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The Link Up: The Documentary Emily Was Deeply Affected By, Arlyn’s Helpful Fiber Chart, And A Dress You’ll Wear All Spring And Summer

Happy Sunday, everyone. Some big shoots have been happening that you’ll get to see with your own eyes in the next few weeks. We promise you’re going to love them! This is also our last week with Em until she embarks on her spring break adventure so it’s going to be a busy one:) So take a few minutes to relax with us before it’s pedal to the metal time. Let’s link!

This week’s house tour is just the definition of cool elegance. The mix of seating, the color palette, the way the art is hung. It’s a must see!

From Emily: A show to binge – unsettling, sad, disturbing, but well done. As you know, I’m a former Mormon and also an influencer but that’s where my commonalities end with Ruby Franke – the YouTube mom who destroyed her family, abused her children, and really shocked the world. The 3-part Hulu documentary recently dropped with 1000s of hours of unseen footage and interviews from her husband and two oldest children. Like all moms (or humans) I have such intense compassion for these kids… Listen, there are dark underbellies to all things, and I don’t think this is a specifically Mormon story but I get extra creeped out when I see things in people that I see in myself and then they end up doing what she did. It, of course, made me wonder if I’ve ever exploited our kids for my career (I really don’t think I have and they BEG to be featured more which I don’t). But the whole “striving to be the perfect mom” thing, I fear is Mormon cultural conditioning and something that I need to watch more closely in myself… Anyway, watch the show if this piques your interest. It’s 3 hours and fascinating (and seems as though the family members involved really wanted to do it to help tell their side of the story).

From Marlee: A recent read that I truly have not been able to stop thinking about is I Who Have Never Known Men by Jacqueline Harpman – it follows an anonymous narrator who has been raised in an underground prison along with 39 other women – they have no measurement of time and don’t know how they got there. The 39 women remember their lives before their mysterious imprisonment, but our younger narrator’s knowledge of the world (and of herself) is only shaped by what she has learned from the other women. It sounds bleak – and it is – but it’s haunting in the “I’m never going to forget this” type of way. It’s dystopian and a little sci-fi, discusses womanhood, friendship, love and death, and is deeply introspective and thought provoking. It’s a short read (200ish pages) and packs a major punch. It’s one of those books where you go in expecting one thing and it turns out to be something else that you didn’t necessarily want but you’re not mad about it? That’s how I felt at least. If anyone has read this and has similar book recommendations please let me know because I’m itching to feel this way again!

From Mallory: I (luckily) escaped the LA rain last week and ventured over to Hawaii for the trip of a lifetime!! Before I left I found a Nordstrom giftcard in my wallet and snagged this insanely gorgeous dress that’s perfect for any spring break trip you may have coming up (and if you’re in a time crunch you can order online and pick it up like I did FYI). I felt like a princess walking around in this bad boy – it’s very high quality and has the cutest drop waist but doesn’t lay super tight which was ideal after mai tais from Monkeypod (which I just found out are the most delicious mai tais ever if you happen to be traveling to Maui – go there). Anyway, shoutout to Farm Rio for always nailing fun resort wear and cool patterns – and shoutout Caitlin for showing me the brand years ago!

From Gretchen: If you saw Jess’ post a few days ago, outdoor spaces are on the mind–and on mine too. I have a small deck attached to my place, roughly 10ft by 10ft, and I am slowly but surely getting it ready to enjoy this summer. Soon I’ll be inheriting a few gently used outdoor furniture pieces and I’ve been on the lookout for some additional decor pieces to bring it all together. The main problem is my deck isn’t looking the prettiest at the moment–the railings are grungy from the rain and the decking is a little worse for wear. I stopped into World Market to do some prop shopping for a shoot we had and found myself checking out their outdoor rug selection. I was pretty impressed! I’m still pulling together my moodboards for my outdoor space, but I’m really leaning toward this rug. I like that it’s fairly affordable and even more so that it’s reversible, so I can spread out the wear or change up the feel of the space. It looks like a rug I’d keep inside, which is also important because I have french doors that connect my deck to my living room and I’d like the spaces to feel fairly cohesive. But I was also eyeballing this green rug, because I do feel like some color out there could be nice (and it’s about $50 cheaper), but I’m not sure if the pattern is too much for me. We’ll see. Both are on my rug ‘yes’ list for now until the furniture is in place and I can get a better idea of what will look best!

From Jess: In case any of you are Summer House watchers, I am a huge fan of Amanda’s current style. To me, she’s the epitome of the effortless cool girl. I want to dress like her when I grow up even though I’m older:) So it was very exciting when she announced her second capsule collection with Otra Eyewear. I’m so happy for her and the sunglasses are, of course, extremely cool. I really love these.

From Caitlin: I’m a few weeks late, but I really enjoyed this piece in the New Yorker on the democrat-driven housing shortages in our major cities. In our attempt to safely regulate the construction industry over the past several decades, we made it nearly impossible to build at all – it’s a glaring policy failure that contributed to the mess we’re in now. I’m a major YIMBY type (and a card-carrying member of the Congress for the New Urbanism, to boot!) and am really heartened that folks on both sides of the aisle are leaning into pro-housing, pro-building policies – I genuinely believe the world will be better when we’re not spending a majority of our income on shelter. (If you’re interested in learning more on this topic, Ezra Klein’s new book Abundance drops this week.)

From Arlyn: Remember that time I wrote about fiber and almost the entire comment section of the Link Up was about fiber? (It was like two weeks ago haha). Well, I forgot I meant to share the Mott Fiber Chart I got from my dietician that has been so helpful for me! It’s nowhere near complete—I wish it better compared things like black beans vs. pinto beans (which are a fiber powerhouse, FYI)—but it’s been a useful tool for me and maybe it will be for you! Happy fibering.

Thank you for stopping by and see y’all tomorrow. xx

Opening Image Credits: Photo by Kaitlin Green | From: Another Design Box Checked – The Kids’ Bath Wallpaper Reveal!

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Published on March 16, 2025 01:00

The Best New Spring Denim I’m Really Really Into (And Everything Is Comfortable)

I didn’t set out to buy new denim when I went shopping – heck, I don’t LOVE wearing restricting clothes at all (a covid holdover), but I loved some of what I found so much, in a refreshing way – like denim, but dare I say special? Also, if you haven’t checked out the spring basics post, there are shorts and jeans in that post (that are just great staples), but this one is more head to toe denim (with a few matching sets I’m obsessed with). Let’s dig into it.

Blouse (size small) | Long Shorts (size 27) | Belt | Clogs

Hands down my favorite “shirt of the summer” (tied with this one from the Gap – both so good). I’ve worn it so many times since I got it because it’s both casual and stylish (versus a denim button-up that mostly reads as casual). I also love the one I’m wearing in the opener for a more western inspired button-up (that is super affordable). Now the shorts I think are more on trend and stylish than my shorty shorts that I typically wear. I bought them (and modeled them) for those of you who don’t LOVE wearing short shorts, because they are really good. They flare in a good way and that cuff is strong and cool. They aren’t the trendy “bermuda shorts” that were in last year, they are more flattering and yet still long. I added the belt to make it look pulled together (which worked!).

Bandana | Dress (size small) | Sandals

Now, this denim dress is a real affordable winner, clocking in on sale at $29.99. So easy to throw on, dress up, dress down, light weight, cute, flattering, comfortable, not body-con – all the things I like in a spring/summer daytime dress. The sandals I bought last year, and they are the most wearable around town heels that I own (like I wouldn’t go out for an intentional long walk in them, but heels that you can wear all day, out and about, walking for hours and be super comfortable).

Button Up Shirt (size small) | “Denim” Sweatpants (size 27) | Sandals

This is the other button-up that felt worth having (love the little western pockets and so affordable). It’s a bit thicker (less drapey) so good for more structure or to wear as a shacket. But the real reason we are here is to talk about the famous SWEATPANT JEANS!! Yes, these are the Rag & Bone, printed jeans that are actually sweats. My review of them is “darn incredible” because they are obviously incredibly comfortable. They look “real” (even the backpockets are printed). Now, I get why they are expensive ($238) as I’m sure they had to perfect and have the perfect printing ink and technique to look so real, but I ended up returning because I mostly work from home (where I can wear more affordable, comfortable clothes). Plus, if I am to leave the house and want to look cute I’d opt for actual jeans. But for people who have to leave the house daily to look presentable and still want to be super comfortable, these are 9/10 (again, missing a point because so $$$). If you want SUPER soft and comfortable but not seatpants and not $238, I bought and kept these Dean jeans from Madewell, which are not printed, but just somehow soft, a bit drapy and extremely comfortable. Like I would wear them on a plane kind of comfortable (always baffled by people who wear hard pants on a plane, TBH).

Bandana | Gold Necklace | Jumpsuit (size small) | Sneakers

I’ve been wearing this on repeat since I got them – IMHO the easiest to wear denim jumpsuit I’ve owned – not trying to be all hour-glassy and therefore uncomfortable after lunch, but has a slim enough leg that you aren’t just one big box. I like the short sleeves and the tapered leg, and it’s mid-weight so it falls nicely, isn’t too constricting or thick and is just so darn easy to wear. Plus, huge pockets for your phone, etc – I literally throw this on when I want to look stylish but still need to work (i.e. on set, styling, shopping, etc).

Gold Necklace | Top (size extra small) | Skirt (size 4) | Heels

Well this was a surprise – both from H&M and super affordable and so darn cute! Granted I like wearing boxy tops and tiny skirts, so this isn’t for everyone, but this is in my “spring date night” arsenal for sure. The sandals are Korkease (so very comfortable for heels).

Denim Shirt (size extra small) | Long Skirt (size 26) | Boots

I LOVED this outfit – it’s more of a city look for sure, but I’m so excited to have it as a go-to for when I go to New York for meetings where I want to look cool, be comfortable, make a statement, but not stress. It’s oversized but there are so many times where we all just want to look cool but don’t necessarily let people see our bodies, and this checks the box for me. Also, that dark wash is super in (with the silver buttons and contrasting stitching). LOVE THIS LOOK.

Denim Dress (size 4) | Clogs

This last one that I’ve become super obsessed with is this denim dress that looks like a shirt and skirt!!! But it’s a dress!! Finally a non-body-con denim dress that is so flattering. I think a belt would even make this outfit look better. Cute with sneakers or sandals, great with clogs – just a nice “I’m casual, comfortable but still cool” outfit but with just one piece of clothing. HUGE FAN.

*Photos by Kaitlin Green

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Published on March 15, 2025 01:00

The Official (Mostly Affordable) EHD 2025 Outdoor Furniture Roundup

While it’s not “warm” in most places, yet (in the US at least), it is on its way, meaning our outdoor spaces are going to be calling our names sooner than we think. And if you are someone who needs either a new piece of furniture or an entire set, this post is here to help. Now, I say this anytime I write about outdoor furniture…it’s not cheap stuff. So while it’s always a bit shocking, outdoor furniture does have to hold up to the elements (ideally), making the price tags a little more justified (?). But remember that as much as we wish outdoor furniture was a “set it and forget it” category, you do have to protect those cushions, cover that furniture, etc, to keep things nice season after season. I really did my best finding pieces that looked great and that, based on the market, were on the affordable side, which is, as always, relative. This post was also really hard to put together this year because there were SO many great and beautiful options, but also lots of them were very pricey. I did sprinkle in some of the higher priced pieces because I simply couldn’t help myself. Y’all at least needed to see them:) Let’s jump right in, shall we?

Seating is such an important part of relaxing in an outdoor area, and if you have the space for a sofa these six are pretty great options. I think that #4 is SUCH a great find for that price and while cream cushions may make some people nervous, you can buy a cover for $65. Done! #3 and #5 are the high rollers of the group but my oh my are they pretty beautiful. I love that you can see the straps on the front of #5. But if you have a more mid-range budget (and light cushions aren’t your preference) #1 and #6 are really amazing choices.

photo by kaitlin green | from: river house patio reveal – the case for the “matching set”

But maybe you need (or want) a sectional! We have used #3 in two projects (Bowser’s and the River House) and everyone loves them. I got the sofa version of #5 and it was real simple to put together myself, and I love love the cushion color so much. Perfect for someone who doesn’t want a really light cushion color but also doesn’t want to go too dark. Big fan if you have the budget. However, wanting a sectional doesn’t mean you need a huge space, #4 and # are ideal for a small outdoor area.

If you have (or are getting) a sofa or sectional, you’ll likely need a coffee table, right? Where else shall you put your charcuterie board and fine wine? Or you know, a bowl of chips and some ice cold White Claws:) Both pairing sounds pretty dreamy to me. But back to coffee tables! I think this is a perfect place to have a little style fun that feels less like a big risk. All six of these have a good amount of personality, but all say something different stylistically. The traditional modern twists of #3 and #4 are so good (FYI #3 is a small one so great for a small space or you could double up!). I was shocked and delighted by the price of #6. It’s so pretty and claims excellent durability. And if you have the budget, #5 is insanely cool and could easily be an indoor coffee table too. You can’t go wrong with this group.

photo by kaitlin green | from: farmhouse soake pool reveal

1. Costa Black Metal Outdoor Sun Lounger | 2. Saeon Outdoor Acacia Chaise Lounge Set (Set of 2) | 3. Monterey Outdoor Teak Chaise Lounge | 4. Laholm Outdoor Chaise Lounge | 5. Alvah Outdoor Eucalyptus Chaise Lounge | 6. Everlee Outdoor Powder Coated Aluminum Chaise Lounge Set (Set of 2)

If you have the space, an outdoor chaise lounge is THE BEST. You will not regret it. Even on my weird super skinny balcony, you bet I found a chaise lounge that fit. It’s a bed for the outside, what’s not to love? I’m pretty partial to the adjustable back so that’s what all of these have (mine doesn’t and I really wish it did). I want lounge height options (I’m an options gal, can you tell?). Of course, I’m drooling over #1 and #3 for different reasons but for the price and flair, #5 is hard to beat. The shape of #6 is so cool and #4 is from Article so it’s both beautiful and undoubtedly comfortable (I have yet to experience anything from Article that has been so comfy to sit on and it’s been a lot of pieces).

design and photo by sara ligorria-tramp | styled by emily bowser | from: this yard makeover only took 3 weeks, some elbow grease, and a new (very good) seating area

Of course we can’t forget a great lounge chair. Perfect for a conversation area, around a fire pit, etc. #1, #3, and #6 are huge bangs for your buck and are all different styles so there’s something for everyone! I have sat and didn’t want to get up from #3 (actually got to watch a movie sitting in it). I love the color and modern curvy shape of #4 (it also comes in a deep red). And who doesn’t love a good egg chair (especially if it fits two)?

1. Menades Cantilever Outdoor Umbrella | 2. Easy Open Ivory Outdoor Cantilever Umbrella | 3. Square Canvas White Sand Sunbrella® Cantilever Outdoor Patio Umbrella

Yesterday, as I was prepping this post, I had a conversation with my best friend about outdoor umbrellas. The house she and her husband bought came with one, which was of course nice, but stylistically isn’t what she ultimately wants. And like any normal afternoon conversation amongst best friends, I asked her what she wanted out of an outdoor umbrella/what did and didn’t work about the one they have? She loves that it’s a cantilever since her sweet but active little boy is constantly moving around the backyard playing. Plus, this little munchkin (along with this mother) has sensitive pale skin. So having an umbrella that can easily move with the sun is key. What she hates about her current one is the big chunky plastic base, which I very much get and would feel the same. Oh, and she doesn’t want to spend a million dollars…which I also very much get. So I tried to find a few options that fit the bill (mostly). #1 is awesome because of the wheel on the base and I love the wood accent. The price is right with #2 and while it’s harder to move, that base is way less intense than the average affordable option. Then #3, the most expensive, is honestly just so pretty. I love the “wood” stand and base so much. I know they are all white canopies but #2 has some darker shades if that’s your preference!

design by jess bunge | styled by emily bowser | photo by sara ligorria-tramp | from: jess’ communal patio reveal

1. Natalie Sunbrella® Outdoor Umbrella | 2. Steel and Aluminum Market Crank and Tilt Outdoor Patio Umbrella | 3. Business & Pleasure Co. Market Umbrella

For those of you who prefer or only need a market style umbrella, I’ve got you too. Now, #1 and #2 do tilt so they do have a little more functionality. Both have those classic stripes we love and those prices are pretty great! Of course you do need to buy a stand but I’ve got you covered in the next section. Then while pricey, #3 is pretty special. The trim is actually a dark blue but comes in other, brighter, colorways. Honestly, Business & Pleasure has a ton of really fun and colorful options if that’s more your style.

Ah yes, the necessary stands. You can go super simple with ones like #3 and #5 (this one has wheels:)) or have one that’s got a little more something happening like #4 and #6. But if you aren’t using it in the middle of your dining table, I love these umbrella side tables like #1 and #2. #2 is brand new and part of the incredible new collection that Jake Arnold just did with Crate and Barrel. Go check it out!

photo by kaitlin green | from: farmhouse back deck reveal

1. The Townsend Wood and Stone Outdoor Dining Table | 2. Spector Extendable Rectangular Outdoor Dining Table | 3. Alyisa Extendable Rectangular Eucalyptus Outdoor Dining Table | 4. NÄMMARÖ | 5. Vikesha Rectangular Outdoor Dining Table | 6. Savio Oval Light Brown Eucalyptus Outdoor Dining Table

Speaking of Jake Arnold’s new collection, when I saw that dining table (#1) my jaw dropped TO THE FLOOR. Please, someone get it (if you need a table) and invite me over. I promise I’ll be a delight and if all else fails I’ll bring a great bottle of wine. But a $4,000 is not a super doable purchase for a lot of us, which is why there are five other great options:) If you want to go simple but classic, #3 and #4 are perfect. #3 can seat up to 10 people when fully extended! #2 is also extendable and real chic.

design by jess bunge | photo by sara ligorria-tramp | from: jess’ long and skinny balcony reveal

I had to make sure I looked out for the small space dwellers like myself and find some pretty bistro tables. #5 is a real beaut and right up my alley but less affordable. #1 and #6 are awesome modern options that also feel special:) #4 is pretty small which is great if you only need something little but pretty (and under $100?!).

1. Farrah Outdoor Stacking Dining Side Chair (Set of 2) | 2. Outdoor Dining Side Chair (Set of 2) | 3. Sydney Outdoor Stacking Dining Chair (Set of 2) | 4. Melrose Teak Outdoor Dining Side Chair with Cushion (Set of 2) | 5.
Sierra Outdoor Dining Chair Set (Set of 6) | 6. Oceana Outdoor Stacking Dining Chair (Set of 2)

And finally we’ve come to the end, the dining chairs. I’ll never not love the shape of #2, and for that price, I would be so tempted if I needed a set. For an ever better price tag, #1 is a total classic and comes in other colors! And if you like a little color, I really love #6. It’s such a cool chair. But I get if you want to keep things neutral, like #3 and #4, they are happy and bright and will go with anything. If you have a bigger table and love a cushion, #5 has a ton of visual texture that I love. It’s a set of 6, y’all!

Ok, this is where I leave and hope this post was helpful if you are in need of some new pieces. If anyone has any other recs, put them in the comments!

Love you, mean it.

Opening Image Credits: Photo by Kailtin Green | From: Our Outdoor Living Room + Firepit Area Is The Sleeper Hit Of Our 2024 Summer

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Published on March 14, 2025 01:00

Backyard Updates: Plants, Plans, Big Trees And Bigger Gazebos

Very exciting stuff is happening in the “backyard” right now as we entered phase two of landscape construction (that we put off for a couple of years to save and learn). The main goals of this phase were outlined in this blog post, but essentially it was reducing the size of the sports court (for more green/usable space) and adding an outdoor kitchen/bbq area under a covered gazebo. It’s a LOT, but it’s going so well and FAST! And I’m grateful to be able to give you all an update today.

We hired Dennis’ 7 Dees for this phase of the landscape design – we were so nervous to jackhammer up the sports court without cracking the rest of it and they put my mind at ease. Eric (one of their head designers) then came up with a hardscape and plant plan that would incorporate a couple park-like seating areas (picnic tables) surrounded by shrubs (more evergreen than we have now).

Essentially we added more variegated bluestone flagstone that meanders into two landing pads for picnic tables. We have so many families over for backyard hangs (think frat house for families) so we needed more places to hang, but not in a formal way. I can not tell you how much better it looks every single time I look outside. I’m THRILLED. Also, massive shout out to Dennis 7 Dees – their speed, communication and professionalism have been incredible. Granted they were able to put two crews on this job (benefit of a February install when they are a bit less busy) but they were done with most of the work in a little over two weeks (we aren’t fully done yet, but waiting for warmer weather to plant the clover field and then it has to grow in). These photos were taken last week, and they literally planted everything the next day. Then added the irrigation and lighting.

What We’re Planting

This time around my direction was 70% hearty evergreens – while I love a lot of what we have around the house (beautiful perennials), in the winter months it’s all super cut back (which is fine because it’s incredible in spring – early fall). But I wanted more winter happiness. So Eric chose all the plants from Monrovia (super high quality plants, locally grown, etc) and we have a mix of evergreens and showier spring/summer (including some really hearty hydrangea that like the sun).

For those interested, I’ll do a plant post once the final list is in (they are still adding more to another area around the pool and tweaking some of these per our opinions).

Brian and I are mostly just trusting Eric and the Dennis 7 Dees crews – they know Oregon, they know what will thrive in different seasons here, and while I love certain plants so much I don’t want my opinion to sway what will actually thrive here. Again, in the past I’ve been pickier about wanting what I love, but this time I really just gave all my trust. They’ll also be doing the maintenance, so I feel in very good hands that if something doesn’t work or thrive we have easy communication to switch it out.

Eric did take inspiration from what we have around the house that is more evergreen and implemented them here (under the trees, should they need less sun). We always like a mix of lighter and darker greens (sometimes dark greens can read as brown in the winter IMHO) and then I love deep warm pinks and purples (like not purple purple, but more aubergines) and always white flowers. I’m really open to learning so that when we start tackling some other areas, I can do it more myself and just repeat what is really working here.

I just can’t say enough thanks to Eric and the Dennis 7 Dees crew – just solidly impressed with the entire process – with big emphasis on the incredible communication, professionalism, and speed. If you haven’t hired a landscape team before it’s similar to interior design in the sense that you won’t believe how much time and labor (and therefore budget) it takes to execute well, so IF you are in Portland and looking for a solid team for your landscape overhaul I HIGHLY recommend them. When it comes to the big stuff like hardscape, irrigation, lighting – there was simply NO WAY I could just cobble it together, so having them manage the whole project was an absolute dream.

Big Trees Today… Literally…

With the addition of the picnic tables we needed more shade – and as you know I love trees more than anything. Two years ago we bought from Big Trees Today and we loved them all – they grow mature trees in Oregon, then they come and plant for you and guarantee the health of the tree for a year (assuming you sign their watering contract).

We ordered, and they planted, 3 Katsuras that were 3 1/2 caliper (so a larger size trunk than a newborn) and about 18′ tall. Essentially we are paying for 5 years of growth, putting in more teenagers than babies. They were about $2,500 each (including planting) which is a lot, but also remember that they grow them for years on their property and take care of them, plant them for you, etc. I think if you are looking at your yard and wish you had a big tree, this is a way to transform it all very quickly (They have many that are $1k – $1,200, too – not as big but still much bigger than the $100 tree that you’ll get at a nursery).

Gazebo Update

This is very exciting. I hired my brother’s new company (shout out to Nick and Ken at Afore Construction & Consulting) to do our gazebo. We wanted/needed a covered BBQ area (not because Oregonians BBQ in the rain that much – although we do grill food a lot even in the winter, but mostly to protect everything from elements and provide shade (which is why we chose a gazebo over a pergola). Now, we originally wanted a smaller footprint, but like all things, once we really played everything out, how we were going to use the space, we made it go all the way to the sports court so that we could seat people along a bar comfortably. But yah, she’s big! Don’t worry – it will be painted white to match and we have some very cute corbels and string lights to add charm.

Of course gazebos don’t just go up in one day – they have to excavate, put in footings (pour concrete), posts, then the big beams, tongue and groove ceiling, roofing, electrical, plumbing and gas. Then paint the gazebo and stain the deck. It’s a whole thing! They are almost done now and should be good to go by Easter. Wahoo!

Next Steps… The Kitchen

We ordered our RTA kitchen (Ready To Assemble, super solid weatherproof cement construction) and the whole installation should happen in a couple of weeks. I’ll be doing a full blog post about the outdoor kitchen and specifically RTA soon (we pitched and partnered), but we are so excited about it all. We are really investing in long term materials, withstanding a lot of wear and tear and rain. All in all, we feel in very very good hands. Between Dennis’ 7 Dees (design, execution and, maintenance), Afore Construction (gazebo), Big trees Today (the big trees :)) and RTA (outdoor grill/kitchen) we are solid and I’ve never felt so taken care of (I’m not just saying that, it’s been absolutely seamless with everyone).

It looks so incredible already now that it’s all planted and sure they are little, but just not having that hulking sports court (ie, cement parking lot) makes me soooo happy. Oh, and you bet we are going to finally resurface the pickle ball court – just need a 5 day break in the rain

*Photos by Kaitlin Green

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Published on March 13, 2025 01:00

Looking For Alternatives to Amazon and Target? Here Are Some That Might Better Align With Your Values

There’s been a ton of chatter in the first few months of 2025 regarding companies either leaning into or pulling away from their diversity, equity and inclusion programs—or DEI—that have been in place at the very least since 2020, but in some cases decades. There have been boycotts both ways, and while there is so much to get into about this specific topic, it’s also quite the mine field that I’m not necessarily an expert in. However, I am quite literally an expert in shopping, and as a woman of color married to a Black man, who also had a brother with severe disabilities, DEI from a purchasing perspective hits very close to home for me.

And look, Amazon has long held a reputation for “these people are crap, don’t shop here” and admittedly, I kept shopping there. It was SO EASY to just pick up my phone, click a few buttons, and boom, whatever I bought was on my doorstep sometimes as soon as later that same day. As a working mother of a young child, it’s hard to beat that level of convenience. But to what end?

Then came Target. Boy did that one hurt. Target has long been “the good one” in terms of big box stores. I haven’t shopped at a Walmart in maybe as long as a decade, but Target, I felt mostly good about that one. They felt like a pillar of their community, but their roll back of their DEI programs really got me, and I haven’t shopped there since the end of January. It’s been really freaking hard, and not to mention inconvenient because in a world where most people shop online (at these very places), it can be hard trying to find what you need NOT at places like Target or Amazon (please, someone tell me where to buy a flat outlet extender cord PLEASE!).

And to top off the complexity of it all, I’ve also heard the argument lately that boycotting stores with DEI rollbacks only hurts the workers. Or in the case of Amazon, boycotting them isn’t going to screw Amazon, but rather the small storefronts selling their goods on the mega marketplace. Yes, I could see that, but I wasn’t sure what to do. I remembered that my husband’s cousin, Monique Little, is the founder and CEO of hair accessories company YGN (You Go Natural) that sold through Target, so I wanted to get her perspective as both a Black woman and a company owner directly affected by this. Here’s what she said:

“We actually lost our contract with Target in the midst of the DEI stuff. We were definitely hitting our sales targets, but did have some trouble shipping toward the end of last year. We had a 2025 PO [purchase order] but it was pulled right before the DEI announcement. My guess is since there was no DEI initiative there to support it, they had no reason not to pull the order.” Well…that freaking sucks.

She adds: “Honestly, it depends what your individual stomach is for causing selective pain to brands in support of the greater good. For some, those large contracts are all they have and to lose them as a result of the political climate could mean immediate loss to small business owners and their employees. If the goal is simply to support BIPOC brands (as opposed to making a larger statement about DEI), I’d say go ahead and make targeted purchases within the stores to support them.” Better yet? Buy directly from the brands if they offer that, though keep in mind that some do not, and their products in places like Target and Amazon are their only line of revenue.

That said, if you’re looking for places to spend your dollars that are aligned with values that support diversity, equity, inclusion and just a general sense of “better,” I found 17 places to do just that.

One caveat I want to include before continuing with the list. When I say “better”, I realize that’s going to be different for everyone. Today’s post is solely focused on diversity, equity, and inclusion (with two sort-of exemptions). Companies are complex, and everyone’s threshold for their own social justice leanings and political preferences are different. Almost no brand or company is perfect by any means (if you know of one, please let us all know). The best answer for “Everywhere sucks now, where should I spend my money” may look one way to me, but another to you. Local mom-and-pops are great, but how much do you know about the owners? Second-hand and vintage purchasing is awesome from an eco-conscious perspective, but what if the person you’re buying from doesn’t align with your values? You’ll likely never know any of this. All of that to say, it’s not so straight-forward. But it’s in my heart right now to spend my money on products that don’t directly support something that goes against my very person. “Don’t shop where they wouldn’t hire you,” I often hear.

Okay, let’s go:

Cleaning & General Home Goods

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Blueland: Blueland sells earth-friendly and nearly plastic-free cleaning products with a focus on sustainable and concentrated refills rather than adding constant empty bottles to the landfill. In terms of diversity, I found on their site that this B Corp proactively supports and spends with Black-owned businesses and brand partners, gives each of their team members paid time off for political and civic engagement, and makes diversity a priority in every hiring decision.

Public Goods: I have a membership to Public Goods and even I forgot how much they offer. It’s all white-labeled “generic” stuff, but it’s all very good. Plus, the prices are really fair (and members get 20% off, on top of that). You’ll find cleaning stuff, kitchen and dining goods (I have these cutting boards and love them), home products such as bedding and bath and even planters, beauty products, pantry staples and coffee. It’s awesome. Also awesome? Their dedication to sustainability and thoughtful consumption. I couldn’t find anything in my research specifically about their DEI impact (which sucks), but at the very least, I wanted to present them as an option for everything else they stand for.

Grove Collaborative: Another site that I need to add to my bookmarks for more regular shopping because they’re fantastic not just from an environmental impact perspective but also for their dedication to social impact. They have cleaning supplies and essentials, personal care products, vitamins, even things for babies like diapers and bathing products. A certified B Corp, Grove Collaborative provides grants for increased diversity, equity, and anti-racism initiatives led by their “Diversity & Inclusion squad.” Most of the information I could find on them dated back to 2020, but I haven’t read anything since about rollbacks on their commitments.

Food & Snacks

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Thrive Market: If you tend toward fulfilling pantry staples and snacks from Amazon, Thrive Market might just be up your alley if you’re looking for a better alternative (bonus points if you prefer organic and non-GMO). In terms of inclusion, Thrive has established employee groups like the Black Thriver Union, which aims at offering a safe space for BIPOC employees and allies to engage. They also have a partnership with the Pride Pantry to support food equality within the LGBTQIA+ community and beyond.

Imperfect Foods: I know it feels like literally everything is a monthly subscription these days, but I was always happy with my Imperfect Foods box when I got it. Their pricing was great, and I felt good about saving hundreds of millions of pounds of food from waste because they were less than perfect (hence, not deemed sellable by grocery stores). I also feel good about supporting their “Grow With Us” program via my dollars, which addresses racial discrepancies between leadership teams and hourly associates. It promotes career growth and development opportunities within Imperfect Foods by offering a clear pathway for upward mobility within teams and even across departments.

Of course, supporting your local farmer’s market and any local farmer produce boxes as well as locally owned grocery stores puts the power in your hand to directly impact the people you want to support!

Books & Audiobooks

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Barnes & Noble: Good ol’ Barnes & Noble. While they may have ignored my application to work there in college, I won’t hold a grudge any longer as they’re doing things right. A few years ago, they partnered with Billie Jean King Enterprises, which works with organizations to improve diversity, equity, inclusion, and belonging. They also support independent bookstores by carrying independent books, books from small presses, university presses, and independent publishers, and by publishing independent books that allow independent authors to publish and gain access to online promotional opportunities.

Better World Books: Admittedly, I couldn’t find any specific information about the DEI efforts of Better World Books, but this B Corp is an amazing site to purchase new and used books that you can feel really good about. Every purchase you make from them directly contributes to donating books to hundreds of non-profit organizations. So far, they’ve been able to donate 38 MILLION books!

Libro.fm: I can’t believe I’m only just now finding Libro.fm, because it’s such a wonderful concept. Essentially, Libro.fm shares profits from your audiobook purchases (either a la cart or with one of their subscription models) with the local bookstore of your choice! It’s the convenience of a digital storefront and experience, but gives you the power to keep your money in your local economy. Plus, it’s 100% employee owned.

Bookshop.org: Another B Corp (of which DEI is central to achieving), Bookshop is very similar to Libro where you get the choice of a local bookstore to support with your purchase, but with tons of physical books and e-books, as well (as opposed to just audio books). Their platform gives independent bookstores tools to compete online and financial support to help them maintain their presence in local communities.

Furniture & Decor

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Wayfair: I have to be honest. I didn’t know much about Wayfair as a corporation until recently. As in, I’ve shopped there plenty of times, sing their jingles in my head nearly daily, but had no clue about their corporate commitments and efforts. It’s a good sign when they list out their DEI efforts first in their list of impacts, meaning they aren’t trying to hide anything. They also have their Wayfair Neighborhood Fund (according to their site, “a donor-advised fund sponsored by a national donor-advised fund program”) which was launched in 2023 to advance their social impact efforts for recommending grants to nonprofits focused on housing.

Uncommon Goods: I remember Uncommon Goods from around 15 years ago when it was a place to go for weird, off-beat things. But since then, it’s become a store to shop with yes, some weird and off-beat things, but plenty of other things for home, gifts, and life. They’re a certified B Corp, and have a Planet, People, Profit guiding light (in that order). Their website states that their starting pay for hourly team members is more than double the federal minimum wage, and have championed paid family leave in New York State where they are based, and will continue to fight the good fight in other states, as well.

Goodee: Goodee and Amazon may not be exactly synonymous but that doesn’t make it worthy of this list. We’ve written about Goodee a few times. It’s a highly curated marketplace where all the makers align on their environmental efforts and social impact. They’re mission is to create change by championing community, transparency, and sustainability from both their creators and consumers.

Etsy: Amazon may have the edge on fast and free shipping (duh), but Etsy takes it on artisanship. I don’t have to do much of an introduction here, because we all know Etsy, but on a corporate level, you can really feel good about supporting them. For instance, they’re working to achieve a Net Zero goal by 2040, and in the meantime, support carbon offsetting programs. They also have partnered with a company called EcoEnclose, which brings sellers packaging made from 100% recycled materials or certified responsibly sourced paper at competitive prices, helping them run more sustainable businesses. I also loved that when doing a quick Google search for Etsy, one of their first sublinks was “Black-Owned Shops”.

And don’t forget to check out Caitlin’s list of her favorite small business home decor shops, too!

Beauty

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Credo Beauty: We’ve written about Credo a handful of times on the blog over the years, but in case you aren’t familiar, it’s essentially like a Sephora but for only clean beauty vetted to a high standard. It’s great, so the next time you’re faced with a drawer full of empties and need makeup, skincare, haircare, and beyond, be sure to check them out. From an impact POV, Credo has an amazing annual accelerator workshop called Credo for Change which aims to empower college students who self-identify as historically underrepresented in the beauty industry, such as Black, Latino, Hispanic, Asian, and Indigenous individuals. From their site: “Our goal is to provide equitable opportunities to all individuals who want to help push our industry forward through clean and sustainable positive impact.”

Ulta Beauty: I’ll admit that Ulta doesn’t give me the same boutique shopping vibes as say, Sephora, but from an online shopping perspective as an alternative to Amazon, it beats out Sephora by also offering plenty of drugstore brands. Plus, Ulta supports True Colors United, a non-profit that helps eradicate homelessness that disproportionately affects the trans and LGBTQIA+ communities, in addition to a slew of other social and diversity-focused impact projects.

Home Improvement

Harbor Freight: I’ve actually read that The Home Depot gets a fairly good rating on their equity and inclusion, but for personal reasons, I tend to shop somewhere else if I can help it. The Harbor Freight that used to be near my previous home closed years ago, but I recently found one near(ish) by and am happy with their Goods Unite Us rating. Like some others here, I couldn’t find much in terms of DEI promises, but again, a good option if you have one near you!

All of the Above

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Costco: Costco has famously leaned into their diversity, equity, and inclusion stance after numerous rollbacks from other big box retailers. Not to mention, they just really take care of their employees. And in general, I’m typically fairly happy with the stuff I buy here, especially their store brand Kirkland Signature. I have towels and sheets that have stood the test of time, which can’t always be said about the ‘zon. I’ll gladly give them my $65 a year for our family membership.

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Please feel free to look up any of these on sites like Goods Unite Us or Opensecrets to see if they fully line up with your personal values. And if you have any other great larger marketplace-type shops that can help me, you and all of us break up with Amazon (or Target, etc.), please share in the comments. Thanks all!

Until next time…

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Published on March 12, 2025 01:00

Looking to Break Up With Amazon (& Target)? Here Are 17 Alternatives That Might Better Align With Your Values