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Timeline Pressure- A Myth by Saurabh Dudeja
'Time is a Myth'
That’s a powerful statement—and one that resonates deeply with how many people feel. Time, as we experience it socially and culturally, is a constructed framework: calendars, clocks, deadlines, schedules… all human-made. Nature doesn’t track seconds or count hours.
And yet, this construct has become so embedded in daily life that it often rules us. The idea of being "late," of time "running out," or "wasting time" can create immense pressure—leading to stress, anxiety, and burnout.
Instead of TIME as a HITLER, TYRANT. Take Time as Container – what matters the most?
One needs to Step Back from Time Pressure in Daily Life --
Follow the Steps below:
1.Start by Asking: “Whose Time Am I Living By?”
Before you change anything, reflect:
• Are your days shaped by external demands (work, society, others' expectations)?
• Or by your inner compass—what energizes, inspires, or grounds you?
👉 Action: Journal or voice-note for 5–10 minutes:
“If I could shape time in my day my way, what would change?”
2. Reclaim Mornings or Evenings
You don’t need to “own” your whole day—start small.
Choose a window that’s yours—no phone, no pressure. Just be.
• Morning: Wake 20 min early to stretch, read, sit in stillness.
• Evening: A “technology sunset”
—dim lights, music, a slow walk, journal.
3. Replace Clock-Time with Body-Time
Instead of checking the clock constantly, try tuning into:
• Hunger → eat
• Focus → work
• Fatigue → rest
• Restlessness → move
Try working in focus blocks: 45–90 minutes of effort, then pause.
4. Introduce Timeless Moments
Each day, have one experience that isn’t about “doing” or “getting somewhere.”
• Watch clouds
• Take a tech-free walk
• Create something for no reason
• Talk to someone without multitasking
• Gymming
That’s a powerful statement—and one that resonates deeply with how many people feel. Time, as we experience it socially and culturally, is a constructed framework: calendars, clocks, deadlines, schedules… all human-made. Nature doesn’t track seconds or count hours.
And yet, this construct has become so embedded in daily life that it often rules us. The idea of being "late," of time "running out," or "wasting time" can create immense pressure—leading to stress, anxiety, and burnout.
Instead of TIME as a HITLER, TYRANT. Take Time as Container – what matters the most?
One needs to Step Back from Time Pressure in Daily Life --
Follow the Steps below:
1.Start by Asking: “Whose Time Am I Living By?”
Before you change anything, reflect:
• Are your days shaped by external demands (work, society, others' expectations)?
• Or by your inner compass—what energizes, inspires, or grounds you?
👉 Action: Journal or voice-note for 5–10 minutes:
“If I could shape time in my day my way, what would change?”
2. Reclaim Mornings or Evenings
You don’t need to “own” your whole day—start small.
Choose a window that’s yours—no phone, no pressure. Just be.
• Morning: Wake 20 min early to stretch, read, sit in stillness.
• Evening: A “technology sunset”
—dim lights, music, a slow walk, journal.3. Replace Clock-Time with Body-Time
Instead of checking the clock constantly, try tuning into:
• Hunger → eat
• Focus → work
• Fatigue → rest
• Restlessness → move
Try working in focus blocks: 45–90 minutes of effort, then pause.
4. Introduce Timeless Moments
Each day, have one experience that isn’t about “doing” or “getting somewhere.”
• Watch clouds
• Take a tech-free walk
• Create something for no reason
• Talk to someone without multitasking
• Gymming
Baaghi 4 Parody
Its a short story Parody of Baaghi 4
Original Baaghi-4 Cast: Tiger Shroff, Harnaaz Kaur, Sonam Bajwa, Sanjay Dutt
The streets of Delhi were silent until a scooter screeched to a halt. Out stepped Rohan, self-proclaimed “Baaghi,” with his leather jacket… and a helmet two sizes too big.
Rohan (posing): "Main hoon Baaghi… jiska naam sunte hi dushman ki WiFi band ho jaati hai!" Suddenly, ten goons appeared, carrying sticks. Their leader, Chintu Don, laughed.
Chintu Don: "Arre! Helmet nikal, warna hum tujhe Scooty ka stepney bana denge!"
Rohan (serious tone): "Stepney toh tum banoge… jab main tumhe ghoomakar hawa bhar dunga!" He lunged forward. First punch—missed. He accidentally punched a wall and screamed louder than the goons. They laughed hysterically.
Goons (mocking): "Yeh hai Baaghi? Yeh toh Baaghi Ka Machchar Nikla Reee!" But then Rohan slipped on a banana peel, spun in the air, and accidentally kicked three goons at once. They fell unconscious. Rohan (standing tall, pretending): "Yeh tha mera secret move—Banana Kick!"
Chintu Don panicked and pulled out a toy gun (the plastic one from Diwali mela). Rohan (smirking): "Plastic ke dande se asli Baaghi ko dhamka raha hai? Chal, selfie lete hain!" He snatched the gun, posed with Chintu, clicked a selfie, and posted it online. Within minutes, #Baaghi4 started trending.
Police sirens wailed. Chintu and his men fled. Rohan stood victorious.
Rohan (winking at Maya, his girlfriend): "Choti Bachi ho kya???? Baaghi ka funda simple hai—maar bhi khata hoon, maar bhi deta hoon… Sirf Marne ke liye Janm hua hai mera" They both rode off on his scooter, which suddenly ran out of petrol.
Maya: "Baaghi 4 ke hero ban ne chale the… ab scooter se Maaar kha rahe hain!"
Original Baaghi-4 Cast: Tiger Shroff, Harnaaz Kaur, Sonam Bajwa, Sanjay Dutt
The streets of Delhi were silent until a scooter screeched to a halt. Out stepped Rohan, self-proclaimed “Baaghi,” with his leather jacket… and a helmet two sizes too big.
Rohan (posing): "Main hoon Baaghi… jiska naam sunte hi dushman ki WiFi band ho jaati hai!" Suddenly, ten goons appeared, carrying sticks. Their leader, Chintu Don, laughed.
Chintu Don: "Arre! Helmet nikal, warna hum tujhe Scooty ka stepney bana denge!"
Rohan (serious tone): "Stepney toh tum banoge… jab main tumhe ghoomakar hawa bhar dunga!" He lunged forward. First punch—missed. He accidentally punched a wall and screamed louder than the goons. They laughed hysterically.
Goons (mocking): "Yeh hai Baaghi? Yeh toh Baaghi Ka Machchar Nikla Reee!" But then Rohan slipped on a banana peel, spun in the air, and accidentally kicked three goons at once. They fell unconscious. Rohan (standing tall, pretending): "Yeh tha mera secret move—Banana Kick!"
Chintu Don panicked and pulled out a toy gun (the plastic one from Diwali mela). Rohan (smirking): "Plastic ke dande se asli Baaghi ko dhamka raha hai? Chal, selfie lete hain!" He snatched the gun, posed with Chintu, clicked a selfie, and posted it online. Within minutes, #Baaghi4 started trending.
Police sirens wailed. Chintu and his men fled. Rohan stood victorious.
Rohan (winking at Maya, his girlfriend): "Choti Bachi ho kya???? Baaghi ka funda simple hai—maar bhi khata hoon, maar bhi deta hoon… Sirf Marne ke liye Janm hua hai mera" They both rode off on his scooter, which suddenly ran out of petrol.
Maya: "Baaghi 4 ke hero ban ne chale the… ab scooter se Maaar kha rahe hain!"
Comedy Satta King!
Raju stared at his phone. “Bhai, aaj main Satta King banne wala hoon!”
Bunty laughed. “King? Last time you lost your shirt… literally!”
“Not this time!” Raju grinned, placing his first bet. Ding! Win. Second bet? Win. Third? Jackpot!
“Dekha! Main king hoon!” he shouted, dancing. “Amma, tumhara beta rich ho gaya!”
Then came the fourth bet. Ding! Wrong number.
“NO! Impossible!” Raju flopped onto the sofa, wallet empty.
Bunty smirked. “King, huh? More like… Jester.”
Raju looked at his cat. “Even Mr. Whiskers is judging me.”
The cat yawned.
Raju groaned, “Three wins, zero brains, and one very judgmental cat. Perfect.”
Bunty laughed, “Welcome to Satta King, legend!”
Bunty laughed. “King? Last time you lost your shirt… literally!”
“Not this time!” Raju grinned, placing his first bet. Ding! Win. Second bet? Win. Third? Jackpot!
“Dekha! Main king hoon!” he shouted, dancing. “Amma, tumhara beta rich ho gaya!”
Then came the fourth bet. Ding! Wrong number.
“NO! Impossible!” Raju flopped onto the sofa, wallet empty.
Bunty smirked. “King, huh? More like… Jester.”
Raju looked at his cat. “Even Mr. Whiskers is judging me.”
The cat yawned.
Raju groaned, “Three wins, zero brains, and one very judgmental cat. Perfect.”
Bunty laughed, “Welcome to Satta King, legend!”
