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March 23, 2023

The hidden benefits of kitchen therapy

how picking up a spatula helped me with my mental illness

When I was at my lowest point with my anxiety and depression, it took all of my mental energy to convince myself to get out of bed and move through my day. Most of my days I went through the motions of getting the kids off to school, working my secretary job, and being back home in time to welcome the kids home from school. Outwardly, I did my best to hold myself together when inwardly I was vacillating between wanting to cry in the da...

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Published on March 23, 2023 05:00

March 16, 2023

When your work feels wasted and fruitless

a promise found in Corinthians

Do you sometimes feel like all the work you do is either done better by someone else or seemingly worthless?

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Published on March 16, 2023 04:00

March 15, 2023

5 Ways to Combat Stress and Improve Your Mental Health

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Mental health is an important part of overall well-being. You can take steps to protect your mental health, such as getting enough sleep, being active, and managing stress. Learn more about common mental health concerns here, along with practical tips and resources to help you build resilience and foster good mental health.

Practice mindfulness.

Mindfulness is a practice of being aware of and present in the moment. By tuning in to our thoughts ...

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Published on March 15, 2023 10:01

March 10, 2023

Get to the root of the issue

why are you so angry?a gentle answer deflects anger but harsh words make tempers flare. proverbs 15:1

Often my kids come to me with a complaint about what someone else is doing and how it is causing them to feel. I do my best to listen, hear them out, and seek to understand. Eventually it comes back to the phrase, “Well, you can’t change others’ behaviors. But you can choose how you behave.”

I tell this to my kids….but I often need to stand in front of a mirror and tell it to myself.

Do you find yourself overreacting to little irritations? Your partner forgot to...

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Published on March 10, 2023 05:28

March 3, 2023

Where do we run when trouble comes

the strong tower of Proverbs 18

The name of the Lord is a strong tower. The righteous run in to it and are saved. Proverbs 18:10

I live in the Midwest where tornado season can run from April to October. Since a very young age, I have been terrified of storms that could breed tornadoes. In grade school, as soon as the season hit, we would practice tornado drills at school. That small drill led to weeks of nightmares for me.

When the tornado siren sounds, the best practice is t...

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Published on March 03, 2023 05:15

February 24, 2023

Committing to your calling

a free printable workbook

This week on the blog I am featuring my friend, Hadassah Treu! Though we have never met in person (she lives in Bulgaria!) I have gotten to know her over the past couple years through our writing community and I appreciate her heart for Jesus and the Gospel.

Hadassah has written a 15-page printable workbook that she is offering for FREE to my readers. Check out more below.

Do you want to be and do all God has called you to?  Are you struggling with coveting...

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Published on February 24, 2023 05:30

February 17, 2023

You Can Have Victory in the Wilderness

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The following is an excerpt in the Easter/Lenten devotional: Victory in the Wilderness.

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Published on February 17, 2023 05:13

February 10, 2023

You are more than your feelings

choosing to control our thoughts instead of them controlling us

Yesterday I was feeling overwhelmed. Which led to feeling anxious. Which led to feeling completely unmotivated.

Everything seemed big and too much to accomplish with my racing thoughts and cluttered mind. So, instead of doing anything, I really just wanted to do nothing. I was frozen and unmotivated.

But I knew I couldn’t stay there (and didn’t want to!) so I knew I needed to tackle it head on. I could either choose to fol...

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Published on February 10, 2023 05:33

February 3, 2023

3 practical ways to help your anxious friend

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I know it as soon as my eyes open. It’s going to be one of those days. 

The day feels dark and overwhelming. My legs feel sluggish and my mind is slow to start.

There isn’t anything in particular that makes me feel this way. I haven’t just received bad news, no relationship in my life is on the rocks, and the day ahead looks very similar to w...

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Published on February 03, 2023 05:38

January 27, 2023

Confirming your calling in Christ

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Published on January 27, 2023 05:42