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Further views on improving All Areas Of Life At Once Learning How To Live A Quality Life Chapter 42

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I began this journey with the thoughts that all aspects of my life were not good enough.

Now, some areas of my life are really great, I am discovering my strengths, my interests. Life is exciting from the start of the day to the end.

But there are some areas that I still have to work on. And these areas are those where I have to apply the methods I have used in other areas of my life.

What I’ve been Applying?First, starting from you (Self Love) – I don’t have the exact steps to achieve this. But the best way to start is just believe and assume that you do love yourself already! And keep repeating this thought many times a day! Second, the people you associate with – Start with the same principle – Believe that you are already having great rapport with everyone you associate with. Believe that all people care for you, understand you and have the best interests for you and you for them as well. I didn’t really know how this is gonna happen but I just kept reading this affirmation. Then, one day, unplanned, I had a confrontation which otherwise I would have avoided completely. But it lead to a greater understanding! Life is mysterious!Third, your surroundings, office, home, garden, home screen of your devices- I’ve been making small changes here and there by adding things or creating things that I love to look at whenever I pass by. It makes me happy!Fourth, love your past – It is easy to do when life gets better and the lessons we’ve learnt from it shine in us. Just remember, the now that you are is because of your past. That made me accept and love my past.Fifth, once the last four of it are set right, go ahead with your dream – I’ve been experiencing a strange funny way by which my dreams are being fulfilled one by one. When I got a clarity of the fact, I didn’t believe that I was actually doing THAT! Later, I got a statement that exactly expressed these very thoughts and then I realised the workings of how dreams come into reality..

That funny way will be described in my next post! Thanks and have a marvellous Sunday!

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Intro

Weren’t there times when we wonder if life has more to offer?
Juel Fiord comes across one such moment and decides to bring order into her life whatever it may take to do so.
On the other side, Deiãro Kestler, lives the life that many just dream of. Success follows him wherever he goes, whatever he does.
Will Juel find out the secret of his success? Can she change her life like night and day?
Is there really a secret that successful people carry with them?

Update on my exercise regimen Learning How To Live A Quality Life Chapter 41

These are the exercises that I am doing as of now (includes some additions to the ones that I’ve been doing previously) –

Jog in place for 5 minutes 5 types of arm exercises – each type 20 times one set – without weightsBurpees 7 timesLunges 7 timesAnkle lifts 30 secRussian twist 20 timesLeg lifts 7 timesCrunches 15 timesChild’s pose 10 secCobra pose 10 sec

Total 15-20 min time.

It has been 2 months since I am following this regimen daily and I am getting excellent results!

Life is amazing!

Relation of Goal & Worth Learning How To Live A Quality Life Chapter 40

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I thought to reach or to be worthy of my goal, I need to complete that & this and then one fine day I will be matching the worth of that goal. Everyone tend to think like that. Let it be a promotion, a post, a competition… Whatever it may be, we always start with the ‘thoughts’ of which skills to learn or how to complete a syllabus or what plan to follow to achieve it…

That is when I came across this line –

You choose a goal that is worthy of you.

from Earl Nightingale’s teachings

In other words, it is saying we are more powerful and knowledgeable than the goal we choose from the very beginning, from the time we decide on our goal.

The goal is a servant and We are the Master

from Bob Proctor’s teachings

This is another way of stating the same thing!

Just the belief and the relief of it being already done are the thoughts you need to start with. The plans, resources, knowledge, people, circumstances …everything will fall into place!

During the process, your conscious mind will not and cannot understand what you are doing to bring your goal into reality. At the same time, the direction your sub-conscious mind gives you will be light and subtle. To act on its directions, you just need to remember that whatever you do from the point you have decided your goal, EVERYTHING you do is ALWAYS the right thing to do! It is a fact!

Lastly, remember two more things, failures make you smarter & persist until you succeed. (don’t turn back when you are 3 feet away from gold!)

Have a beautiful weekend!

What is within you, is what others see! Chapter 39 Learning How To Live A Quality Life

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To believe your own thought, to believe that what is true for you in your private heart is true for all men, that is genius.

Ralph Waldo Emerson (Self Reliance)

This citation is the gist of what I am experiencing again and again.

Since the beginning of this journey, there are small, small changes that did take place but I didn’t know how to explain them. But this quote is the perfect explanation for them.

1) The most visible change is the way people look at my dressing style. I didn’t even change any of my clothes when this change started. I wore them in the same way too. But now others are able to appreciate the colour combination, the dress patterns. What I did think was about the beautiful colour combinations and patterns and just knew it was actually a really good one. And that is what people saw…

2) I am mastering to control my thoughts that tend to think what others are thinking about me. And replace them, if need be, with only the good-sense possibilities. This kind of thinking gave me such freedom to express my thoughts effortlessly wherever and whoever I am conversing with. It made me respect my ideas, in fact, help me give form to these ideas and go further than the ideas stage. It gave me confidence and strength to take action steps that are very daring. It made get closer to the true self that ‘I am’. And the people around me only see what I think about!

3) The thinking of who I am in my present daily routine at home – When I only kept thinking of the times, I completed my laundry work and cleaned my bedroom, the organized manner of the work I did (the things that are accomplished)…the better and better my efficiency kept on increasing. So, it is not just the world around but even my conscious self experienced this change around, the results of my thinking.

You & your goal

You are an infinite being.

To bring a finite understanding of this line, I compared it with setting goals and achieving them, in these terms.

We set a goal and achieve that goal. Next, we set a higher goal and go for it. And since we keep on thinking of growth, we keep on setting higher goals. And, there is no end for growth, thereby making it (growth) infinite.

If we can keep growing to infinite levels of growth, it implies we have infinite potential to achieve that equivalent of infinity exhibited by growth.

And there is this line –

Your goal is something you choose that is worthy of you!

from teachings of Earl Nightingale

Have a wholesome New Year!

Happy New Year 2022!!!

Life with Subconscious Mind as My P.A.! Learning How To Live A Quality Life Chapter 38

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Fabulously Plans the day

I really don’t like to make planned-to-a-second schedule for a day. I plan my day by thinking and making a list of what all I have to do for the next day. And that’s it, I put it aside and won’t look at it again. & just throw the entire responsibility to my P.A.

How beautifully my subconscious mind not only plans it to a second but also MAKES me do all the things that I’d listed. If I plan to do my laundry, clean my bedroom and do all my affirmation tasks. Consciously, I don’t even think about them. But my P.A. schedules them in all odd times and in between breaks such that by the end of the day, I am completed with all of the tasks. And it makes life exciting somehow by the different ways things can get completed!

My P.A. also makes sure I get a bus the minute I step on the bus stop and a seat too despite the rush!

Makes me think of Bigger & Bigger Goals

I began with a small target. Some days passed by and I got used to the idea of that target. But immediately my P.A. raises my target every time and I feel so shaky thinking about the newer targets. But my P.A. simply reminds me this line – “if I can think about it then I have the equivalent potential to attain it too.” So, I keep my mouth shut and just follow whatever it says…

Refills all my resources Abundantly

Nowadays, I just send thoughts to the universe, that I need more notebooks, pens… But I don’t mention any number of the things I want. Because I developed this attitude – ‘I need less numbers right now but more is always welcome!’ …And I keep going on with my daily routine… And now my stationary is filled with around 50 pens, 10 notebooks….(my P.A. plans it so meticulously that you end up buying it anyway even without a conscious plan!)

Gives me Resources To Plan the Next Move

I usually don’t have a concrete idea of the resources I need to use. But at every step I get excellent and perfectly woven together resources so easily and effortlessly. Of course, it doesn’t end there, my P.A., just makes sure I complete each one of them exactly the way it should be done!

& Keeps Nurturing Me With Positive thoughts

It keeps me moving forward, motivates me, makes me stronger to face the greatest fears head on!

These are some of the things that my P.A. does! Unleash yours too!

Have a beautiful Sunday!

Beautify your Past and Present! Learning How To Live A Quality Life Chapter 37

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This is something I’ve learnt and experienced very deeply and it totally transformed my life to a very higher level! I had told in the pervious chapter that we need to nurture ourselves with positive thoughts. Lately, I realised there is one more aspect to it, and that is to be completely at peace with and also beautify your past and present.

Past

All this time, I’ve been only thinking about living my dream that I didn’t realise that I first need to be in complete harmony with my past. Until my mom pointed out that I am only carrying the negative parts of my past instead of being grateful for that very past which has lead me here and made me what I am now… That moment entirely changed the way I looked at my past…just like that…I feel so lucky for everything that happened in my life. It is a heavenly feeling!

Present

Thomas Troward said to look for beauty all around you.

When I first listened to it, I thought I did know what he was speaking about. But now, after seeing the beauty IN EVERYTHING around me, I realised, I actually didn’t have any idea of the depth that one statement had!

Before, I had so many things I didn’t like but now almost everything around me is lovely. Let it be the building, sun, friends, traffic, being late, dust, insects, scolding, loneliness, walking up hill, everything has some fun in it! I just feel so happy!!!

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!!!