Mistress Harley's Blog, page 43
February 25, 2016
The Dapper Gentleman: Masculinity and Fashion
In last month’s article I discussed how the apparel people chose to wear is a deeper reflection of who they are. Not just the colors they chose to wear, but the image they’re trying to project, using clothing can help build an identification, or challenge someone’s assumptions. This month’s topic is how to incorporate masculinity into your wardrobe. Whether you’re a man that wants to project a stronger masculine image, or a woman looking to project an image of masculinity there are several accessories and ways to wear them that can achieve that image in a fashionable put together look.Slacks: this is an easy place to start, as most people looking to project a masculine image are not going to opt for the skirt/kilt, dress, or leggings option. While it is definitely possible to look masculine in a kilt, you need to be projecting masculinity in other significant ways to pull that look off. The safest bet is to go with a nice pair of slacks. Color is not important, but stick to dark tones with no pattern. Unless you’re over the age of 70 pleats are right out. Go for fabric that hangs well (meaning there’s a definable line from hip to ankle) and that hugs you in the right places. Whether you’re male or female, opt for a look that shows off your assets. If you have a great butt, make sure the slacks you choose highlight that. If the butt is lacking but you have fantastic legs, look for a pair of slacks that’s more relaxed in the seat with a slightly tapered leg to outline those muscular thighs. Pair a decent pair of slacks with some suspenders to polish off the look. Suspenders allow you to have that put-together look while being able to to swap and customize the outfit with different suspenders. Suspenders are fun because they come in a variety of colors and patterns and can add that touch of personality and customization to your look.
Shoes: While a pair of rugged work boots
is just as sexy as a pair of high polish dress shoes depending on the context, if you’re trying to project that dapper look pair your slacks with matching or complimentary dress shoes. If you want to spring on a really nice pair of shoes that’s always an option, but you can frequently pick up a decent pair at a second hand store and polish them up. Black and brown are always good to have, and you can pair both those colors with nearly any outfit.Top: go with a nice dress shirt
, hopefully something that both buttons up the front and has sleeves. You can always roll your sleeves up for that working man look that is so very hot. Throw your suspenders on top of it, or a snappy waistcoat. Put something around your neck like a tie or cravat (be careful with the latter, as you can come off looking the dandy instead of dapper). Perhaps a hat if you’re the hat wearing type, and you’ve got a look that will melt many a heart.
Published on February 25, 2016 03:52
Extra Lunch Money
Published on February 25, 2016 03:47
New Techdomme Cover
Published on February 25, 2016 03:43
February 20, 2016
Fetlife
Published on February 20, 2016 10:41
February 17, 2016
An Interview Featured on Divainterview
Name? - Mistress Harley
Age? - 28
Height? - 6 feet
Where are you from? - I'm from Hawaii but currently live in San Francisco
About: What kind of books do you read? - Mostly non-fiction on my areas of interest which are history, economics, and biographies. I'm currently reading Path To Power which is about LBJ's rise to the presidency.
How often do you watch TV? - I'm a TV junkie. One of the things I love about being a domme is that I have as much time as I want to binge on Netflix while I chat with slaves or edit my videos.
Do you watch your own videos? - No, I'm not a faggot loser.
What kind of music are you into? - I like a huge range of music from hardcore rap to electronic and even folk music. Mostly I listen to music when I workout so anything upbeat or mean.
How often do you exercise? - 3-5 times a week depending on my schedule and intensity. I used to run marathons but now I normally run a 5k along with yoga, lifting, and playing the Wii Fit.
Personal:
What are you into? - I love most D/s related games that end up with me in total control. Financial Domination is my FAVORITE as a Jewish princess it's how I know I'm really in control, but I also enjoy chastity, domestic service, and generally being a cock tease.
cam session? - My favorite cam sessions are Hypnosis, Worship, and Forced Intox with poppers or alcohol. It's these type of sessions where I can really enjoy watching my slaves get stupid for me and start drooling.
Dating? - I got married a couple of years ago and my hubby is the best sissy housewife, so I really don't date.
What is your favorite race? - Big. Black. Cock. Enough said.
Who is your favorite fetish model? - Benjamin Franklin giving me that sexy wink from the $100 bill.
Do you have submissive girls around you? Or just guys - I especially love my female subs.
Business : How did you start your work in this industry? - I wouldn't say I work. I'd say I "retired" to this industry. I made it big in high tech and am independently wealthy, but I really enjoyed taking on occasional cam sessions, and once I discovered FinDom I was hooked! Now it's just a game for me to see how much money I can rake in.
What's your oppinion about industry? - It's weird as hell. I respect other ladies and have a good grasp of the game. Other girls are trifling and generally end up begging for rent money. It's pretty self evident who is for real.
Who do you like to work with? - I have enjoyed working with other Dommes who's interests mesh with mine. Photographers are great to work with. Music and film industry people are usually super nice.
Do you have any plan for your work in future? - I'm growing my empire, I plan on being the most famous (or infamous) Dominatrix and FinDom in the US.
Retirement? - I am already retired, but I don't plan on stopping being a Pro-Domme. It's too much fun, and too profitable.
Best fan? - Shout out to my Saudi Prince. You know who you are.
Private: ''optional'' Got a boyfriend? - already answered in "dating"
Have you ever had lesbian experience? - Yes. Women are better than men.
Eating cum? - I love fucking, so yes. And you should too, sissy.
Limits? - I don't engage in sex with my slaves, I don't do anything illegal. Consent is important.
Message to fans? - Take your hand out of your pants and start SERVING me.
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Published on February 17, 2016 05:37
February 14, 2016
What I Learned Watching All of NWA Championship Wrestling on the WWE Network Part One
What I Learned watching all of NWA
Championship Wrestling on the WWE Network
. I watched every episode they had from 1985 to 1987.
Lazer Tron and the New Breed
are by far my favorite storyline. Dusty Rhodes being president in 2002 and the New Breed have to stop him and Lazer Tron. Google this shit it's insane.Many of the episodes are not full run time with episodes varying from under 30 minutes to episode as long as 90 minutes. Often the edits happen right in the middle of Jim Cornette talking. Most episodes are not full length. No way of knowing what was edited.The WWE Network is awful of keeping tack of episode you watch. A simple "watched" icon would do wonders. It will sometimes also randomly forget where I was in a episode because FF only causes an error most the time.I get 1-2 errors per episode with most causing me to back out and hit play again. Often it says the content is unavailable to to be available minutes later.No social media. I can't share with my friends and slaves what I'm watching. It's the finest tech 1999 had to offer.Ric Flair
was amazing and still is.Jim Cornette
to everything please.The Crocket family are a dull bunch who don't get excited about anything. Reminds me of Jim Frost
from Knife Show.Boogie Man
has the best and worst taste in women, all of who seem to be findoming him.Ronnie Garvin
was in drag or a cross dresser called Miss Atlanta Lively. Starcade 1985 features the woman below, Big Mamma (an attractive Boogie Man mystery valley, and Boogie Man. There is another story where Miss Lively tries to go to Space Mountain
with Ric Flair
. In a shoot interview he talked about dressing with his wife and going to the mall. He would even hit on other wrestlers who didn't recognize him. I'm going to say that "hands of stone
" probably comes from jerking his little sissy clit
because only people who need Mistress Harley need these things. 
Many of the gimmicks have been updated for today. Daniel Bryan is obviously a Boogie Man rip off.
Championship Wrestling on the WWE Network
. I watched every episode they had from 1985 to 1987.Lazer Tron and the New Breed
are by far my favorite storyline. Dusty Rhodes being president in 2002 and the New Breed have to stop him and Lazer Tron. Google this shit it's insane.Many of the episodes are not full run time with episodes varying from under 30 minutes to episode as long as 90 minutes. Often the edits happen right in the middle of Jim Cornette talking. Most episodes are not full length. No way of knowing what was edited.The WWE Network is awful of keeping tack of episode you watch. A simple "watched" icon would do wonders. It will sometimes also randomly forget where I was in a episode because FF only causes an error most the time.I get 1-2 errors per episode with most causing me to back out and hit play again. Often it says the content is unavailable to to be available minutes later.No social media. I can't share with my friends and slaves what I'm watching. It's the finest tech 1999 had to offer.Ric Flair
was amazing and still is.Jim Cornette
to everything please.The Crocket family are a dull bunch who don't get excited about anything. Reminds me of Jim Frost
from Knife Show.Boogie Man
has the best and worst taste in women, all of who seem to be findoming him.Ronnie Garvin
was in drag or a cross dresser called Miss Atlanta Lively. Starcade 1985 features the woman below, Big Mamma (an attractive Boogie Man mystery valley, and Boogie Man. There is another story where Miss Lively tries to go to Space Mountain
with Ric Flair
. In a shoot interview he talked about dressing with his wife and going to the mall. He would even hit on other wrestlers who didn't recognize him. I'm going to say that "hands of stone
" probably comes from jerking his little sissy clit
because only people who need Mistress Harley need these things. 
Many of the gimmicks have been updated for today. Daniel Bryan is obviously a Boogie Man rip off.
Published on February 14, 2016 13:27
Wish List are Shopping Foreplay
I think I do more "maybe" shopping then I'll ever do actual shopping. Window shopping is now on Windows I suppose. It's all retail foreplay. Seeing what feels good when you load it into your cart. Will you press submit?
One of my best personal sissie slaves got my hubby an Nintendo Wii and me a dance pole. Although I get a little alpha after a few sessions and sometimes I'll make him stop playing that Wii to dance for me. You'll really like my new clips using that thing.
Wish ListsHubby - Guy stuff mostly with a few fun things. Plenty of nerdy games and shirts. Food - To maintain my flawless body I have to work out daily and as such I eat more than 2 preggo women. Of course I eat actual food and most of them eat the flavored poor people cardboard you all seem to enjoy. Domestic Homegoods - Both my office and home are now larger thanks to my savvy money skills and super awesome hubby. Now we need to fill it with crap. Big Ticket Love - How much do you love me? Show me. These are the things money normally can't buy. Buy anything off this list and I will skype with you just to show you my reaction. I will also send you a free video using the item. Harley's Wishlist - Such good stuff, you should buy now.
Published on February 14, 2016 06:37
February 12, 2016
Valentine's Day 2016
Valentine's Day 2016 Sunday February 14 I demand gifts from my slaves every year because I am their only source of romantic love.
You may send anything of the following:
Flowers Chocolate Money Jewelry Wishlist Anything Shoes
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Published on February 12, 2016 14:15
February 10, 2016
₽ YANDEX.MONEY for my RUSSIAN FAGS AND LOSERS ₽
Russians rejoice you can now tribute via Yandex. It's now available on my payments page or from the payment field below. Even Putin could send me rubles if he wanted. ₽₽₽₽₽₽₽₽
Published on February 10, 2016 15:53
February 9, 2016
Trump Wins NH Republican Primary and will EAT THE POOR
Trump
wins NH and gains control of the Republican Party
and all demonic forces. Nixon II
is coming and none of you are ready. I've covered all of this in my book Eat the Poor
which is all about my political views and how Trump is going to be president. You should just give all your money to me now before the government takes it all.Quick LinksClick here for my website
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Published on February 09, 2016 17:51


