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On popular demand from the parents of teens

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On popular demand from the parents of teens

I have posted this video on how to make your teen tell you everything

Watch the whole video on YouTube 

Video link in stories 

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#parenting #teenage #parentingteens

Brain Building does not have to be exhausting

Brain Building does not have to be exhausting 

If you are too busy to do Activities with your child

Here is an RRR formula For RELAXED BRAIN BUILDING 

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Share this now so that no one calls you LAZY 

Send me a DM if you want to join my course for the parents of 0 to 7 year olds and learn Parenting with Neuroscience.

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Does your child have low self-esteem?

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Does your child have low self-esteem?

Low self-esteem may not always look like low confidence

The behaviours shared in these slides are also a sign of low self-esteem

Does your child have low self-esteem?

You must work on building your self-esteem urgently because without high self-esteem - even the most talented and capable child will remain a failure.

Right parenting is vital for high self-esteem. 
Read my e-book " 55 Parenting tips for verey age and every stage" available on Amazon to understand how parenting needs to be different at different ages and stages to build high self-esteem.

#parenting #selfesteem #confidence #bullying #overachiever

Do spend all day feeding your child?

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Do spend all day feeding your child?

Does your child just refuse to eat?

Yes - that can be exhausting and frustrating 

But you can make the problem worse if you make these mistakes 

Watch the video on YouTube to know what the mistakes are.

See if you are making those mistakes 

And find out what you can do to fix the mistakes 

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Let's make mommy life easier 

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#fussyeater #pickyeaters

BAD BEHAVIOURS are not really BAD

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Did you know?
BAD BEHAVIOURS are not really BAD
They are a signs of BRAIN BUILDING

They are signs that your child’s brain is ready to learn new skills

Watch the video to know – what skills you can teach your child when you see these bad behaviours which are signs of brain building

Share this now so that those who criticize your child see this and understand that your child is not BAD – your child’s brain is growing

This is PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE

It helps you to see every challenge as an opportunity for growth
And helps you to be the best parent and bring up the best child.

Do you want to learn parenting with neuroscience?
Send me a DM and say PB. I will send you the details to register for my parenting with neuroscience course for the parents of 0- to 7-year-olds.

#parenting #tantrums #crying #disobedience.

Are you doing these three dangerous things to discipline your child?

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Are you doing these three dangerous things to discipline your child? 

You may believe you are doing your best for your child but your discipline technique is actually causing irreparable damage

Watch the whole video on YouTube to discover what you are doing wrong 
And what you should do instead 

Type CHANGE and share this with those who are damaging your child by following the wrong discipline practices so that they understand and change 

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This is the time to build your child’s immunity

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This is the time to build your child’s immunity 

The season is changing and infections are in the air

Save your child from sickness due to season change by using my 5S formula to build immunity

The 1st S is SLEEP
Ensure that your child gets at least 10 hours of sleep every night

The 2nd S is STRESS
Reduce your child’s stress by understanding them so that you can support them and don’t keep scolding them

The 3rd S is SUNLIGHT
Make sure your child plays outdoors in the sunshine for at least one hour every day

The 4th S is SOIL
Let your child play in the mud. Avoid indoor play zones

The 5th S is SUGAR
Avoid added sugar. Prefer fruits for the sweet taste
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Type 5S 
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So that your child’s friend’s parents see it and also start using the 5S formula

If your child’s friends catch fewer infections – your child will be less sick too

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#infections #immunity #seasonchange #sickchild

Are you a Helicopter Parent?

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Are you a Helicopter Parent?
1. Are you constantly focused on ensuring that your child is the best at everything?
2. Do you insist that your child follows all your instructions?
3. Are you always trying to make your child perfect?
Then you are a helicopter parent

You may be thrilled with the results that you get with your child when they are in pre-primary and primary school.
Because your involvement will get your child A+ and 10/10
But when your child goes to high school – you may find their marks dipping because – 

1. Your child has ANXIETY 
They are worried that if they do badly you will be unhappy
Their anxiety makes them make silly mistakes

2. Your child is not used to THINKING
They have always been following your instructions without asking questions
Not thinking makes them lose marks in tricky questions

3. Your child wants to be PERFECT
They are used to an adult level of perfection
Aiming for perfection leads to them focusing on a few chapters in a few subjects. They miss out on finishing their syllabus before the exam.

If you want your child to ace exams in high school and beyond – 
1. Don’t do everything for your child – let them learn by doing – this teaches problem solving
2. Encourage them to ask questions and challenge the rules – this teaches critical thinking
3. Allow them to make mistakes so that they can learn from them – this builds resilience

Remember the goal of parenting is not to get your child the first prize.
The goal of parenting is to build an AMAZING BRAIN

Do you want to build an amazing brain for your child?
Start Parenting with Neuroscience
Type PB if you want details of my Parenting with Neuroscience course for the parents of 0- to 7-year-olds.
Share this so that those who say you are not doing enough for your child see this and realize that you are doing the right thing
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Sensory play does not have to be MESSY

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Sensory play does not have to be MESSY 

You don't have to wait for your baby to become a toddler for Sensory play

Watch the whole video on YouTube to know my 5T formula for brain development for newborns and toddlers through Sensory Play 

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#sensoryplay #braindevelopment #neuroscience #parenting#toddlerparenting #newborn

Share this to reduce ANXIETY in children and BURNOUT in parents

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Share this to reduce ANXIETY in children and BURNOUT in parents 

Let us enjoy parenting and allow our children to enjoy their childhood.

#parenting #neuroscience #anxiety #depression #activities