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July 14, 2014

Nash Grier Kisses Gay Fan; Atlantic City Gay Mayor; He Won't Let Him Bottom; Small Town Romance Writer by Ryan Field

Nash Grier Kisses Gay Fan

Nash Grier, youtube star, kissed a gay fan to prove he's not homophobic...after he made a gay slur. He apologized first, but then thought he had to do more. I've read that a lot of people weren't happy with his apology.

If saying sorry isn't enough, will kissing a gay fan go some way in remedying it?

Does it really matter? It obviously does. This entire debacle just seems to be overflowing with tawdry self-promotion in an attempt to gain even more cheap publ...
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Published on July 14, 2014 07:45

July 13, 2014

DOJ Fights Marriage Ban; Gay Torso Pics; Amazon's "Transparent"; Small Town Romance Writer by Ryan Field

DOJ Fights Marriage Ban

According to recent comments by Attorney General, Eric Holder, the DOJ plans to urge SCOTUS to uphold a lower court ruling that keeps states from banning game sex marriage. This all stems from what's been happening in Utah...attempts to keep the bans on same sex marriage in place.

Last month, a federal appeals court ruled that a state ban on gay marriage, approved by Utah voters in 2004, was unconstitutional, finding that states cannot keep two people from marrying...
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Published on July 13, 2014 12:53

July 12, 2014

Cosmo Bad BDSM Tips; Be a Better Bottom; Top & Bottom Label; Small Town Romance Writer by Ryan Field

Cosmo Bad BDSM Tips

One thing I find interesting about this online post at Jezebel is that while it slams Cosmo's bad BDSM tips it mentions nothing about the bad BDSM in the Fifty Shades of Grey novel by E. L. James. This leads me to believe the author of the Jezebel post knows little about FSoG, the novel, or that one of the biggest complaints from critics was that FSoG didn't portray BDSM in a way that most who are serious about the lifestyle found plausible. I'...
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Published on July 12, 2014 21:17

"Turning" Gay for Orgasm? Joan Rivers Again; Gays Denied Swimming Pass; Small Town Romance Writer by Ryan Field

"Turning" Gay For Orgasm?

According to an anti-gay US pundit, Peter LaBarbera, men "turn" gay for cheap orgasms. In addition, LaBarbera has also accused the President of being obsessed with gays. LaBarbera has some kind of radio show somewhere on the fringes and he's been getting attention lately with David Manning, another homophobic minister with a TV show somewhere out there in oblivion, by attacking gays.

LaBarbera said he thinks homosexuals are not ‘real men’, because they canno...
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Published on July 12, 2014 07:21

July 11, 2014

Top, Bottom, Erections; Erect Bottoms? Anal Orgasm; Small Town Romance Writer by Ryan Field

Top, Bottom, Erections

While looking up articles about bottoms I came across something interesting that I think a lot of men think about but rarely discuss openly. I'm keeping it all clinical here, without puns, because I really do think it's something a lot of us are curious about.

In short, the article I'm linking to here deals with topping, bottoming, and maintaining an erection. There's a lot of information here and one topic talks about the prostate.

Prostate stimulation: Now this is my f...
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Published on July 11, 2014 16:48

Bob Frey on Sodomy; Gay Kissing in Cabs; Hasselbeck v. O'Donnell; Gay Emmy Year; FREE Gay Excerpt: Small Town Romance Writer


Update: links to new release, below, Small Town Romance Writer....

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Bob Frey on Sodomy

A Minnesota Republican candidate, Bob Frey, is allegedly campaigning for office on an anti-gay platform that's based on misinformation about science and health. According to this source he's obsessed with sodomy, and at the same time knows nothing about how certain things actually work. This is some serious WTF-ery.

'...It’s not about th...
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Published on July 11, 2014 08:12

July 10, 2014

Josh Kruger on Gay Body Image; Theresa Santai-Gaffney Lost Again; Grindr Horror Again; Sleepless in San Francisco by Ryan Field

Josh Kruger on Gay Body Image

Though it doesn't happen often, every now and then a bright new voice comes along with the kind of writing talent that makes readers stop and listen. Before I get into that I'd like to revisit a post I wrote earlier this month by another young gay man, Brandon Baker, who actually promoted body shame to gay men. Here's the link to that piece. I really never plan these things in advance, but as a blogger I do like it when someone else comes along...
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Published on July 10, 2014 08:00

July 9, 2014

Gay Male Secrets; Top Or Bottom Quiz; Internal Desires by Ryan Field

Gay Male Secrets

This article talks about assimilation, heteronormativity, and how with gaining more equality gay culture has shifted a little. But it also gets into a few secrets no one talks about much anymore. According to this article, secrets gay men don't tell straight people. I'm not quite sure about all of them. But some are accurate.

Of course bottoming is number one on the list:

There, I said it. Bottoming is fucking great. Yes, it hurts every time. Yes it is sometimes messy (Santorum...
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Published on July 09, 2014 18:09

Gay For You Big Brother 16; Bisexual R.J. Aguiar; 17 Gays Playing Straight; The Way We Almost Were by Ryan Field

Gay For You Big Brother 16

Every summer I post about the fact that I've been a huge fan of the TV show (and the game), Big Brother, and this year I saw something different happen on the most recent episode that I never expected to see...anywhere. There are two good looking male contestants getting to know each other. Zach Rance claims he's straight. And Frankie Grande is gay. They've formed a friendship that not only shows them bonding, but hugging, laying in bed together, and fondling ea...
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Published on July 09, 2014 04:27

July 8, 2014

Another Hate Baker; Nash Grier Anti-Gay Idiocy; Flyers Player Gropes Cop's Ass; A Sign From Heaven Above by Ryan Field

Another Hate Baker

I've posted several times about how a handful of good Christian bakers are refusing to make wedding cakes for gay couples about to get married. But this time it's not in the US. This time the hate baker is in Ireland. But more than that, this time the alleged hate baker is refusing to make a cake with a pro-gay Bert and Ernie theme that's not even for a gay wedding. Evidently, a gay rights activist allegedly placed the order and the hate baker refused to do bu...
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Published on July 08, 2014 07:31