Hemant Pandey's Blog: Hemant pandey blog, page 58
October 13, 2018
What is socially unacceptable for men but acceptable for women?
Crying Showing weak emotions. Kissing their girlfriends in public. (for men kissing their boyfriends in public is quite a taboo). Asking for help from fellow men regarding job requiring physical labor. (for men, asking help from a women regarding job requiring physical hard work is quite a taboo). Wearing lift of dance clothes as well […]
October 11, 2018
What is that you love since your teenage?
Music ( My taste changed from melo romantic to rock pop) Poetry Philosophy , psychology and logic Nice trendy clothes Electronics and gadgets Traveling Romance Love letters Spirituality Writing
October 9, 2018
Who are you?
Not just me, every one of us is dual. We all are selectively nice, have contradictory behaviour, are guided by ego and believe that we are rational well as grounded! We all have misconceptions about us. We all are basically human. We all want true genuine love but want it with caveats. We are strange. […]
October 8, 2018
How can I deal with a terribly strong infatuation?
Infatuation is a territory of mind. Love originates in heart. Have you ever wondered why infatuation turns obsessive ? Because of your own unsuccessful attempts. You want to talk, you try but couldn’t do…mind becomes distressed. You idealize the person which he or she is not. You justify their actions for you both good and […]
October 7, 2018
Does intelligence in a woman intimidate a man?
I find intelligence extremely sexy. Your looks are for 10 years or might be 20 years but intellect is you intrinsic quality for life.I am biased towards emotional intelligence. A good looking girl friend is just like a trophy wife, nothing more nothing less. She is not intellectually stimulating but only physically satisfying. How long […]
October 5, 2018
What are the worst things in life?
The worst thing life can show to any one is the true colors of people whom you love. 99% of people in your life are superficial. As warren Buffett puts in (In different scenario though), ‘Only when the tide is gone you can see who is swimming naked’. Tough times can come on any one […]
October 3, 2018
Are women capable of unconditional love?
Every women has a mother in her. I have not seen any love greater than love of a mother. But yes women are also human. They also have a conscious mind.This mind protects their heart like everyone else.This mind has inclination towards materialism, towards physical comforts as well as worldly pleasures. Every love story starts […]
October 1, 2018
Do Indian girls always assume that guys always stare at them with weird looks and always try to flirt with them?
More or less it is true. Men and Indian men in particular are too desperate for relationships. Every male is following about 20 girls. Every girl thus think that she has 20X options! What she doesn’t realise that men have same cheesy lines and formula for every girl! This creates an unresolved dilemma. Girls think […]
September 29, 2018
Why do you love your partner, even though they may be considered physically unattractive?
Love is chemistry. Physical features are good for show-off or for sexual chemistry (which is about 5–6% of love). We love energy of particular people. We love how they make us feel in their presence. Other things like physical features are already factored in pre love phase. You need to spend considerable amount of time […]
September 27, 2018
Are you an emotional or rational person?
I am deft rationalist. I am a mathematician and I guess it clears your doubt. I am selectively emotional and vulnerable, only to those whom I truly love. Further my vulnerability is dependent on reaction of other person. I some one loves me unconditionally, with any mind games, just being natural and I also gel […]
