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May 22, 2017
I #LiveChosen- Joy
“You therefore must be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect.”Matthew 5:48
Being the perfectionist that I am, this verse stressed me out when I read it for the first time. I have always put a lot of pressure on myself to keep my act together and do the right thing, so imagine the spike in my heart rate when I read Jesus Himself commanding me to be perfect!I am painfully aware of my inability to be perfect no matter how disciplined I am or how hard I try. If only God's standard of perfection was measured by my performance in comparison to that coworker who curses or that friend that compulsively shops online; I’d be doing alright. But God is perfectly holy and He simply cannot tolerate a selfishly motivated action, a rude comment to my husband or stealing time browsing the internet while on the clock. The smallest transgression against God's holiness is enough to rightfully condemn every one of us to an eternity in hell, apart from God(Romans 3:23).But God is incredibly kind and merciful. Knowing that our failure to live up to His required standard would forever keep us from a loving relationship with Him, He made another way for us to be with Him. He came down to us! Romans 5:8 tells us that "God demonstrates His love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us."Jesus Christ Himself, God's beloved Son, was crushed on a cross bearing my disrespectful attitudes, jealousy and apathetic heart to satisfy God’s just wrath against my sin. In the Old Testament, blemish-free lambs and sacrifices were made to temporarily atone for the evil of the people, but they couldn't ultimately bridge the chasm between man and God. Only Jesus Christ, the spotless Lamb of God, could offer complete reconciliation! The part of this redemption story that brings tears of joy to my eyes is not just the awe-inspiring forgiveness and sacrificial love displayed at the cross, but the divine resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead. 1 Corinthians 15:4 says that on the third day God raised Christ back to life and that by faith in Him we too can have new life in Him.Life in Christ means I am united with Him and that His very perfection and righteousness is attributed to me! Heavenly music to a perfectionist's ears! God declares me righteous, not by my own efforts or anxious toil, but by simply trusting in Jesus and what He has done. Jesus loves me and chose to set His seal of righteousness on me so that I could have friendship with Him forever! This is the truth that gives me hope, joy and peace every morning as I struggle to grasp the length and breadth and width of God's love for me. And it is Christ's love that compels me to serve my husband, write and record songs, lead worship, disciple other women, fight against modern day slavery and share the Gospel with my neighbor. I am learning that every gift God has given me is simply a tool to share the life-giving truth of His grace!You can download Joy’s music on iTunes or buy her latest album, Set Free, atwww.joyhanna.com.All proceeds go toInternational Justice Mission, a global organization protecting the poor from violence in the developing world.Whatever it is God has purposed for you to do, He gave you all you need to accomplish it through Christ. I hope Joy's words inspire you to seek a deeper relationship with Jesus. He loves you so very much. More #LiveChosen stories are coming...don't forget to enter theGIVEAWAY!!!


Published on May 22, 2017 06:47
May 21, 2017
I #LiveChosen- Kandi


Published on May 21, 2017 06:11
May 20, 2017
I #LiveChosen - Zoe
*Disclaimer: Zoe is a fictional character fromThe Chronicle of the Three Trilogy.She is not real. But, I believe, there is still some truth to her struggles, while fictional, that could give us insight and encouragement in our own. You may proceed.
Some days I don’t want to be chosen anymore. It has cost me a lot. It’s painful and exhausting. I’m tired.I know this probably isn’t what you were expecting, or wanting when you clicked on this. I should give you some inspiring words. I should tell you how awesome it is to be chosen for a purpose. It was, at first.That’s how things work some times though isn’t it?When you first start out you are full of passion and excitement and hope. You have this song playing in your head making you feel like everything is just going to fit smoothly together and nothing will go wrong, nothing bad will happen.Then something bad happens. I mean if it was a little bad you’d be okay. You’d brush it off, adjust the volume on the happy song and keep strolling down your path. But it isn’t a little bad, it's a lot of bad, it's a big bad and it doesn’t just change the song, it crushes the radio. The music is dead.When the music is dead how do you keep living chosen?The weight of sorrow killed my song. After that, my path just looked dark and foreboding and being the Chosen One just seemed like too much for a seventeen year old girl to handle. Heck, it's too much for anyone at any age to handle, trust me.The thing is, I’m not supposed to handle it.I know that doesn’t seem to make sense but it's true. Sometimes we have to get to a place where we can’t hear the music to help us realize we needed a different song all along. (This place sucks, I’m not denying that. It doesn’t suck less knowing that even the dark places can serve a purpose. Just so we are clear.)I don’t know what your happy song is. Maybe its popularity, acceptance, comfort, fame. My happy song was ease. I was willing to fight. I thought I knew what that meant. I thought that I had counted the cost of it but I realized I hadn’t. I wanted it to be cheap, I wanted it to be easy and when it wasn’t…well, no more happy song.
I think most of the time our happy songs are a little selfish. We are excited about our purpose. We are even stoked to be helping others, but we want it to be on our terms. We want to help as long as we don’t get hurt in the process.I don’t think it works that way. Pain comes. It’s inevitable because we don’t see all the shadows, no matter how hard we try. Some of those suckers are sneaky.I see them now though. I also see my selfishness. I see my need for a new song, a new anthem. This one won’t be about me. I’m not the source. Neither are you.So yeah, sometimes living chosen is painful and exhausting. You’ll get tired. Remember it’s not about you. Relinquish control. Adjust your perspective. Change your tune.Zoe is a character fromThe Chronicle of the Three Trilogy.You can read her story of learning she was chosen in The Chronicle of the Three: Bloodline. (Download a sample offor FREE.)I hope you are enjoying this #LiveChosen bonus material as well as all the real life stories of some awesome people sharing what it means to #LiveChosen. There's still more to come, but don't forget to enter theGIVEAWAY!!!



Published on May 20, 2017 06:47
May 19, 2017
I #LiveChosen- Andre


Published on May 19, 2017 06:15
May 17, 2017
I #LiveChosen- Etta


Published on May 17, 2017 07:18
May 16, 2017
I #LiveChosen- Claire
*Disclaimer: Claire is a fictional character fromThe Chronicle of the Three Trilogy.She is not real. But, I believe, there is still some truth to her struggles, while fictional, that could give us insight and encouragement in our own. You may proceed.
Imagine waking up on your fifteenth birthday, so early the sun hasn’t even begun to make it’s daily debut, and there is a demon hovering over your bed. Yeah, I freaked out too.The thing is I knew about demons, about the reality of a darkness that wants to destroy us. I grew up in a home of demon slayers, descendants who fought these shadows. I just never thought that life would ever really be for me…and then it was.That day a demon woke me from a dream into a very new reality. I wasn’t just a descendant, I was the Chosen One. (Really, I wasn’t but we didn’t know that then and it’s a whole other story so let’s just go with it.)Being chosen sounds cool (I did get a sword). I mean we all want to be the hero while we're watching a movie or TV show, but in real life it’s hard, real hard.From that first day of my fifteenth year until too many days later to count I was mostly alone, isolated, consumed solely with the mission.For the record, being passionate is not the same as being consumed. (It’s funny because I defeated the darkness for others for half my life and hadn’t seen it creeping into my own, waiting for weakness so it could pounce and nearly destroy me. So pay attention to your own hearts and minds, people. Self-assessment is a spiritual gift, at least in my book.) Our lives need balance. We need rest. We need healthy relationships. We need time to refresh and be restored. I never gave myself any of that. I mean, the world needed saving and stuff. My health came second to that, right?Wrong!You can take care of the whole world, you can even be really good at it, but if you don’t take care of yourself, of your own soul, you will fall.I fell. Not far. But it was enough that it could have ruined everything. I let loneliness and bitterness and burn out push me to make a choice I wouldn’t have made on a better day. It was a choice that left me heart broken, cracked in places I thought would never repair and feeling like I had failed beyond the point grace could redeem.Have you ever felt like that? Like you’ve messed up so badly that the effects of it rippled out and hurt people you would never want to cause pain?I found myself in this hole, a grave where I was being buried by regret and despair.But…For three little letters that can be a really powerful word…BUTnothing is unredeemable. You can’t mess up so badly that the Maker can’t repurpose it.I had another choice to make. I could stay in that grave or I could take the hand reaching to pull me out of it. (There is always a hand waiting to pull you out by the way, look for it.)
Here’s the thing, I got out of that pit. Well, I’m working my way out of it. It takes a little time to get all the dirt off and the hole filled back in.I feel like I’m rambling, sorry about that. I don’t usually talk about myself and definitely not about this, but I needed to. Maybe you needed me to.I guess it all boils down to this one thing, failure isn’t final…unless you let it be.If you mess up don’t give up. Put your fighting clothes on, pick up your sword and fight. The darkness may draw first blood, but you can make them sorry they did.Claire is a character from The Chronicle of the Three: Trilogy. You can learn more about her and her band of demon slayers in The Chronicle of the Three: Bloodline. (Read a sample offor FREE)Thanks for checking out this #LiveChosen BONUS Material. There are still some more #LiveChosen stories to come, from real people as well as fictional. Also, don't forget to enter theGIVEAWAY!



Published on May 16, 2017 07:11
May 15, 2017
I #LiveChosen- Laura


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May 13, 2017
I #LiveChosen- Ralene


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May 11, 2017
I #LiveChosen- Lauren


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May 9, 2017
I #LiveChosen- Laurie


Published on May 09, 2017 07:06
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