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That One Time Chopper Tried to Slide into my DMs

DISCLAIMER: As a professional I CAN be discreet, and typically that's my default. However if you don't pay, you're not a client. And if you're a rude celebrity, I will publicly SHAME your ass.

So funny story...

This rapper Chopper (you might know him Making the Band 2, or also as one of those rappers that hangs out with Puffy and some other guys you might know) keeps sending me messages. Now you guys know I don't answer messages without tributes, so I ignore them. I actually went to UNFOLLOW this guy for spamming me when I noticed was semi-famous.

Since he had sent me 4 messages I thought maybe he wanted me to model in a music video or something else PROFESSIONAL, so I finally responded.

We have a polite conversation, we talk about our respective hustles, things are polite. I'm a professional, I'll chat if you keep it friendly...

But then he starts to get pushy

I'm like "Thanks bro, but I'm here for cash." but he doesn't seem to get that.

Now at this point this is like the equvalent of going to a strip club, and then expecting the dancers to give you VIP treatment when you haven't even held up a dollar bill, because you're a "famous" rapper.

So basically, you're like all the other losers who want my attention, follow me on twitter, obsess over my photos, but unlike losers who actually get my attention, CHOPPER just wasted my sweet ass time.

Just a friendly reminder that Mistress Harley doesn't care if you drive a Bentley, have the biggest bling, or are a "famous" person. Mistress only cares about what value YOU can provide.

A Sissy Begs to Be Feminized

Introduction:

What follows below is an assignment I gave one of my slaves. I enjoy giving writing assignments because they allow me a unique insight into my slave's state of mind and thought process. It also helps that I make them admit some of the most humiliating things about themselves, and so many boys hate writing! Hahah! Enjoy, I particularly like the bit at the end where he begs to be feminized.

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I am in no terms a man. I have been attempting to act like a man my whole life and have failed at almost every aspect. At parties I stand around with the other guys and listen in as they talk sports or whatever. I am totally uncomfortable and just can't wait till it is over. I have basically have stopped going to any type of get together because of how uncomfortable I get. I am a failure as a man. As far as being able to please a woman, that is a joke I even have to laugh at. Being just less than 3" hard is just pathetic. It has been a while since I have been hard as well. I am in no terms a man.
When I look at women, I envy them. The way they dress, act and present themselves. It is so awesome. If I had been born that way I would have been so much happier and more successful as a person. I know I would have been so much more comfortable at parties and would have loved talking with everyone, I am not sure I would have truly been outgoing and all but I would have enjoyed myself.
Alas, I am neither a man or a women but have come to realize that I am a sissy. I was born to serve women as a slave and someday a feminized sissy. I have always love dressing up in woman's clothes. I have done it since I was a child. I currently have a bigger feminine wardrobe than male. It makes me happy. I have started to enjoy makeup in recent years  I want more and more to be feminized despite the fact I was born to a very conservative family. It is hard to turn my back on how I was raised and makes every change I try to do hard to near impossible. The humiliation is immediate and overwhelming, I could never do it alone. I need a Goddess such as yourself  to guide me and give me strength.
Watching your videos, I have come to terms with my being gay as well. I want so bad to suck a man off and to get fucked as well. You make me want to better myself, humiliate myself, destroy myself, expose myself. Do just about anything for you if it put a smile on your face.
Please Goddess I need to be feminized.

Gift Cards are GIFTS not Payment for Time

Mistress Harley works for money not gifts or giftcards. I will also work for gold, rubies, opals, diamonds, silver, rare art, comic books worth over $1000, cars, boats, planes, platinum, etc. However amazon gift cards are not money and cannot be used to buy anything in the real world. You get you 11 year old niece a gift card, I'm a fucking grown woman with expenses. I cannot pay taxes with gift cards. My lawyer doesn't take fucking amazon and neither do I. I do love gifts, but they aren't a gift if I have to give you my time for them. What the fuck kind of person gives a gift and then wants something? Did your mother not fucking raise you.


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Hypnosis FAQ Hypno Q&A

1. What is hypnosis?
It is a pleasant, voluntary, state of relaxed attentive concentration, an altered state of consciousness, during which the conscious critical mind is relaxed and relatively inactive, and the doorway to the subconscious, inner mind is opened with a person’s permission. In this comfortable state, suggestibility is heightened, mental absorption is increased, the senses are heightened, and the imagination is activated in a controlled manner. The inner mind is more receptive to acceptable, beneficial suggestions. This can be used for any number of sexual or non-sexual purposes.


2. Can a person be hypnotized against his will?
No. You cannot be hypnotized against your will. You must be a willing subject. Your hypnotist must have your full cooperation. Harley’s subjects are all too willing.

3. Will a hypnotized person perform any anti-social, criminal or immoral acts while under Hypnosis?
People who are hypnotized will not do anything in Hypnosis that they would not do in the waking state. This applies as well to sexual acts. Hypnosis is not a master-slave relationship. When you are in hypnosis, you are aware of everything that is going on and you continue to retain your values and morals. For example many of my clients want to be hypnotized into performing homosexual acts. They were gay before I hypnotized them, don’t blame me I’m just here to help cocksuckers.

4. Does a weak-minded person make a better subject than a strong-minded person?
No, but I usually only deal with weak minds. Strength of mind really has little to do with it. Either a weak-minded or strong minded person who resists will make a poor hypnotic subject. On the other hand, a weak or strong-minded person who cooperates will be a good subject. However, because Hypnosis helps a person gain greater control over both mind and body, it can help a person develop a stronger mind. If you stop thinking about cock and actually suck one then you’ll have more time and control in your life when you aren’t sucking cock.

5. What about the idea that Hypnosis can weaken the mind?
Hypnosis does NOT weaken the mind. On the contrary, it helps people use more of their mind’s potential. It helps people access their inner strength. The subconscious mind is protective. Hypnotized people will accept suggestions that are acceptable, and reject suggestions that are not acceptable. Suggestions must be worded in a form and language that the patient’s subconscious can understand. You already want to do what you’re doing you just need help.

6. Will I be asleep?
No. When a person is in Hypnosis, he is not asleep. He or she is very much aware of all that is going on. In actuality, in Hypnosis, one’s senses become heightened and more acute. Of course, if a person is tired, it is possible to fall asleep during hypnosis. However, then, the subject is asleep and no longer in hypnosis. In actuality, when this occurs, the state of sleep is a light but relaxing state of sleep. A simple suggestion to wake up given by the hypnotist is all that is required to rouse up the subject. I don’t get paid for people to sleep

7. Is it possible that a subject could not be brought out of Hypnosis?
No it is not possible. You cannot get stuck in Hypnosis because you do not lose control when you are hypnotized. Hypnosis is a cooperative relationship. When you are hypnotized, you retain full control over your mind and your body. Sometimes, people feel so relaxed and comfortable in Hypnosis that they may wish to remain in that state for a little longer. However, a simple suggestion for awakening (or alerting) is all that is needed to bring a subject back into the Waking State even if the subject has fallen asleep. Additionally, when the hypnotist stops talking, the subject will soon awaken on his own. Most importantly, you can come out of hypnosis any time you want. It’s happened too me, it will happen to you. They are very rare.

8. Will I tell any secrets under hypnosis?
No. Hypnosis is not a truth serum. You retain full control over what you say. Subjects in Hypnosis reveal no secrets in the Hypnotic State that they would not reveal (because they want to) in the Waking State. You are a faggot it’s the truth, we didn’t need a hypno session to know that.
Hypnosis CANNOT be used to find the truth, or make a person tell the truth. Hypnosis is NOT a truth serum.  Hypnosis can help a willing patient get deeper in touch with his deepest and most heartfelt feelings. But feelings are NOT facts. Recollections that come to mind in hypnosis are colored by the patient’s feelings. We use hypnosis to find the truth about how the patient feels about something, NOT the truth about what really happened. The hypnotist or therapist CANNOT make the patient find out, or talk about, how he feels about something, unless the patient feels comfortable and totally safe, and is ready.

9. Can a person in Hypnosis be made to bark like a dog or cluck like a chicken?
No. This is not what happens in Therapeutic or Clinical Hypnosis. On the other hand, volunteers during Stage Hypnosis Show, which is for entertainment purposes only, will typically go along with the Stage Hypnotist’s suggestions as long as it is all in good fun and for entertainment purposes. This is not the context of Clinical Hypnosis. Now bark like a dog.

10. Can a person be made a "slave" to a hypnotist?
No. Hypnosis is not a master-slave relationship or a power relationship. It is not about "zap, you are under my power!" like Svengali type stuff. Hypnosis is a cooperative and collaborative relationship. The subject retains full control and responsibility for his or her actions at all times. This myth comes from old movies and novels such as the old novel "Trilby". You are my slave for other reasons that don’t require mind control.

11. What about the idea that Hypnotized People Behave like Zombies?
Hypnosis is NOT about ZAP you are under my power like Svengali. Hypnosis is a collaborative and cooperative teacher-student relationship. Hypnosis is NOT sleep. When a person is in hypnosis, he is relaxed and aware of his surroundings. He hears the sound of the therapist’s voice and will remember more or less of what the therapist says.
The hypnotized subject or patient is NOT asleep. He is relaxed, comfortable, focused, and in a state of daydream type thinking. His analyzing thinking mind (Conscious mind) is turned off and his feeling and intuitive and creative mind (Subconscious) is aware of everything that is going on. A hypnotized subject cannot be made to do anything he is not willing to do. A person must be a willing and cooperative subject for hypnosis to work. Besides unless you wanted to eat brains you aren’t going to eat brains.

12. Can a person become addicted to Hypnosis, or is it habit forming?
No. A person can resist going into Hypnosis or being hypnotized anytime he or she desires, regardless of how many times he has been hypnotized. Harley is what is so addictive.

13. What is the best age for being hypnotized?
People can be hypnotized at any age. However, on the average, the years between 18 and 60 are a developmental stage when young adults are most fantasy prone and capable of employing that trait to benefit from hypnosis. Nevertheless, men can be helped to solve their problems with the tool of hypnosis as can middle aged and older people.

14. Can an "insane" person be hypnotized?
Persons who are clinically insane are typically out of touch with reality and have difficulty concentrating. The ability to sustain concentration and the ability to follow instructions are necessary prerequisites to being able to be hypnotized. Thus, clinically insane persons can be very difficult subjects. Nevertheless, there are clinical practitioners who specialize in working therapeutically with this population, and some of these practitioners do have the training to use the hypnosis tool effectively and therapeutically in selected cases. Crazy people generally do not pay for online mistress services because it’s difficult to order from me in the first place.

15. Who can be hypnotized?
Anyone who can pay attention and follow instructions can be hypnotized if they want to be. People will vary however, as to the extent or depth to which they can be hypnotized.

16. What about the idea that some people are just not hypnotizable?
Anyone who can daydream can be hypnotized if he is willing. Nobody can be hypnotized against his will. If a person is not willing to cooperate, he cannot be hypnotized. However, the idea that some people are just not hypnotizable is INCORRECT. Some patients may initially have problems with feeling that they may lose control in some unacceptable way. This may lead them to intellectually second guess and over analyze what is going on. Thinking too much will interfere with relaxing enough to enter trance.
Hypnosis is NOT about the hypnotist controlling the patient. It is about the patient gaining more control over himself. Once the patient realizes that experiencing hypnotic trance will (a) help him feel how he wants to feel and do what he wants to do, AND (b) actually give him more control and power than he previously had, he will stop over thinking, let it happen, and become a good subject. Relax faggot.

17. What are the requirements of a good Subject?
They are mainly the desire to be hypnotized and to experience Hypnosis, the ability to concentrate, the willingness to cooperate and follow instructions, and the relative absence of mistrust and fear. Oh, and cash money.

18. Is deep Hypnosis necessary?
For most purposes, deep Hypnosis is not necessary. For most purposes, in a therapeutic setting, a light degree of Hypnosis is all that is necessary for experiencing the therapeutic benefits of Hypnosis. In other words, we typically do not need or aim for Deep Trance. The therapeutic subject (the patient or client) is awake and aware of everything that is going on, but very relaxed.

19. Can "poor" subjects become better subjects?
Most definitely yes. Repeated conditioning can improve the depth of relaxation, concentration and absorption that a patient or client can attain. Also, strong motivation is a plus. A poor subject with a strong desire to benefit from Hypnosis to get relief from a problem can become a very good subject. Additionally, a "poor" subject can become a better subject to the extent that the Hypnotist instills confidence and helps the subject diminish anxiety and fear. All of you can improve isn’t that the point.

20. What is Self Hypnosis?
This is Hypnosis induced by a person by himself without the help of a hypnotist. Some experts say that all Hypnosis is Self Hypnosis since the hypnotist is in actuality not doing anything to the subject, but rather guiding the subject into the hypnotic state of consciousness with the subject’s permission. Because the subject permits it to happen, he is really hypnotizing himself with the assistance of the hypnotist.

21. How can one learn Self Hypnosis?
You can learn Self Hypnosis from a good CD or even a book authored by a competent Hypnosis professional. However, your best bet is to have the experience first of being hypnotized by a qualified Hypnosis professional, and then learn from that hypnotist how to enter the hypnotic state on your own. At that point, tapes (CDs) and books can be very useful aids, guides, and sources of information and inspiration.

22. What are the benefits of Self Hypnosis?
The premier benefit of learning and practicing Self Hypnosis is to initiate and continue the process of positive self-change. The regular use of Self Hypnosis facilitates the continuation of healthy changes in behaviors, feelings, beliefs and attitudes. When you practice Self Hypnosis you enter a state of self relaxation. When you are relaxed, you cannot be uncomfortable or anxious or stressed or in pain. Relaxation is the physical and emotional opposite of these negative feelings. Practicing Self Hypnosis conditions your ability to relax at will. It builds your ability to control your mind and your body. More control is the goal, and with more control, you gain greater ability to control your symptoms. Additionally, when you are in a state of Self Hypnosis you are able to give yourself positive suggestions and use positive imagery for positive self-change.

23. Can anyone learn Self Hypnosis?
Any normally intelligent person who can concentrate and follow instructions, and who is motivated and willing can learn Self Hypnosis.

24. What is Hetero-Hypnosis?
This is Hypnosis wherein one person, the Hypnotist or Hypnotherapist, hypnotizes (induces the Hypnotic State) another person who is the subject or patient (or client). To do this, the Hypnotist uses an appropriate hypnotic induction, which is a method for inducing the state of hypnosis. For many types of problems where Self Hypnosis is taught, the Hypnotist teaches Self Hypnosis to the patient while he or she is in the hypnotic state.

25. What is a hypnotic induction?
It is a method of inducing the hypnotic state. There are numerous ways of inducing hypnosis. Most clinicians who practice hypnosis have their favorites. However, it is important for a clinician to choose an hypnosis induction method that fits the needs of the client or patient. The hypnosis professional gives you carefully worded instructions to follow with the goal of helping you enter a state of deep relaxation and focused attention. This is called the hypnosis induction. For this hypnosis induction to be effective, you must cooperate as an active participant in the process.

26. How does Hypnosis make a person more suggestible?
This occurs first and foremost with the subject’s permission and cooperation. By following the "hypnotist's" instructions, you become more suggestible. When you are in this altered state of increased suggestibility, your mental "clutter" is cleared away so that you can pay attention to the hypnotist's suggestions and be open to experiencing new perspectives and solutions to your problem. In this "hypnotic trance state", you remain aware of everything that is going on, but at the same time, you become increasingly absorbed in using your imagination as directed by the "hypnotist".

27. How does Hypnosis work?
Once the Hypnotic State is induced and the doorway to the Subconscious Mind is opened, with your permission, the competent Hypnotist can provide information, in a language and form that the Subconscious can accept, to help you change the behaviors, feelings and thoughts that you want to change. We utilize the fact that the Subconscious Mind has the ability (actually the tendency) to accept what it imagines as real. This can greatly reduce the felt stress of changing unhealthy habits to healthier habits.

28. What role does the Subconscious Mind play?
The Subconscious part of the mind, or the Inner Mind, controls all of our living functions that keep us alive, as well as all of our automatic behavior patterns. But, the Subconscious is not as easily communicated with as is the Conscious Mind. Information is imprinted in the Subconscious essentially in three ways: through trauma, through repetition, and through the language of Hypnosis. Thus, Hypnosis is the quickest and most efficient way to impress the Subconscious and imprint changes in behaviors, attitudes, beliefs and feelings. The upshot is that making changes in long-standing, core habits (e.g., eating patterns, smoking, emotional reactivity, coping responses) often creates internal discomfort and stress. Old habits cling and typically resist efforts to change them. This can be because of Conscious conflict about changing, but it can also be the result of conflict between the Conscious and the Subconscious parts of the mind. That is, you consciously may want to change and may have decided to change, but the Subconscious does not know this. If it did, it would help you, but it often has no way of knowing that you consciously want to change. So, it continues to control the old behavioral habits and this creates and perpetuates inner conflict. Once the Subconscious is informed that you want to change, and once it knows that it is in your best interest to be helped to change, it has no choice but to help you change. Then, the two parts to the mind, Conscious and Subconscious, can work together in cooperation with little tension, upset, or stress. Remember, what you can conceive you can achieve, and the Subconscious has a tendency to accept what it imagines as real. Visualize where you want to be and you will get there.

29. What are some of the benefits of Hypnosis?
There are many benefits and uses for Hypnosis. To mention but a few of the more common uses:
• induce relaxation
• improve sex
• relieve tensions
• sexual release
• relieve pain
• in childbirth
• diminish and control anxiety
• eliminate phobias
• sexual control
• treat depression
• improve self-confidence
• control mood swings
• modify or change hurtful baits
• stop smoking
• sissy training
• HRS
• lose weight through changing eating and other habits
• improve concentration and memory
• improve study habits
• develop natural abilities
• relieve insomnia
• Sexual blackmail
• aid police work
• stop fingernail biting
• stop bedwetting
• in dentistry
• in optometry
• stop bruxism
• preparation for surgery or other medical procedures

30. What can Hypnosis "cure"?
Hypnosis by itself is not a "cure". It is a tool to be used in therapy or treatment by a professional who is qualified to render that treatment. Medical treatments must be supervised by a medical physician. Similarly, psychological treatments for emotional or psychological problems must be supervised by a qualified psychology or mental health practitioner. There is no cure for being gay it is what it is.


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