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November 30, 2017
Kiss on the First Date?
John Gray Wednesday, November 29, 2017 Dear John,
Why do guys want to kiss on the first date?
When I ask the guys, they tell me they want to know if we have chemistry.
I would rather have the first kiss come naturally.
Is that wrong?
Thanks!
Lindsay
Thanks for your question, LIndsay.
This is an area where men and women often show their differences.
If a man wants to kiss you, then he is already feeling chemistry. A man is usually attracted to...
November 17, 2017
Four Warning Signs In A Relationship
John Gray Thursday, November 16, 2017 The pain of breaking up a romantic relationship is strongest when it comes as a surprise. One minute you think everything is fine, and the next minute you are blindsided by a breakup talk.
It is hard for some people to recognize the warning signs that a relationship is having trouble. I have been teaching them for as long as I have been giving relationship advice. I wrote about them in my first book, W...
November 15, 2017
Can A Relationship Recover From Cheating?
John Gray Tuesday, November 14, 2017 Affairs are painful. They can feel like terrible betrayals.
Affairs shatter the romantic myth that if someone loves me, I am the only person they could ever want.
This is true and beautiful, but it is also an illusion.
Some people have experienced infidelity in their own intimate relationships. Some people are the children of parents who had affairs. Some people have siblings who strayed in their...
November 14, 2017
Telling The Truth In Relationships
John Gray Monday, November 13, 2017
Telling The Truth In Relationships
October 19, 2017
The Five Stages of Dating
John Gray Thursday, October 19, 2017 Whether you are starting over, just starting to date, or have been dating for years, one thing doesn't seem to change:
Dating is awkward.
Although dating can be confusing, painful and full of challenges, the greatest reward is finding your soul mate.
However, the first challenge to finding love is to stop looking for it.
Huh?
I know that sounds counterintuitive but it’s true. You should focus on yourself first....
October 11, 2017
How To Bring Passion Back To A Relationship
John Gray Friday, November 10, 2017 So many couples ask me how they can bring back the passion to their relationship.
It’s never an easy answer.
I have counseled couples for months before they have been able to restore the passion and the deep love to their relationship.
Transformation depends on the willingness to change.
If they want to make it work, they can make it work.
Sometimes even when one partner doesn’t want to work o...
August 30, 2017
The Most Important Relationship
John Gray Tuesday, August 29, 2017 Most people experience problems in their relationships, and life for that matter, because they don't love themselves.
I know that sounds like a broad statement but it's true. Once you stop loving yourself, you create space for hating yourself.
Love is a cycle that can grow stronger if it is supported...
The more you love yourself, the greater freedom you feel to express yourself. The more you express yoursel...
August 19, 2017
How to Have More Sex and Less Porn in Your Relationship
John Gray Friday, August 18, 2017
I was interviewd in the video above by Leana Greene, CEO of Kids In The House.
Kids In The House is an educational website devoted to parenting. Below are the questions and my answers.
Q: Dr. Gray, my question for you is, how do you get your wife's sex drive back, and how can you keep it running in the long term?
A: In order to bring back the passion in a relationship, there is no qu...
August 18, 2017
How to Have More Sex and Less Porn
John Gray Friday, August 18, 2017
I was interviewd in the video above by Leana Greene, CEO of Kids In The House.
Kids In The House is an educational website devoted to parenting. Below are the questions and my answers.
Q: Dr. Gray, my question for you is, how do you get your wife's sex drive back, and how can you keep it running in the long term?
A: In order to bring back the passion in a relationship, there is no quick fix. It takes a l...
July 29, 2017
Why Does He Pull Away?
John Gray Friday, July 28, 2017 One of the biggest challenges a woman experiences in a relationship is when a man pulls away. He may disappear for a few hours or even a few days, but it is a very natural thing for a man to do. The reason is biological.
The most important things for a woman to remember when a man pulls away: don’t chase him and don’t try to make him feel happy.
When he pulls away, this is not the time for her to get angry, or build rese...
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