“Assume that people know only what you tell them, honor only what you request, and can't read your mind.”
― Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself
― Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself
“We can't connect with someone unless we're clear about where we end and they begin.”
― Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience
― Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience
“When we fail to set boundaries and hold people accountable, we feel used and mistreated. This is why we sometimes attack who they are, which is far more hurtful than addressing a behavior or a choice.”
― The Gifts of Imperfection
― The Gifts of Imperfection
“Saying no to one thing is saying yes to the possibility of another.”
― 12 Tiny Things: Simple Ways to Live a More Intentional Life
― 12 Tiny Things: Simple Ways to Live a More Intentional Life
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