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Yes, thinking about it, I think that could be it.
I think sometimes, her way of reaching out was to ask for a favour, usually something she would see as easy, but which would be well out of my comfort zone - like having her daughter, who was our goddaughter, to stay. She is a gorgeous girl and was an absolute sweetheart as a child but she was allergic to lactose, our cat and nuts. And I don't mean a bit, the nuts, thing, especially, was life threatening. So I was just petrified every moment that being in my filthy, allergen-riddled dwelling would endanger her daughter's life. I used to be on the verge of a panic attack every moment she was with us so I could only cope with it occasionally.
I never told my friend about my fears having her daughter to stay, so she probably saw us as distant and mean spirited. Whereas actually it was just a case of being too petrified for regular interaction.
Meanwhile she saw a man who is a lawyer and therefore, as far as she's concerned, loaded, living in a large house (and she probably saw its worth in terms of her local town which would be four or five times its worth in ours). She probably doesn't realise that the reason we have a big house is because we bought a wreck and did it up slowly. She possibly also doesn't realise that, since neither of us has any capital, McOther has to invest most of what he earns into our pension if he wishes to retire at any time before the point of death. She may also have forgotten that he didn't start his career as a lawyer until he was in his late 30s so hasn't had the usual amount of time to build up any capital/pension.
So yeh, I reckon you're right. She may well see us as mean people who never offered her any help unless she begged.
But yes, like you, I do find it odd.
Ho hum.
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MTM

Completely agree, and especially with your further comment about her daughter MT

This week a tribute to my editor, who died three weeks ago.
https://mtmcguire.co.uk/2017/09/02/kate/
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MTM

I just hope somebody who knows her family shares that blog with them.

I just hope somebody who knows her family shares that blog with them."
I shared the nub of it with Adrian when I wrote to him - at her email address - to say how sorry I was.
Desley (Cat fosterer) wrote: "It made me cry"
I was a bit most eyed when I wrote it, I have to confess.


Googled this but got nowhere. I presume you don't mean an estate agent. :-)


Try them - they might appeal to you.

Try them - they might appeal to you."
and to your son as well. I suspect you might enjoy them together

Try them - they might appeal to you."
Yep, you should, they're great fun. William has a singular moral code that is somewhat at odds with his elders and betters. The stories also present a fascinating insight into middle class life in England in the inter-war years.

Yes, I'm sure he would :)

https://www.audible.co.uk/pd/Children...
there is an audio sample feature :-)


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MTM

http://hamgee.co.uk/blog/dementia_1/
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MTM

Setting Trip Wires for Granny and other tall family tales,
Although I could equally call it, The First Man Who Was Kind to Loonies and other tall family tales.
The dementia thing... I dunno, maybe I could call it the Dementia Diaries or something ... answers on a post card please! ;-)

Glad you enjoyed it Jim.
Gingerlily - Mistress Lantern wrote: "You could release it as a double pack with Philip Whiteland's Steady Past Your Granny's"
Exactly!

https://mtmcguire.co.uk/2017/10/21/th...
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I don't think there's any malice in it. I doubt it's ego on her part either. I think it's just a case of our being on completely different wavelengths. :-)