C. (Comment, never msg).’s Comments (group member since Jan 30, 2014)

C. (Comment, never msg).’s comments from the Gentle SPECTRUMS group.

Leeanne, I am sorry you had a COVID19 scare! It is something, God willing, you can get over at home. I would rather not deal with a hospital. But I don't know with whom you live and whom you see. I see my Dad, his brother, his son and Grandson, and my brother and sister-in-law. My uncle lost his wife the year before my Mom, so they are widowers together and my brothers and cousin are missing our Moms at the same time. The fear of having symptoms after staying in a public environment makes sense: to confirm you do not have COVID19 and don't need space from whomever shares your home or "social bubble". Be well, Leeanne!

There is no rush. I like having topic threads for personal and general news and will make some to chat about televisions shows, films, music, etc anytime we like. I was just being a competent hostess and to complete my thoughts about Anne. It is natural for thoughts, opinions, and feelings in life to mix with discussing books. When we are done, we can continue support and feelings about life outside this thread.

The ass who borrowed one of my diaries, has no power over what I do. I mean it is ample and I am thankful for my memory, for continuing to talk with my Mom, and for having her writings. I could not vent or commemorate any more details than I do in letters, e-mails, and internet forums. You know what I mean?

A reminder of relatives or occurrences when we are little or haven't met them, is different. I am glad you were reminded of your Great-Grandparents and even better, to have the treasure trove of well-labelled family history that you do, Leeanne!

One thing I balk at, a separate topic, is the stringent line at which organizers demark "hoarding" or "needless" and the idea that spartanism is a virtue to be coveted. I wonder if your Great-Grandparents used to get flack for keeping all the papers, boxes, and bags that they did. They would positively glow now, knowing how much they are treasured and appreciated.

My Mom's loyal effort to keep childhood mementoes and things of interest for us, did get away from her. It is hard to see into numerous packed items. She asked for my help and when I made efforts a few months before moving, she got distracted giving us food and visiting, or Ron wanted to go home after a couple of hours. The only thing Mom could have done better was look every 10 years at what belonged to my brothers and me. I would have taken my items years ago and the same for the boys, to reduce her stack. When they had to move to an apartment this day in 2017, I had to drive to the city every day to make sure that 40 years' worth of things that should be saved, were saved.

This was of course without having any idea that my Mom would not live much longer. I couldn't bring things home in bulk to work on later, without having a truck at that time. Ron & I fit whatever we could in two cars and had to sort on the spot. I sped under the threat of my brother and sister-in-law wanting to throw things out and my Dad's useless emotional state. My Mom had to set-up the apartment with him. She needed me and I did not let her down. After finally being done after 6 days of the stress and nonstop work, hardly eating or peeing; I came home to hug my cats and feel relieved. Looking through what we brought home was going to be fun. I had ample closure with our family home and had saved just all I could carry.

I called it quits at 3:00AM, July 13, 2017. I had already brought the burial cross of our childhood cat to stand in my own yard, next to Conan's young brother. Imagine getting home at 4:00AM to find Conan gone. I didn't dream it would take 3 years to get him back. I will take that blessing however it arrives! Thank goodness for my spiritual faith (outside of religious rule) and trust that God helps us in ways we don't foresee. This very stressful situation provided the unusual explanation for Conan's absence.

It is human nature to panic that he might have died. It took a lot of talking, praying, analyzing to realize there are many places cats can be. Later, various spiritual insights confirmed he has not perished. Our indoor cats with outdoor priviledges hated being cooped up while I wasn't home and I didn't make it clear to Conan that it was going to stop that day. He took a vacation and the Lord only knows what delayed him from being back yet. But the terrible moving predicament and confinement gives us a reason for a cat who loves us very much, to take a trip. We know he will be back and adding your prayers and encouragement is even more helpful. I look forward to the story of miracles that I will inspire everyone with. Prayers have been answered all my life so I know they are the real thing. Thank you for adding your hearts and voices!

Hearing about a young death has hardly any consolation, except that your school and community remember that dear girl. They are revered and loved in your hearts and souls whether or not you knew them. It shows the power of that little child's soul to touch all of you. I wish it had stayed in her body far beyond 7 years. But if we can be thankful for little else: see the evidence that no soul is small or insignificant! Mentioning her existance continues to touch us. It is my motto for feline family whose lives came to their conclusion: that we will keep loving and talking about them long after the duration of their biological lifetimes.

That is the gift of physical mementoes. My Mom eventually had to go, physical-wise but I have all sorts of objects and belongings that last longer that our lifetimes. I can still touch and read things she touched and read. I gradually gave her back a lot of keepsakes and papers after my Mom moved. Unfortunately, it means I am getting it back all over again from my Dad, with continued reassurance that my brother and no one be allowed to declare it is disposable! But it made my Mom happy to be able to look over a lot of her keepsakes again. I am glad she got to see things that had been packed for decades, labelled carefully like your relatives are good at too.

One glance at a TV show probably isn't a fair gauge but the episode I caught of "Heartland" did not seem to be for me. I don't believe in killing animals period: neither euthanasia nor eating them. I am extremely uncomfortable with those things and it is hard to find a horse show that isn't about a fallen racehorse or vets artificially ending a life. Especially, one group of characters seem to sell cattle for beef. If there were any way to just enjoy ranch animals without the racing or food industry, I would love it. This doesn't stop me from being glad to hear about the show inspiring you and that it is a successful Canadian production. See, you do have favourite things! :)

Yes, self-respect and admiring beauty everywhere are the best things "Anne Of Green Gables" teaches! Standing up for yourself doesn't always return the results we want but respecting ourselves is the point. Sometimes the best we can do is know we voiced what we will and won't tolerate. Neighbours noisy dogs are an example. Country living should be peaceful and fairly quiet! It took a lot of guts to finally say something to each side of neighbours (we are in the middle of two pairs)! It didn't solve the problem all the way and we are uncomfortable with those neighbours. I feel disappointed, when I hear COVID19 stories about neighbours helping each other and liking each other. I am there if they need me but talking to them creeps me out. Trying a second or third time to describe how badly we are affected sounds like the same complaint to their ears and does not seem to get them to view it seriously.

I sent animal control to talk with one family. Even that isn't setting them as straight as it should. Last night, one east dog barked for half an hour, through our bedroom wall. When that happens, I can't read a book in the comfort of my own room. Who isn't careful with their dog after receiving formal complaints several times? They either have music or TVs going in there and don't hear there dogs for awhile, or have no concept of stopping a dog quickly to not intrude on neighbours. Anyway, I took months to work up the courage to talk to each family and was proud I had tried. Sorting out issues in a family or couple can take bravery and patience and be turbulent. The same unresolved complaint can fail to be understood seriously enough among people we love too.

We live in a beautiful, small home and harmony must be presevered within and all around it. There is only so much one should divulge in public, so I invite you to e-mail me one of these days. Love, health, and peace to you all, my friends! Carolyn.

The last things I have to say about Anne Shirley are that she was exuberant about things she was passionate about like any of us: usually beauty and gratitude. She was not viewed as too talkative by good conversationalists. Anne quieted easily if she was asked and loved listening to what other people said. Like anyone, there were some subjects she did not want to broach, like Gilbert or the care given her by well-meaning foster families. I hope films and TV shows don't depict a blabbermouth.

I love the point that there should be no fear about pampering an orphan. Anne continued in her gratitude and love of every pretty view, moment of friendship or love, and gift. There was a difference between expecting her to wear the clothes patterns of a 60 year-old and Marilla's claim of excess. Basic fashion consciousness, just to participate in the general looks of our time and geographical location, does not equate chasing trends.

The only observation I add is that it was enough of a struggle for Matthew's life to ascend. I loved that this wasn't another story about a farm family struggling to live. The part about a bank failing was a superfluous addition to hardship, was depressing, and I am sorry to see it. There would be a fun enough story of family and discovery with Anne going to university. A reason for her to stay in Avonlea didn't need to be concocted.

I will leave you dear ladies to answer and thank you for creating fun conversation topics with me. I guess readers of our folder will scroll through personal life and TV shows but real life is why we are here too and I have cherished all of it, when we needed it.

I have become familiar with "Schitt's Creek" enough to like it. This being Canada, various episodes air every day. I am curious to know how a New Zealander learned of it. I am enjoying "Corner Gas" reruns too and see that they went up to 2009 at least, continuing in an animated version. Yours warmly, Carolyn.

Hi Kerri! You remembered today! Thank you! Ron is my common-law spouse: my guy and best friend either way. Outside of e-mail privacy, I'll simply say he communication and emotions need better handling. Yes, he is supportive, sweet of you to check. He always reminds me Conan's disappearance happened to him too. He views them as children like I do, even though his parents are in a very different world.

Thank you for remembering it is 3 years and making me feel reassured and supported about it, dear Kerri! Leeanne is wonderful as well. There are storms today so I don't know how much I will check in. I am glad I was up early, to get hugs from Ron before he went to work. Perhaps knowing it will rain or storm, half of the cats wanted out this early, instead of going back to bed after breakfast. Once Ron's vehicle was clear, I let them out and came to look for the two of my friends boosting my spirits. :)

I started today communicating with Conan, as I learned in a workshop years ago. By now I don't follow exact steps and bring him into my mind and soul my own way. Surely that works as well and is best. I spoke for an hour about why, although we want him to be safe, alive, healthy, and happy: that our sorrow, pain, worry, and waiting doesn't go away until he is back home with us. I talked at length about what is going on with the family and why he should travel now. Then I said I would listen to what he had to say and do my best to receive his information.

The nutshell is that the people he is with aren't tattoo savvy, even though I think it is a really obvious tattoo and that they should just ask anyone they know how to use one. Thank you for looking into it. Yes, having a microchip is enough and people argue that it never fades. Tattoos have to be good from the beginning. I have trouble seeing small print now that I need reading glasses and a cat would have to be approachable. But I am glad I got you interested in looking into this. Legible or not, it is valuable to see that a cat has a family. It is easier to get close to read a tattoo with bright light behind, or let a camera zoom in on it, than driving an unfamiliar cat to a vet. Of course you have to keep the microchip and tattoo attached to current phone numbers and e-mail addresses, which you bet we do.

Conan reassured me he wants to return home to us, even though he is with kindly people lately. He forgets the time in the summer. When he is pining to come home, the season is wrong for travelling. He knows he will have to make a move now. This is what I got. In animal communication, you have to rise above hoping you aren't merely seeing or hearing what you want to see and hear.

Yes, there are nature signs and maybe my Mom will have a word with me today. I am encouraged by everything you are saying to me, about your whole letter; not just this. Thank you for being a wonderful friend in a way that every soul needs: lifting me up, having fun, and talking about entertainment and other things. I also love learning about you and am here for you.

I am sorry about your two friends. I would gladly listen if that is a private thing for e-mail sometime. A friend, even though we were out of touch, died by suicide at 40 and that felt very wrong and young too. 16 is just heartbreaking. When you reach 40 you will find out that you are still young, strong, and beautiful and are barely getting started on the life to live ahead of you. From that moment on, I stopped feeling funny about that age and decided I should enjoy it. I should enjoy getting to keep adding to my age; appreciate it, to properly respect those who are no longer alive.

Thank you for reinforcing that I ought to trust my inner voice and signs from God and nature and communication from Conan. Thanks to me airing out what I needed to this morning, opening a channel for him to speak as well, and receiving reassurance from you and Ron this momentous morning: I will be all right today!

Ron says not to focus on anniversaries because the world doesn't go according to that. He isn't dismissing the way I think; merely not to be disappointed and that we are glad to have our son back any day. He is right but I said I would appreciate encouragement on such days because I do think of certain days as important or sacred; the way my memory records them. I see Conan sitting where he sat and looking and what time it was. There is no better sign than the encouraging response from you, in time to greet my morning.

I promise I will finish the Anne conversation in another message soon. Today, if weather allows. I can't blow another dial-up modem while we count on it for our only internet access and it is quite a drive to get another one, from one store we know of in the year 2020. I only have one more note to make and am seeing if Leeanne has anything to add.

If I can't find "The Joy Luck Club" shortly, I am sure we are good to go on "Journey To The Centre Of The Earth" any time. "Aunt Dimity And The Deep Blue Sea" is excellent and will zoom by. Whether I indulge in something else next, is up to whether or not you have an opening to start Jules Verne. Much love and gratefulness in return, Carolyn.

P.S. You know that it is Conan in my main photo with my Mom & I, I wonder? That is one of our dear boys, the one for whom we are praying and of whom we are speaking. :)

Prayers and encouraging stories about getting Conan home are appreciated and needed. It isn't only his 10th birthday that I want him home for. I hoped you would see the detail that there is a great desire to have him home by tomorrow, because it would mark 3 sad years. As I told Leeanne, him being being alive and well is half of the prayer. He must be back, so this is over and we are never again in pain of separation. I won't move houses even if I wanted to, wondering when Conan will reappear or be seen in the region. Life paused, 3 years ago tomorrow. I need to unstick the button and have my full life and self back.

I am not giving up on him but must not lose any more time, nor have him with people so long, they don't think of us looking and waiting for him. Yes, someone more proactive can help with is photo or tatoo and he can walk back home as well. It is the right season. After all, this is when he took his vacation. I have no debt he wisely felt the need to stay safe by being somewhere else until now, or got father away than he meant to.

Guys, I am freaked-out that you don't know about tattooes. In Canada, you get them free when cats are spaid & neutered: going on for decades. Yes, seeing a cat tattoo instantly shows that he is somebody's boy. Although I don't know where he is, there is no way any agency or person killed him because he was "unidentified" or whatever stupid excuse some people and organizations use for killing. I can also tell he has not been taken to a vet.

If a cat lets you hold his ear and read it, you can look-up a tattoo chart and find out a lot on your own. The first letter tells the year of the tattoo, a good indicator of age. The next two tell which clinic registered him: the place where you get the phone number or e-mail address to return him!!!! The other three numbers identify the precise cat tattooed that year.

Saying he has a tattoo even if you can't read it helps a lot too and whether or not he is neutered. I have had many calls and e-mails about similar cats and am stunned that those well-meaning people didn't think to narrow those two basic things down for me. I checked out two places for months until I learned that they were seeing a different cat. In animal rescue, these are the first things you look for: markings, gender, tatoo or not, neutered or not.

Or you take a photo and include it with the e-mail. A face shot is best but even if it is from a distance (two people did), we can tell it wasn't Conan.

About writing, I had diaries as a child. Some stupid fuck who was supposed to be my friend stole it and read it. Even though that ass clearly is no issue anymore, journaling more details than I already remember is not for me. I really felt boosted by Leeanne's support, prayers, and care for grieving friends. All the e-mailing and written conversing I have done are enough, believe me. I was a penpal before the internet was invented. I already wrote my ass off about life details and don't need to write a surplus. Indeed, I am blessed my Mom did a lot of writing for me. Even better to receive it from the source!

Most importantly, I view myself as having a continued relationship with my Mom, even if I can't see her. I grew up knowing physical death doesn't end an existance. I don't feel as if my Mom is gone; just a little out of reach. But when Conan's brother Love, died, I felt sick for weeks. It felt like the university had the most terrible glitch and it shouldn't have happened. With my Mom, I don't regard it as something that is over and I know better with Love too. Young death is very hard to accept. I still talk with her, listen for her advice and presence, and feel that it is ongoing. It isn't only having a great memory and mental snapshots. :)

Speaking of trying to tune into spiritual things: I have been encouraged from the heart-wrenching day that our Conan vanished, that I should "wait". God and sometimes Conan telepathically asked me to trust that he is well and we will get him back "even if it takes a painful wait". I use animal communication to connect with him from time to time. Sometimes I get external signs, like suddenly seeing orange in nature, just when I needed encouragement.

I did yesterday! There is an orange wildflower behind his brother's resting place, that I had not seen there before. This colour is rarer. It is saying "Don't give up! Keep believing in your faith and miracles and in your gut"!

I need this with tomorrow's sensitive date and while having relationship stress. All couples have rocky roads but I could do without it at two of the most difficult times in my life. Thank goodness Marigold's health is good and stable. Thank you, Kerri and Leeanne, for being bright supporters and my human outlet. With gratitude, Carolyn.

Yes, I am fluent in French and in university, majored in Spanish. The Latin languages are easy when you know one of them. Canadians are so well exposed to French everywhere they go and on everything they buy, that most understand a lot of it; even if they wouldn't put together words to speak it.

I gave our discussion of Anne Shirley thought. I think the shows Leeanne remembers better than the novel, must have made Anne seem excessive. It occurs to me that she was never uselessly chatty. She knew how to express herself very well when she conveyed gratitude or admired beauty. That is why Matthew marvelled at her: he could hardly express his simple wants and needs. Marilla was too busy to go into detail on wants and needs, except in her inner reflexions. Maud made her very expressive therein.

If anyone entered a conversation, Anne let them have their say. I feel sure that she was never aimless. She just knew how to describe what she felt and believed gratitude and admiration should be defined aloud. In any time period, there are expressive and reticent people. I hope the TV shows or films that I watch capture that Anne expressed beauty and gratitude. It would be a mistake to make her look like a bubble head without a point.

Kerri's remark got me thinking too! Why would anyone worry about spoiling an orphan? Anne was so glad for things so basic, like a pretty view to look at! A home she would stay in! A normal person would bend over backwards to give Anne things she had lacked.

From the beginning, Matthew said: "A home is something we can do for this girl. Maybe it doesn't have to be about how a boy could help us". When Matthew noticed that Anne dressed differently than the school girls, he refused for her to do with less.

What did you conclude, Kerri? Did Maud make a mistake in portraying a natural tendency? Was Marilla's behaviour laid out illogically? Why think fancy dresses were "unnecessary"? Was it an excuse to use her dressing patterns? Didn't everyone have the mindset that you have good clothes for special occasions? Marilla had a beautiful brooch and good dishes for guests. Expecting an 11 year-old old to wear the dressing patterns of a 60 year-old, when it wouldn't be hard to add a few frills, makes no sense to me.

Thank you for your condolences about my Mom's ascension. Thank you for praying that pain of separation is eased for our family. Thank you too, for joining the prayer that can come out the way we hope: the return of our Conan. Yes, I have complete faith that he is alive and well. That is a pain of separation until he is back with us.

Of course you would hate to be separated from your cat. This terrible predicament has nothing to do with letting anyone down or poor care. My babies were indoors the week I helped my parents move in Winnipeg. Conan took a vacation, even though none had ever done this, because he was hardly going outside. I don't let them out when we aren't home and he didn't know this was the final day of this unusual arrangement. Once a cat takes a trip, there are all kinds of delays to observe to stay safe and they can't travel in winter. This is Conan's window of time right now: to come to us, or show himself to someone more resourceful and proactive.

I have an exceptional memory, like Sheldon Cooper. I remember what I want to, what is important, and things get into mental snapshots: like Jim's & Pam's wedding on "The Office". I can see my conversations and visits with my Mom. I remember where Conan stood the last time I saw him, 3 years ago, two days from now. Do I ever need peace and friendship this touchy week! I remember my last day with his brother, Love, who died 5 years ago. My mental snapshots are strong.

Also: my Mom left a lot of writings! Simple casual notes, record books about us as children and later, cards.... I have these valuable physical connections to go through slowly at my leisure. Whatever belongs to my brothers, I send to them. Although scattered and not retained by me: my reviews, Goodreads conversations, and e-mails have been my journals and outlets.

Thank you for the wonderful memory of your Great-Grandfather. You were a child when he died, thus promptings about things you shared must have felt like being gifted with a piece of your past! No wonder you cherish it. Thank you for your compassion, respect, friendship, prayers, and belief in miracles dear Leeanne. Kerri and other friends have been a Godsend too.

I was uncomfortable sealing a microchip into my cats and like ear tattoos better for other reasons. It is a great comfort knowing Conan has his clear, obvious one and eliminates many discouraging possibilities. I believe he has only run into elderly people not knowing how to use it, or perhaps not seeing it if he is primarily taken care of outside of a house. The season is right to walk to someone else who does take notice. :)

I like the tattoo better than the microchip because you see it and know this is someone's cat. Even if you can't read it, you can eliminate millions of similar cats by saying in a store poster or on-line posting, that "such-and-such cat in this location has a tattoo". A microchip does not show the less intrepid person that this cat has a family and you can only read it if you drive the cat to a vet.

Ron & I were done speculating and measuring options a long time ago. We have done everything we physically can. Citizens all over here and the internet know to watch for him. All we ask for now is stories about "I know about a cat people got back after X years" andf or everyone's prayers to join us. Let us help guide our Conan safely home.

May he not linger where he has enjoyed hospitality. May he have the courage to return to the original family he loves. I am certain my Mom and his brother, Love pray along with us from Heaven. Come on, Conan! Let us stop at the 3 year mark and be happy and relieved! May his 10th birthday be in person with his Sisters and us! Love, Momma and everyone who knows you and me.

Leeanne: I don't suppose in our recent friendship, you know I am getting through the hardest time of a girl's life. My Mom did ascend to Heaven just 6 months ago. I am sure she is helping us with our missing cat, whom we pray is back with us this week.

We are certain through various signs and sources, logical and spiritual, that he has been alive all this time. Someone finally needs to use his tattoo, take his photo, or he might feel comfortable finally walking home. Enough is enough and emotions are high because next week would be 3 years that we have seen him. We know how much Conan loves us. It isn't winter and Conan isn't going to stick with nice people indefinitely.

And in September, he and his Sisters will be 10 years old. I do not want to celebrate the attainment of double digits without him. I do not want to miss any more time without him. But Ron & I have been very brave about doing everything we can and sitting patiently too, to wait for this last prayer to be answered favourably.

You meet me at a good time for friends, like Kerri, to keep me cheered-up and brave. I have heard a lot of "cat came back after years' stories and those encourage and keep our faith the best. Coronavirus doesn't crack the top 5 things I am concerned with. But it is all going to be all right.

Kerri, I know you check for more than one update but am making sure you saw messages #32 & 33. They replied to everything you had to say on them. :) They caught-up your input, expect the most recent, which I will get to when time is freer soon. You raised a fantastic comment I hadn't thought of: no fear of spoiling an orphan. Last night, I thought of a great question for us three to ponder, arising from it! :)

Leeanne, for me who likes being cozy at home, even if I weren't behind on planting flowerbeds, Canada Day is celebrated in the heart. My Mom taught me the tradition of singing "O Canada" at noon and I got Ron to do it, outside looking upon our lovely Manitoba forest. He has given up thinking I am weird and goes with my whims, haha. For a joke, since I went to French Immersion schools, sometimes I suggest singing it in its original language, French.

"Heading up to give the horses hay"? You are again writing as if I knew you had horses! Where are you, on a ranch? I knew you were a horse fan but access to feeding them: how lovely! My friends' sons and Grandchildren have horses and took equestrian lessons. I ride once every few years at a lake resort and love it.

I love your new discussion points, Kerri: so striking of new things to say no matter how brief. I will finish by answering Leeanne's input to our conversation, from message #22. Then we are all caught-up and we are up to answering these new follow-ups. I am still busy and am glad to have summed everything at last.

It has been too hot in Manitoba to plant our flowers, believe it or not. The cats have water everywhere on their excursions outside and sleep in the grass or under our parked vehicle. I bring the babies in frequently for breaks and meals. Mosquitoes are bad too but I will dash outside and plant some things today, for there is rain forecast tonight, for 4 days. We reached +36 C yesterday, which is 97 F for our American friends!

>My mother is obsessed with Anne, which explains why I found so many books about Anne and her author. My Dad thought Anne was "too plain" so they added Lee to it to make it Leeanne.

I hope you had a lovely camping vacation trip and Canada Day, Leeanne. I replied to this, except to ask about "found". Is your Mom no longer among us, or do you mean you saw Maud's books around the house regularly?

>I've always loved Anne as she can find beauty in almost everything. She's also very dramatic and I always think of her when I act the same way.

Yes, beauty in almost everything is her best trait and I am happy to say, I am the same! I recognize every new plant and flower bud around me, the tadpoles, frogs, and toads, special insects, how our garden is doing, the leafing of our trees.

I only know Anne now but will consider her drama. However, most of the time, her reactions were justified. She started with extreme situations, like needing a good family as a home! Then naturally, commonplace struggles and discomforts of life must be avoided or handled: like not allowing a teacher to pick on her. I was glad the neighbour advised them to let Anne stay home from school until she was comfortable attending. Mainly Anne stood up for herself, which I wish I had done better as a youngster.

The stress of possibly not attending a picnic, when it was her first and only an annual event, made sense too. She had not lost Marilla's treasured brooch and was put in a position where Marillia decided she must have been guilty and required her to confess or not join the picnic. I was glad she apologized for mistrusting Anne's word and never did again. (Is is "distrust"? I am unsure of the correct use).

Honestly, I think the occasions were seldom, where Anne reacted excessively. Perhaps when barred from visiting Diana. We as adults know they would see each other soon. However, that was another instance of Anne being blamed for naught and Marilla marched to her aid, which was good.

In my review, I thought Anne only appeared too talkative because we saw her with poor conversationalists, like Matthew and Marilla. Around good ones like the neighbour, Diana, and the minister's wife the flow seemed equal, didn't it? In the same way, I think Anne's reactions for circumstances were mainly acceptable; that in most instances there was a mistake or misjudgement that any of us would protest ourselves.

To your new points soon with pleasure, Kerri. You know, I didn't think of it but it occurred to me when I recall that Leeanne's Dad thought "Anne" sounded plain. My middle name is "Marianne". My focus is always on the first, M, part of my name because it is after one of my Grandmas. 1908 is ahead of all of my Grandparents' time, so we are reading a good old chestnut indeed. It feels current enough.

I see that I replied to all the personal and show business parts of message #20. There is only one paragraph from Kerri to complete.

>I loved the way Anne grew and matured without losing her uniqueness or her dreaminess. I was so upset when Matthew died but it warmed my heart greatly when Marilla finally told Anne that she loved her. And by the end Anne was allowed her fashionable dresses, with no complaint! I had no recollection of her further schooling.

I was sad Matthew died and wish I knew if I would have been surprised; health problems that were mentioned. A Goodreads review divulged a year or so ago, that something sad went on with him, which was obvious. I spent the whole book wondering when it might occur. A 1908 book to be a blank slate for nearly all my life so far! I only ever saw one TV show about Diana imbibing wine. The hair dye; doesn't it wear out? Why cut the hair? Is short hair better than green hair? Go punk, girl! ;> After I read the first 3 books, which should be the major stories, I will be open to watching shows or films.

Marillia disappointed me a few times. The first was delaying telling Anne they would keep her. You also got the sense that it was to avoid a sour lady than a desire to adopt a daughter! The reader always knows she cares about and then loves Anne but thinks you are supposed to avoid spoiling with flattery. Had that era not heard of self-esteem? False flattery is a different thing. Self-worth comes starts with loving, affirming parents.

If I had children, I would refuse the "ferber method", however you spell it; a child crying in bed. My parents agree, who hated being pushed to try it with me in the 1970s, that a child should receive the message: "If I cry, you will come". People worry that this is why some children are reluctant to sleep on their own for awhile. So what, if it takes longer to spend a night alone and there may well be other causes! They are babies! The message you never want to give a baby, child, or person is that they will not be answered if they cry. To this day as an adult; if Ron upsets me, I feel unsettled until we sort it out. The upset does not diminish; perhaps the adverse effect of "ferber training"!

I love your review, Kerri, which seems to be from 2018 about how these stories are relatable to real life. Conversations about life can arise from any part of them. As I said in my review, waiting to find out if Anne won each educational entry and scholarship was so thrilling, I was on the edge of my seat!

Another interesting twist is Matthew being more in tune with fashion that Marilla. He noticed that the other school girls dressed differently than Anne and knew it was wrong. We should be unique and dreamy all of our lives, like you said. But we want to participate in society's reasonable, dignified traditions. Spirit faith is important to all of us but religions that require a certain dress for example; I always feel isolates people from the mainstream visually. If kids are wearing jeans, let them wear jeans. Heck, if Anne wanted puffed sleeves so much, what ever stopped Marilla from making them?

The only place Matthew let us down was not being bright about moving their funds, as soon as a bank hinted at instability. Loyalty to the original CEO was foolhardy and irresponsible. I did not like that ending to the story. It was sad enough that Matthew died. For them to be broke, when this was finally an olden days story about people who were comfortable set, let the wind out of my sails.

And threefold, Anne can't use her university scholarship in order to help their income. I hope she returns to university another year. However, my overall delight concluded in an easy five stars from me.

Drat, I keep writing the incorrect titles because I own the three of Jules Verne's that we have been anticipating. I just remembered where my 1965 paperback fo "A Journey To The Centre Of The Earth" is and am happy to report that it does not contain the word "abridged". It is the tiny sort of book that you could find during that time period, shorter in height than standard paperback length. However, its 316 pages should be the complete story.

I have "Around The World In 80 Days" too. Our selection works out well and gives me time to find the complete story of "10,000 Leagues Under The Sea". They are a dime a dozen in any thrift store, when we can go to them again. I did not realize I lacked an adequate version. A book about ocean life would be nice during southeastern Manitoba's heat wave, nearly +35C daily. But the rain is here and I should be cooled off enough to read about the Earth's core, haha!

Thank you for wishing me a happy Canada Day. :) When is New Zealand's birthday? I ordered "The Westing Game" new from Amazon Canada for only $8.90 CDN. It was a must, because it is the clue-solving type of REAL mystery (not a crime case) that enthuses and thrills me. I am still reading about Candian gardens and special nature locations, which I am sharing with Ron in his lawnchair as we speak.

I will curl up with "The Westing Game" and "Aunt Dimity And The Deep Blue Sea" soon. There is another way to feel cooled down, before flying into the core with you. Meanwhile, you are finishing the awesome "The House With A Clock In Its Walls" and another two books, it looks like. Wait a minute: you already read "Artemis Fowl"?

I propose we start our first choice, the much overdue "The Joy Luck Club" by Amy Tan, in the second week of July. After the Canadian reading challenge ends every June 30th, I have made a good push for Canadian literature, which makes me keen to read something else afterwards.

There are a few pretty Canadian photo albums that I started but decided not to rush for the 2019 challenge session. I am going to finish those, then I am eager for a couple of novels I know I will love. Highest on my list are "The Westing Game" by Ellen Raskin, which is on your list but which I don't guess you own. My next novel might be "Aunt Dimity And The Deep Blue Sea" by Nancy Atherton.

After the brief Canadian landscape albums and a few mysteries, I will be ready for classic or literary fare again and authors new to me. Following "The Joy Luck Club", I am keen on "10,000 Leagues Under The Sea" but notice today that I have an abridged copy. Does that matter? Does that make it much shorter? Key components would have to be in it.

If you have your "Artemis Fowl" copy, that might be fun after them, because the movie is out. It will be nice to clean up on some famous works I must read and also to take a swim in a modern science fiction or spy adventure pool for a change! Happy to have a friend with whom to read, Carolyn. HAPPY CANADA DAY!

First: HAPPY CANADA DAY to everyone, July 1st!

Now, for some "Anne Of Green Gables" discussions, before going to bed to read "The Westing Game" by Ellen Raskin, 1978. This is on your wish list, Kerri but you might not have it. This is a busy week but one discussion is due, starting with Kerri's comments in message #17 on June 25. My review is finished today, which I hope incites discussions there too! :-) https://www.goodreads.com/review/show...

>I do wonder that she appears to have nothing of her past life.

Did you mean mementoes, photos, and recards? She certainly has information about her parents and I never doubted that there was any subterfuge. I thought Anne was very fortunate for being raised mostly by a cleaning woman, who had known her and her family every day. She knew all about her folks. Was there anything you wanted to learn about? Perhaps we will, when we leisurely explore the other books. :)

>In most places it was quite hard to adopt a child if you weren't married.

I am certain this proprietal standard was not about marital pairs running a household. Agencies avoided adopting to single men and women. Marriage, although the popular sort of couple, was not required precisely. Just not two bachelors or bachelorettes.

I don't think Matthew and Marilla were compartmentalising a daughter differently from a son. It was about a sofa not being fitting for a girl. They would have loved any child they adopted. I think they viewed the adoption for what it was in concert with that: giving a needed home to someone who could use help. I do think we found out early enough that Matthew and Marilla were siblings. What took until the end of the book was details about Green Gables. It was their parents'.

>Interesting to consider the things that were omitted from The Bible, often choices made by people in power who would benefit from it. I recently read The Shardlake series by C.J. Sansom which follows a lawyer working during the reign of King Henry VIII.

This is a giant conversation by itself for another time. Please peek at my review of "The Jesus Mystery" by Janet Bock or "The Mystical Life Of Jesus" by Sylvia Browne. I caught-up on book reviews to hand in for the Canadian reading challenge that ends today and renews on Canada Day! When I have time for other books, still having our flowerbeds to plant at this hardiness zone 3 deadline, there is a fictional novel of topical interest to review.

"Mythos Christos" by Edwin Herbert, 2006. Iis about suppressed information about Christianity. His fictional story portrays Jesus not having been on Earth and I don't agree with that. But it includes information about Greek and Roman sun Gods being repurposed by own Son of God.

You bring up another great subject. I know a lot about the thin line of erroneous translating because I was a second, third, and fourth language student throughout school and university.

>I love that your parents let you do that! It's lovely to have memories like that to cherish.

My first Corey Hart concert in 1986 and it was surreal indeed! So was his appearance in 1996 and 1998. Although distracted by Mom being sick that night, it was emotional and wonderful to see Corey again in 2019. I listed several of his hit singles in a recent reply and hope you have heard of them.

>I agree, it's a sweep you away kind of book, interesting how exciting it feels given that it's a very simple story in many ways.

You are the friend mentioned in my review, with whom I agree Anne's personal wishes and triumphs sweep us away; not matter that they aren't adventure stories. By now, I'll bet you loved seeing her and Diana herself, befriending the Aunt Josephine she thought was crochety. Yes, the simplicity of triumphs and goals is vivid and life like indeed. Sure, Prince Edward Island would be wonderful to visit. If you come across the ocean, don't forget "friendly Manitoba", where you have a friend! :-)

Finally for this first section contributed by you, Kerri: I agree that I love a person whose personality shares clear enthusiasm for likes and dislikes. I know a lady in my town who doesn't have a favourite singer, actor, or TV show. It drives me nuts, as being too generic and "blah", that she only listens to the radio and information talk shows. You know a person best if they have a favourite singer, actor, author, film, or TV show! Thanks to these very things, I am making wonderful friends.
Yours, Carolyn on the even of Canada's birthday.

Hi Leeanne: happy camping to you. Your travelling wi-fi is faster than our home dial-up internet. Do wish us happy gardening! I am too hot to do much today (+35C!) but Ron accomplished a lot. A chance to catch up is fine with me.

If "no one you know" watched past the first two series: they aren't fans! It is not other series lack depth and excellence. There is a Star Trek for everyone's moods but real fans try them all out! :-) "Voyager" was my favourite but Ron & I really enjoyed "Enterprise" afterwards, however briefly and less its cast gelled together. However, "Deep Space 9" was emotional in a whole other way and brought mystical lore into it.

Do you watch the new "Discovery" too? We are more excited about it with every season. I was hardly interested in "Picard" but it blew our minds. It ties all of the previous cast members who are still alive, together; including from "Voyager"! It is timely: about prejudice igniting fear and war, of synthetic life; Commander Data's android types.

Maud's autobiography is entitled "The Alpine Path: The Story Of My Career" 1917. I want to hear your butterfly story someday, Leeanne: how you ended up raising butterflies. If you prefer to e-mail, it is: RiedelFascination(at)Gmail(dot)com. Drive and camp safely!

Kerri and all interested parties: I am keen to read this long-awaited book anytime beginning in July, that you like. I am nuts to read non-Canadian books every time the previous year's reading challenge ends in June. I will treat myself to a few new books or others I am excited about first. Let me know when "The Joy Luck Club" might fit in with books you are enjoying. Likewise for "A Journey To The Centre Of The Earth".

Very happy to have you, Leeanne! Please don't say any more about Maud. I have her autobiography and will read it soon. I love knowing the personal connection with your parents and yourself. Getting to know friends is why we start conversations about literature, televsion, and animal love like we three have.

I wonder where you got the idea "Voyager" wasn't popular. It was huge: I followed it from the day it aired and it is one of my top favourites. I always say there are people who only watched the original series and "The Next Generation"; not because the other shows weren't popular or as good. It is because folks who only watch those two aren't big fans, haha!

I haven't mentioned the later series to let our island girl get her feet wet. :) Kerri, it occurred to me in bed last night (I look forward to these conversations) that you could watch the three seasons of "Enterprise" any time. It is the last show until recently but it depicts the crew before Captain Kirk; when a space travel program was starting. Begin with the 6 original films as we said. Then watch "Enterprise" or "The Next Generation". It will be fun to find out if you watch release or timeline order!

Kerri, you confirmed that you have a three-book boxset like me but I was curious about when. After planning to read it with me, or recently anyway? I am thrilled you know of Corey Hart: that is good enough! He has lived in Nassau, Bahamas, for years with his family and his children took tennis lessons in Florida, USA after they got older. He has tons of hits. I know the feeling about recognizing songs, except that I always want to know who it is and where they are from. "Never Surrender", "Boy In The Box", "Eurasian Eyes", "Black Cloud Rain", "She Got The Radio", "Sunglasses At Night", "Dancing With My Mirror", "Dreaming Time Again" (most recent).

I figured you would mention the coutroom drama in which David Schwimmer plays Mr. Kardashian and here he rocked but I am not interested either. I am excited, however, to note the other film you mentioned. Yes, I know the opera singer film was called something like "Florence Foster Jenkins" and need to urging: it has been high on my Amazon Canada wish list for a year or more!

I have seen Matthew Perry in several other things and am happy that as per interviews, he is naturally funny and intelligent as his Chandler character reflects. Exactly like Mike Fox truly is funny, intelligent, and well-spoken. I hope you enjoyed the story of Matthew's upbringing in Ottawa, with his Mom working for Prime Minister Pierre Trudeau. :)

I think I covered the fun segues. Next time, I will answer book messages 17, 20, 22. It is lovely to have Leanne's memories of loving it. Perhaps you will read the other two with us. I like a palate-cleanse between authors and Kerri seems to agree. By August I will want to read the second book, perhaps sooner because my brother asked me if my niece may have them. The second three-book boxset can wait and be a future treasure.

One more fun addition: I saw something awesome very recently, on something like a food for America fundraising telethon. In a live show, hosted by Jack Black: Ben Stiller, Courtney Cox, and Lisa Kudrow solve a series of clues and challenges to get out of a massive escape room studio! It was great to see them working together and I love Ben Stiller and Jack Black we well.

I will return soon, even if it isn't today. The Canadian reading challenge's year ends on June 30th, because as Kerri might know, Canada Day is July 1st. I finished "Ghosts Of The Titanic" with Marigold in bed this morning and will breeze through another brief nature book or two, then review them in time to submit to Shonna's blog.

Most importantly, Ron & I need to get cracking on planting flowerbed flowers so that we don't miss Manitoba's season for them to bloom and flourish long enough. This ain't New Zealand, haha. Sincerely, Carolyn.

It is my pleasure to reply to you, Kerri. I wonder if there was a note I didn't see. I didn't know anyone had ascended. I am sorry. Did you know him like a Grandpa? My Mom's Grandma had a second husband who existed all her life and was her Grandpa. I hope this gentleman whom you honoured yesterday was not married to the Grandma who is grieving a kitty. She needs all the joy she can have right now. I hope you gave her my respects and do the same for this step-Grandpa.

I will separate our general conversation from our book discussion. The personal part first here. Later, I will reply to both of your messages about "Anne Of Green Gables".

I am curious if you know of Corey Hart, Canada's "Justin Bieber" of the 1980s and early 1990s? I saw him for the fourth time last year. My Mom had bad pneumonia and it was a scary but healing night. I was overjoyed to tell her about it after the concert let out and cherish one of the most beautiful, laughing visits we ever had. I was practically a baby when I first saw Corey. On his second visit: my parents joined me! They heard me play his records often enough that they are fans. :)

I am surprised and thrilled you have seen the Simon Helberg film that I haven't bought yet! It goes as low as $10 CDN at Amazon.ca but not when prices were low on books I was ready to buy, so I will wait for the blu-ray to drop again. We get free Canadian shipping at $35 CDN of new items. I am glad you & I favour Matthew Perry too. He was born in the US but grew up in Ottawa, Canada's capital, where his Mom worked for Justin Trudeau's Dad! On the episode in which Phoebe tried to teach Joey French, I was thinking: "You know French, Matthew"! Lisa Kudrow did the pronunciation and flavour of the language extremely well. I like and admire her, just not her character in early seasons. She produces the US version of the ancestry show "Who Do You Think We Are", which I love. My Mom & I are passisionate about personal history. I love David Schwimmer's character and acting too, as you know and must see more with him.

I wondered what you meant by "bread" because I didn't recall mentioning toast or anything. I sometimes eat a bun outside in a lawnchair. However, I revisited my conversation and see that I shared baking my special, delicious pumpkin loaves! I am no breadmaker. These are something easy to do, which we use with our abundance of home-grown pumpkins. We vegetarians often use squash vegetables in dishes in lieu of meat, like pastas and Ron's vegetarian lasagne. But they make great desserts too.

Yes, it is easier and a sufficent summary, to introduce yourself to the original Star Trek by watching their 6 films. Haha, I have to laugh at your note "someone named Bones". I am glad there are New Zealand actors for you to be proud of. You see my Canadian pride loud and clear too. But "someone named Bones", is the doctor of the original Star Trek show and one of the captain's best friends! Dr. Leonard McCoy is the most famous and important regular character, after Captain Kirk and Spok!

After them, the other regular, important, and endeared characters are communications officer Nyota Uhura, played by the beautiful, black Nichelle Nichols. Montgomery Scott is the engineer famous for the saying I hope not to hear again ("Beam me up, Scotty") and beloved Asian pilot Hikaru Sulu, played by George Takei. This actor, William Shatner, and Nichelle Nichols (now age 87!) are alive from this 1960s cast.

Watch up to film 6 and begin "The Next Generation" show, with Patrick Stewart. You will be hooked. When you finish this show, watch the other four films. The first, film 7, combines both of the casts. Then, you are ready for "Deep Space 9": with black captain, Benjamin Sisko. This one is a wormhole guarded by a Star Fleet space station, instead of a show about a travelling ship. You meet a lot of new aliens and their planets on this show, in a place where all this new culturalism congregates.

I often edit if I see a typo, or words that bump to a line by themselves. I don't like it visually and shorten something. You returned right away upon my first draft. Would you mind re-reading message #16 to see the new things I added? That is easier than cutting & pasting the new parts into a new comment box. I love the conversation you added! I will reply to your message #17 after you have seen the #16 inserts.

We differ in "The Big Bang Theory". I love the dynamics a baby brings to Leonard and Penny. They are wonderful with each other. It is about time Amy paid attention to style. This is coming from a Manitoban, who dresses for environmental comfort (hot, cold, mosquitoes, horseflies). I cannot stand Rajish; even more than I dislike Bernadette’s "Look, I am cute. Now, I am yelling". She reminds me of Miss Piggy. Rajish is useless on the show. The actor is a sweet person but his chattiness is annoying in real life too. If you pair him in an interview with someone quiet, like the greatly talented Simon Helberg; Simon hardly speaks and he is the one I am keen to hear!

It is neat to see how shy he is and what a wonderful actor the opposite personality makes him. The episodes where he does famous impressions blow Ron & I away. I must buy the blu-ray of his film with Meryl Streep and Hugh Grant, which looks hilarious. I will follow anything Simon does.

Howard, Leonard, Sheldon, Amy are wonderful protagonists. I would replace Rajish and Penny. Bernadette normalizes Howard, gets and loves him. He becomes a fabulous husband and Dad and completely mature, instead of a giggolo.

On "Friends", I found Joey useless and only liked Phoebe gradually, notably the David stories. I could not watch the early episodes where she cleared her throat. I favour this cast in this in order easily: Matthew Perry (Canadian!), David Schwimmer, Jennifer Aniston, Courtney Cox. I think I left you a note in another conversation that I met Courtney Cox early in her career, on one trip of a lifetime to California.

The original Star Trek, memorable and ground-breaking, can be cheesy because the demeanour and technology are old (Bill Shatner is Canadian!). I have not seen many. I recommend dipping your toe in with the films, featuring the original cast. Stop at “Undiscovered Country”, the last of them alone. Then watch a few old episodes, or begin with “The Next Generation”, in 1987.

Boredom or lack of relatability should not be the way you are introduced. The films are a wonderful and short way to make this pioneer cast’s acquaintance. Don’t confuse their films with Chris Pine and Zachary Quinto, who remake the characters and premises. They are fabulous but save them for later.

Did you see message #14? If chatting runs to a good length, I separate the book conversation. From now on, perhaps I can leave you to look for more than one paragraph. I guess I wait through the time difference in anticipation again, to know if you have replies or additions to the conversation in message #14.

I am at page 272. With Ron en route to work and the cats settled from the breakfast they have with him, I am returning to bed with this book! Yesterday, I baked the loaves that our company didn't need on Father's Day and delighted Ron. I am having a piece with coffee now: mmmm!

Yes, Anne is a wonderful character like you said: funny, morally strong, intelligent, not prissy. She is wholly relatable. A lot of "scrapes" came of Marilla not saying she reused a bottle of some ingredient, or laying her scarf atop her brooch. Yes, the writing is exquisite. I wondered how much my 9 year-old niece would observe and enjoy. I am glad you loved this as a 10 year-old. I wonder what you picked out at the time.

It was fun talking about shows. "Modern Family" just ended this year, therefore all of the kids are grown. The only "nearly" is Lily, who started as a baby! She is a full teen. Even little Luke and Manny, are in university or at jobs at least. Hailey unfortunately married to Dylan, whom I loathed. However, Alex finally has the science professor whom I like best but it is annoying that we don't get to continue on, watching them together. I did not take to the personality of Joe, Gloria's and Jay's little son. I loved Adam Devine and can't believe a young actor would leave a show that is so good.

Shows often work out their best storylines when ending. In "The Big Bang Theory", I was tired of Bernadette yelling at Howard and playing bossy girl and was bored with Penny's jokes about Leonard not being cool, or not relating to his science and private interests. The had a few episodes about her being nicer. Then, in the final few episodes, what do we find? Perhaps I had better leave it for you to watch. I thought the whole world watched the finales of this popular show. But even Amy improves her wardrobe; they covered everything! I did love the whole courtship suite of "Friends" shows with Mike, Phoebe (whom I generally liked little), and David. Paul Rudd has done well.

Ron & I have our Star Treks and plenty of them. We love the new "Discovery" and are nuts about seeing what futuristic or time-travel wonders season 3 brings. But we were mind-blown at how good, emotional, and nostalgic "Picard" is. The whole word who had the smallest interest in any of the Star Treks watched that. It brought the well-known franchise full circle, while "Discovery" is exciting for being unknown and new.

Now to follow-up your reply: we easily agree that biology ought to have nothing to do with loving someone firmly, in regards to the former Mrs. Thomas. Gosh, she knew Anne from birth and it was precious that she could be told all about her parents and their house for eight years. Were there photographs and mementoes?

We understand Mrs. Hammond giving Anne up after two years, when her own children were redistributed as a result of her husband's passing. You will find Anne's experience with their three times triplets was very fortunate, further than being a funny comment. What I don't get is Marillia not showing attachment. Moments come when she knows how much she loves Anne and shows humour more often. I like her a bit more at each such advancement. But it pissed me off that she said nothing in response to Anne pointing out their anniversary.

An odd thing for me that maybe made it odd for Marilla and Matthew to act as parents, was discovering that they are siblings instead of spouses! It is fine for siblings, relatives, and friends to make homes together but I have not heard of anyone but spouses adopting children; unless they thought of their adoption as an employee for hire. It would be hard to call siblings Mom & Dad.

Canada didn't have slavery or indentured servitude, except possibly contracts finished out by British here, before we became a nation of our own. I don't think our orphanages were of the poorhouse or workhouse type in England. However, you must be right that they were full or instituionally bland and children were released anywhere they could be.

Marilla was a christian but not rigid. That was Mrs. Barry's tack, until help from Anne put her in high favour. That religion generally and to this day, recommends no boasting or vanity. I am even aware in non-fiction and fiction I have read recently, that Emperor Contantine directed which books went and did not go into the gospel, published by him in 365 AD. He wanted only sections that portrayed Jesus as suffering and having no fun; something you noticed.

Marillia was only concerned about being humble and not speaking ill of others. Her silly personality kept Anne in plain dresses. I have seen no indication that Marillia and Matthew had a low income. Like all parents, Marilla was reluctant to let a 13 year-old go anywhere but begins to cautiously. I am awed that my parents let me, at that age, attend my first Corey Hart concert with only same-age friends! But it was the night of my life and like Anne, I drank it up and cherish it 100%.

My favourite incident and new character is the befriending of Diane's great-aunt Josephine Barry. I love the lesson about our approach changing someone's entire demeanour. Ron caught me asleep when Anne and Diana visit her in Charlottetown, the capital city. I am awed that without having a mystery, spirits, or magic: I am swept away by this book and excited to keep on reading.