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Domestic Violence, Coercive Control, Dating, Relationship, Narcissists, Abuse, Abuser, control, rape, sexual violence, misogyny, incel, red pill
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Dancing with red flags: A manual for women who’ve had enough of charming bastards.
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No Visible Bruises: What We Don’t Know About Domestic Violence Can Kill Us
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Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men
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In a Day’s Work: The Fight to End Sexual Violence Against America’s Most Vulnerable Workers
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See What You Made Me Do: Power, Control and Domestic Violence
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How To Find The Right Person To Date: A Step By Step Guide To Finding The Right Partner And Detecting An Abuser
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The #MeToo Reckoning: Facing the Church's Complicity in Sexual Abuse and Misconduct
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Roll Red Roll: Rape, Power, and Football in the American Heartland
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Nobody's Victim: Fighting Psychos, Stalkers, Pervs, and Trolls
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The Beginning and End of Rape: Confronting Sexual Violence in Native America
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The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence
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Violated: Exposing Rape at Baylor University amid College Football's Sexual Assault Crisis
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At the Dark End of the Street: Black Women, Rape, and Resistance--A New History of the Civil Rights Movement from Rosa Parks to the Rise of Black Power
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How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved
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Unsportsmanlike Conduct: College Football and the Politics of Rape
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Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them: When Loving Hurts and You Don't Know Why
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Men Who Hate Women
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On Violence and On Violence Against Women
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Insecure in Love: How Anxious Attachment Can Make You Feel Jealous, Needy, and Worried and What You Can Do About It
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Down Girl: The Logic of Misogyny
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Drawing Power: Women's Stories of Sexual Violence, Harassment, and Survival
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Blind to Betrayal
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No Visible Bruises: What We Don’t Know About Domestic Violence Can Kill Us
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Rachel Louise Snyder (Goodreads Author)
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Troll Hunting
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Some Men: Feminist Allies and the Movement to End Violence against Women
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Misogynation: The True Scale of Sexism
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Men Who Hate Women: From Incels to Pickup Artists: The Truth about Extreme Misogyny and How it Affects Us All (Essential Book for Women's History Month)
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The Macho Paradox: Why Some Men Hurt Women and How All Men Can Help
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Who's Pulling Your Strings? How to Break the Cycle of Manipulation and Regain Control of Your Life
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Surrounded by Narcissists: How to Effectively Recognize, Avoid, and Defend Yourself Against Toxic People (and Not Lose Your Mind)
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Home-Grown
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Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back
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In Control: Dangerous Relationships and How They End in Murder
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The Big Disconnect: Protecting Childhood and Family Relationships in the Digital Age
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Entitled: How Male Privilege Hurts Women
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With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships
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The Abusive Personality: Violence and Control in Intimate Relationships
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Not That Bad: Dispatches from Rape Culture
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The Batterer: A Psychological Profile
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Love Lockdown: Dating, Sex, and Marriage in America's Prisons
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Coercive Control: How Men Entrap Women in Personal Life
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Credible: Why We Doubt Accusers and Protect Abusers
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Do As I Say: How Cults Control, Why We Join Them, and What They Teach Us About Bullying, Abuse and Coercion
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"Don't You Know Who I Am?": How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement, and Incivility
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Shame Nation: The Global Epidemic of Online Hate
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Stalkers
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Psycho.com: serial killers on the internet
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Daily Wisdom for Why Does He Do That?: Encouragement for Women Involved with Angry and Controlling Men
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Why Women Are Blamed for Everything: Exploring Victim Blaming of Women Subjected to Violence and Trauma
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Not That Bad: Dispatches from Rape Culture
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Woman-to-Woman Sexual Violence: Does She Call It Rape?
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Black Eyes All of the Time: Intimate Violence, Aboriginal Women, and the Justice System
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When Dad Hurts Mom: Helping Your Children Heal the Wounds of Witnessing Abuse
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The Macho Paradox: Why Some Men Hurt Women and How All Men Can Help
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Know My Name
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The Verbally Abusive Man, Can He Change?: A Woman's Guide to Deciding Whether to Stay or Go
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Naming the Violence: Speaking Out about Lesbian Battering (New Leaf Series)
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To the Survivors: One Man's Journey as a Rape Crisis Counselor with True Stories of Sexual Violence
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Verbal Abuse Survivors Speak Out: On Relationship and Recovery
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Not To People Like Us: Hidden Abuse In Upscale Marriages
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The Batterer as Parent: Addressing the Impact of Domestic Violence on Family Dynamics
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Boundaries in Dating: How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Relationships
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Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life
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Unfuck Your Boundaries: Build Better Relationships Through Consent, Communication, and Expressing Your Needs
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Should I Stay or Should I Go?: A Guide to Knowing If Your Relationship Can--and Should--be Saved
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The Dark Triad of Personality: Narcissism, Machiavellianism, and Psychopathy in Everyday Life
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Will I Ever Be Free of You?
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Run Like Hell: A Therapist’s Guide to Recognizing, Escaping, and Healing from Trauma Bonds
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Narcissistic Women: Unmasking the Female Narcissist and How to Talk to Women - 2 in 1: The Ultimate Guide on Identifying Red Flags, Avoiding Gaslighting, and Emotional Manipulation
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On Spiritual Abuse: When Power, Control, and Doctrine Merge and Injure
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How to Handle a Narcissist, Sociopath or Psychopath : Spotting the differences to set yourself free from Narcissistic / Toxic Relationships and Psychological Abuse
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A Cult of One: How to Deprogram Yourself from Narcissistic Abuse
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The Tragedy of Heterosexuality
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Fake
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Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts
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Coming Apart: How to Heal Your Broken Heart
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If He's So Great, Why Do I Feel So Bad?: Recognizing and Overcoming Subtle Abuse
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