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June 20, 2018
Don’t you people ever work?
This is such a great track, I can’t resist it.
Feeling slightly more humorous.
Think I will invite the office out for a drink on Saturday.
Stay tuned on twitter I might be stupid enough to post where I am if I think I can manage it whilst avoiding the satanic swan and whatever a female swan is called.
Toodle pip.
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Gee I really learned something today
Gee I really learned something today
So, what have we learned from our recent experience?
People are not to be trusted, no matter who they are.
The art of management is dead.
Great brand names do not make for great companies.
Manners do not maketh the man.
People who appear friendly are often just gossip gathering.
Never ever trust someone who doesn’t communicate.
Never ever trust anybody.
Giving does not mean your gifts are appreciated.
Kindness is bad (we knew this already)
Nobody cares what you have done, good or bad. They only care if you will do what you are told without question no matter what it is.
There is no point in hope.
Carers find each other first in any given room. This has become apparent since mum died, they always make a beeline for me.
People who are in a state of terror do not act rationally.
People who inflict terror get away with it.
People like negative information. The website hasn’t been this popular since the Brexit referendum.
People like attacking other people, or seeing you upset.
Family are poison (again not a surprise)
It isn’t worth taking the risk anymore, so don’t try.
Being helpful is a definite disadvantage.
Terror does not help you learn.
There is nothing nice outside this house.
Everyone wants to rip you off or damage you, so avoid them.
There is no point in trying to stop what is about to happen to the Uk because they are all too stupid and selfish to help even themselves.
People who are more fortunate become proportionately more selfish and less thoughtful as time goes on.
There is no point in trying to solve anything, because you will either be attacked or destroyed.
I wish I could tell you something more positive, but there ya go. Sorry Boris. Sorry Wolfe. Dem’s the breaks.
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There you are.
There we are, I have removed the posts most likely to upset the little swan.
Now you can get on with whatever hideousness you have in store for your current and next victim.
You need to get the book and sort yourself out. I know you think whatever you are doing is serving you, but you are serving it and it is not OK.
It is very sad that this will never stop. I am trying very hard to withdraw from the world again. Hopefully I won’t need to go out.
My earliest ex boyfriend has just volunteered to return. Seeing him tomorrow. Don’t particularly want to get involved with him again, and don’t see much point. He wasn’t very nice either.
Strangely, however, one of my worst exs is my best friend. He has been very kind.
More companies want to talk to me. I don’t feel like it at the moment.
Making other people sick is not such a great personality trait.
FYI I stand by everything I’ve said.
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Sadness
What is astonishing about this crap is that I still actually care.
Thank God I do not have to deal with this person any more. Nobody said biology had to be rational, did they?
Website continues to be trawled by faceless people on identikit computers. Trying very hard to persist with work despite the stress, but not really managing it.
Very sad at everything. I keep seeing flashes of stuff from the last few weeks, and it is extremely upsetting.
Most people deal with problems like this by ignoring them, don’t they? That’s how people get killed and nobody notices.
Met a game designer yesterday, hope he remembers to text because it might generate some work.
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June 19, 2018
Land of Disposable People
The quickest and fastest way, of course, of dealing with the Shyam problem is to move him to another part of the country, making sure he cannot hurt anybody that is still here.
Since his manager seems to fully support his activities, who knows whether this will happen? If it doesn’t evidently further action will be required. In the meantime, back to the land of the disposable people.
It is most interesting, how this is being regarded. The idea now is to instantly forget negative things and push on to the next part of the conveyor belt. Nobody cares what happens to you, nobody cares if you have any rights, nobody has any responsibility.
As a very old-school type that protects their staff, deals with their own problems, helps other people where they can, this never stops shocking me. Everyone I met this morning at my breakfast meeting had a story. The worst one was a legal financial services abuse story, about which none of the thousands of people who have to implement it are likely to do anything.
Hence, even before the Conservatives erode things still further, nobody has any rights, nobody has any responsibility and nobody cares. From a situation twenty years ago where I was barking at companies for failing to manage their data properly, we now have a situation where nobody knows what management means, as far as they are aware it is something to do with having power over other people and making the paperwork look correct.
It is exhausting and terrifying living in a world like this, where people like SB are free to express their insanity by taking it out on other people. I am a very bottom line thinker, and my feeling was that if we cut to the bottom line and dealt with the health issue, other things would subside. It was not until I was told that the stuff I had seen related to probable coercion that I became furious.
So, there is still action to be taken, because in the normal course of events, any flow of information is now likely to be impeded by normal means. Nobody wants bad news, and nobody cares what happens to anyone.
At least part of the problem is better, but I imagine some things will be worse.
Anyway, it certainly seems as if I should entirely ignore the implications of being falsely accused of stuff that isn’t relevant.
Sending an email and giving people books has never been causes for accusations and professional detriment in my experience, and I frankly want to see this company hauled over the coals for it. They detected vulnerability because of my grief, and they exploited it.
I had already dealt with the immediate problem when they decided to make things worse, and I was told, as if this was some gospel truth, that they ‘had to be seen to be doing their jobs.’ Their job is not to make people frightened or make sure they have no income. Their job as managers is to make it possible for people to work without being terrified by a mentally ill, corrupt individual who feeds on terror.
Ironically I had had a t shirt made ten days ago, ‘because we matter’ being the slogan. It arrived today. I didn’t find it funny.
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June 18, 2018
Hoovering
There they are again, hoovering up some more attention.
Why not spend the time cleaning up your messes and trying to behave like normal humans instead of entitled little brats?
Did nobody teach you how to treat people with a basic level of respect? Did you actually require classes for that? God forbid anything bad should ever happen to lovely people like you.
This is why people are stupid enough to vote Tory, isn’t it?
If you think your behaviour is in any way acceptable, you need help. Seriously.
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Hurtcore and an ill wind
“I’m an arrogant little fucker who wants to see people raped and humiliated, can you get me some hurtcore to jerk off to.”
“You want to see hurtcore? I have a crow bar and a camera right here. Maybe you and I can make some for you.”
“Oh, uhhhh, uhh actually nevermind.”
Little creeps with big jobs and no need to know how to look after people properly like this sort of thing. I do not.
A much bigger bank is now on the sniff to see if I want to work for them.
In the meantime, I am still considering what to do about your little management problem. I think you need to solve it pretty fast before someone else does it for you. Hurting me is one thing, letting me catch you hurting someone else is something else altogether, you nasty little freaks.
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June 17, 2018
How do you protect the girl?
I watched them continue to search the website until 1.30am last night.
This is what this company are like. They do not give a shit what I have to say, they are watching some soap opera whilst they happily spectate on my life being destroyed.
FYI, the girl only managed to let me know the day I got fired, and she had to do this via someone else. You need to protect her, because I can’t. I am not sure how you would go about it, other than getting rid of him entirely.
Never forget, people are scum and they deserve all they get, with very few exceptions.
I would sack several of them over this incident alone.
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I’m free
I am actually very lucky that I did not get suckered in when he was being nice, because I assume that if you did, things would get nastier and nastier given that he feeds on fear.
I might add an extra story to the new one to reflect this, but I don’t want Ina getting too dark really, so maybe not.
I think the worst week was the week he had the girl sitting next to him, both of them relentlessly staring. Nothing said to me at all, just staring and staring. I am not sure if this is how things are done elsewhere, but it is just really creepy here.
We’ve been trying to figure out how the manager backing this is justifying hurting people on the grounds of keeping his boy happy, and we think after two or three people have either left or been fired, you would probably retrain or fire the dude due to the cost of training in this situation.
It is unfortunate for his medical state, because CPTSD is not in the book of mental disorders, and this guy has a very extreme version due to the addition of actual sadism. You can deal with it yourself if you are willing to put the work in, but as long as he is getting away with it, why should he bother? He probably tortures kittens in his spare time too.
I was joking with my friend that the appeal was the lily white skin. Would take a nice welt, presumably. It is interesting with different people, how you can sense their sexuality. The last person that was interested in me was brutal too, but in a different and more careless way. As I was saying to someone recently, some women would kill to have what I have at my age, but it isn’t very helpful when it comes to situations like this.
In any case, I picked up on the danger before I truly lost interest, so my version of scrutiny, which does not involve even looking at you, came in quite handy. He will find it a lot harder to hide it now.
I did note early on that he spent a lot of time on his mobile, and he certainly remains obsessed with the website. I am not sure if he is hoovering in a classically narcissistic sense, or whether I am providing him with an identity, but either way it is a symptom of illness. Normal people do not need to hurt others.
Not feeling particularly great, not surprisingly. Losing a lot of weight, however. I guess now would be a good time to do a larger clearance.
Iain Duncan Smith is going slowly, but i think it will be OK.
May do some filming this week now that I am in charge of the cabling. (sigh)
Just so you know the difference – a dom wants to know what you want. A sadist does not care what you want, so they don’t need to know. They are basically just power-tripping rapists. Doesn’t matter how cute they are, you don’t want one.
I see you are missing me, how cute. Feel free to call me if you think you are man enough LOL
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Seven weeks
It took seven weeks to the day for him to turn ‘your seriousness is astonishingly beautiful’ into ‘my prospects and life have been utterly destroyed.’ And that was with me ignoring most of the fight or flight responses and the attempts to get some semblance of what he thinks are normal feelings out of me.
Pretty low-grade stuff really, he expected me to get angry about bullshit and jealous. Not a lot of point in that. I am not so vain that I assume people should like me just because I like them, so it didn’t pan out well, and presumably annoyed him intensely after all that work he put in looking completely different than he did in the first place. Ironically I liked the shy geek, I did not particularly like the rippling sex god. The rest was just bullshit chemistry, and thankfully I am too ancient to get that carried away. Once you already met and lost the love of your life, these things don’t mean that much. (when am I going to stop crying every time Wolfe pops into my head?)
I am told (by the girl via my friend) that this is his idea of fun. If this is the working culture that the company like to promote, you are better off avoiding it. Kyle, who was utterly disgusted by the way the other manager treated us, to the point of leaving over it, is now incensed. (the first manager we had told me that invisible people in the office were saying nasty things about me – this is what passes for management with these people)
None of this helps now. I have to spend today planning how on earth I am going to reframe the next two years as Plan A has failed thanks to SB and his puppet managers.
There is nothing laudable about what they did, and if I was a team leader or a business dealing with that company, I would terminate them immediately if I thought this was how they conducted themselves.
I laugh when I think of all the graduate programmes I would have killed to be on, that are populated with people who have no clue about management, and no clue how to run a business, never mind consult on someone else’s.
I will be making sure that no business I deal with in the future ever use this company, and I get around a lot.
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