Jennifer Malone Wright's Blog
March 31, 2021
Audiobooks and stuff
Hello hello!
I know it's been a while since I've been here. I just wanted to pop in and let you know that the Graveyard Guardians books are all in Audio, except book six which will publish in ebook soon.
These turned out soooo good!! I'm really excited to finally have 3,4 & 5 in audiobook format.
We are still working on the Arcadia Falls books. For now, books 1 - 6 are available.
As an added bonus, if you are in the UK, I still have a lot of FREE ones at THIS website.
Everything else is available at Amazon/Audible.
Other than that, stay tuned, I have LOT coming up in the future.
Stay Awesome!!


October 25, 2020
The Extroverted Introvert

I have always been the book nerd. The girl who sat at the lunch table with her book instead of hanging out with her friends. I am the girl who would rather be alone with her thoughts and her notebook than in a crowd of people. I don't care for parties or big gatherings at all.
I am shy. I always worry I am saying the wrong thing and doing anything new or going somewhere new is pretty much cause for a panic attack.
So, it's probably safe to say that I am an introvert.
But am I really?
At the same time as all of the above, I am extremely good with people. Meeting new people is always interesting to me after I get through the initial nervousness of the meeting. I enjoy most people and the stories they have to tell.
My day job is in sales. I am a marketing consultant and this requires me to go beyond stepping out of my comfort zone and basically jump off a cliff. For me to excel at my job, I need to make cold calls, go pop into businesses and meet clients, and set up meetings with people I don't know. This part of the job is the hardest thing. I have been there three years and I still have to pump myself up just to pick up the phone and make the call. I sit in my car in the parking lot of a business and tell myself it's going to be fine. Just go in, smile and it's going to be okay.
I hate rejection and every day I go to work I am facing the possibility of a whole day of it. Over and over again.
But, I'm really, really good at my job. People are drawn to me for some reason and I'm okay with that. As I said, I'm afraid of rejection, so getting along with most people is definitely a plus on that end.
It's hard being both the shy introvert, and yet being so extroverted for a day job. I wouldn't say it's exactly like putting on a mask, because feels like I'm a fake. I won't lie though, it does take some extent of "fake it till you make it" to step out of a comfort zone.
And once I'm out of that comfort zone, the rewards of meeting wonderful people and helping their business succeed is more than fulfilling.
The introvert in me dislikes this so much. She wants the comfort zone where she can please people with her writing without having to talk to them.
My mind is a constant battle between the introvert and the extrovert. They are both me. They both have good qualities and finding the balance is the only way I make it through. I don't know about everyone else who has this issue, but for me. The best thing I can do is make sure that I'm giving the introvert what she needs, after all the extroverting that she's doing all week.
I know this can be hard. I have five kids, a husband, a house with chores and property that needs to be maintained. I get it, that time can be hard to find, but we have to find it.
I know this blog totally made me sound bi-polar. And I can get into that in another blog, but sometimes there are indeed, two very different personalities inside a person. And that is okay, Now that I'm writing this last bit, I will definitely be doing another post for this.
Just remember, feed both the introvert and the extrovert for balance and it really helps.
It took me a long time to realize that it's okay to be both.
September 26, 2020
Fall is here and I am not ready! Tips for living in the darkness.
Fall is here. It moved in quickly on us. Mother Nature went from 85 to 50 like she saw a cop car.
Typically, I love Fall. I love the temps, I love the smells, I love the vibes. I get in the mood to bake and even cook some nice dishes for my family or co workers. I just love everything during this time.
Except...
The darkness.
It is getting darker earlier and earlier. In a month, my kids will be walking home from the bus in the dark at 4:45 in the evening. And I'm talking DARK, not just, oh the sun went down and its a bit dim, but full on darkness.
I hate the dark. I grew up in a place where it didn't get that dark that early, EVER.
This is why I am not ready for Fall. Fall, means Winter is Coming and that is something we don't want yet.
Where we live, you have to prepare for Winter. And we aren't prepared. We will be, we will bust our behinds and get things situated and then we will be fine. But the appearance of Fall makes me feel like Winter is rubbing her hands and watching us in some magic crystal ball and mumbling, "I'm coming for you bitches. I'm going to smother you with my darkness until you are so depressed you don't want to get out of bed for anything. I am going to sink the temperatures and make it snow so hard that you won't be able to leave work. You will be stuck there forever! Hahahahahahaha.... I may even throw in a snow storm then freeze it after so all your tree branches break off and hit your house. I am Winter, bow to me!"
Yeah, that is what I make up in my head, because I'm super dramatic and make everything extra. But seriously, the dark is a concern for a lot of people who live in this area. SO, if you happen to be one of those people, here are a few ideas for what to do help keep that darkness depression at bay.
Before I begin, let me just say that I joke about this whole thing, but our mental health is SUPER important to watch when you live in a place that is dark when you wake up at 6am and dark by 4:30pm some people who work inside aren't getting any natural light at all and that is not good for you. We don't even notice it until too late. So please, take steps and precautions to avoid it. If you already suffer from depression and anxiety ... like me, we are even more susceptible to depression sinking in.
Okay,
1. Exercise;
I know, I know! Tell me to go away right now. But, it's the truth and there is a reason it is #1 on my list. It WORKS! Join a class for after work, I used to do a Hit class and a spin class alternating days after work. (Until I worked to far away, but now I'm back to where I can! YAY) My gym bag is always ready in my car. I get home and repack it for the next morning to throw in my car. If you can't go to the gym and you don't have any equipment at home, then you tube something, you will find something that will get your blood flowing, I promise.
2. Artificial light:
There are lamps and bulbs that are basically artificial sunlight. These are always good to have, even in the spring and summer. I mean why not. You can get these at any basic hardware store or online.
3. Vitamin D:
While the artificial light might help create vitamin d in your body, you may want to take a supplement. I know one gal who went to the doctor and her vitamin d was so low they had her on a crazy bit dosage of it. But seriously, you can go to the vitamin section in the grocery store and grab a bottle and add it to your daily regime of vitamins (which you should be doing !) and it's that easy.
4. Eat healthy.
I can hear you now. I know what you're thinking. "Girl wants to take away my carbs, Oh HELL no!" Yeah, that is part of it. But same as any other season, eating healthy helps your mental health and basic well being. I love carbs as much as anyone, but we will be far better equipped to fight the darkness depression if we aren't stuck on the couch with chip crumbs littering our chests and laps. (Oh wait, that might just be me) So, think of healthy food as your armor to fight the dark. We want to have a good impenetrable armor to protect us.
5. Stay motivated.
This is my last tip, because I'm getting tired of typing. There are a ton more tips out there but it basically rolls up into this. Stay busy, stay motivated. Do not let yourself fall into the trap of doing nothing just because it's winter. Get out, get active. By active, I don't mean you have to exercise (Though, remember #1) . My family likes to go skiing, I do not ski or snowboard, but it is a good idea for me to tag along and sit at the lodge, watching people and working on my writing. Make plans with your friends to hang out. Keep busy and Winter will pass by before we know it.
Of course, there are weirdos like my hubby out there who LIKE winter. This still applies to you crazies. Take care of yourselves and it will make your winter experience even better.
Okay, I'm out. I need to go work on my yard.
Have a good one peeps!
August 9, 2020
Teaser Time! Chapter 1 from Keeper of Truth!

August 5, 2020
Recognizing Burnout & Doing Things That Make You Happy
June 18, 2019
Graveyard Guardians Book #5 is AVAILABLE NOW!!

March 3, 2019
Teaser Time!

January 8, 2019
Get Books 1 & 2 FREE!

January 5, 2019
New Year - New Books

March 8, 2018
I'm taking orders for signed books!
