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Zombies Blow

June 5th 2020 Zombies Blow will be on the world bookshelf.Corey & Jackson finally get what they need! 
Here's the blurb:
Zombies blow—but they’re not after brains! These zombies are young, hot, and looking for their mates.
Corey Anderson has worked in Club Zombie for decades with his mate, Jackson Davis. Life would be perfect but there’s a hole inside each of them. They can’t find their third mate and are exhausted from the long search.
Keith Demonico knows he wasn’t always a good guy and now he’d do anything to make up for past mistakes. He’d spent the last twenty years giving back to the LGBTQIA+ community, although it didn’t make up for the damage he’d done while he was still a closeted teen. His fear caused harm to the boy he’d love and later made him too fearful to follow the feelings he had for his best friend.
Somehow fate brought the past to the present. He’s always wanted a second chance. Is this it? He hopes Jackson is right, and he is exactly what both Jackson and Corey need, but Corey won’t listen to his apology.
(Zombies Blow is part of the Club Zombie series but can be read as a standalone for a perfectly happy and satisfying ending.)


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THAI BL RECOMMENDATIONS

I believe BL (Boy's Love), Yaoi, LGBTQIA+ romance helps more people toward equality. I truly believe with every page turned and every drama watched people's hearts and minds are being opened.
Thailand has yet to legalize same sex marriage but I really believe they are moving in that direction and these dramas are helping to push that agenda.
Keep in mind none of these are "perfect" (show me a show/book/movie who gets a 100% & I'll show you someone who thinks it failed...). These are simply beautiful stories with character I love.
Here's some of my recommendations:
2gether: Is still in it's first season. 


TharnType the series: ((FYI: One of these guys are super homophobic for reasons > but it can still be hard to watch, also possible dubious consent but there's enough that got me past it. Also an episode 13 that's very SWEET & Season 2 is set to begin shooting in July))

Kiss series:
Kiss Me Again (watching for Kao/Pete their story is finished in Dark Blue Kiss > which in my humble opinion is the payoff for the whole series)
Kiss The Series (most BL fans skim for Kao/Pete scenes)
Dark Blue Kiss (after https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x78...) this is the STAR of the entire series. DBK is so well done and it even gives current & future parents a recipe on how to deal with their rainbow kids... it's stunning!!!!!!! 
  
Until We Meet Again: I'm not going to lie I went through 2 boxes of tissue but I can say without a doubt EVERYONE & I do mean EVERYONE gets their happily ever after. It's a cautionary tale that needs to be told (to both parents & kids who want to just give up), and it is incredibly beautiful... uplifting. ((Again, you know I don't do SAD... there's enough happiness to pull you through the hardest parts of this story and it truly is worth it))
Why R U (By Line TV) 13 episodes but there were some technical problems due to Corvid 19 but overall great story, fun characters and much sweetness & love to be had.
Sotus  series:Sotus, Sotus S college hazing, young adult issues, and falling in love...  (then Our Skyy on Daily Motion: https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x788pnp)
 
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5 Embarrassing Sexual Type Situations for Anyone… Other t...

5 Embarrassing Sexual Type Situations for Anyone… Other than Z. Allora

Thank you so much for having me. I’m going to share with you 5 situations that could have been embarrassing… but I’m Z. Allora so I embraced them. I’m not saying I’ve never been embarrassed by sex or sexual situations, but it gives me much more joy to embrace sex and sexuality. Then I’m going to celebrate my new release The Longest Night , a sweet BDSM with a giveaway.
Here are 5 situations that could have been mortifying if I let them:
1)    Bangkok Go-Go Bar: “I fuck him too.”On one of our trips to Bangkok, we were at a go-go bar and the bouncer placed us right in front of the stage. The dancers took great pleasure in dedicating themselves to me. As the only person who was assigned female at birth in attendance, their goal was to embarrass me with attention….
Although once they realized that was a hopeless endeavor, they began to try to make me laugh. One sweet dancer decided making silly faces was the way to go.
He was right! I snortled again and again at his twisted fish lips face.
Later that evening, Mr. Alpha, the biggest, most muscular dancer that everyone doted on, directed his attentions to me.
He strutted his fine, oiled muscular body over to me. Stopping in front of me, he raked his gaze over me as if trying to start a fire with no tinder.
After a moment of intense study, he announced with a confident smile, “I fuck you.”
*** All kidding aside, it was a lovely and thoughtful offer. It was clearly a coveted gift based on the reactions of the pouting of the patrons losing out on his attentions. ***
I shook my head, and elbowed my love. “I’m sorry, I’m with him.”
My love had stopped playing his game and smiled at the man in the loin cloth offering to fuck me. (Clearly my dearest heart knew there was no threat whatsoever.)
Mr. Alpha glanced at my love and grinned. He turned back to me and nodded. “I fuck him too.”
“Oh, thank you, but no. We’re good.” I didn’t want to insult him but I needed to be clear since I spoke only a few words of Thai.
*** This little scene had gotten everyone’s attention. The group on stage stopped dancing to stare at I’m sure what was a rare sight… Mr. Alpha being told “no.” ***
Mr. Alpha stared deeply into my eyes. “You very good. I make better.”
Thankfully, the bouncer at the door flashed a light signaling to the dancers that the police would soon be raiding the establishment.
Everyone darted away.
Mr. Alpha gave me one last longing look and ran out into the back.
My love and I beat a hasty retreat out the door.

2)    The movers found handcuffs under our bed.Mover: “Oh Mrs. Lady. Mrs. Lady. I found something of yours.”
I dash into the bedroom to find him smirking with an old pair of handcuffs, that had gotten lost under the bed, dangling from his fingertips. His intent was to embarrass or shame me.
Z.: “Oh God! Thank you so much! We’ve been looking for these.” I snatch them with a smile and clutch them to my chest. “These were my very first pair.”
Mover: Turns red, nods, and backs into a wall.

3)    Carpet cleaner sucks up my bondage rope in his vacuum.Cleaner: “Um, a… there’s some sort of rope attached under your bed.”
Z.: “Oh, yeah. Sorry, I must not have tucked it in when we were done…. But it’s still easier than tying it each time. Am I right?”
Cleaner: …..

4)    “I’ve never been hit in the head with a penis… until today.”Carpet cleaner (same one, different visit): Upstairs in that room with all the pictures on the wall (which is cover art from my books)….
Z.: Yes. (Not sure where he’ll go with this…)
Carpet Cleaner: “Well, until today I’ve never been hit in the head with a penis….”
Z.: “Oh, my. Are you okay?”
Carpet Cleaner: “Yeah, I just… didn’t expect it. Why do you have one hanging in there?”
Z.: (mentally rubbing my hands together) Well, that’s a tintinnabulum from Pompeii. Where shop owners would hang these penises with bells attached to bring good luck to the store.”
Carpet Cleaner: nods… “Okay, so I guess I was hit in the head with good luck.”
5)    Flying with Sex ToysTSA: “What is this?” He points to my case of vibrators with a smirk.
Z.: “Vibrators. Would you like to see how I use them?”
TSA: (smirk falters) ….
Z.: “You put them on either side of your temple. If you have a cold use them around your nose to break up congestion, and to help with sinus pressure.”
TSA: ….
Z.: “There are other uses as well.” (bats eyelashes) “Orgasms.”
TSA: “You’re fine. Go.”
Z.: “I can show you—”
TSA: “Next.”

Not only accepting who you are but embracing yourself is a joy all it’s own. My characters in The Longest Night have finally accepted who they are and are clear on what they want. They are no longer willing to settle.
                                                                 Buy Link The Longest Night The holiday season is lonely for construction worker Benjamin Morgan, a big muscular guy who just wants to submit, obey, and serve. But the men he’s attracted to usually don’t have a dominant bone in their bodies. He’s done seeking his BDSM dreams with someone who isn’t interested in putting him in his rightful place—on his knees at their feet.
When a friend sets up a meeting with Foster Ridgeway at the BDSM club, Entwined, Benjamin has his doubts. Of course he is attracted to bookish Foster, who works for the same construction company, but how will someone so small and delicate-looking master Benjamin? But when Foster--the tiny temple of dominance wielding a crop--heads toward Benjamin, he might get what he’s always wanted, just in time for Solstice.

Sneaky Moments of The Untamed

I adore Sweet Jun who makes these videos of The Untamed. She teases out and analyzes everything!
Here's an example:

Many hugs, Z.

The Untamed

You might have noticed how much I adore The Untamed.  Netflix The Untamed)

Why?

I lived in China for 6 years so I experienced the censorship and the denial of anything other than straight first hand. The Untamed (live drama with talented actors) is based on a BL (boy's love aka Yaoi) novel The Grand Master of Demonic Cultivation. (Not yet in English though I've begged various BL manga houses to PLEASE give us this treasure!)

"In a magical world of inter-clan rivalry, two soulmates face treacherous schemes and uncover a dark mystery linked to a tragic event in the past." < Netflix summary... these two men are soulmates... in China where I was told more than once "gay is a Western concept."

The leader actors are from two different boy bands who understand how to help fans read between the lines.

This gets pass the censorship (against anything homosexual > which is seen as obscene) through clever symbolism, longing looks, crooked barely there smiles, and creativity. This is a miracle for not only the incredible story which sweeps you away and the magical acting but these two men love each other....

((WARNING: the first episode is a bit difficult to understand as Wei Wuxian is being brought back to life and the other person is sort of there... and then Wei needs to act insane so can come across as overacting and craziness if you aren't expecting it... just know it's fantastic).

If you're already a fan I'm summarizing each episode with blow by blow descriptions, fun interviews with the characters, and great videos. Join me in the Yaoified Love group on Facebook!

I highly recommend this show. It's AWESOME!

It's on Netflix The Untamed and YouTube (1st episode below) as well as Vikki.com.


Many hugs, Z.

Interview with a Pup... Puppy Play at It's BEST

Thank you so much for joining me, Keith W. We know each from various places: PFLAG, Pride, Pokemon Go… and now I’m going to ask you about Puppy Play.

Z:  Why do you like puppy play?I like pup play because...well...for the same reason anyone has a fetish: it gratifies them in some form or another. In my case, this fetish is not a sexual one, though for many pups it can be. For me, it provides me a mental release, helping me escape the worries of my human life. It’s also a very unique way to convey affection. Dogs in general are playful creatures known for loyalty, affection, and unconditional love. The same is said for those that engage in pup play. It allows a person to show and receive affection in a highly tactile manner, which in my case involves lots of cuddles, belly rubs, and treats! Plus pup play helps me burn off a lot of my hyperactive energy, leaving me focused, relaxed, and ready to take on my day to day life.I also love the social aspect. It’s so fun to meet new pups and mosh (play with them), from batting around balls and messing with squeaky toys to play fighting and cuddling. Z: What do you do at Puppy play parties (Puppy Parties? Not sure the name used)? Pup events, often called moshes, tend to offer many different ways for pups to enjoy themselves. They allow pups and handlers to meet, socialize, network, play, and even explore their other kinks! The main feature of moshes is obviously moshing. There will be one or more designated areas where pups can get into headspace and play. This usually involves lots of squeakies and other dog toys to enjoy, and even pass around or fetch with fellow pups and handlers. If you get tired or group play isn’t your cup of tea, you can always sit back and observe, or converse with others at the event. Based on the nature of the venue the event is held at, it is possible to have lots of other activities available, too! I’ve been to pup events where I’ve enjoyed such activities as drinking with friends, drag shows, rope bondage, whipping and flogging, candle wax play, knife play, electro play, and dancing, just to name a few!
Z: And what does a handler do for you? As with many aspects of the kink, a handler’s role can vary from pup to pup. For me, the handler is a source of guidance, satisfaction, and affection. I enjoy following a handler or Sir’s orders and being rewarded with verbal praise, physical touch, treats, or any combination. To me, a good handler can recognize the goal I want to accomplish, in this case being a cute ball of energy and love, and use his authority to guide me to that goal in a way that satisfies us both, generally by giving orders for me to fulfill like doing tricks or simple actions, and rewarding me when I complete them. On a much broader focus, it is a Sir’s/Handler’s job to help a pup or sub grow in their kink experience and their overall character as a human being to make the sub/pup a better version of themselves. This idea is the foundation that the BDSM community was founded on in America’s post war era, when soldiers returning from overseas missed the chain of command that they had in the military and sought a way to fill that desire, and it still applies today.

Z: Any advice you'd give someone who is interested in puppy play? As with any kink, my top two suggestions for anyone interested in pup play, be it as a pup, a handler, or any other aspect, are research and networking. As far as research, there are many online sources designed to educate on all things pup play from history to common practices. When someone asks me for a starting point, I will usually suggest a YouTube channel called Watts the Safeword, which has videos dedicated to pup play intro, standard practices, and Q&A as well as information on lots of other kinks! If you’re still wanting to learn more, the best thing to do is find a pup to talk to! Now remember, consent is key. Every pup has different levels of comfort zones. Some like me are an open book while others prefer to keep certain parts or even everything private and personal. Now if you’re like me and live in a rural or small town area, it can be tough to find pups to network with as the kink community as a whole is spread out, making it seem like finding a needle in a haystack. But again there are many online resources! For gay men, there is an app called Recon that functions similar to Grindr and caters to those that are interested in kink. There’s also Fetlife, which is open to everyone of all genders and orientations. And one of my favorite tools to keep in touch with pups is a messenger app called Telegram, which hosts all kinds of chat rooms for pups in many regions across the country. There are even websites that catalogue all the different groups to help you find one that’s local! And of course one of the best ways to meet pups is to go where they go: bars and events! Most leather and kink bars are very pup friendly, providing a safe place for pups to meet, play, and network. My first exposure to pup play was actually a random visit to The Woodshed/Shed Leather in Charlotte, where I met a pup named Loki and had a chance to ask questions. And it’s also very good to look around on social media for pup and kink events happening near you! You may be surprised at what you could find happening in your own town!
Z.: Anything you wish you knew before you started. There are three things I wish I had known when I first started. The first is that there is no one correct way to do it. When you think of it, dogs (or as we call them bio pups) come in all shapes, sizes, and demeanors. So do humans. Therefore, why wouldn’t we expect the same from a pup? Some love playing in big groups of other pups, while others may prefer one on one time with a handler. Some are very vocal with barking, howling, and so on while others are more in tune with body language. Some enjoy following commands and being praised while others like be disobedient and feral, often because they prefer to not having to answer to someone unless want to or because they enjoy being punished or forced to submit by force, or any number of motives. The only real way to do pup play wrong is if you don’t follow the BDSM mindset of “safe, sane, and consensual”. In other words, regardless if you’re a pup or a handler, don’t be a jerk. The other thing I wish I had internalized initially is that you don’t need to have pup gear to be a pup. While they can certainly help you get in pup headspace, as they do for me, they are not required to do so. Not everyone can afford a hoods, tails, collars, and toys. Others can’t keep them around due to living situations. You can strip away all the gear but at the very core, a pup is still a pup at heart. That being said, if you are going to be engaging in pup play, I highly recommend investing in a simple set of soft knee pads and some padded exercise gloves. You don’t need anything fancy but they’ll really save you from your knees and knuckles killing you after a long session being on your hands and knees.
Z.: Anything else you want readers to understand about puppy play? If there’s one thing I want others to know about pups, it’s this: DRESSING UP AND MOSHING DO NOT EQUATE TO CONSENT!!! Do NOT grab a pup by any part of their body or gear unless you were given consent. Do NOT pull on their tail. Do NOT think you can give them orders or even pet/touch them without consent. Pup play isn’t exclusive to those who identify as sub, as there are many dom pups and I myself identify as a switch. But even beyond the bdsm aspect, it’s a matter of common decency. Would you want some random stranger to tug your hair, pull you around by your clothes, or tell you to do what they say with no context? Well there’s no shame if that’s your kink, but for many people the answer would be no. So treat pups the way you’d want to be treated. Also, I don’t care if it’s a public space or not, but ask permission before taking pics of a pup. Screw public domain. Some pups have to work up a lot of courage to go out and be social. They may not want people outside of club walls or event boundaries to know what they do. So respect their privacy. Also on a lighter note, if you are engaging in pup play (known by some as pupping out), stay hydrated. You are moving your body in ways most human bodies don’t normally do, and you do it quite a bit even in short sessions. It’s very easy to overheat, especially if you are wearing a lot of gear. So make sure you pace yourself and drink water before you get sick! Trust me, it’s not fun.
Z: Thank you so much! Is there anything you’d like to add Keith W.?
Oh and one last thing! If you like the idea of pup play but you aren’t sure pups are your thing, don’t worry! Pup play is a segment of a broader fetish called pet play! There’s kitty play, pony play, wolf play, and much more! If you can dream it, you can be it!
Hugs and snugs Pup Munchy

Always seek your own truth.
I’d love to hear from you so feel free to use the contact information and touch base with me.
Many hugs, Z. Allora
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Pet Play

In 7 Reasons Puppy Play Is Great If You're New to Kink By Alexander Cheves @BadAlexChevesNovember 23 2015 11:00 AM EST first points out:
“Remember: kink and BDSM are not synonymous, though many people use them interchangeably. “Kink” a broad term for any sex practice outside vanilla, in which certain furnishings (toys, paddles, rope) and certain wear (harnesses, gas masks) are utilized sexually. BDSM is an acronym for “bondage, domination, sadism, and masochism.” Many kinksters (kinky people) enjoy BDSM, but not all of them.”    https://www.pride.com/gay/2015/11/20/7-reasons-puppy-play-great-if-youre-new-kink
Pretties: I’ll remind you this is hisdefinition and accepted by many but labels and how we interpret them vary based on experience and geography. I always like to remind us of that because if someone is saying something differently it doesn’t make them “wrong.” Open minds and open hearts can’t lose (Yeah, I just misquoted Friday Night Lights > I’m questioning my life choices….) But onwards!
What is pet play?
Role playing (or become) an animal. Using the Submissive’s Guide: Helping Yourself Find You written by a guest author to describe how to with help us understand more.“How does one engage in pet play?·       Restrict movement via bondage (or paws).·       Restrict verbal communication, perhaps to only certain words or animal sounds such as “woof!” or “mew!” or more child-like words such as “up!” or “potty!”.·       Training exercises such as tricks for puppies, walking on leads and leashes or for ponies pulling a cart/plow.·       Eating and drinking out of bowls without the use of hands and/or silverware.·       Learning to use a litter box instead of a toilet, or even going outside.·       Playing with toys, such as batting toys for kitties or tug-of-war toys for puppies.·       Begging in the manner of the animal you identify with, such as a puppy whining.·       Caging.·       Not being allowed on furniture without permission.” https://www.submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/pet-play-human-pets-primer
This month’s blog post will focus on Puppy Play. Next month I have a friend who is very much into this scene and is comfortable sharing some of his experiences with us.
Puppy Play can be an easy first step into a power exchange dynamic. Pup (submissive) Handler/Owner (Dom)


Puppy headspace is freeing & allows participates a break from “real life”
What About Sex:Sex isn’t necessary to be into puppy play. So there’s no performance anxiety. Though I hear thesex can be incredible. The submissive (pup) has been given lots of attention and just like a Dom the handler is responsible for the care of his/her pup. The pup isn’t in bondage but many activities are difficult in puppy paws and a muzzle prohibits talking, so nothing is required of them but feel.
Being a puppy isn’t just for submissives. Doms can be pups too. They are called Alpha pups. Subs could be handlers.
Puppy players have a strong since of community. With social media and meetups, bonds develop and furish.
Equipment is needed:You could have none. All you need is the puppy/Handler mindset.
But if you want some puppies can let their personalities shine through their tails (rubber or fluffy), hoods (straight on alert ears to cute floppy ears), paws, collars, and leashes and all in a variety of colors to please any pup.
The collaring of a pup can be as meaningful as a collaring of a sub. The Handler is agreeing to the care and protection of the pup.
Power Exchange:Puppy Play’s power exchange might be seen as less threatening than going to a dungeon to give yourself over to a Master.
Here you are becoming the cutest/best thing in the world a puppy, and you have a Handler, who makes sure you have fun in the ball pit, has water ready for you and you get to have pure fun.
Puppy Play allows you to dip your toe in the power exchange dynamic in an easy going non-scary way.
Next month I’ll have a friend answer some questions on Puppy Play.
Always seek your own truth.
I’d love to hear from you so feel free to use the contact information and touch base with me.
Many hugs, Z. Allora
To contact Z. Allora: E-mail: Z.AlloraHappyEndings@gmail.comFACEBOOK:   Z Allora AlloraWebsite: www.zallorabooks.comTwitter: @ZAlloraBlog: http://zallora.blogspot.comDreamspinner: https://bit.ly/2Jv14r1

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In GSN's article: Dragon, emperors, and myths: Chin...

 In GSN's article: Dragon, emperors, and myths: China's Hidden LGBT+ Myths we discover a Rabbit God Tu'er Shen for queer people... Gives plot bunnies a whole new meaning!I quoted parts of the article.
Rabbit God"Chinese legend tells us there was a soldier called Hu Tianbao living in Fujian, the province on the southeast coast of China.
He fell in love with a handsome young imperial inspector. But one day the inspector caught Hu Tianbao peeping on him while he was naked.
As a result, the soldier confessed his affections for the inspector. But the young man was angry and ordered Hu Tianbao beaten to death.
However, that wasn’t the end of the story. Underworld officials felt the soldier had been unjustly treated as his crime was one of love. So they sent him back as a young hare or rabbit called Tu Er Shen (literally Rabbit God).
They also gave the Rabbit God a special duty – to oversee love and sex between gay people.
At one time, many people embraced the worship of Tu Er Shen. Male lovers would ask for his favor and if they got the man they wanted, they would thank him by smearing pigs intestine and sugar on the lips of his idol.
Sadly, in later years, officials tried to crack down on this. But Taiwan did open a new temple to the Rabbit God in 2006. And perhaps it worked. Taiwan is the first place in Asia to allow same-sex marriage."

Early emperors and a nice peach"In today’s age of emojis, many a gay or bi man has wanted to bite into a nice peach. But in ancient China, that had a deeper meaning.
Around 500BC, Duke Ling was the ruler of the state of Wey, before China was unified as one country.
And Duke Ling of Wey was in love with a beautiful man called Mizi Xia. One day, Mizi Xia bit into a peach and found it so delicious he gave the rest of it to Duke Ling to enjoy.
As a result, Mizi Xia’s name became used for any desirable young man and a ‘bitten peach’ became another word for homosexuality.
However, there is a lesson to young courtiers in the story. Duke Ling of Wey was fickle and when Mizi Xia lost his looks, he rejected him. He even used this romantic story against him, saying the courtier had insulted him by giving him a half-eaten peach."


The rest of the article can be found here: https://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=5500726199490619483#editor/target=post;postID=2989031507300361955

Enjoy!

Hugs, Z.

Declutter Your Life & Lose the Guilt

Decluttering can be healthy.
Not only are you clearing out your space but you're making room for things you need and want.
The added bonus is you don't have the guilt of looking at something and feeling terrible you spent money on it or aren't using it. How amazing is it to pass things on to others.
(Be mindful of who you donate to > aka be careful of supporting anti-LGBTQIA+ organizations but there are plenty of places out there and many people in need.)
Enjoy this motivational video!
Hugs, Z.

Decluttering Motivation

Let's get some declutter motivation from Brittany Vasseur.

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