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January 6, 2019
What are life’s biggest dilemmas?
For Men Choosing the right girlfriend : Men are not as choosy as girls are.Men have limited requirements from a girlfriend. This sometimes makes their increasingly difficult. At any given time one man has several potential love partners. Men get attracted to girls very easily and hence keep trying on any decent looking girl. They are […]
January 5, 2019
How do I stop thinking about someone? Someone I admire and that is one sided?
There is no such thing as one sided love.Its only infatuation. This is also similar to what is called a “Halo” effect in psychology.You are only looking on positives of the person.The more he/she completes your flaws, more you think of them.Make yourself better.Other than that no chance.
January 4, 2019
Do we really live in a matrix of simulation?
No. The matrix theory has following flaws. If world is a computer program simulated by future civilizations, even then the infinite complexity of world doesn’t make sense. World has infinite variables and constants intertwined into a very complex scientific fabric. Start from relativity, gravitational waves, DNA structure, infinite microorganisms, infinitely complex universe, infinitely complex atomic […]
January 3, 2019
What do you most regret?
I regret playing mind games with those I never loved as well as those whom I truly loved. Similarly I regret not playing mind games with whom I really loved. It depends on maturity of your partner whether or not to play mind games with them. Sometimes it is too late to rectify your mistakes. […]
January 2, 2019
Do girls fall in love with a poet?
I don’t know whether or not girls fall in love with poets but one thing for sure. All people in love either become writers or poets or musicians or take some form of expression of intense love for their lover. Love is music of life. Love is dance of poetry. Love is painting of bliss. […]
January 1, 2019
I am a teenage girl. I admire guys very often and I live in a world of fantasy. I’m not a creep. But I dont want to be like this anymore. How do I kill my feelings for everyone?
Why kill? Be natural.By being natural you are always at peace with yourself. Follow your heart.Only rule is that avoid over doing any thing. It sperfectly natural to like opposite sex.Fantasy is part and parcel of your age.If you want to relieve your mind of excessiveness of all this, then start a diary.Start reflecting your […]
December 30, 2018
5 ways to test a man’s love for you
The best method is to TEST. Look at him for few days. Talk if you can. Then back off for some days to TEST impact of your absence . You must be very sure that you are not playing! Not doing too much and more than required. You can also do the famous JEALOUSY test […]
December 28, 2018
What (gift) can a woman give a man on a second date?
Men are usually attached to gadgets.You can give him any kind of small non electronic gadget or tool.It may be dependent on his taste. Other choices include A good book of his interest. A good T shirt. A pair of goggles. A DVD of nice movie. Things to avoid All feminine things, like flowers, perfumes,romantic novel. Accessories […]
December 26, 2018
What is the best compliment you have ever received from your boyfriend/girlfriend?
Many compliments I got.But the best ones (From different sources though…) You are as straight as jalebi (Indian Sweet, which is all circles in circles)… Ye Hemant hain! ( He is Hemant, never believe him); Context : Was trying to prove girl friend of my GF that I am not a flirt. You are unique. […]
December 24, 2018
My boyfriend flirts with other girls. he doesn’t find me attractive. What should I do?
Get your facts right. Men wants SEX from every second women they see, so what? Its in built in to them biologically. Make yourself intellectually stimulating.Trying to impress is the worst mistake you can do.I will or any one will not do charity-love.Create some tension in the relationship.Play some game, do some drama,make some chords […]
