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Tasha
I'm in my 40's and thought it was the most RIDICULOUS book ever! If you are down with self absorbed, judgmental, obvious narcissist then it's for you
Priscilla
I just turned 60 and although some of the chapters don't apply to my stage in life, I found Rachel to be refreshingly honest about things that she's struggled with, and at times failed in. If more of the reading community was less judgmental, and simply looked for a few take away's that apply to their lives, wouldn't we all be in a better frame of mind? And perhaps more helpful to others?
Caitlyn Steiner
I’m 27 and it was ridiculous. I’m on page 92, and I will never read past that page. Give me your address and I’ll send it to you for free just to get it out of my house.
Susan Spensley
I'm 55 and I wish I would've read this book 20 years ago. I gave up on my dreams long ago. This made me believe that I am still able to achieve anything I want.
Amy
Shoot, I'm 41 and I couldn't relate to it. In fact, it was a great reminder that I'm doing just fine on my own.
Melissa
If you aren't bitter, you might get something out of it.
Lex
I'm so surprised by some of the responses. I found it uplifting and fun. I'm 38.
Dee
Don't bother -- unless you would also take life advice from a teen aged niece who has suddenly become born again while also striking it rich on the internet.
Mel
I'm 55 and it changed my life! I have hardcover, kindle, and Audible copies. I just skip the mommy chapters now. I absolutely love this book;
Danica Martinez
I'm 46 and found this book to be absolutely ridiculous. I can't believe the praise and accolades it has received. The author came across as insincere, self-absorbed and shallow. I hate-read most of it.
Kali
I think any age group can benefit from the lessons taught in this book. I’m in my 40’s and enjoyed it. However, I do think her target audience is women in their 20’s and 30’s.
Donna
I'm 65 and spent my career as a Sales Manager, working from my home since 1982 and solely responsible for sales in from 13 to 50 states. I needed to be self motivated, organized and cheerful 60 hours a week. I did not find this book motivational. Anthony Robbins was motivational in my day. Ruth B. Ginsburg is motivational. This self serving, "look at me living in Bel Aire" drivel was not.
Karen
I'm 55, and she just made me angry. LOL. I found her to be ridiculous, sure, but I worry about her message being dangerous to some young women struggling to just get through this life, which we all know is a lot more than this woman's upper crust experience. That being said, I am clearly just not her audience.
Elaine Smith
I am 70 and in a book group with my daughters. It was one we all agreed to read, chosen by a young daughter raising a handful of kids.
I enjoyed her advice and spunky attitude. And I did learn things from reading it. But I do think is is geared to a younger age group. But i liked it!!
I enjoyed her advice and spunky attitude. And I did learn things from reading it. But I do think is is geared to a younger age group. But i liked it!!
Rachel S
I'm 30 and I hated it. The author is a self-centered, privileged snob who does not base any of her so-called "Christian living" book on Scriptural ideals.
Dawn
I'm 47 and thoroughly enjoyed the book. Honestly, though, what you gain from it is all going to depend on your self awareness. I may not have gained new perspective or learned much, but that's because I myself have gone to years of therapy to learn how to look at life differently. My mom is 70, and I will be sending her this book. She is someone who struggles with a constant negative outlook, extreme poor self care, etc, and Rachel Hollis has a much better way of phrasing things than I do lol, so I'm hoping it helps my Mom get to a healthier place in life. I hope that helps you a bit.
Linda
I'm in my 60's, thought it was great. Has advice people can use no matter how old- we are all still alive and many people still want to alter their lives and how they think of and do things. Take the advice you can use, let the advice you can't use go.
Sue Gerth (The Bookalicious Babe)
I am 51 and much of it resonated with me. Of course there are parts that don't matter to me and I skipped those. But her message of setting goals, working at them, being brave. Those are things that I need to be reminded of, sometimes more often than others. Yes, there are some things she talks about that I already do-but I don't think you have to be 25 to read this.
Carrie
hard pass. for so many reasons.
Kari
I'm 33 and didn't learn anything from the book. I think it would be good for teenagers through early 20s.
Hannah Kartagener
I am in my mid 40's. Parts of the book were quite motivating and refreshing. However, several parts of the book were just not for me. My life, goals, dreams, activities, and values are very different from the authors. I was not offended by what she had to say, but some of it was odd and rubbed me the wrong way for sure. Several of her statements could not be reconciled as healthy, in my world. Some whole chapters were just bizarre and not well placed, in my opinion. My final thought, if you read it, finish it. I do not regret reading it. It is a quick and easy read. Take the good and helpful but do not spend too much time pondering the rest, especially if your viewpoints on your own personal boundaries are already well established at your age. Everyone has different boundaries. I did not read the book to contemplate changing mine. It is hard to go into much detail without sounding judgmental. Lol! I truly appreciated the authors transparency, I just could not relate to her choices and experiences in many aspects. Still, parts of it and many statements are quite motivating.
Carla
I am 55 and rolled my eyes through a lot of the book especially in the beginning because I thought it was geared more towards young mom with young kids. I still enjoyed it though and think she's an amazing writer.
Echagolla
I am in mid-40's and liked the spirit of the author. But, I felt the target audience of this book is definitely 20's, maybe early 30's who probably need to solidify the belief (in oneself) that the author try to deliver. For most women in 40's and older would relate ourselves more to the wisdom from all those experiences that the author encourage the readers to explore. Maybe the "wisdom" will be her next book.
Bethany Hickey
She is refreshing and I love that she is willing to open up about her struggles and flaws but I found myself rolling my eyes a lot and thinking she needs to give many women more credit. She is definitely fond of herself. I would also refrain from reading it if you aren't Christian or at least very open to faith in general being the end all answer to struggles and life. A few times I could relate to her struggles but in the end her solution was reading scriptures and blind faith. That was simply not helpful for me. And, she clearly wrote each chapter separately and then created a book out of them. t lacks flow and is redundant. I'm 37. But my dear friend who is also 37 HIGHLY recommended it to me.
Reba
I'm in my mid-50s and found it amazing and insightful and inspiring.
Sheridan
I just finished reading it and I am in my 60s, oh my. This is a must read for all women; get in line and dig into yourself and how you could change your thoughts and patterns to make your best life possible. Don't wait any longer if you have not read it yet!
Debra
I am in my 60's and loved it and learned from it. There were parts of raising young children that didn't apply currently but took me back to those years. Enjoyable read and very insightful!
Annie
I'm in my 60's and am reading the book. I am not finding it riveting or helpful, the only thing I really appreciate about it is that Rachel manages to get through it without unnecessary use of curse words, which seems to be rare for this type of book, and does not go unnoticed by me. Thank you Rachel.
Gail Keefe
I'm in my 60's, and it gave me a little incentive to get on with some things that I've always wanted to do. It's not a great book, but not a complete waste of my time to read it, either.
Kara
I think it depends on you. While I enjoyed some of her stories (she's funny in an authentic way) and I found the book relatable, it didn't reveal anything to me that I haven't already learned through experience and reflection. I agree with another reader about the target audience being people in their 20's and 30's.
Linda Hammond
I'm in my 60's and found the book very motivational (most chapters). And, I'm already on the road to fulfilling dreams that I let go of because I thought it was too late. It has also helped me to open up and take a good look at my past and understand why I make decisions like I do. Everybody has their own reality. Some people are making very rude comments; this book may not be for everybody. Some may need more intensive counseling than others and some may have the perfect life.
Betty
I'm in my 70's - my granddaughter loved the book - I read it to see what it was about and enjoyed it - also proud that two of my four granddaughters read it and enjoyed it. I would think anyone and everyone could gain something from this book.
Lisa Oxenhandler
Definitely, recommend. Granted, I'm not going to have kids but it's about being a good person...the person you are meant to be. Not the person you are meant to be at 35.
Debi Crawford-Poyner
I am 66 and in my first year of retirement from teaching for 39 years. I just started reading this book and plan to finish it.
LaToya Burks
I am taken aback with some of the criticism about this book. I loved it for many reasons. Yes, most of what was in the book I have heard before or I find myself telling it to someone. However, it rejuvenated me in ways. It made me remember my goals and why I had them in the first place. It helped me remember that I am not the "only one" in whatever I am going through at the moment. It basically rekindled my spirit, and that was something that I needed.
Cynde
I'm 65 , I enjoyed it and there were some topics that applied even though it was written by a younger woman for younger women. It was fun to read.
Angela Lopez-delfino
If I didn't order it on my kindle I'd give you my copy that I couldn't finish.
Fiona Wu
I'm in my 30s, and I have read better books than this. I won't recommend this book to my daughter either (she's still a bit too young but won't do anyway even if she's a teen).
SpectrumUser14
I'm 16 and in love with this book. *Heart eyes*
Jody
I'm 48, and it was an interesting read. Inspirational? No. This book is geared more to the 20-30 year old with young kids. But it did feel like a chat with a girlfriend. She details some difficulties with her childhood, with her brother's suicide, with getting out of her own head, and her exhausting and depressing experiences with foster parenting to adoption. With these issues in her history, she does maintain a positive outlook on life. If you get nothing out of it, get the message that we all have bad times and we choose not to be a victim. She has interesting experiences, not new and different than others, but provides a good outlook on moving forward. Her love story was a bit childish and immature, but who doesn't have some of those stories? It's more of a conversation with a friend, not a self help or motivational book. Probably would be better received for an audio book than a reading piece.
Rosalie
I have just borrowed this book from our library after the mention of Rachel Hollis came up on another site. I found the book to be full "look what I have overcome and achieved". Her spouting of her Christian beliefs to be pretty annoying and alienating, especially after saying she doesn't mind what religion you are. Very shallow. I am 60!!
Cristal Elias
On my late 20's and I agree with Tasha! Maybe, because I'm not a mom or let anyone get in my way. I cant really id with her.
Deb Omnivorous Reader
I am over 50 but not quite 60. If you went through the self help phase of the 80's - 90's there will be nothing new here for you. Also, I found that as a non-American, non-Christian, non-Mother there was not much here for me. I love her enthusiasm for her cause but I was not her target audience.
Alexis
It had its ups and downs for me .I read it from
my daughters list of books. i could relate to some things through my life and others I feel were directed at a younger audience. I have certainly read worse and definately better. ( almost 51 here)
my daughters list of books. i could relate to some things through my life and others I feel were directed at a younger audience. I have certainly read worse and definately better. ( almost 51 here)
Irma
I'm in my 50's and it was stuff we've already heard. She's not an expert. But she's young, so she's experiencing a lot for the first time.
Cynthia
i have NOT read this book, but it sounds like she has, somewhat, of a handle on what 'The Secret' espouses – or maybe Louise Hay. You might want to check them out before you get this book – but I did put it on my 'eventual' list – though I am 70 and may not get there ;)
Mary C.
I'm 53 and loved it. I think it's good for any lady. I recommend you read it.
Teresa
If you are religious and not too intelligent you may find it a good read, You may also like it if you are white and privileged. It is a stupid book by a preachers daughter that has learned how to preach even though she know very little.
Suzanne
I'm 47 and I have really enjoyed it. It doesn't matter to me how much money Rachel has or her background. The point is for me to read these chapters and think how they relate to MY life, not hers. I think many of the lies she talks about are lies that many women tell themselves. Take what you need from it and leave the rest. I'm ready to make a change in my life and this book is helping me along.
Lauren
I am 61 and loved it! I liked her brutal honesty, and could relate to some of her experiences. It made me think of my younger self and I wish this book had been around for me to read when I was 16! While some of the chapters were for a younger age group, I found it very motivating and fun to read!
Candee Parkhurst
I'm between 50 and 60 and truely enjoyed Rachel's book. I'm recommending it to all of my younger friends including my daughter.
Susan
I am 62 years old. Not every chapter will apply to everyone, but I think most people will find plenty of helpful advice and motivation. I loved the book and wish we women would be more supportive of each other. Rachel isn't telling us we should all make the same decisions she did or have the same goals she does. She's telling us to follow our own dreams, set our own goals, and go after them. I was at a meeting where we discussed the book and a couple of women near my age said it didn't apply to them because they have no goals. Personally, I think that's sad. We can have goals and want to improve at any age.
LeAnn J
I'm in my 50's. I wish I had read this before I read the book. Too self absorbed and religious for me. I kept telling myself to stop reading it but I am the type of person that usually finishes books.
Joanna Bedggood
I am 52 - I find it reads as "young". I can imagine having thought it was great when I was in my 20s
Samie Ducky
I'm 29, a Wiccan and I read it and loved it. I am sorry that those of you who didn't finish the book lack the commitment to finish such a short book. I read the Bible and that was the worst book I ever read but at least I finished it.
Cindy
Alas, it's for ladies younger than me....but the sentence about not lying to yourself resonated
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