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How To Create Your Ideal Minimalist Home and Mindset

Are You Ready To Create A Minimalist Home? Get Started Decluttering 

You don’t have to live in a house that is overrun with clutter. You can choose instead to follow a minimalist lifestyle and sense of design. Get rid of clutter to achieve your ideal minimalist home. Do you find you’re not sure how to get started decluttering? Don’t worry, you can find help to learn about decluttering and minimalism. 

Learn About Decluttering, Downsizing, And Minimalism From The Downsizing Designer 

Hi, it’s Rita. Like you, I once had a life with too much clutter. I wanted something simpler, something more minimalist. Then I downsized my home and got rid of 95% of what I once owned. Since then, I’ve never been happier. As the Downsizing Designer, it’s my goal to help others learn to lead the minimalist lifestyle they desire through downsizing and decluttering. 

Create Your Minimalist Home Be Creating A Minimalist Mindset 

Words and thoughts have great power. Thinking to yourself “I can do this” gives you the empowerment you need to do the task you’ve set before you. However, if you tell yourself “I can’t do this.” you’ll likely fall into the trap of the self-fulfilling prophecy. In telling yourself you can’t do something, you’ve limited yourself.  

When it comes to decluttering, you may find yourself thinking that you can’t get rid of this or that. You may also find yourself thinking of minimalism in a way that makes you reluctant to seek out a more minimalist lifestyle. You may think of minimalism as a form of depriving yourself. 

What if you could change the way you think about minimalism? What if you started thinking of minimalism as a way of simplifying your life? What if decluttering was a method to get rid of things that get in the way of you living your life? By creating this minimalist mindset, you can enable yourself to live a simpler, freer, happier life. 

Learn more about what a minimalist mindset is and how creating a minimalist mindset can help you get started on decluttering in my video “How To Create Your Ideal Minimalist Home and Mindset.” Eager to seek out more decluttering tools and minimalist tips? Visit the Design Services online store, where I offer decluttering checklists, online decluttering courses, and more. 

Rita Wilkins Offers Lifestyle Design And Interior Design Services  

Do you want to learn more about downsizing and decluttering? Call Design Services LTD at 302-475-5663 to discuss your design needs. You can also connect with me by following me on Facebook and LinkedIn. Would you like complimentary advice from the downsizing designer? You can schedule a complimentary 30-minute call with me today. My book Downsize Your Life, Upgrade Your Lifestyle: Secrets to More Time, Money, and Freedom is now available in paperback, audio, and on Kindle! Get your copy soon. 

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Clearing Emotional Clutter: 4 Tips and 3 Questions for a Minimalist Mindset

Do you find yourself holding onto sentimental items out of fear that letting go means losing the memories associated with them? This fear is natural, and many of us have experienced it. However, by embracing minimalism, we can shift our perspective and find freedom in letting go.

My Personal Experience

Allow me to share a personal story that illustrates the power of embracing minimalism in the face of sentimental clutter. After our parents passed away, my siblings and I found ourselves confronted with cleaning out their home—a place filled with cherished memories. Among the numerous possessions were vast collections of china, crystal, and silverware. While my siblings had no need for these items, I, with a larger house, gladly took them all. However, as life unfolded, and I downsized from a 5,000-square-foot home to a mere 867 square feet, I realized I had to make some difficult choices.

A Revelation and a Solution

With the wisdom and insight of my sister-in-law, I discovered a way to honor the memories while embracing minimalism. Instead of keeping everything, I decided to select four of each item that truly held deep meaning for me. The rest, I distributed in small, meaningful portions to family and friends who would appreciate and utilize them. This experience taught me a valuable lesson: letting go of sentimental clutter allows space for new memories to be created while still cherishing the past.

Understanding Sentimental Clutter

To embark on the journey of decluttering, it’s important to understand what sentimental clutter truly is. Sentimental clutter encompasses all the possessions we hold onto, even if they no longer serve a purpose or bring us joy. They reside in our drawers, attics, and basements, taking up valuable space. We convince ourselves that we cannot part with them, tethering ourselves to the past. However, it’s crucial to remember that sentimentality should not imprison us but rather uplift and inspire us.

The Essence of Minimalism

At its core, minimalism is a lifestyle philosophy that encourages intentional living, focusing on what truly matters and discarding the excess. By embracing minimalism, we can create a serene and purposeful environment that aligns with our values and aspirations.

Guiding Principles for Letting Go

Now, let’s explore practical steps and principles that can help us navigate the process of decluttering sentimental items.

Start Small, Think Big: When faced with a house full of belongings, it’s natural to feel overwhelmed. Begin by selecting one small area, such as a dining room cabinet or a bookshelf. Then, take it one shelf or one drawer at a time. By focusing on manageable portions, we can make steady progress and avoid feeling daunted by the enormity of the task.The Three Questions: As you sort through items, ask yourself these essential questions:
a) Does it bring me happiness and evoke positive memories? If not, it may be time to let go.
b) Will I use it or can I display it in a way that keeps the memory alive? Minimalism encourages us to surround ourselves with meaningful items that serve a purpose in our lives.
c) Am I keeping it out of a sense of obligation or guilt? Minimalism frees us from the burden of keeping things out of obligation. Let go of items that no longer align with your present and future.Capture Memories, Not Things: To help ease the emotional attachment to sentimental items, consider alternative ways to preserve memories. Take photographs of items and create digital albums or scan handwritten notes and letters. These digital mementos can evoke the same emotions without physical clutter.Seek Community and Support: Decluttering sentimental items can be an emotional journey, and having support is vital. Reach out to friends or join online communities of like-minded individuals who are also embracing minimalism. Share experiences, seek guidance, and celebrate milestones together.The Power of Minimalism

Remember, by letting go of sentimental clutter, we create space for new experiences, memories, and personal growth. Minimalism is not about deprivation but rather about embracing what truly matters. It’s a lifestyle that invites us to live intentionally, cherishing the present moment and cultivating a sense of freedom and peace. So, take the first step on this journey and embrace the beauty of minimalism, creating a life filled with purpose, meaning, and joy.

Are you Ready?

Take that first step and open yourself up to a world of freedom, peace, and fulfillment. Rita has the expertise and tools you need to create a more peaceful and intentional life. From ebooks to online courses and personalized decluttering plans, Rita’s resources are designed to help you achieve your goals and create a life that feels authentically you. So why wait? Start living your best life today with Rita’s lifestyle design and decluttering resources. Remember, the power to live a minimalist lifestyle lies in your hands.

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This blog post is based on an episode of Rita’s weekly Facebook Live broadcast. Never miss an episode! Click the following link to like Rita’s Facebook page or subscribe to her Decluttering YouTube Channel. Check out our YouTube playlists if you want to learn more.

Follow me on social media for more updates:YOUTUBE | FACEBOOK | INSTAGRAM | LINKEDIN | TWITTERRita Wilkins Offers Lifestyle Design And Interior Design Services  

Do you want to learn more about downsizing and decluttering? You can also connect with me by following me on Facebook and LinkedIn. Would you like complimentary advice from the downsizing designer? My book Downsize Your Life, Upgrade Your Lifestyle: Secrets to More Time, Money, and Freedom is now available in paperback, audio, and on Kindle! Get your copy soon. 

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Downsizing Your Home in Your 60s? Read This First

Are You Considering Downsizing Your Home And Decluttering Your Space? 

Approaching retirement age requires us to consider changes that may feel uncomfortable. However, changes that seem intimidating could lead to you living a happier, freer life. If you feel bogged down with clutter, if you want to declutter but aren’t sure how, if you think you might need to downsize your home but aren’t sure – you don’t have to figure out how to accomplish these goals on your own. 

Learn About Life After Downsizing With The Downsizing Designer 

Hi, Rita here. As the Downsizing Designer, I’ve made it my goal to help others understand what life after downsizing can look like. After downsizing from a large 5000 square foot home to an 867 square foot apartment and getting rid of 95% of what I once owned, I have never been happier. You can lead a happier life with more money, time, and freedom to do as you choose after downsizing too. 

Downsizing And Stepping Out Of Your Comfort Zone 

Change can be difficult, especially if you perceive the change as leaving something comfortable and familiar behind. Downsizing your home, moving away from the home you raised your children in and the neighborhood you’re familiar with, retiring from a career you’ve spent decades in – all of these things require you to step outside of your comfort zone. Many baby boomers as they approach retirement find themselves delaying decluttering and downsizing for this very reason. They put it off, thinking they’ll get to it “someday.” However, “someday” may never come. 

How do you know when it is the right time to downsize and declutter? 

3 Wake-Up Calls To Downsize And Declutter That big house is just not working for you anymore. You feel like something is missing in your life. You feel it’s time for you to prioritize yourself. 

Learn more about these 3 Wake-Up Calls to downsize and declutter, as well as the benefits of life after downsizing, when you watch my video “Downsizing Your Home in Your 60s? Read This First.” You can also find more decluttering tools at the Design Services online store. Try my minimalist decluttering checklists, online decluttering courses, and more today. 

Rita Wilkins Offers Lifestyle Design And Interior Design Services  

Do you want to learn more about downsizing and decluttering? Call Design Services LTD at 302-475-5663 to discuss your design needs. You can also connect with me by following me on Facebook and LinkedIn. Would you like complimentary advice from the downsizing designer? You can schedule a complimentary 30-minute call with me today. My book Downsize Your Life, Upgrade Your Lifestyle: Secrets to More Time, Money, and Freedom is now available in paperback, audio, and on Kindle! Get your copy soon. 

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Embracing Change and Knowing When to Downsize Your Home

Entering a new stage of life is both terrifying and exhilarating. It signifies a time of significant change, which can be daunting as you find yourself stepping out of your comfort zone. One significant change that many consider during this phase is downsizing their homes. However, this life-altering decision is often met with resistance and postponed for an uncertain future. In this blog post, we’ll explore the wake-up calls that signal the right time to downsize and declutter, the regrets of those who waited too long, and the importance of embracing change to create a simpler, more fulfilling life.

Recognizing the 3 Wake-Up Calls1. The Big House No Longer Fits:

Your once vibrant family home may now feel empty, with numerous rooms left unused. The cost and effort required to maintain the large property have become overwhelming, leaving you drained. It’s time to acknowledge that the big house no longer serves your needs. Downsizing to a more manageable and affordable home will free up your time and energy for the things that truly matter.

2. Discovering What’s Missing:

An autopilot lifestyle and the feeling of being trapped on a never-ending hamster wheel can leave you longing for something more. Deep down, you sense that something important is missing from your life. It’s time to listen to that inner voice, take stock of your priorities, and pursue a new life that ignites your passion. By downsizing and decluttering, you’ll have the freedom to focus on what truly matters and unlock a world of possibilities.

3. It’s Your Time:

With your children grown and many responsibilities shed, it’s time to prioritize yourself. You’ve undergone personal growth and transformation, and your needs have evolved too. Embrace this stage of life and recognize that it’s your time to thrive. By downsizing and decluttering, you’ll create space for new experiences, passions, and personal fulfillment.

Embracing Change and Taking Action

Remember, Someday is Not a Day of the Week:
Procrastination is the enemy of progress. If you feel nudged to let go and move on to a new home and lifestyle, pay attention to that inner voice. Don’t delay, as someday may never come. Act now and embrace the opportunities that downsizing and decluttering can bring.

Quotes from Those Who Waited Too Long:

Regrets often surface when looking back on missed opportunities. Baby boomers who postponed downsizing and decluttering have expressed their longing for a different approach to life. They wish they had let go of the big house earlier, chosen to live more intentionally, prioritized themselves, and spent less time striving for perfection. Their experiences teach us the importance of taking charge, embracing change, and creating a simpler, happier life.

Answering the Wake-Up Call:

Listening to the wake-up call is just the beginning; taking action is the hardest part. Silence the doubts and fears, and embark on the journey of downsizing and decluttering. This decision will allow you to live fully in the third act of your life and make it the best act yet. By answering the call, you’ll unlock more time, money, and freedom to pursue what truly brings you joy and fulfillment.

Are you Ready?

Take that first step and open yourself up to a world of freedom, peace, and fulfillment. Rita has the expertise and tools you need to create a more peaceful and intentional life. From ebooks to online courses and personalized decluttering plans, Rita’s resources are designed to help you achieve your goals and create a life that feels authentically you. So why wait? Start living your best life today with Rita’s lifestyle design and decluttering resources. Remember, the power to live a minimalist lifestyle lies in your hands.

Rita’s Checklist Bundle Sale Product on sale $9.99 $7.99 Add to cart Downsize Your Life, Upgrade Your Lifestyle (Digital PDF) $8.99 Add to cart Quick Start Decluttering Bundle Pack Sale Product on sale $149.00 $99.00 Add to cart Rita is Live Every Tuesday on Facebook

This blog post is based on an episode of Rita’s weekly Facebook Live broadcast. Never miss an episode! Click the following link to like Rita’s Facebook page or subscribe to her Decluttering YouTube Channel. Check out our YouTube playlists if you want to learn more.

Follow me on social media for more updates:YOUTUBE | FACEBOOK | INSTAGRAM | LINKEDIN | TWITTERRita Wilkins Offers Lifestyle Design And Interior Design Services  

Do you want to learn more about downsizing and decluttering? You can also connect with me by following me on Facebook and LinkedIn. Would you like complimentary advice from the downsizing designer? My book Downsize Your Life, Upgrade Your Lifestyle: Secrets to More Time, Money, and Freedom is now available in paperback, audio, and on Kindle! Get your copy soon. 

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Top 5 Decluttering Tips For Retirement

Do You Want To Declutter For Retirement? 

As you try to plan for your retirement, do you feel bogged down by the amount of stuff you have? Is your home too cluttered? Do you worry about how the clutter will affect your ability to maintain your home? Are you considering moving to a smaller home for retirement and finding you need to get rid of clutter before you can manage such a move? Do you wish you could find an easy guide, such as a minimalist checklist for decluttering? 

Learn About Decluttering Before Retirement 

Hi, it’s Rita. You don’t have to search far for tips on how to get started decluttering before your retirement. The Downsizing Designer is here for you with decluttering checklists, decluttering courses, decluttering tips, and more. After my own decluttering and downsizing journey, I’ve lived a happier, fuller life. I’d like to help you do the same. 

Top 5 Decluttering Tips: How To Declutter Before Retirement 

Although getting started on decluttering may seem like a daunting task, it is one you can accomplish when you have the right tools. Here are my top 5 tips for decluttering before retirement. 

Focus on the life ahead of you, not the one behind you. Get your partner on board and create the vision of the life ahead of you together. Commit to keeping only what you need, what you’ll use, and what’s important to you. Notify your kids about your decision to downsize and declutter. Experiment with different decluttering methods to find the ones that work best for you. 

I go more in-depth about these tips in my video “What I Discovered When I Downsized and Decluttered.” You can also find more help to get started decluttering at the Design Services online store, where I have minimalist decluttering checklists, online decluttering courses, and more available. 

Rita Wilkins Offers Lifestyle Design And Interior Design Services  

Do you want to learn more about downsizing and decluttering? Call Design Services LTD at 302-475-5663 to discuss your design needs. You can also connect with me by following me on Facebook and LinkedIn. Would you like complimentary advice from the downsizing designer? You can schedule a complimentary 30-minute call with me today. My book Downsize Your Life, Upgrade Your Lifestyle: Secrets to More Time, Money, and Freedom is now available in paperback, audio, and on Kindle! Get your copy soon. 

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Embracing Minimalism and Live Like a Millionaire

Today, we’ll delve into the world of minimalism and how adopting a minimalist lifestyle can empower you to live like a millionaire. Join me, Rita Wilkins, also known as the downsizing designer, as we explore the wisdom of successful individuals who have chosen to embrace simplicity in their lives.

The Power of Minimalism

Have you ever wondered why many millionaires and billionaires opt for minimalism? Take Warren Buffett, for example, who still resides in the same house he bought in 1950 for a mere $31,000. Or consider Steve Jobs, the visionary behind Apple, who prioritized simplicity to enhance his creativity. Even the stunning Julia Roberts, known as Pretty Woman, finds grounding by sewing her family’s clothes and growing their own vegetables. These luminaries teach us that material possessions aren’t the ultimate source of happiness.

The Burden of Excess

Imagine owning multiple mansions worldwide, filled with opulent furniture, exquisite artwork, and luxurious cars. While it may seem exciting, the reality is that excessive possessions often bring stress and overwhelm. Managing and maintaining all that “stuff” consumes valuable time, leaving little room for enjoying life’s simple pleasures. Many millionaires have recognized this and consciously chosen to lead a simpler, clutter-free life to rediscover joy and peace.

The Essence of Minimalism

Minimalism is about embracing simplicity and eliminating the things that don’t add value to our lives. It’s about creating space for what truly matters. By slowing down, appreciating what we already have, and letting go of the need for more, we find contentment and gratitude. Minimalism grants us the freedom to choose how we allocate our time and resources, fostering a more meaningful and purposeful existence.

Living with Less and Finding Happiness

So, how can you embark on a minimalist journey and experience the happiness it brings? Let’s explore some practical steps:

Reflect on Your Why: Start by asking yourself why you desire to live with less. Is it to reduce stress, regain control, or focus on what truly matters? Understanding your motivations will provide clarity and guide your actions.Declutter Your Life: Begin by decluttering one small area at a time—whether it’s a closet, a shelf, or a drawer. As you let go of unnecessary possessions, you’ll feel a newfound sense of freedom and peace.Learn the Art of Letting Go: Remember, not everything holds significance. By releasing attachments to things that no longer matter, you create space for what truly brings value to your life—time, money, freedom, and energy.Less is Not Nothing Minimalism is a personal journey, not a one-size-fits-all approach. You get to decide what to keep and what to let go of, aligning your life with your values and priorities.Embracing a Richer Life

Just like millionaires and billionaires who intentionally choose minimalism, you too can prioritize what matters most to live the life you truly desire. Instead of chasing the illusion of “having it all,” find contentment in having enough. By appreciating what you already possess and focusing on the essentials, you’ll discover a more abundant and fulfilling existence.

A Minimalist Lifestyle Towards Freedom

By embarking on a minimalist lifestyle, you gain the freedom to allocate your time and resources to what truly matters. Let go of excess, embrace simplicity, and rediscover the joy and peace that come with living a clutter-free life. Remember, minimalism is a journey, and it takes time. Start today by reflecting on your why and taking small steps towards a more meaningful and purposeful existence. Live like a millionaire by prioritizing what truly brings value and contentment to your life. Embrace the richness that comes from having enough and find abundance in simplicity.

So, are you ready to embark on your minimalist journey? Take that first step and open yourself up to a world of freedom, peace, and fulfillment. Live like a millionaire, not in terms of possessions, but in terms of experiencing the richness of a life well-lived. Start decluttering, reassessing your priorities, and making room for what truly matters. Rita has the expertise and tools you need to create a more peaceful and intentional life. From ebooks to online courses and personalized decluttering plans, Rita’s resources are designed to help you achieve your goals and create a life that feels authentically you. So why wait? Start living your best life today with Rita’s lifestyle design and decluttering resources. Remember, the power to live a minimalist lifestyle lies in your hands.

Rita’s Checklist Bundle Sale Product on sale $9.99 $7.99 Add to cart Downsize Your Life, Upgrade Your Lifestyle (Digital PDF) $8.99 Add to cart Quick Start Decluttering Bundle Pack Sale Product on sale $149.00 $99.00 Add to cart Rita is Live Every Tuesday on Facebook

This blog post is based on an episode of Rita’s weekly Facebook Live broadcast. Never miss an episode! Click the following link to like Rita’s Facebook page or subscribe to her Decluttering YouTube Channel. Check out our YouTube playlists if you want to learn more.

Follow me on social media for more updates:YOUTUBE | FACEBOOK | INSTAGRAM | LINKEDIN | TWITTERRita Wilkins Offers Lifestyle Design And Interior Design Services  

Do you want to learn more about downsizing and decluttering? You can also connect with me by following me on Facebook and LinkedIn. Would you like complimentary advice from the downsizing designer? My book Downsize Your Life, Upgrade Your Lifestyle: Secrets to More Time, Money, and Freedom is now available in paperback, audio, and on Kindle! Get your copy soon. 

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What If Settling For Less Is Better?

Learn How To Get Rid Of Clutter By Getting Rid Of The “Never Settle For Less” Mentality 

In many ways, we’re often told that more is always better. After all, who doesn’t want more of a good thing? What if that way of thinking is getting in the way of you living your best life, though? What if you need to change your perspective to successfully declutter and downsize your life? 

Learn About Decluttering And Downsizing From The Downsizing Designer 

Hi, it’s Rita again – your Downsizing Designer. “Downsizing Designer” is a moniker I gained after downsizing from a large 5000 square foot home to an 867 square foot apartment while also getting rid of 95% of what I once owned. Since then, I’ve lived a happier, freer life – and I’m eager to help you learn that you too can be happier living with less. I provide tools to help you learn about how to get started decluttering and more. 

Were You Told To “Never Settle For Less?” 

This is a lesson many of us are taught at some point in our lives – whether it’s by well-meaning parents, friends, or even a mentor. There’s no doubt that whoever taught you this lesson meant well. However, it might surprise you how beneficial it could be to push back against that way of thinking. Have you considered that perhaps you actually want less, not more? What if you could find joy in living with less? 

If you’d like to learn about my experience and how I found joy in living with less, consider watching my video “Settle for Less: Life After Downsizing.” When you’re ready to begin your decluttering journey, I provide tools that make it easy to get started decluttering and to stay motivated while decluttering. Visit the Design Services online store today and browse my minimalist decluttering checklists, online decluttering courses, and more. 

Rita Wilkins Offers Lifestyle Design And Interior Design Services  

Do you want to learn more about downsizing and decluttering? Call Design Services LTD at 302-475-5663 to discuss your design needs. You can also connect with me by following me on Facebook and LinkedIn. Would you like complimentary advice from the downsizing designer? You can schedule a complimentary 30-minute call with me today. My book Downsize Your Life, Upgrade Your Lifestyle: Secrets to More Time, Money, and Freedom is now available in paperback, audio, and on Kindle! Get your copy soon. 

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Creating a Home Wherever You Live: Tips for Downsizing in Your 60s

Moving to a new home can be exciting, especially if you’re downsizing in your 60s and looking for a fresh start. However, it’s not uncommon to feel a little lost in your new surroundings and struggle to feel at home. As someone who has worked in design for almost 40 years, I’ve helped many people arrange their homes so that they feel comfortable and at ease. However, creating a feeling of home isn’t just about design. It’s about creating an atmosphere that reflects who you are and what makes you happy.

What Does Home Mean to You?

The first step in creating a home wherever you live is to define what home means to you. Think about what makes you feel safe, secure, comfortable, and happy. Maybe it’s a cozy and warm atmosphere or a sense of organization and peace. Whatever it is, make a list of everything that makes you feel at home.

Ask. Why You Don’t Feel at Home in Your New Home?

The next step is to ask yourself why you don’t feel at home in your new surroundings. Is it because you miss familiar faces and places, or because you’re overwhelmed with unpacking and organizing? Maybe you’re attached to your old house and the memories it holds. Whatever the reason, identifying why you feel the way you do is an important step in creating a home wherever you are.

Once you’ve identified the reasons why you don’t feel at home, you can take steps to change that (you can even do it on a budget). Get out and meet your neighbors, explore your new area, and make new friends. Invite people into your home, even if it’s just for something casual like coffee or tea. Surround yourself with things that make you happy, such as family photos, books, and other items that hold special memories.

Make it Personal and Fill the Senses

Personalize your home to fill up all the senses. One of the most effective ways to personalize your home is to engage all your senses, creating a space that not only looks good but feels good too. This can be done by incorporating a range of sensory experiences that evoke positive feelings, memories, and emotions. Here are three ideas to help you engage more than your eyes.

You can start by displaying happy memories through photos, books, or other sentimental items. These could be family photos, travel souvenirs, or objects that have special meaning to you. By doing so, you create a visual story of your life that can help to ground you in the present moment and bring a sense of comfort and familiarity.Next, consider adding elements that engage your sense of smell, such as lighting candles or using soaps with scents that you love. These simple additions can instantly transform your home into a welcoming oasis, helping you to relax and unwind after a long day.Finally, don’t forget to add cozy elements such as soft throws and pillows that make you feel comfortable. These can be functional and decorative, adding a touch of warmth and softness to your space while creating an inviting ambiance that makes you feel right at home. By incorporating these three simple steps, you can personalize your home in a way that is meaningful, authentic, and deeply satisfying.

Remember, home is not just a place, it’s a feeling that you create. Whether your new home is large or small, it can become your home if you take the time to create an atmosphere that reflects who you are and what makes you happy.

Out with the Old, In with the You

Don’t spend your time longing for your old home, but instead grow where you’re planted and make your new home your own. Create new memories that will last a lifetime and embrace the spirit of excitement and adventure that comes with starting over.

Moving to a new home can be challenging, but it’s also an opportunity to create a new beginning. With a little time and effort, you can create a home wherever you live that reflects the best parts of who you are.

Additional Resources

Looking to live a more intentional, clutter-free lifestyle? Look no further than Rita’s suite of lifestyle design and decluttering resources. Whether you’re looking to simplify your wardrobe, streamline your schedule, or declutter your living space, Rita has the expertise and tools you need to create a more peaceful and intentional life. From ebooks to online courses and personalized decluttering plans, Rita’s resources are designed to help you achieve your goals and create a life that feels authentically you. So why wait? Start living your best life today with Rita’s lifestyle design and decluttering resources.

Home Decluttering Quick Start Checklist $4.99 Add to cart Downsize Your Life, Upgrade Your Lifestyle (Digital PDF) $8.99 Add to cart Quick Start Decluttering Bundle Pack Sale Product on sale $149.00 $99.00 Add to cart Rita is Live Every Tuesday on Facebook

This blog post is based on an episode of Rita’s weekly Facebook Live broadcast. Never miss an episode! Click the following link to like Rita’s Facebook page or subscribe to her Decluttering YouTube Channel. Check out our YouTube playlists if you want to learn more.

Follow me on social media for more updates:YOUTUBE | FACEBOOK | INSTAGRAM | LINKEDIN | TWITTERRita Wilkins Offers Lifestyle Design And Interior Design Services  

Do you want to learn more about downsizing and decluttering? You can also connect with me by following me on Facebook and LinkedIn. Would you like complimentary advice from the downsizing designer? My book Downsize Your Life, Upgrade Your Lifestyle: Secrets to More Time, Money, and Freedom is now available in paperback, audio, and on Kindle! Get your copy soon. 

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How To Stay Motivated While You Declutter

Don’t Allow Clutter To Overwhelm You

You don’t have to live with clutter – you can make the decision to declutter your home now! After decluttering, you can enjoy a simpler, happier, minimalist lifestyle. It may feel overwhelming when you try to get started decluttering. You may have difficulty saying motivated while decluttering. You don’t have to overcome these struggles on your own, though.

The Downsizing Designer Teaches Minimalist Decluttering Lessons

Hello everyone – it’s Rita here. Like you, I was once overwhelmed by clutter. Then, I decided to declutter, downsize, and take back my life. Now, I’m eager to help you do the same. As the Downsizing Designer, I’ve helped countless people on their downsizing and decluttering journeys. I’ve even developed helpful tools, tricks, and tips to help you learn about decluttering.

How Can I Stay Motivated While I Declutter?

One of the many obstacles people face on their decluttering journeys is motivation. It may be easy to find the burst of motivation at the beginning – and you may even be able to ride that feeling for a while. Inevitably, though, that first burst of energy peters out. It gradually fades and lessens, making it hard to continue decluttering.

Your Downsizing Designer is here to help. I offer advice on how to stay motivated as you declutter – and where you can donate the clutter you’re getting rid of – in my video “5 Ways to Stay Motivated and 100 Places to Donate Your Stuff!”

Additional Resources

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A Solution for Dealing with Your Adult Kids’ Clutter

Are you feeling weighed down by the clutter in your home, including your adult children’s stuff that’s been taking up space for far too long? It’s time to take control of your life and prioritize yourself, and downsizing to a smaller home may be the perfect solution.

They Moved On, But Not Their Stuff

As your children grow up, move out of the house, and start their own lives, you might find that they’ve left much of their stuff behind in your home. Examples include High School trophies um all of their Awards all their sports equipment their dirty sneakers and they also left their old textbooks their yearbooks and also term papers. This can be a frustrating situation for parents, as their children’s belongings can take up a lot of space in the house, in the attic, or in the basement.

Decluttering and Downsizing Create Freedom

Letting go of sentimental items can be tough, especially when they’re associated with memories of your children growing up. However, it’s important to understand that by decluttering and downsizing, you’re opening yourself up to a new and exciting chapter in your life. You’ll have more freedom to travel, meet new people, and embrace the carefree lifestyle that you’ve been dreaming of.

If your adult children are still storing their belongings in your home, it’s time to have a conversation with them about picking up their items. It’s essential to set a deadline and be firm about it. You don’t want their clutter to stand in the way of your happiness and newfound freedom.

While this conversation may be difficult, it’s essential to communicate your needs and expectations clearly. Let your children know that you’re downsizing and won’t bring any excess stuff to your new home. Encourage them to take responsibility for their items by donating, selling, or disposing of them.

How to Start the ConversationSchedule a Meeting

The first step is to schedule a time to sit down and talk to your adult children about their clutter. Make sure that everyone is free of distractions, so you can all focus on the conversation. It’s important to approach the conversation from a place of love and understanding. Start by acknowledging that you appreciate their belongings and the memories they hold, but that it’s time to start letting go and making space for new memories.

Offer to Help

One reason adult children may hesitate to take their belongings is that they may not have the space or resources to do so. As a parent, you can offer to help them sort through their things and find ways to dispose of or donate items they no longer need. This can be a bonding experience for both of you, and it shows your child that you support them and want to help them create a space that reflects their current life.

Create a Plan and a Deadline

It’s important to create a plan for what to do with the items that your adult children decide to take with them. Discuss the logistics of moving the items, such as who will transport them, and how long they have to do so. If they are unable to take everything at once, you can work together to create a storage plan, so that the items are out of your living space, but still accessible to your adult children. Make sure that everyone is on the same page and that the plan is clear, so there are no misunderstandings.

Their Responsibility, Not Yours

It’s okay if they’re emotional or nostalgic about their belongings, but remind them that it’s their responsibility to deal with them, not yours. Ultimately, this conversation may just be the gentle nudge that your children need to start their own journey of decluttering and downsizing.

Remember, downsizing your home isn’t just about letting go of physical items. It’s also about embracing a new lifestyle and prioritizing your own needs. Don’t let clutter and excess stuff hold you back from living your best life. Take the first step towards a brighter future and start decluttering and downsizing today.

I believe in you, and I can’t wait to see the amazing things that you’ll accomplish in your downsizing journey. Good luck!

Additional Resources

it’s important to have an open and honest conversation with your adult children about their clutter. By expressing your concerns, setting clear boundaries, and giving examples of their belongings that are taking up space in your home, you can work together to find a solution that works for everyone. Remember that this is a collaborative process and that it’s important to approach the conversation with empathy and understanding. Need some more help? Check out these decluttering resources designed by Rita herself!

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