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Timeline Pressure- A Myth by Saurabh Dudeja
'Time is a Myth'
That’s a powerful statement—and one that resonates deeply with how many people feel. Time, as we experience it socially and culturally, is a constructed framework: calendars, clocks, deadlines, schedules… all human-made. Nature doesn’t track seconds or count hours.
And yet, this construct has become so embedded in daily life that it often rules us. The idea of being "late," of time "running out," or "wasting time" can create immense pressure—leading to stress, anxiety, and burnout.
Instead of TIME as a HITLER, TYRANT. Take Time as Container – what matters the most?
One needs to Step Back from Time Pressure in Daily Life --
Follow the Steps below:
1.Start by Asking: “Whose Time Am I Living By?”
Before you change anything, reflect:
• Are your days shaped by external demands (work, society, others' expectations)?
• Or by your inner compass—what energizes, inspires, or grounds you?
👉 Action: Journal or voice-note for 5–10 minutes:
“If I could shape time in my day my way, what would change?”
2. Reclaim Mornings or Evenings
You don’t need to “own” your whole day—start small.
Choose a window that’s yours—no phone, no pressure. Just be.
• Morning: Wake 20 min early to stretch, read, sit in stillness.
• Evening: A “technology sunset”
—dim lights, music, a slow walk, journal.
3. Replace Clock-Time with Body-Time
Instead of checking the clock constantly, try tuning into:
• Hunger → eat
• Focus → work
• Fatigue → rest
• Restlessness → move
Try working in focus blocks: 45–90 minutes of effort, then pause.
4. Introduce Timeless Moments
Each day, have one experience that isn’t about “doing” or “getting somewhere.”
• Watch clouds
• Take a tech-free walk
• Create something for no reason
• Talk to someone without multitasking
• Gymming
That’s a powerful statement—and one that resonates deeply with how many people feel. Time, as we experience it socially and culturally, is a constructed framework: calendars, clocks, deadlines, schedules… all human-made. Nature doesn’t track seconds or count hours.
And yet, this construct has become so embedded in daily life that it often rules us. The idea of being "late," of time "running out," or "wasting time" can create immense pressure—leading to stress, anxiety, and burnout.
Instead of TIME as a HITLER, TYRANT. Take Time as Container – what matters the most?
One needs to Step Back from Time Pressure in Daily Life --
Follow the Steps below:
1.Start by Asking: “Whose Time Am I Living By?”
Before you change anything, reflect:
• Are your days shaped by external demands (work, society, others' expectations)?
• Or by your inner compass—what energizes, inspires, or grounds you?
👉 Action: Journal or voice-note for 5–10 minutes:
“If I could shape time in my day my way, what would change?”
2. Reclaim Mornings or Evenings
You don’t need to “own” your whole day—start small.
Choose a window that’s yours—no phone, no pressure. Just be.
• Morning: Wake 20 min early to stretch, read, sit in stillness.
• Evening: A “technology sunset”
—dim lights, music, a slow walk, journal.3. Replace Clock-Time with Body-Time
Instead of checking the clock constantly, try tuning into:
• Hunger → eat
• Focus → work
• Fatigue → rest
• Restlessness → move
Try working in focus blocks: 45–90 minutes of effort, then pause.
4. Introduce Timeless Moments
Each day, have one experience that isn’t about “doing” or “getting somewhere.”
• Watch clouds
• Take a tech-free walk
• Create something for no reason
• Talk to someone without multitasking
• Gymming
