Ryan Field's Blog, page 329
January 5, 2015
He's NOT Gay,Again; In Love With Straight Best Friend; Leelah Alcorn's Mom Speaks
He's NOT Gay
Frankly, the only reason I'm posting about this debacle is to show how there are still people out there who find shame in being referred to as gay. You can call these blithering idiots anything from vapid douche-bags to brainless buffoons, but don't call them gay. It pisses me off. In this case it's an actor, Sahil Kha, who is mixed up in some kind of trashy litigation no one cares about with his former female business partner and the female business partner is telling every...
Frankly, the only reason I'm posting about this debacle is to show how there are still people out there who find shame in being referred to as gay. You can call these blithering idiots anything from vapid douche-bags to brainless buffoons, but don't call them gay. It pisses me off. In this case it's an actor, Sahil Kha, who is mixed up in some kind of trashy litigation no one cares about with his former female business partner and the female business partner is telling every...
January 3, 2015
STUDlebrity Hot Men; Your Urban Culture Buff; The Underwear Expert Kickstarter Campaign
STUDlebrity Hot Men
This is an interview with Documentary filmmaker, Charlie David, who was a former boy band member. He's put together a film about really hot guys and I think the theme is centered on why we find them so interesting...they rarely do anything other than look good. At least that's what I think it is. There doesn't seem to be any deep underlying message.
How do the economics work? Who is actually paying them to live like this?
I think there are a very select few Studlebrit...
This is an interview with Documentary filmmaker, Charlie David, who was a former boy band member. He's put together a film about really hot guys and I think the theme is centered on why we find them so interesting...they rarely do anything other than look good. At least that's what I think it is. There doesn't seem to be any deep underlying message.
How do the economics work? Who is actually paying them to live like this?
I think there are a very select few Studlebrit...
Guy With Two Penises Diphallia; Chubby Chaser "Fat Sex"; Tuc Watkins on Gay Hollywood Stereotypes
Guy With Two Penises Diphallia
About a year or so ago I posted about a young bisexual guy who was born with two penises. It's a condition known as diphallia. He made his disclosure on Reddit with the name "Doubledickdude" and since then he's been writing a book. It's a memoir titled, Double Header: My Life With Two Penises , I've been following him in Twitter since last summer and I recently read a tweet about an interview he did with Rolling Stone.
I found the most interesting part of the inter...
About a year or so ago I posted about a young bisexual guy who was born with two penises. It's a condition known as diphallia. He made his disclosure on Reddit with the name "Doubledickdude" and since then he's been writing a book. It's a memoir titled, Double Header: My Life With Two Penises , I've been following him in Twitter since last summer and I recently read a tweet about an interview he did with Rolling Stone.
I found the most interesting part of the inter...
January 2, 2015
Racism In Gay Community; Winter F-Buddies; Who Is Finn Wittrock?
Racism In Gay Community
In this article, a guy named Nelson Moses Lassiter talks openly about being gay and African American in the gay community. He makes a few good points, and it's a topic I think isn't discussed often enough.
When I came to terms with my sexuality, it took a very long time. I used to just debate with myself back and forth and I used to, I was actually angry that I was gay and I was angry at God for making me gay, there were just so many things that were going through my min...
In this article, a guy named Nelson Moses Lassiter talks openly about being gay and African American in the gay community. He makes a few good points, and it's a topic I think isn't discussed often enough.
When I came to terms with my sexuality, it took a very long time. I used to just debate with myself back and forth and I used to, I was actually angry that I was gay and I was angry at God for making me gay, there were just so many things that were going through my min...
January 1, 2015
Happy New Year Gratitude
Happy New Year Gratitude
I wish I could say I hate to see 2014 end, but 2014 was not an easy year. I don't like to go into detail about personal things on the blog or on social media, but last year Tony and I had two family members diagnosed with stage four cancer, we spent a good part of the year in places like Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center in New York, and there were some very intense moments I'd rather not live through again. Some of that is continuing and will always be there. It...
I wish I could say I hate to see 2014 end, but 2014 was not an easy year. I don't like to go into detail about personal things on the blog or on social media, but last year Tony and I had two family members diagnosed with stage four cancer, we spent a good part of the year in places like Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center in New York, and there were some very intense moments I'd rather not live through again. Some of that is continuing and will always be there. It...
December 31, 2014
Anti-Gay Firefighters Lose; Straight Guys Stoned For Gay Sex; Getting Stuffed
Anti-Gay Firefighters Lose
Before I get into this I'd just like to state that I know many firefighters and cops and this is by no means a reflection on either profession. The reason why I know so many is my younger brother is a NJ State Trooper and most that I know are his friends. I have never once felt or experienced an anti-gay moment with any of them.
With that said, two firefighters from Providence, Rhode Island tried to sue because they claim they were forced to participate in a gay prid...
Before I get into this I'd just like to state that I know many firefighters and cops and this is by no means a reflection on either profession. The reason why I know so many is my younger brother is a NJ State Trooper and most that I know are his friends. I have never once felt or experienced an anti-gay moment with any of them.
With that said, two firefighters from Providence, Rhode Island tried to sue because they claim they were forced to participate in a gay prid...
December 30, 2014
Boy Toy Stalking David Geffen; Straight Guy Favorite DILFs; Last Season of Glee
Boy Toy Stalking David Geffen
This information I'm linking to now is from Queerty.com, but there it's linked to TMZ. The music industry's billionaire, David Geffen, is allegedly being stalked by a 20 year old former boyfriend. Get this, the boyfriend's last name is Kuntz. No comment.
20-year-old Jamie Kuntz has been accused of stalking the 71-year-old for the past several months. His behavior has included following, harassing and making a “credible threat” against Geffen sometime...
This information I'm linking to now is from Queerty.com, but there it's linked to TMZ. The music industry's billionaire, David Geffen, is allegedly being stalked by a 20 year old former boyfriend. Get this, the boyfriend's last name is Kuntz. No comment.
20-year-old Jamie Kuntz has been accused of stalking the 71-year-old for the past several months. His behavior has included following, harassing and making a “credible threat” against Geffen sometime...
December 29, 2014
Brokeback Mountain Author Pissed Off; Bubble Butts; Don Lemon Worst Journalist List 2014
Brokeback Mountain Author Pissed Off
The author of Brokeback Mountain, Annie Proulx, is making a few strong statements about how her short story was received and how it's been interpreted in various ways over the years. The story, which became a huge bestseller and a ground-breaking feature film that many claim spawned the m/m romance genre, has never been without controversy. And that controversy has not always come in the form of traditional homophobia. I remember back when it was released a...
The author of Brokeback Mountain, Annie Proulx, is making a few strong statements about how her short story was received and how it's been interpreted in various ways over the years. The story, which became a huge bestseller and a ground-breaking feature film that many claim spawned the m/m romance genre, has never been without controversy. And that controversy has not always come in the form of traditional homophobia. I remember back when it was released a...
December 28, 2014
Gay Boyfriend "Twins"; "Fag" Cousin; Anal Cancer
Gay Boyfriend "Twins"
This one made me smile. Through the years Tony and I have known several gay couples who fall into this category: gay boyfriend twins. It's not about incest. These guys aren't related to each other. They are boyfriends who try hard to look like each other. The first year we were together Tony made a point of telling me he didn't want us to ever look like "one of the Bobsie Twins." At the time we knew a gay couple who wore the same outfits (always tight black shirts), the s...
This one made me smile. Through the years Tony and I have known several gay couples who fall into this category: gay boyfriend twins. It's not about incest. These guys aren't related to each other. They are boyfriends who try hard to look like each other. The first year we were together Tony made a point of telling me he didn't want us to ever look like "one of the Bobsie Twins." At the time we knew a gay couple who wore the same outfits (always tight black shirts), the s...
December 27, 2014
Gay Panic Defense; "Faggots" Written on Door; Having Sex With Straight Guys
Gay Panic Defense
Openly gay New Jersey assemblyman, Tim Eustace, introduced an interesting bill that will prevent criminals from using what's being referred to as "gay panic defense." I never knew this even existed.
'I want to make sure that we’re paying attention to things before they happen,' Eustace said, as reported by New Jersey.com.
According to state law, a charge of murder can be reduced to manslaughter if the crime 'is committed in the heat of passion resulting from a reasonable...
Openly gay New Jersey assemblyman, Tim Eustace, introduced an interesting bill that will prevent criminals from using what's being referred to as "gay panic defense." I never knew this even existed.
'I want to make sure that we’re paying attention to things before they happen,' Eustace said, as reported by New Jersey.com.
According to state law, a charge of murder can be reduced to manslaughter if the crime 'is committed in the heat of passion resulting from a reasonable...
