Non Monogamy Books

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The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities (Paperback)
by (shelved 28 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 3.94 — 26,687 ratings — published 1997
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Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy (Paperback)
by (shelved 27 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.36 — 15,415 ratings — published 2020
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More Than Two, Second Edition: Cultivating Nonmonogamous Relationships with Kindness and Integrity More Than Two, Second Edition: Cultivating Nonmonogamous Relationships with Kindness and Integrity (Hardcover)
by (shelved 16 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.23 — 4,605 ratings — published 2014
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Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships (Paperback)
by (shelved 16 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.08 — 4,095 ratings — published 2007
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The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-Monogamy: Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting Go The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-Monogamy: Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting Go (Paperback)
by (shelved 14 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.10 — 921 ratings — published 2022
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Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality (Hardcover)
by (shelved 13 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 3.97 — 31,480 ratings — published 2010
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Polywise: A Deeper Dive into Navigating Open Relationships Polywise: A Deeper Dive into Navigating Open Relationships (Paperback)
by (shelved 12 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.31 — 1,183 ratings — published 2023
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The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory: Everything You Need to Know About Open Relationships, Non-Monogamy, and Alternative Love The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory: Everything You Need to Know About Open Relationships, Non-Monogamy, and Alternative Love (Paperback)
by (shelved 10 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.14 — 1,194 ratings — published
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Designer Relationships: A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships Designer Relationships: A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships (Paperback)
by (shelved 9 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 3.70 — 838 ratings — published 2015
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Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities (Paperback)
by (shelved 9 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.36 — 523 ratings — published 2018
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The Jealousy Workbook: Exercises and Insights for Managing Open Relationships The Jealousy Workbook: Exercises and Insights for Managing Open Relationships (Paperback)
by (shelved 8 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.00 — 307 ratings — published 2013
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Open: An Uncensored Memoir of Love, Liberation, and Non-Monogamy Open: An Uncensored Memoir of Love, Liberation, and Non-Monogamy (Hardcover)
by (shelved 7 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 3.93 — 1,773 ratings — published 2022
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Stepping Off the Relationship Escalator: Uncommon Love and Life Stepping Off the Relationship Escalator: Uncommon Love and Life (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 7 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.25 — 590 ratings — published 2017
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Pensamiento monógamo, terror poliamoroso Pensamiento monógamo, terror poliamoroso (Paperback)
by (shelved 6 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.26 — 2,964 ratings — published 2018
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The Polyamory Breakup Book: Causes, Prevention, and Survival The Polyamory Breakup Book: Causes, Prevention, and Survival (Paperback)
by (shelved 6 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 3.95 — 359 ratings — published
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The Polyamorists Next Door: Inside Multiple-Partner Relationships and Families The Polyamorists Next Door: Inside Multiple-Partner Relationships and Families (Hardcover)
by (shelved 6 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 3.91 — 316 ratings — published 2013
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Love in Abundance: A Counselor's Guide to Open Relationships Love in Abundance: A Counselor's Guide to Open Relationships (Paperback)
by (shelved 6 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 3.90 — 139 ratings — published 2010
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Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships (Paperback)
by (shelved 5 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.50 — 229 ratings — published
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Undoing Monogamy: The Politics of Science and the Possibilities of Biology Undoing Monogamy: The Politics of Science and the Possibilities of Biology (Paperback)
by (shelved 5 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.14 — 86 ratings — published 2016
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When Someone You Love Is Polyamorous: Understanding Poly People and Relationships When Someone You Love Is Polyamorous: Understanding Poly People and Relationships (Paperback)
by (shelved 5 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 3.92 — 327 ratings — published 2013
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Polyamory in the 21st Century: Love and Intimacy with Multiple Partners Polyamory in the 21st Century: Love and Intimacy with Multiple Partners (Hardcover)
by (shelved 5 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 3.63 — 320 ratings — published 2010
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Beyond Monogamy: Polyamory and the Future of Polyqueer Sexualities (Intersections, 13) Beyond Monogamy: Polyamory and the Future of Polyqueer Sexualities (Intersections, 13)
by (shelved 5 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 3.36 — 73 ratings — published
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Why It's OK to Not Be Monogamous Why It's OK to Not Be Monogamous (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 4 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.00 — 33 ratings — published
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Monogamy? In this Economy?: Finances, Childrearing, and Other Practical Concerns of Polyamory Monogamy? In this Economy?: Finances, Childrearing, and Other Practical Concerns of Polyamory (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 4 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.03 — 30 ratings — published
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Anarquía Relacional: La revolución desde los vínculos Anarquía Relacional: La revolución desde los vínculos (Paperback)
by (shelved 4 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.32 — 393 ratings — published 2020
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More: A Memoir of Open Marriage More: A Memoir of Open Marriage (Hardcover)
by (shelved 4 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 3.46 — 9,553 ratings — published 2024
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Open Deeply Open Deeply (Paperback)
by (shelved 4 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.35 — 212 ratings — published
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Fifty Years of Polyamory in America: A Guided Tour of a Growing Movement Fifty Years of Polyamory in America: A Guided Tour of a Growing Movement (Hardcover)
by (shelved 4 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 3.79 — 24 ratings — published
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Iron Widow (Iron Widow #1) Iron Widow (Iron Widow #1)
by (shelved 4 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.03 — 106,781 ratings — published 2021
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Many Love: A Memoir of Polyamory and Finding Love(s) Many Love: A Memoir of Polyamory and Finding Love(s)
by (shelved 4 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.02 — 959 ratings — published 2018
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Stories From the Polycule: Real Life in Polyamorous Families Stories From the Polycule: Real Life in Polyamorous Families (Paperback)
by (shelved 4 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 3.75 — 169 ratings — published 2015
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Understanding Non-Monogamies (Routledge Research in Gender and Society) Understanding Non-Monogamies (Routledge Research in Gender and Society)
by (shelved 4 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 3.95 — 37 ratings — published 2009
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The Lesbian Polyamory Reader The Lesbian Polyamory Reader (Paperback)
by (shelved 4 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 3.87 — 53 ratings — published 1999
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A Polyamory Devotional: 365 Daily Reflections for the Consensually Nonmonogamous A Polyamory Devotional: 365 Daily Reflections for the Consensually Nonmonogamous (Paperback)
by (shelved 3 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.21 — 29 ratings — published
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Triple Sec Triple Sec (Paperback)
by (shelved 3 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 3.83 — 4,781 ratings — published 2024
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Radical Intimacy Radical Intimacy (Paperback)
by (shelved 3 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.14 — 1,826 ratings — published 2023
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Entwined: Essays on Polyamory and Creating Home Entwined: Essays on Polyamory and Creating Home (Paperback)
by (shelved 3 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.38 — 341 ratings — published 2024
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Polyamorous Elders: Aging in Open Relationships (Diverse Sexualities, Genders, and Relationships) Polyamorous Elders: Aging in Open Relationships (Diverse Sexualities, Genders, and Relationships)
by (shelved 3 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.50 — 2 ratings — published
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Open Love: The Complete Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory, and More Open Love: The Complete Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory, and More (Paperback)
by (shelved 3 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.18 — 11 ratings — published
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Nonmonogamy and Neurodiversity: A More Than Two Essentials Guide (3) Nonmonogamy and Neurodiversity: A More Than Two Essentials Guide (3)
by (shelved 3 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 3.64 — 215 ratings — published 2023
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Fraught Intimacies: Non/Monogamy in the Public Sphere (Sexuality Stud) Fraught Intimacies: Non/Monogamy in the Public Sphere (Sexuality Stud)
by (shelved 3 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 2.31 — 16 ratings — published 2015
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The Polyamory Toolkit: A Guidebook for Polyamorous Relationships The Polyamory Toolkit: A Guidebook for Polyamorous Relationships (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 3 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.19 — 80 ratings — published 2019
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A Dowry of Blood A Dowry of Blood (Hardcover)
by (shelved 3 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 3.94 — 97,000 ratings — published 2021
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Love Without Emergency: I Want This but I Feel Like I'm Going to Die: Writings on Trauma, Attachment, and Polyamory Love Without Emergency: I Want This but I Feel Like I'm Going to Die: Writings on Trauma, Attachment, and Polyamory (Unknown Binding)
by (shelved 3 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.42 — 405 ratings — published
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Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good (Paperback)
by (shelved 3 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.23 — 9,290 ratings — published 2019
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Ask Me About Polyamory: The Best of Kimchi Cuddles Ask Me About Polyamory: The Best of Kimchi Cuddles (Paperback)
by (shelved 3 times as non-monogamy)
avg rating 4.04 — 689 ratings — published 2016
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Tali Sara
“I knew it would end. I pretended I didn't because that seemed like the human thing to do. But I knew. She wanted monogamy, indefinitely. It's who she was. I wanted non-monogamy, indeterminately. It's who I am. We settled on monogamy, indeterminately, sacrificing parts of ourselves to be together and calling it love.”
Tali Sara, Screaming into Pillows