Sliver of Truth Quotes

“I think most people are just trying to be happy, and that most of their actions, however misguided, are in line with that goal. Most people just want to feel they belong somewhere, want to be loved, and want to feel they're important to someone. If you really examine all the wrongheaded and messed-up things they do, they can most often be traced back to that basic desire. The abusers, the addicted, the cruel and unpleasant, the manipulators --these are just people who started this quest for happiness in the basement of their lives. Someone communicated to them through word or deed that they were undeserving, so they think they have to claw their way there over the backs of others, leaving scars and creating damage. Of course, they only create more misery for themselves and others.”
― Lisa Unger, Sliver of Truth

“Many people believe that evil is the presence of something. I think it's the absence of something.”
― Lisa Unger, Sliver of Truth

“Others of us are lost. We're forever seeking. We torture ourselves with philosophies and ache to see the world. We question everything, even our own existence. We ask a lifetime of questions and are never satisfied with the answers because we don't recognize anyone as an authority to give them. We see life and the world as an enormous puzzle that we might never understand, that our questions might go unanswered until the day we die, almost never occurs to us. And when it does, it fills us with dread.”
― Lisa Unger, Sliver of Truth

“I loved him so much. It didn't change all the reasons we couldn't be together, but it kept me returning to his body, kept my skin seeking his skin over and over again in the sad dance we did.”
― Lisa Unger, Sliver of Truth

“Depression is not dramatic, but it is total. It’s sneaky - you almost don’t notice it at first. Like a cat burglar, it comes in through an open window while you’re sleeping. It takes little things at first; your appetite, your desire to return phone calls. Then it comes back for the big stuff, like your will to live.

Then next thing you know, your legs are filled with sand. The thought of brushing your teeth fills you with dread, it seems like such an impossible task. Suddenly you’re living your life in black and white – nothing is bright, nothing is pretty anymore. Music sounds tinny and distant. Things you found funny seem dull and off-key.”
― Lisa Unger, Sliver of Truth

“When our actions and choices are based on fear and denial ... Well, nothing good can come of that. Ever.”
― Lisa Unger, Sliver of Truth

“an awareness of your own worth is the most attractive quality in the world.”
― Lisa Unger, Sliver of Truth

“Shock is the stepsister of denial. It cushions the blow to your psyche when really fucked up things happen.”
― Lisa Unger, Sliver of Truth

“The woman I was seems hopelessly naive. I envy her.”
― Lisa Unger, Sliver of Truth

“IF YOU REALLY let life take you, if you release control and stop clinging to sameness, you can’t imagine the places you’ll end up. But most people don’t do that. Most people get this death grip on what they know, and the only thing that loosens their grasp is some kind of tragedy.”
― Lisa Unger, Sliver of Truth

“I couldn't leave there  without carrying some of her sadness and loneliness with me like a cloak. There was a smell that I've come to think of as life rot. Where a life has spoiled, gone bad through lack of use.”
― Lisa Unger, Sliver of Truth

“DEPRESSION IS NOT dramatic, but it is total. It’s sneaky—you almost don’t notice it at first. Like a cat burglar, it comes in through an open window while you’re sleeping. It takes little things at first: your appetite, your desire to return phone calls. Then it comes back for the big stuff, like your will to live. The next thing you know, your legs are filled with sand. The thought of brushing your teeth fills you with dread, it seems like such an impossible task. Suddenly you’re living your life in black and white—nothing is bright, nothing is pretty anymore. Music sounds tinny and distant. Things you found funny seem dull and off-key. I”
― Lisa Unger, Sliver of Truth

“There was so much sorrow in his voice that I almost stopped but kept going instead. I thought I could hitch a ride, go to the police and get myself arrested or deported or murdered or whatever. It didn't matter.”
― Lisa Unger, Sliver of Truth

“I felt better after shopping, more normal. And more than that looked cool, which almost made up for being in mortal danger, an international fugitive, and a partial amnesiac.”
― Lisa Unger, Sliver of Truth

“I couldn't bring myself to raise my eyes. His betrayal was so profound, so incomprehensible, that in that moment I was afraid I'd burst into flames if I looked at him.”
― Lisa Unger, Sliver of Truth

“There was and always had been a drive within me to know the truth of things.”
― Lisa Unger, Sliver of Truth