy is a pile a sea shells and she becomes a kid again. She’s truly a free spirit and I love that about her. She also has a beautiful garden, loves to take pictures and can cook just about anything. She Italian and Irish/English. So you know the food is always good.
She’s fun, sexy, erotic, she’s all woman and she’s mine. And that’s a little about my Annie..
MS
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