Jennifer Flanders's Blog, page 39
January 4, 2012
Pray without Ceasing
I've been meditating on 1 Thess. 5:17 lately: "Pray without ceasing." Try as I might to maintain a continual attitude of prayer, I get distracted by the million other things that vie for my attention. Consequently, I often lose sight of that goal.
Yet my days are sprinkled with enough mindless tasks that it's easy to pick up the conversation with God wherever I left off, provided I make a point to do so. Some of my favorite multi-tasking opportunities include praying while:
folding laundry
climbing stairs
washing dishes
nursing babies
riding bikes
taking showers
falling asleep
When and where do you squeeze in extra prayer time? Please share. I'm eager to add to my list!
NYNY Week 1: Pray without Ceasing
I've been meditating on 1 Thess. 5:17 lately: "Pray without ceasing." Try as I might to maintain a continual attitude of prayer, I get distracted by the million other things that vie for my attention. Consequently, I often lose sight of that goal.
Yet my days are sprinkled with enough mindless tasks that it's easy to pick up the conversation with God wherever I left off, provided I make a point to do so. Some of my favorite multi-tasking opportunities include praying while:
- folding laundry
- climbing stairs
- washing dishes
- nursing babies
- riding bikes
- taking showers
- falling asleep
When and where do you squeeze in extra prayer time? Please share. I'm eager to add to my list!
December 31, 2011
A New Year/ A New You
Even in grade school, my favorite section of the library was the "how-to" shelf. While my friends were reading their way through all 175 volumes of Nancy Drew, I was checking out book after book on crafting and building and drawing and sewing.
It was not until I'd finished all the projects in McCALL'S GIANT GOLDEN MAKE IT BOOK that I came across a curious manuel entitled A NEW YOU, all about the benefits of regular face-washing and how to do a proper push-up.
I devoured it cover to cover.
It wasn't that I was dissatisfied with the "old me," but the book fell into my hands just as puberty was setting in. I'd like to think that reading it helped me navigate the attendant changes with a little more confidence and grace, despite the fact that my "awkward stage" was, by all other accounts, rather protracted.
So I rechecked the book about thirteen weeks in a row and would have kept it indefinitely had our school librarian not insisted I find something new to read and suggested I try ISLAND OF THE BLUE DOLPHINS, (which I likewise loved).
All this to say, the idea of self-improvement has intrigued me for almost forty years now. I normally start every January with a ridiculously long list of resolutions, but this year, I'm taking a different tack. I still have lots of areas that need attention, but I'm not going to tackle them all at once. Instead, I'll take the entire year to focus on one improvement at a time. Since it takes roughly two weeks to establish a new habit, by the end of 2012, I'll have made 26 lasting changes. Doesn't that sound doable?
And since it is only by the grace of God that any endeavor meets with success, I plan to focus first on cultivating a more vibrant prayer life. Anybody care to join me? I plan to post plenty of how-to's, progress reports, and other inspiring thoughts along the way, so check back in and let me know how it is going, okay?
December 22, 2011
Twelve Things I Love About Winter
1. Crackling logs
2. Mistletoe
3. Church pageants
4. Hot chocolate
5. Christmas carols
6. Shoebox stuffing
7. Cards and letters
8. Family traditions
9. Fantasy fudge
10. Snowflakes
11. Evergreen wreaths
12. New year's resolutions
December 21, 2011
Our Family's Newest Christmas Tradition
After our six-year-old was diagnosed with diabetes just before Thanksgiving, our family was invited to take part in a study aimed at discovering the cause of Type 1 diabetes and finding ways to prevent it. We were great candidates — twelve biologically-related children in a single family, three of whom have Type 1.
When we first agreed to be screened, we assumed we were signing up for a one-time finger prick, but it was actually more involved than that. A full vial of blood was required from each child, as well as from their father and our grandsons. (Luckily Unfortunately, I missed the age cut-off by a few months myself and was therefore ineligible to participate).
The staff who were taking the samples were very kind and extremely good at what they do. They made it easy for our children to bravely submit to the blood draws, although we're all grateful we don't have to endure four blood tests and four shots a day like their brothers. If any of the screens come back positive, we'll get to do this all over again. If they are negative, guess what? The kids can still come back every year for another blood draw until they turn eighteen.
So we're adding this event to our "Christmas Countdown Calendar." It's our newest Christmas tradition, and one we'd highly recommend to any other family affected by Type 1 diabetes.
November 26, 2011
Mixed Blessings
…. Life took yet another unexpected turn the day before Thanksgiving when our excessively thirsty Daniel tested positive for diabetes. That brings the tally to three children with Type 1, all diagnosed during major holidays. What are the odds? Daniel took the news like a real trooper, although he has since asked, "Mommy? When do I get to stop having diabetes?" The answer is that, unless a cure is found, he will have it for the rest of his life.
I think it is significant that Daniel's diagnosis came at a time traditionally set aside for counting blessings and giving thanks. It's easy to express gratitude for obvious graces like warm homes, good jobs, sound minds, and full bellies, but Scripture bids us count it all joy when we encounter hardships, as well (James 1:2-3), knowing that our Heavenly Father loves us and can be trusted, even amid tragedy, to work all things together for good (Romans 8:28).
So this year, we are also thanking God for His purpose and plan in allowing into our lives some things we would not have willingly chosen for ourselves—things like diabetes and miscarriage and broken bones (five of them in five different kids!). But God is good all the time, and we can see His hand of mercy at work even now. Won't you join us in offering up a sacrifice of praise this season?
October 16, 2011
Putting It in Perspective
I don't know who wrote the following poem, but it is a good reminder that we should "not despise the day of small things." God knows this season of life will be gone before we know it, and won't I miss it when it is!.
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Of trifling worries, little cares,
A lunch to pack, a tea to make,
A room to sweep, a pie to bake,
A hurt to less, a tear to dry,
A head to brush, a bow to tie,
A face to wash, a rent to mend,
A meal to plan, a fuss to end,
A hungry husband to be fed,
A sleepy child to put to bed.
I, who'd hoped someday to gain
Success, perhaps a bit of fame,
Must give my life to small affairs
Of trifling worries, little cares.
But, should tomorrow bring a change,
My little house grow still and strange—
Should all the cares I have today
Be swept, quite suddenly, away—
Where now a hundred duties press
Be but an ache of loneliness,
No child's gay ribbons to be tied,
No wayward little feet to guide,
To heaven I would raise my prayers,
"Oh God, give back my little cares."
~Author Unknown
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September 30, 2011
Twelve Things I Love About Fall
1. New school books
2. Pumpkin patches
3. Bulky sweaters
4. Sharp yellow pencils
5. Round, rosy apples
6. Crsip, clean air
7. Wood smoke
8. Thanksgiving dinner
9. Marching bands
10. State fairs
11. Tent camping
12. Hay rides
Twleve Things I Love About Fall
1. New school books
2. Pumpkin patches
3. Bulky sweaters
4. Sharp yellow pencils
5. Round, rosy apples
6. Crsip, clean air
7. Wood smoke
8. Thanksgiving dinner
9. Marching bands
10. State fairs
11. Tent camping
12. Hay rides
September 16, 2011
Putting It in Perspective
I don't know who wrote the following poem, but it is a good reminder that we should "not despise the day of small things." This season of life will be over before we know it, and won't I miss it when it's gone!.
[image error]My days are days of small affairs,
Of trifling worries, little cares,
A lunch to pack, a tea to make,
A room to sweep, a pie to bake,
A hurt to less, a tear to dry,
A head to brush, a bow to tie,
A face to wash, a rent to mend,
A meal to plan, a fuss to end,
A hungry husband to be fed,
A sleepy child to put to bed.
I, who'd hoped someday to gain
Success, perhaps a bit of fame,
Must give my life to small affairs
Of trifling worries, little cares.
But, should tomorrow bring a change,
My little house grow still and strange—
Should all the cares I have today
Be swept, quite suddenly, away—
Where now a hundred duties press
Be but an ache of loneliness,
No child's gay ribbons to be tied,
No wayward little feet to guide,
To heaven I would raise my prayers,
"Oh God, give back my little cares."
~Author Unknown
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