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October 29, 2018
Do you agree that 80-90% of today’s generation is unemployable?
Once a deciple went to get education from a renowned guru. He was very knowledgeable and knew many things even before guru told him. He was sort of overconfident and over aggressive. His guru knew the difference between knowledge and wisdom. He tried to impart wisdom into him but his knowledge laden attitude made it […]
October 27, 2018
Is happiness really a state of mind?
Yes happiness is a state of mind. More precisely it is rush of chemicals in your brain (sounds unsexy!). Yes you can be administered with chemicals to feel happiness! This is what drugs do. They trigger release of dopamine in your brain. Similar thing happens when we feel good, are in love, do sex, accomplish […]
October 25, 2018
What are the ultimate benefits of writing?
4 benefits of writing Metacognition : Writing is all about self reflection and metacognition. When ever I am writing anything from my inner thoughts and memory,I am interacting with myself. I am learning,reevaluating my core beliefs and making necessary changes along it. This is just like review of my own thinking process. since I do not […]
October 23, 2018
Are men meant for pride and domination?
No not like pride or domination. But basic nature of man is testosterone driven. We used to compete evolutionarily and aggression is a part of our personality. In reality men are protective and bit possessive. My girl is my girl. Period. this might sometimes seems like dominant or prideful. Let me tell you a little secret. […]
October 21, 2018
What exactly the definition of flirting? How it is done and when?
Dear Asker, I like you open heartedness about yourself. You are really nice and a sweet girl. Who in this world today opens her heart out to a stranger and on public forum. I don’t know you but I guess you might have a decent soul. You are a pure person buddy. PM me if […]
How do I explain to a good friend that I don’t think we should continue our friendship?
Action speaks louder than words. Slow withdrawal will be less painful and more rewarding. Cut him off slowly from your life. We overrate ourselves. It will take him less time to forget you than you anticipate. Only condition is slow gradual withdrawal with minor ego attacks. In case of sudden ghosting , a trigger reaction […]
October 19, 2018
How to differentiate between Success and Enlightenment?
Enlightenment means knowing of the fact that nothing fulfills and still pursuing your goals. Enlightenment means that you know that effort is always greater than goal. Enlightenment means that you want others to do well and succeed as well. Enlightenment is like a dancer whose dance the whole world enjoys and dancer enjoys the dance unaware […]
October 17, 2018
Why is it too hard to confess your love?
5 reasons love is tough to confess Vulnerability exposure : Confessing makes you vulnerable. If you confess your love and other person does not reiterate positively or negatively but lingers you,then you are in trouble. Your weakness for their charms is exposed and now they might take advantage of you in the disguise of false […]
October 15, 2018
What would you do if your cousin falls in love with you?
This sometimes happens between cousins who are not living close to each other. They treat each other as normal friends. These kind of relationships are frowned upon in many societies and there is scientific evidence to support the claim. It depends on partners, their financial status, mental status and emotional maturity. Further how deep is […]
How do you become famous and receive a lot of views, upvotes, and followers on Quora?
I am not famous. I wrote an answer before. What are the common misconceptions people have on top Quora writers and Quorans having more followers? Even if you want to know any secrets then I care not for up votes or appraisal. I am not a people pleaser and am never afraid to call spade a […]
