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The Nonesuch Oct 2019 Group Read Spoiler Thread

I skipped to the end too but I'll read the rest anyway.

I agree the misunderstanding is still a bit 'silly', but I suppose one could argue that it is because Ancilla is 'so in love' with a man who surely, surely is too 'top of the trees' to love a humble governess etc, that she hardly dares believe it.....and almost 'subconsiously' comes up with a reason why it 'can't be true'......
In a way, it's also odd that no one in the neighbourhood seems to have the slightest idea that Broom Hall might become a school for orphans. After all, if the Nonesuch's reputation has reached Yorkshire, ie, as a Corinthian etc, surely a little of his philanthropy would have reached as well?
I can see Waldo, in a way, not wanting to let any one local know, in case they opposed it, but by the same token, since he is such a 'decent chap' one might have supposed that he would have had a programme of deliberately 'softening up the neighbourhood' to accept the school's eventual presence.
I am sort of assuming that the reason there might be local objections would be that (a) they disapproved of looking after orphans in the first place (!) and (b) they feared 'contamination' from Leeds (and social schisms must already have been forming between 'old' money and 'new' money etc) and (c) they feared that the teenage boys would start a petty crime wave in the area!
One would have thought that Waldo, identifying the Rector as a good egg, would have targeted him to start talking to him about the school, and get him 'on side' in terms of Christian charity, etc etc.
So, all in all, I think there is more to argue that Waldo would have started to tell folk about the school, rather than him keeping silent (and it's only because he's kept silent that the Big Misunderstanding happens at all!)

I'm with you. I think the big misunderstanding is silly and really brings the whole book down for me. It's not just that Ancilla leaps to the wrong conclusion - I think I could've believed that if it were handled better. We all know those times when we've been wrong about someone's character, so it makes sense for Ancilla to think she's been wrong.
The part that I find impossible is that the rector knows, his wife knows, Julian knows, and they're all ok with it. It's totally implausible that Ancilla would believe that all these people who she knows to be morally upright would suddenly be blaize about a houseful of bastards! And yet Ancilla would rather believe that she's been wrong in her judgement of everyone's character than consider that she's misunderstood the situation.

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Irrefutable argument!

That is true - poor Ancilla, for perhaps the first time in her life, was victim to her sensibility!

and there you have it!
I always totally buy into The Big Misunderstanding. I think Ancilla was braced for Waldo's seeming feelings for her just being Too Good To Be True.
plus, I let the plot just carry me along, I guess.

That is true - poor Ancilla, for perhaps the first time in her life, was victim to her sensibility!"
Another wise head on young shoulders!

and there you have it!
I always totally buy into The Big Misunderstanding. I think Ancilla was braced for Waldo's see..."
And third one’s a charm - thanks, Jackie, exactly what I was going to say! You can sense her niggling self-doubt - first, the nasty old hens make her self-conscious, then she starts to feel the Nonesuch can’t possibly feel that way about little old her! He could have anyone- and what does she really know about his personal indiscretions, anyway?! It was only ever whispered about, and gentlewomen were kept in the dark about such things (perfect environment for filthy gossip to grow and fester...)

-She was principled enough not to accept any marriage, even though her family needed it.
-She was confident enough to defy her entire family to become a governess because she knew it to be the right thing.
-She had enough grace and social awareness to play the governess-companion perfectly, despite the class awkardness.
If she really suffered from doubts about her own worthiness wouldn't they have shown up at any of these points? And now she loses her mind and is ready to think the worst of everyone, inlcuding herself and the man she loves, just because a few tabby-cats are gossipy?

She is not an adolescent, but not a wise old person. I think everyone grows after their first experience with love.
Tadiana ✩Night Owl☽ wrote: "..Do you think GH knew Waldo means "powerful ruler" and Ancilla in Latin means "maid" or "female slave"? It seems likely to me, given how it plays into the plot.
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Which makes one wonder about 'Theophania' (ie what 'Tiffany' is a pet form of) meaning 'Manifestation of God' ...
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Which makes one wonder about 'Theophania' (ie what 'Tiffany' is a pet form of) meaning 'Manifestation of God' ...

Well, it is from the Greek, so perhaps it could refer to Ares...

Everyone grows after their first experience with
I'm probably just judging by my own experience here - when I fell in love for the first time I was far too trusting, not too doubtful, in the beginning.
Beth-In-UK wrote: "I've just read the 'Big Misunderstanding' scene, and the subsequent proposal, and I can see it's been very carefully written, so that it can be 'read' in both ways, with Julian knowing what he knows , and Ancilla believing what she believes. ..."
There's just one slip, though: Julian says "Most men wouldn't care a straw what became of the poor little devils" when he surely would have said "don't care ... what becomes" when talking about a set of children that everybody knew existed and every rich person could have helped.
Using the conditional like that assumes he's talking about hypothetical children that some men might be responsible for but rarely care about.
There's just one slip, though: Julian says "Most men wouldn't care a straw what became of the poor little devils" when he surely would have said "don't care ... what becomes" when talking about a set of children that everybody knew existed and every rich person could have helped.
Using the conditional like that assumes he's talking about hypothetical children that some men might be responsible for but rarely care about.

That's a very good point! I hadn't thought about it before. One could go even further and say that it would've been more natural for Julian to say: 'Most people don't care a straw what becomes of the poor little devils', since not only men were philanthropists (especially not regarding education and children) and since he's discussing the problem of the neighbours in general disliking orphanages in the area.
That would really give the game away!

Thank you, much better put than what I said!

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Lol - so true!

Maybe when choosing her name, her parents were just overly optimistic? I imagine she was beautiful baby, they couldn’t know at the time how she’d turn out...

Perhaps if the parents who named her had lived to raise her, she wouldn't have turned out the way she did!

Perhaps if the pare..."
Possibly- I think most new parents are optimistic!

Waldo and Ancilla are beautifully drawn characters but I really dislike Tiffany. She is such a ridiculously over the top character who is impossible to like or sympathise with.
The ‘misunderstanding’ ruins this one for me. Waldo is no rake, so why on earth Ancilla started to think he could possibly have fathered all those illegitimate children is utterly bewildering. I just feel this is an example of GH being lazy and taking the easy way out with a farcical misunderstanding. (Ducks swiftly to avoid incoming missiles!). Final verdict: - Good but not great! 😀

Agreed! She's just awful!
I think in a different book she could've been the villain that you love to hate - but she's can't quite fill that role. She's not Ancilla's enemy, just her burden!

Agreed! She's just awful!
I think in a different book she could've bee..."
Yes - she’s no Miss Wraxton - just a truly annoying teenager!


This is the phrase I'm going to use to dismiss all my enemies from now on!

This is the phrase I'm going to use to dismiss all my enemies from now on!"
me, too!
and that really sums up Tiffany, doesn't it? I mean, she is annoying but so easily dismissed.
Miss Wraxton, on the other hand...

I was just sitting here thinking that Tiffany was the embodiment of pre-Civil War Scarlett! Puffed up with the knowledge that she's the prettiest girl around, knowing that every male she meets is at her back and call, she just gets more vain by the day.

Everyone grows after their first experience with
Haha!!!!

Nick wrote: "This is the phrase I'm going to use to dismiss all my enemies from now on!"
Same!

And, too, that not only is it increasingly difficult to ring the changes the more novels you've written (or, indeed, that other folk have written!) (eg, in GH (view spoiler) , but we must always remember that GH actually produced, year on year, TWO books a year! That's HUGe pressure - imagine writing, editing, and proofing one novel in six months, some part of which time must also have been spent researching the next one! And, as we know, her research is formidable, and with hardly any mistakes at all (the famous one is (view spoiler)

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And without having the horrible experience of living through war, Tiffany can not truly develop her strong personality into actual strength.


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I dislike Tiffany (who doesn't? Even her own family doesn't like her!) but she is entertaining to read about. Her ruthless selfishness reminds me of Scarlett O'Hara, but unlike Scarlett, we don't get to see Tiffany's eventual comeuppance and maturation. I have no doubt that she will eventually snag her title through some dazzled young fool. It will only be then that she will see her behavior checked. As a diamond during her season, she will be relentlessly courted by the men. The girls will dislike her and be jealous, but will swallow this and pretend to be friends because she is where the men are. Plus, being catty will only betray their jealousy and imply that they have good reason to be jealous. No one wants that!
After her marriage, though--that is when Tiffany will wake up in very different world. No longer will she be swarmed by hordes of gentlemen at social events; she's married now. She will find that, as a young matron, her social life is going to depend largely on female relationships, not her attractiveness to men, and I imagine that this is going to be a hard lesson for Miss Tiffany! I only wish we were able to see it . . .

Have to say I don't really see Miss Wraxton as a villain, as she doesn't do anything bad ....except depress everyone around her! (view spoiler)
As a curiosity, apart from the assortment of murderers or would be murderers in GH's mystery regency romances, which characters actually are villainous?? And just how bad do they have to be to rate as a villain?? Maybe this is a discussion point for another thread!
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Oh - thread idea...

See how Tiffany compares to the other nasty creatures sprinkled throughout Heyer's books!


Speaking of Tiffany, are there any other GH heroine's cut from that cloth, ie, the 'spoilt beauty'? I have never cared for (view spoiler)
I suppose, in a way, that (view spoiler) - and then, of course, there is also (view spoiler)

It is odd that Waldo's reputation for philanthropy hasn't preceded him to Yorkshire, but I'm guessing that part of that is that people simply aren't interested in such boring things and so don't gossip about it (they're busy with his sporting activities and his wealth - just like today, right?), and I'm sure that he doesn't run around with his publicist taking sweet pictures of the poor little orphans, either. It's hard for us today, where information is so instant, to remember that it used to take months for what we receive in a nano-second. Before Waldo was known to be the heir, he was probably not talked about much in the neighborhood at all.
I'm trying to think of a redeeming quality of Tiffany's, and all I can think of is her pride, which does make her almost act with a bit of humanity. Ok, it's a stretch!

I posted in the villain thread, too! :)
That thread has open spoilers, because the discussion covers so many books.
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I really do connect with Waldo (I like that he's aware and intelligent and has a sense of humor) and Ancilla. On the other thread, QNPoohBear mentions that Ancilla doesn't have a friend to confide in, and I think that's why we see her talking to herself and definitely over-thinking things. I love the integrity that makes her so careful!