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Getting Back Together After Breaking Up: Does It Work?

If your partner pulls away or suddenly ends things, it’s hard not to wonder if getting back together after breaking up is possible.

Making matters even harder, most women will immediately think it was their fault.

“Was I too needy?”
“Did I ask for too much?”
“Is he being distant because he doesn’t love me?”

 

Those thoughts are normal and natural.

It’s what you do next that makes the most impact on your relationship!

In this po...

MV Quick Tip: How to Weather Relationship Ups and Downs

If you’re wondering how to easily come back to love when things feel challenging in your relationship, you’ll love today’s MarsVenus Quick Tip!

In love, little things make a big difference. In the day to day of your relationship, it can feel overwhelming to address all the problems or create all your dreams at once. That’s why we love to bring you these quick tips. Something accessible you can try on and experiment with. It might...

Do Soulmates Exist? (And How to Connect With Yours!)

Dating is exhausting, and I’m sick of it! Are you there yet? Are you even wondering, “Do soulmates exist?” at this point?

They do, by the way. And in this post, I’m going to show you how you can get your hands on one!

You’ll learn who your soulmate is, how to recognize them, what gets in the way, and how to create a soulmate-level relationship.

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How Do I Meet a High Quality Man?

Are you ready for a loving relationship but finding it hard to meet a high-quality man?

Someone you can connect with, feel attraction to, and grow in love with?

I hear this question a lot, so you’re not alone!

The good news is there are some simple shifts you can make to attract a quality man, become a magnet for the relationship you want, and fall deeply in love — and this post dives into it all.

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Resentment In Relationships? Clear It Away With This Secret!

Resentment in relationships: it’s not just for unhappy couples that are bitter and unsuited for each other.

It’s fair game for ALL of us at times. Givers, Lovers, Nurturers, Heroes — where you at?

You know the feeling you get when you’re giving so much to your relationship but you’re not getting the same love, appreciation, and effort that you’re putting forth?

You almost don’t notice that you’re compromising until you have nothi...

How to Overcome Hurt Feelings and Open Your Heart Again

Are hurt feelings getting in the way of your relationship?

Everybody makes mistakes. No road is totally smooth. And you’re bound to experience things that keep you from opening your heart again.

What I want you to know is that there is a healthy way to move those emotions “out from between you” so you can give your relationship its best shot.

In this post, I’ll explain what all women can learn and do in order to move past hurt fe...

How to Get a Girl Out of Your League: The 3-Minute Secret

Are you wondering how to get a girl out of your league? Because the ones you fall for are always are, right?

You dig down deep for courage, you make your move (usually some kind of text, email, dating, or social media app) and then…

Crickets. Or worse, she turns you down directly. Ouch.

It’s enough to discourage any guy.

But what if I told you there was a simple way to get a girl out of your league to say yes to a date with you?

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When a Man Needs Space: What to Say When You Need Time Alone

What to do when a man needs space?

I find this to be one of the biggest challenges in relationships!

If youre in need of alone time and not sure how to communicate that to your partner, I have some good news there are ways to tell her that you need space that will actually be supportive to the relationship.

In this post, Ill share exactly what to say when a man needs space so his partner understands, appreciates him, and gives him the time alone that he needs.

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Low Estrogen? Get Your Body to Produce It Naturally

Are you taking estrogen, or at the very least, considering it?

So many women today are!

When the body stops making estrogen, you can feel like youre on an emotional rollercoaster, be plagued by worries, or have low energy. These are all symptoms of low estrogen levels.

The challenge here is that there are risks to taking hormones.

When I talk to doctors who provide hormone replacements, most will say that they only do it as a last resort.

If youre curious about alternatives or wondering...

How to Get What You Want from a Man

Can we agree on this? Whether youre married or not, figuring out how to get what you want from a man in a relationship can be a complicated business! Especially in those moments where you feel disappointed or dissatisfied.

Its inevitable that youll be confronted with habits and ways that dont fit with your intuitive way of doing things (or flat out upset you!). You need something to change, but how do you get what you want?

In this episode of Ask Lauren, Ill show you how to use your...