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Codependency Books
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Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself (Paperback)
by (shelved 46 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.12 — 49,370 ratings — published 1986
The Language of Letting Go: Daily Meditations on Codependency (Hazelden Meditation Series)
by (shelved 18 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.37 — 8,926 ratings — published 1990
Facing Codependence: What It Is, Where It Comes from, How It Sabotages Our Lives (Paperback)
by (shelved 14 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.07 — 3,227 ratings — published 1989
Just a Bit Wrecked (Straight Guys, #11)
by (shelved 11 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.05 — 12,241 ratings — published 2020
Dirty Love (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 10 times as codependency)
avg rating 3.90 — 8,329 ratings — published
Beyond Codependency: And Getting Better All the Time (Paperback)
by (shelved 10 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.22 — 3,809 ratings — published 1989
Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life (Hardcover)
by (shelved 9 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.21 — 86,895 ratings — published 1992
Facing Love Addiction: Giving Yourself the Power to Change the Way You Love (Paperback)
by (shelved 9 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.09 — 1,399 ratings — published 1989
The New Codependency: Help and Guidance for Today's Generation (Hardcover)
by (shelved 9 times as codependency)
avg rating 3.92 — 2,317 ratings — published
Just a Bit Heartless (Straight Guys, #13)
by (shelved 8 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.24 — 9,494 ratings — published 2022
Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You (Paperback)
by (shelved 8 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.22 — 421 ratings — published 2014
Women Who Love Too Much: When You Keep Wishing and Hoping He'll Change (Paperback)
by (shelved 8 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.04 — 31,009 ratings — published 1985
Possession (Constantine Brothers, #1)
by (shelved 6 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.15 — 4,926 ratings — published 2025
Just a Bit Captivated (Straight Guys, #14)
by (shelved 6 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.04 — 6,937 ratings — published 2023
You're My Home (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 6 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.12 — 4,538 ratings — published 2021
Whit (Unexpected, #1)
by (shelved 6 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.06 — 16,834 ratings — published 2022
A Totally Platonic Thing (Santa Rafaela, #2)
by (shelved 6 times as codependency)
avg rating 3.77 — 1,342 ratings — published
Just a Bit Unhealthy (Straight Guys, #3)
by (shelved 6 times as codependency)
avg rating 3.62 — 14,134 ratings — published 2015
Saving Sparrow (Slow Burns & Tragic Beginnings, #2)
by (shelved 5 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.56 — 688 ratings — published
Forever Always (Forever #1)
by (shelved 5 times as codependency)
avg rating 3.84 — 604 ratings — published
Pippin & Nacho (Alpha's Rejects, #2)
by (shelved 5 times as codependency)
avg rating 3.99 — 753 ratings — published
Be Mine, Twisted Valentine (Corrupt Cupid, #1)
by (shelved 5 times as codependency)
avg rating 3.97 — 2,143 ratings — published 2023
Always Him (Inevitable, #2)
by (shelved 5 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.11 — 6,010 ratings — published
Mad Love (Dangerous Daddies, #1)
by (shelved 5 times as codependency)
avg rating 3.82 — 4,775 ratings — published
Expert (The Wrong Alpha, #4)
by (shelved 5 times as codependency)
avg rating 3.87 — 6,181 ratings — published 2023
Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself (ebook)
by (shelved 5 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.25 — 36,779 ratings — published 2021
Irresponsible Puckboy (Puckboys, #2)
by (shelved 5 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.03 — 21,908 ratings — published 2022
Just a Bit Confusing (Straight Guys, #5)
by (shelved 5 times as codependency)
avg rating 3.75 — 13,198 ratings — published 2015
You're Not Crazy - You're Codependent. (ebook)
by (shelved 5 times as codependency)
avg rating 3.96 — 715 ratings — published 2012
Codependency For Dummies (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 5 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.26 — 533 ratings — published 2012
Codependents' Guide to the Twelve Steps (Paperback)
by (shelved 5 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.34 — 808 ratings — published 1990
French 75 (Miami Nights and Club Lights #3)
by (shelved 4 times as codependency)
avg rating 3.68 — 1,261 ratings — published
Defensive Zone (Chicago Thunder #3)
by (shelved 4 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.00 — 2,467 ratings — published 2024
On the Mountain (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 4 times as codependency)
avg rating 3.98 — 3,983 ratings — published 2024
Knock Knock (From Nothing, #3)
by (shelved 4 times as codependency)
avg rating 3.98 — 5,883 ratings — published 2023
Stupid Dirty (Possum Hollow, #1)
by (shelved 4 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.06 — 5,825 ratings — published 2024
Little Demon in the Details (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 4 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.20 — 4,673 ratings — published 2023
Hidden Scars (Darby U Hockey Boys, #1)
by (shelved 4 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.10 — 17,654 ratings — published 2022
Consumed (Unlucky 13, #7)
by (shelved 4 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.04 — 1,313 ratings — published
Wolfgang (Vampire's Mate, #5)
by (shelved 4 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.05 — 4,155 ratings — published 2023
Bad Wrong Things (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 4 times as codependency)
avg rating 3.96 — 5,141 ratings — published 2022
Codependent No More Workbook (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 4 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.31 — 689 ratings — published
Codependent No More & Beyond Codependency (Hardcover)
by (shelved 4 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.27 — 848 ratings — published 1992
The Human Magnet Syndrome: Why We Love People Who Hurt Us (Paperback)
by (shelved 4 times as codependency)
avg rating 3.99 — 1,574 ratings — published 2013
Breaking Free of the Co-Dependency Trap (Paperback)
by (shelved 4 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.04 — 340 ratings — published 1999
Breaking Free: A Recovery Handbook for 'Facing Codependence' (Paperback)
by (shelved 4 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.06 — 170 ratings — published 1989
The Marriage Policy (The Jilted Exes' Club, #2)
by (shelved 3 times as codependency)
avg rating 3.88 — 2,837 ratings — published 2025
Nothing to Lose (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 3 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.08 — 1,950 ratings — published 2025
Kiss the Villain (Villain, #1)
by (shelved 3 times as codependency)
avg rating 4.02 — 50,598 ratings — published 2025
Savage (Sins of the Banna #1)
by (shelved 3 times as codependency)
avg rating 3.99 — 1,020 ratings — published
“I was not just sorrowful that first summer after Rayya died but also, at times, enraged. It was not only anger at Rayya’s absence that I was feeling; it was anger at myself for how much of myself I had given away—and anger at what she had left behind for me to clean up. She had assigned me the task of handling the details of her estate, for instance, which did not turn out to be an easy job. Rayya had been both contradictory and grandiose with her friends and loved ones about what her bank account actually contained and how she wished her money and possessions to be distributed. With a furiously clenched jaw, I did my best to clean up the confusion she had left behind and to manage everyone’s frustration—including my own. The financial gifts that she had promised to her friends I paid from my own account, because her own account was pretty much empty. I paid off her credit card bills, too—although people told me this was a stupid thing to do. (“Why pay the bills of the dead? What are they gonna do? Dock her paycheck?”)
But martyrdom is a central characteristic of codependency, and so of course I paid her bills—not generously, mind you, but angrily. Victimly. “Why am I still down here serving you,” I remember shouting at Rayya in the woods one day, “when you get to float off into heaven and become fucking music?”
― All the Way to the River
But martyrdom is a central characteristic of codependency, and so of course I paid her bills—not generously, mind you, but angrily. Victimly. “Why am I still down here serving you,” I remember shouting at Rayya in the woods one day, “when you get to float off into heaven and become fucking music?”
― All the Way to the River
“I HOLD
If I could have had
him,
I could have let
him
go.
But without
the having
there was
nothing—
so to the nothing
I
hold.”
―
If I could have had
him,
I could have let
him
go.
But without
the having
there was
nothing—
so to the nothing
I
hold.”
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