Bennjamin

“The world, my friend, is one great shipwreck: and man’s motto, "Save yourself if you can."

PS. Voltaire is often attributed the shorter saying: "‎Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget to sing in the lifeboats" - this was actually from a Peter Gay review of Voltaire's "Candide". It's a different thing Source: quoteinvestigator.com”
― Voltaire

“Als ik denk aan de dood, dan lijkt het griezelig, monsterachtig, ongelooflijk - niet dat deze hand, waarmee ik nu deze dingen schrijf, later zal verrotten als een appel, maar dat ze nu zo snel, zo levendig, zo vlot beweegt - het lijkt hekserij, magie. Het ontstellende, huiveringwekkend bevreemdende is niet dat de maden en wormen uit deze huid zullen breken zonder dat deze hand - nu zo waakzaam, zo snel geïrriteerd door muggen, kleine vliegjes - een vinger zal verroeren - het onvoorstelbare, angstaanjagende zijn de aders die nu kloppen, de poriën die ademen, de zenuwen en spieren die samentrekken, trillen, de verbindingen met dit hoofd - later een uitgevreten schedel - dat alles in beweging tovert. Mijn hand is een dier, een afschuwelijk snel bewegend insekt, een parasiet van het leven in mijn hoofd.”
― Patricia De Martelaere, Nachtboek van een slapeloze

“Right-wing women have surveyed the world: they find it a dangerous place. They see that work subjects them to more danger from more men; it increases the risk of sexual exploitation. They see that creativity and originality in their kind are ridiculed; they see women thrown out of the circle of male civilization for having ideas, plans, visions, ambitions. They see that traditional marriage means selling to one man, not hundreds: the better deal. They see that the streets are cold, and that the women on them are tired, sick, and bruised. They see that the money they can earn will not make them independent of men and that they will still have to play the sex games of their kind: at home and at work too. They see no way to make their bodies authentically their own and to survive in the world of men. They know too that the Left has nothing better to offer: leftist men also want wives and whores; leftist men value whores too much and wives too little. Right-wing women are not wrong. They fear that the Left, in stressing impersonal sex and promiscuity as values, will make them more vulnerable to male sexual aggression, and that they will be despised for not liking it. They are not wrong. Right-wing women see that within the system in which they live they cannot make their bodies their own, but they can agree to privatized male ownership: keep it one-on-one, as it were. They know that they are valued for their sex— their sex organs and their reproductive capacity—and so they try to up their value: through cooperation, manipulation, conformity; through displays of affection or attempts at friendship; through submission and obedience; and especially through the use of euphemism—“femininity, ” “total woman, ” “good, ” “maternal instinct, ” “motherly love. ” Their desperation is quiet; they hide their bruises of body and heart; they dress carefully and have good manners; they suffer, they love God, they follow the rules. They see that intelligence displayed in a woman is a flaw, that intelligence realized in a woman is a crime. They see the world they live in and they are not wrong. They use sex and babies to stay valuable because they need a home, food, clothing. They use the traditional intelligence of the female—animal, not human: they do what they have to to survive.”
― Andrea Dworkin, Right-Wing Women

“Compassion hurts. When you feel connected to everything, you also feel responsible for everything. And you cannot turn away. Your destiny is bound with the destinies of others. You must either learn to carry the Universe or be crushed by it. You must grow strong enough to love the world, yet empty enough to sit down at the same table with its worst horrors.”
― Andrew Boyd, Daily Afflictions: The Agony of Being Connected to Everything in the Universe