Attached Quotes

“She hadn't meant the stuff she'd said, but she was in such an emotional funk that everything seemed dreary to her.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“She knew he was right - that she'd been expressing only her own concerns.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“Her situation made her feel incompetent.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“She was convinced that there was no way she'd ever get through.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“Secures come in every possible shape, size, and form.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“Tell me, is it magic?”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“If you're with someone secure, they nurture you into a more secure stance.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“Time and time again, research shows that the best predicator of happiness in a relationship is a secure attachment style.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“We've grown to admire and appreciate the secures of the world.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“Let your guard down and make it easier to access your loving feelings.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“We don't dispute the presence of soul mates in our world.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“Remind yourself that this is your partner, you chose to be together, and that maybe you're better off trusting that they do have your best interests at heart.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“Look for a more plausible perspective.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“Given a chance, we recommend you choose the secure route.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“De-emphasize self-reliance and focus on mutual support.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“You have a lot to lose by pushing them away.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“You need intimacy despite your discomfort with it.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“You need intimacy despite your discomfort for it.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“Don't act on your impulse. When you're excited about someone but then suddenly have a gut feeling that they are not right for you, stop and think.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“Stop pushing love away.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“Embark on the voyage of change.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“You can easily undermine yourself in love.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“The right person is just around the corner.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“That day, for the first time, I didn't leave her... I succeeded in giving to her when she really needed me.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“Although she was aware of her boyfriend's strengths, she couldn't keep her mind off what she perceived to be his countless flaws.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“They tend to see the glass half-empty instead of half-full.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“Lonely, depressed, and heartbroken, she mourned their lost relationship as the best she'd ever had.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“She was surprised by how difficult she was finding things without him.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“He had endless patience to deal with her silences, moods, and scorn.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached

“He made her feel safe and accepted.”
― Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, Attached